GlorifiedTunde: I'm loving the outcome of her stupidity!
Freedom of speech doesn't guarantee freedom after speech.
Honestly o!
Most Nigerian ladies are empty skulls. Imagine a grown adult selling herself in a public space in this manner in a digital era without the fear of being caught by her potential employer.
Ofodirinwa: "You all should be ashamed of yourselves, every one of you for representing a terrorist organization, Government that is killing your people. You are living in a country where the president is a kidnapper, kidnapping and Killing citizens..........."
God bless this man for speaking up, fearlessly. I think the problem of Nigeria is this: self-interest. Once you're benefitting or comfortable, to hell with others and that which shouldn't have been the case. It should be a collective fight whether rich or poor.
saheedbadmus: British are racist...mumu ball u no sabi play..this black dudes took England all the way to final and opinion u still get mouth go castigate them..thunder fire ur blockos
Guy you nailed it. They're racist but pretend not to in public I'm speaking from experience.
I move away from Nigeria not only because of me but for the future kids and better life for them.
Nigeria was so bad for me, that I travelled to Libya 2 times and I created a thread about it the first time here in 2011.
Libya of 2021 with all the war still better past Nigeria because they know it’s war but Nigeria is not at war yet we can’t sleep with eye closed
Na papa who no hustle dey wait for his children to feed him when he is old
I hate it when people complain about bill they paid when they leave Nigeria but have forgotten that those bills are the reason, that country you are living is functioning.
Good health care, Jobs, good education, great transportation and Security.
Please stop converting those money to Naira because you aren’t spending Naira over there.
Can I enjoy basic things in Nigeria with 50K Naira or even 100K salary vs $3K basic salary in the USA vs €2K salary in Germany?
In most European or Asia countries, Education and healthcare are free and they are world class.
Ask yourself that question If you want comot for Nigeria, just plan am well, I know many guys that went to UAE as Doctors, Nurses and IT professionals.
Nonexistent: Your friend did the right thing by canceling the wedding plans. The olosho went to sleep with her exboyfriend. Next thing is to be pregnant for him. I wonder why they are even coming back to marry these oloshos when they can easily marry girls from other countries.
IbnBattuta1960: I don't want to believe that you are the monster you are trying to portray. How can she go to her ex's house? To play ludo? She has no regards for the relationship and as such be disengaged.
Exactly bro. With the recent hype for sex amongst Nigerian ladies, I'm 100% certain such took place.
Your guy should better pick someone there in US to avoid stories that touch.
Thebest12: Hello Good morning nairalanders , . Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.
Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice
FBI, continue monitoring your girlfriend's stories whilst your mates are busy doing great for themselves.
okoroemeka: poverty is too bad,it will make you behave abnormal and think weird things,what better joy will a man have if his in-laws come to his place and he will feed them very well and even given them transport money when going,when my in-laws use to come to my house I usually prepare nsala soup myself for them with catfish and oldlayers,poverty it shall not be well with you.
God bless you for this point. From the write-up, OP is not due for marriage at all. Marriage is never a function of age or salary but maturity.
DWJOBScom: The babe made the best move Leave the moment you think its no longer cool, Alot of guys needs that. She got a degree while she was with him (she wasnt waiting hand and foot on him like most Nigerian ladies ) Keep it open for conversation and start meeting people abeg as even in some marriages , it still appears like strangers humping together.
Exactly, unlike our Chioma that met Davido in less than 8yr boom she dumped Uni and next thing she's already a baby mama.
You married her cause she was caring and hardworking.
Things changed when she got pregnant. You what a pregnant woman to be following you to farm?
You didn't know she was setting you up when she was showing you care at the hospital? You no know say she just dey find husband by all means?
You knew you weren't financially capable of being married, you still allowed her push you even against the advice of her poor parents.
You done enter am na, face it alone.
Good luck o.
A bitter truth.
It's high time we Nigerian men learn this: marriage is not always all about Emeka and Chinedu my age mates are all married with kids, no! Always consider the financial aspect too! From your story, you ain't ripe for marriage financially. You just allowed yourself to be used in terms of joining the league' I'm married.'
Donspicey: I have noticed that yahoo boys don't last with any girl they have had intercourse with..
One told me that once he drill like 2 to 3 times he moves ahead to the next available babe...
Just yesterday one of them told me that he is going to look for fresh fish... i asked him about the babe i knew him with, he told me that her chapter have closed.. i tried to make more enquiry but he told me:Alaye if you dey game you go understand better..
I was just speechless.. now the question bothering me is what will happen to any guy that later date those yahoo used babes?
Lets discuss....................
@Op, let me educate you on moving on to the next girl according to your post.
Nothing really happened in terms of using anyone, the fresh guys are only taking advantage of Nigerian ladies as per se most of them are broke and coupled with their greed for money. Then again not just about being broke but most of our young ladies (Nigerian) have actually decided not to lay their hands on anything not even a skill but to depend solely on the opposite sex with SEX in exchange.
BeautyO: Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad
OP should ignore this and others, they're not for you at all. You did the right thing for your friend.
Moral lesson to all those flirting around all in the name of fun. Live right, period!
CheedyJ: Street boy fire.. if you’re a street boy as u claim , you won’t bring this issue here seeking advice.. just admit you are in love with her and her actions are hurting you simple.. my advice though, ignore her completely and totally if you can .lets presume u offended her , isn’t she supposed to discuss it with you and seek resolution.. just delete all her contacts and move on..
saphiere: Chioma was very much single before Davido met her.
Even if she had a boyfriend, did she disfigure the guy before leaving him? If Davido can't marry Chioma for whatever reason, let him return Chioma back to her normal self.
I swear if I were Chioma, Davido would be rotting in jail. I will so drag him in courts till that money his family claim they have finishes.
Racoon: Always saying rubbish while passing the buck or shifting blame.After promising 3M jobs annually in the first 4 years, you ended up creating 15M unemployed Nigerians
Does that speaks well of you? Yet you blame the youth and asked them not to depend on govt jobs.Meanwhile, both employment and security you didnt provide.Foolish president.
Don't mind him. Same government job he has been depending on
Acidosis: Lol. You must have read too many stories about Abuja ladies Good to know you've seen your mistakes and prepared to rewrite your story. Doesn't matter what anyone says about your choice to relocate (even though we know your motives), but living with her has exposed issues you probably would never have known from a distant relationship.
But here is my advice: continue to play the role of a domestic staff if things are so bad right now. Do your cab hustle alongside and don't stop applying for job opportunities. Do this for, e.g. 6 months and if at the end of 6 months, you still can't land a good job, take whatever you've saved up from your domestic role/cab work and move back to Lagos.
A timeline should guide your choice of where to go/live at this point. The cab hustle is to help you save up while the domestic staff job is meant to reset your senses.
Op should take this to heart, one of the most viable comments so far. God bless you!
quaintbloke: For me, the lesson learnt here is leadership. While in Nigeria the leaders were the first to get the vaccine so they and their families could be protected, in the western world, everyone awaits their turn. Even the Queen waited her turn. Heck the UK prime minister gets his first jab 3months after the roll out, only because its the turn of his age group.
Exactly. Funny enough, our politicians turned looters are always after themselves and family first in all.
GreatResearcher: Award means a prize or other mark of recognition given in honour of an achievement.
Why the hype on Grammy Awards?
The way we Africans see and do things always got me puzzled. We see Grammy Award as god. I'm not in anyway hating those who won. But how me celebrate this Grammy is what I don't understand.
In America. Most American acts don't see Grammy as anything. I remember one rapper who was given a Grammy Award and he rejected it.
Last year an American rapper pee on a Grammy Award (something most Africans see as god) Few hours ago another American rapper took to his Twitter to write F88k Grammys.
These people a different way of reasoning I don't know if it's because of their environment because environment can't influence one's reasoning.
Winning Grammy does not make you bigger or better than others. Not winning Grammy does not mean your crafts are useless.
I know over 10 American rappers who never won a Grammy but you can't talk about Hip Pop and you don't mention their names.
Imagine someone like Nas just won his first Grammy after how many years in the industry? He never made it a big deal.
Na man you be!
Africa especially naija with unnecessary hype; everything dey be big thing for us. No wonder we've been blessed with series of crimes. There's always this level of competition amongst every Nigerian out there.
Like the poster and myself too, we ain't against the legends but the hype too much especially with fans calling out artists.
Queenlovely: While I was doing my doctorate at Leeds university,I noticed Nigerians always make first class, while the white kids just wanted a result.
That is why all our politicians kids studying abroad cannot make an impact on society with their expensive education. They will still come back to Nigeria to drag government work with ordinary folks
This stupid Nigerian man thinks white babes will flock around him if he was a first class product, but the white Chicks don't care about first class
What they wanted was a man with chuzpah and daring, risk taker, a solution finder. That is why I am strongly against these idea of celebrating first class.
What is the need of buying something you will never use, what is the need of acquiring expensive education when you will still end up as a POS terminal operator.
All your focus is just to get a job, that is why job is scarce. 10million people are struggling for 1,000 jobs.
What separates you from the illiterate if you will still come back to work under an illiterate.
Graduate from India has turned Bangalore into a silicone valley, what have our graduates done?
Graduates from China are soaking up ideas from America to help their country. What have saraki son and all others brought home.
Instead they go there to learn how to abuse drugs and turn gwarrimpa to a drug addict town.
NYSC camp is supposed to be a breeding ground for Entrepreneurs not a place to have sex.
Remember printing recharge card, soap making, tailoring is not Entrepreneurship, many illiterate grandmother can do that, separate your self from the madness
For those dummkopf asking me what I have done? ALOT
post=99392379: The number of minutes it took someone to put on a Jean is now a topic for discussion in our nation?!
Despite all the great threads that could change many lives lying fallow in most sections here.
What Rubbish Thread!
(She posted it on her personal page, leave it there for her and let her fans on her page comment on it, STOP creating a thread about each and every tweet or post abeg, so effing annoying!)
Orisirisi something.......
Nairaland is gradually losing it in terms of news making her front page these days.
envoymedia: Lady Almost Stripped Naked By Area Boys For Tatooing Bobrisky (Video)
Ewatomi Gold, a lady who tattooed Bobrisky's face on her back has released a video showing her crying while narrating how she was allegedly harassed by area boys because of the tattoo, IgbereTV reports.
She claims she was on her way to see her mum in Ikorodu and was waiting for a bike when some guys recognised her as the woman who tattooed the crossdresser's face on her back, so they verbally assaulted her, tried to physically abuse her, and nearly stripped her.
After she released a video of herself crying, people accused her of lying. Some people said she was faking it to get Bobrisky's attention so that he will give her money or a car so she won't have to keep taking bikes.
Joblessness and poverty are strongly behind all happening in naija. A country where Bobrisky is being celebrated as one of the wealthiest. Naija is a big joke... Imagine a country like USA with the highest number of billionaires, people should go about tattooing Bezo and others.
Fashion › Re: The Price Of A Haircut In Your Area by udomas(m): 10:34pm On Jul 24, 2021
and better life for them.
Good to know you've seen your mistakes and prepared to rewrite your story. Doesn't matter what anyone says about your choice to relocate (even though we know your motives), but living with her has exposed issues you probably would never have known from a distant relationship.