₦airaland Forum

tactius:
In Sudan at least there was harrasment by the Armed forces...

They only ceased their harassment over the last few days. Even then, the Sudanese equivalent of our DSS was still active against protesters as at yesterday.

Mrkumareze:
that's how to know serious citizens unlike we naija . We only protest on tweeter

Bossontop:
I dey teh u.....because we never ever get visionary leaders with foresight...


If dat happens ehn, politics will become so unattractive dat nobody will be intersted again because of the lack of money......people go prefer to be business men than even d president.....

AkataWoman:
�� I told you I’ve heard what Nigerians say. I’ve heard it used simply to mean black American. No vex. No wahala.

AkataWoman:
I’ve seen and heard several things from Nigerian men about akatas. It’s usually that we’re good for sex only or if they’re in a relationship it comes down to them not having their stuff together enough to date Nigerian women. I was shown a video where several married to/dating said they were surprised at how attentive and loving we are to our mates. They believe it’s because so many of us grow up without fathers that we love having a man in our lives.

Why can’t you just admit your stereotypes about black American women was just WRONG! I believe it comes from growing up in a backward culture that believes because we aren’t circumcised or have virginity checks done on us we must be promiscuous.

Ok. So you’re being told this while growing up in Africa. I get it. (The funny thing is that at the same time in America black American women are viewed as the least promiscuous). But once you’re here and see how hardworking and loyal (often to men who don’t deserve it) we are, why continue to try to stereotype us even as you date us? I think some of it is the Nigerian stubborn pride. You MUST be culturally superior to akatas.

At what point will you find it okay to say: We had them all wrong?

nigeriagospel:
Am from the south south region of the country , the structure of Nigeria politics will never make an Igbo man ascend the throne of president in Nigeria.

I believe in the saying nothing is impossible to achieve, but before an Igbo man could occupy that throne, the mindset of an average Northerner about the Igbo must be changed firstly.

The northerners with the belief they are born to rule frown at non Muslim not to talk of an Igbo they see as an infidel rule over them.

Take it or leave it , they see the East as a conquer
Territory , how do you feel when you win a fight with a fellow kid? You them as powerless and as someone that must bow to your wish, same way the north views the Igbo.

Nature has a role to play I'm this too,
Even if election are to be conducted free and fair northerners with their population will beat an Igbo man hands down not even talking about child voting that is norm amongst them.

AbaLion:
Ameachi is far greater than all the governors in your potor region. From the kerosene governor to the crying governor to the statue governor to the billboard governor and to the liquor governor. His political relevance and astuteness dwarfs the stature of your 5 SE governors combined.
Where two ikwerre men "slot it out", ibos should take a back seat.


Iberiberism part 7


-Lion

salihu2nic:
because the north are hunting u............ please use the right faculty of thought, and not tribalistic faculty.

schoolboij:
Pray you don't take rat poison yourself and die from hatred.

hargbolahan01:
Igbo and there propaganda...who told you he died of rat poison...since you only have a man who brought misery to your land you should be jealous of a man who brought prosperity to his land

schoolboij:
Awolowo died at a ripe age of 78. Pray you or your dad live up to that.

Meliaen:
Look there's nothing to be proud of or show off with what was posted. These things happen. Mind you, my ex was a good man and he found someone like I.

hargbolahan01:
during Jonathan era when Yoruba didn't have any strong political power....did disturb the peace of people online as this? but now it's your turn you are crying

another reason is that you can't expect people who gave 300k of their vote to get favour than region who gave 5m,2m of their vote

and how did igbo caused the downfall of awolowo and abiola
our own awolowo gave us many projects like NTA Ibadan(first in Africa), cocoa house(first skyscraper in Nigeria),liberty Stadium(first in Nigeria) and so on but your hero(ojukwu) gave you war...stop talking about Yoruba leaders and pay attention to your leader

Meliaen:
Jeez, you just told my story! However, in my case, no pastor helped me think things over. I had to find the courage to do things my way. We were together for 8 solid years and when marriage started to look like it was drawing nearer, I could see myself developing cold feet and crying on my wedding day so I summoned the courage and broke up with him. What op described is exactly how I felt about my ex. Matter of fact, I could pass as his wife. If ex would describe me, he would say things like I wasn't demanding and all of that. I never did ask him anything materially. When I called it quits, he did everything to get me back. Literally asked my family to beg on his behalf but I stood my ground. Ex is married now but calls me his wife. The break up shook him so terribly that he resigned from his job and left the country.

Pkingman:
Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

lionness:
How will you achieve that when half the youths are only interested in showing off the gram. Almost a third of the youths are doing yahoo and have no real skill sets. I am from the SW and feel so ashamed seeing how chronic this malaise is over here. You will see 17 year old buying muscle and driving rx350 up and down. Not until crime and corruption is eradicated and treated like leprosy can the youths see the value of hard work and skill acquisition. Who will employ a thief or someone whose only profession was scamming and defrauding white ppl??

Ollarff:
I don't think GTBank can survive all these.
Thank God I stopped operating my account with them. The bank can collapse any moment from now.

pwetie:
tupac- many tears
Eminem - not afraid

ojibole1:
A Nigerian man has taken the IELTS 32 times in other to leave the country for Canada and to think the exam cost 75000 naira meaning he has spent a total of 2.4million naira. Do you think it's worth it?

eventsmallchops:
Typo error , are you looking for distributor or something?

ValCon888:
What ignorant people call magun is a biological condition known as pénis captivus.

It is a condition where the vagina muscles grips the pènis so hard, it can't withdraw.

And it has to do with the strength of the pelvic floor.

eventsmallchops:
Good day Big Bros , you asked me to PM you, anything? do you deal in weapon?

donfrancy:
Pls, how can I get one of these deadly poison?
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