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what is this guy trying to say,I don't understand him,is he trying to tell guys to relax while the girls do d chasing, any relationship where the lady do the chasing hardly work out into marriage, we have this thing in us telling us that u should be the one after us not the other way round, if u fellow most of the things said here,my dear she will beg u n at the end the relationship will end n u will start over again which is what u are avoiding, just be urself, it should be a partnership thing not looking for a way to intimidate the other.

if I just remember that people are making it,they are thinking,elvatuating things n here is one guy calling mi n asking mi why did you not pick my calls,I just feel a little bad

Barney11:
please stop waiting for him,ignore him even if it is hard for you,delete his number,what if you didnt know him before your birthday will it make you not to celebrate,if you were expecting to gift you dat day,celebrate the way you normally do when he wasnt there.stop calling or texting him,if he is yours he will turn around if he aint,better one ahead.keep yourself busy,dont let people think you live because of them,that belittles you.

tnx I will need to get busy

delishpot:
Create time to talk to him. If he doesnt respond poaitively then you have to find a place in your heart to forgive and move on. Nothing more you can do again except you are religious and want to pray about it. But he has shown you how your home might be in future. He will act out accorsing to peoples advice without talking it over with you. If you can overlook it and still marry him then go ahead.

OK tnx I really appreciate

pls I am in a similar situation right now,I was newly introduced to my in laws but it seems they don't like mi,the acted so differently to mi,had argument abt mi,I have never being rejected in my whole life before, after that day,my Oga started acting funny,withdrew his love n care,don't call or pick my calls n all that,my birthday in 5days time,don't know what to do,still fasting n praying about it,pls advice if you can, on how best I should go about it,tnx

Barney11:
see what happened to you is so tiny compared to mine.it was only God saved me from depression,even my dead father had to visit me in the dream to advice me to move on...yes it was that bad!but no one even cared!no one knew how i was hurt and still hurting but i am getting stronger now.My oga was kind of helpless in the situation,cos the situation was bitterly awkward but God is great.

pls share am really learning a lot here

For me, no1 marry with 500k ie low key no2 open a business for her with 500k no3 open my own business with 2m no4 buy land with 1.5m fence it then no5 save 500k. how will u spend your?

hmmmm second to comment,my own is hub and body spray smart collection.

nysc should patronize Made in aba, Aba people will give them what we call perfect measurement, whereby the fat,slim,huge can fit in,it will save us a lot of money,1500 to amend klaki in camp? wait!!! are they solving problems or creating problems? its no no for mi,are we going backwards or farward? lets give made in aba a chance, I strongly believe they will deliver because they are very industrious, economical productive and creative,let's go there.

this is wonderful, I so much love this

she is doing what she is being paid for n what she know how best to do n to also distract the the pastor n the public.

pls tell mi my own

I can stand for him,I can encourage him,help him save a lot, I can cook,do house work,pray for him,I can feed his ego, help him look good n presentable etc

how about mi?

they look good on it

hmmmmmm sometimes, I just wounder, why they have refuse to listen to us,a peaceful protest, yet they are still adament to us that put them there,are they having ear problems? need urgent ans

Tnx to PDP for saving us, God ooooooh i really miss PDP, the great giver n helper. Apc are soo stingy that is why we are having problem feeding,hunger everywhere.

Ma i think u should hav solve the problem long ago when they air out wht their problem was, u should hav apologize to them n even get ur parents to do so,because if i was him i go vex with u too,u did wrong by nt calling them up to knw hw their joni was bt all the same u can still do that,its better late than never,ask for forgiveness.

Nigerians wasting resources n time on nothing less important.u means this lawmakers will sit n talk abt this?

Good-day,i will make this brief,mtn has being charging mi 15naira per day for micro insurance for more than 5yrs years now,i have called their customers care for like 10times now in which one of them ask me if i havnt being receiving messages on insurance,i told her no,please which kind of messages do i have to receive this period of time? I hav also visited their offices twice on this same issue without no result,is their system developing a fault? am soo worried n offended about this situation and i need this charges all stopped within 48hrs and my money peacefully refunded back to me.i hop it won't be a big task for them,Thanks for your co-operation.

Good-day,i will make this brief,mtn has being charging mi 15naira per day for micro insurance for more than 5yrs years now,i have called their customers care for like 10times now in which one of them ask me if i havnt being receiving messages on insurance,i told her no,please which kind of messages do i have to receive this period of time? I hav also visited their offices twice on this same issue without no result,is their system developing a fault? am soo worried n offended about this situation and i need this charges all stopped within 48hrs and my money peacefully refunded back to me.i hop it won't be a big task for them,Thanks for your co-operation.

Ok i hav also learnt hw to fly with pitching not to go with my atm with large sum of money,yes we will survive this changed country.

Ok i hav also learnt hw to fly with pitching not to go with my atm with large sum of money,yes we will survive.

After reading,all i can see is desperation on d side of Ogah, he is so desperate to be in power n this isn't good for us, ikpeazu all the way,he will get through this.

Op u are right,the woman has money,so money is ntt her problem,all she want is attention,a husband who will be taken her out to his different occasion.my sis was sayin she would hav invested on cloths,shoes, mi i say intellectually nt bleachin her self.

Hi,on Sunday,my sister came back from a friend's place,she told mi about a woman they both visited in her house,according to her she said, d woman has damage her skin with bleaching cream,i was wondering why? Then she narrated the woman's story,that she married a very rich man,the rich husband usually go after light skin ladies, because of that she decided to turn her dark skin to light skin by all mean,just to please her husband, according to my sister,she said d woman was looking so irritating. Ladies: can u do all this to please your man? Guys: should we do all that to please n keep ur attention?

I beliv one should marry for where he is going nt where he is now,so if u knw that she can't work on her self to ur expectation,then u better move on,there are better ladies out there,dnt marry out of pity,dnt allow what happened to Gudluck happen to u.

This girl or boy is a great person,ur writes ups are woow,just be little patient u will be fully employd,infact u deserved it,God bless you.

Hmmmm, anybody can be arrestd in this country,seriously enjoyin nepa light here

My honest advice is that u should just move on,some persons has pass through more than that,that d lady might even be d one to sponsored d whole traditional wedding.but all my honest advice is that u should move on,no big deal.feel like nothing happened okey,gudluck

Hmmmmmm could this be love?

i knw his type