₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
The sad truth is most women are wicked in nature sha.

Okay agreed you married a struggling guy, and u guys keep struggling and one way or another God helped you the wife to get some edge and start making more money than your struggling husband. Pls ladies and wives reading, what stops u from using that your money to set your husband up to become financial rich to your taste so you two can be rich together and happy together

Why run to some useless men who only see u as sex object to ease off their stress, and u think they are now your class of men and your broke husband u were supposed to help become financially okay is no longer your class of man

What about guys who stoop so low to marry broke ladies, use their money to brush these ladies up, some train them in school, some establish businesses for their wives, some use their last money to send their wives abroad just to make sure their wife upgrades to the grade of their desired woman

Ladies make una try to get sense small Na, Na wa o.

You ladies are scaring guys from helping ladies, honestly guys are reading oh and learning oh, hmmm

men.screw over ladies ALL THE TIME in Nigeria

So why are you crying?

Pavore9:
Some people live their lives as if human existence is centred around Nigeria. One thing I have learnt in life is, whether you are single, married or divorce never lose your identity as that is what you own even if everything else fails.

lose your identity how?

Catastrophe1:
The moment your wife out shines or becomes more wealthy and famous than you. She no longer belongs to you.

not always the case tho

Lovelypet28:
That man is a bloody fool,if this woman loves her children and their future,she should not hand over anything to him,he should go and hug transformer,foolish irresponsible baboon,someone SARS is meant to harrass,oloriburuku somebody.

na oloriburuku true true

Pavore9:
Don't feel sorry for her and her children. Did the guy marry her? How was he providing for her and the children when she had to go to Lagos to hawk bread?

Remember that thread that was on front page days ago, where the guy (the OP) justified why guys when there is change of fortune, dump girlfriends who were with them when they were broke and one of which is that the ladies failed to also improve themselves and this makes guy feel the need to upgrade to another woman. How has this guy upgraded himself?

you have saud it all.....


some Nigerian men like double standards

cardoso222:
It takes wisdom to keep your home. Fame and money are mere attachment. Never allow your head to swell but remember where you are coming g from.
I have seen wives who are x50 richer than the husband yet you can't know unless you come near them. Those wives even ask their husband to decide on money matters!
God will intervene

why is keeping the home the burden of the woman?

victorian:
I'm not surprised. It takes a well enlightened man to handle his wife or girlfriend success in stardom. Most men can't. They always feel threatened, even when she's not even threathening him.

A woman who sells tomatoes, pepper, raw rice, infact food ingredients along the path, I take to work, years back confided in me one day, when I saw how sad she looked. I asked Aunty what's the problem? She sighed and said her husband who is an engineer is the type who always carry women upandan, neighbors will come and tell her, she won't argue, she won't fight, she will complain though and face her kids and her provision shop. Until one day, someone advised her to buy a land and she bought and started building. So one day she told her husband that she wants to show him something surprising, she took him to her building, that this is their home and she got the land and all at certain dates. But she should have told him, he's not always around but today she decided she has to let him know as he didnt look like he's going out today. Come and see the husband Shocked first then flared up and was asking the wife all sorts of questions, she answered but was shocked. The husband shouted, its a lie! How can u build house with just that small provision shop and she's a prostitute sleeping with men for money. See how he was cursing his wife ehn?
Tears flowed down her eyes, she was like God! Is this the man I married? She retorted back at him that when u were using your money to carry all sorts of women I didn't fight u, even money for upkeep u don't drop. I saved mine to build a home for us u are cursing me, God will judge you!
As she was explaining to. Me she was fighting back her tears. I shook my head.
Men! Men! Men! Ha! God

Anyways the man went back home, packed his clothes in a bag saying unless she hands over the papers of the land and house to him, she should forget the marriage and he's not coming back, cod there can be two masters in his house . She begged him, he didn't answer.
He left.

I asked her madam, does he pay the children school fees? She said no. She pays
Does he drop money for feeding? She said no. She provides
Does he pay house rent? She said he brings part while she completes the rest .
And he now wants the papers of your house?

Anyways madam, use your tongue count your teeth. You know the kind of man u married, if he doesn't want marriage again except u give him the house, then so be it. He can stay away but if u give him that house? He will sell it and continue to carry women with it. And you and the kids will be left abandoned

Mark my Words!
Don't give him nada! If he wants to leave, let him leave! Wetin sef!

the man is a big fool

dangotesmummy:
why the matter con dey pain you pass the owner of the matter

Jumoke boyfriend na your brother? Remember they were never married,they were just live in lovers with a kid together

See how you carry another person matter for head con draw your own for hand

no mind am

ifedola28:
No woman will ditch a man that genuinely loves, cares and respect her. Take it or leave it

And for those of you hurling different types of abusive words at women, God knew you guys can't survive psychologically without women and that is why he created women.

We are salt in men's life. Take it or leave it

We are meant to be cared for in all ramification and not to be abused because we are physically weak.

Most of the men hurling all manner of disrespectful statements at women are the cowards that beats their wives at the slightest provocation.

I agree with your first paragraph


a man that a woman really loves is not gonna leave him arbitrary


but when the man decides to be useless
it becomes hard to love such person

AngelicBeing:
Nigeria called a home (rubbish) l rather live with my dog called Jack in the Amazon jungle of South America and be guaranteed of protection by my dog than to call Nigeria a home, my dog called Jack will bark and protect me anytime of the day from intruders but Nigeria cannot protect me and so, it is not a home

indeed

but foreigners (well some of them) consider Nigeria home

they make good money there (it's a corrupt country, so....... }


especially Lebanese

AngelicBeing:
I hear people say no place like home, that is balderdash and nonsense to me,
I don't follow or subscribe to that nasty statement,
home to me in my personal opinion is not really defined as your place of birth, home is where you have peace, serenity, the ability to pursue your God given potential without bribing anyone, a place you are rewarded based on merit, working smart regardless of your skin color, where your individual rights are guaranteed and where the government provides the basic necessities for her citizens and give them open opportunities / template to contribute to that society and that same government rewards them by standing with her citizens in times of crisis and happiness, and if l find such place in Mars, Jupiter, Venus, Antarctica, Solomon Islands, or anywhere on planet earth, that is my home, and not necessarily my biological country of birth

we share the same sentiment

fabyom:
Too serious a being. Me self don port since.
Though I love my country, I am sorry I have to seek better future for my Children. Naija is not an option!
It is such a shame we have rulers who does not have a WAEC certificate.
However,
I will come back some day. I come back home to contribute my quota to my father land. We own our children such. No matter what home is home!

good luck in your coming back o
as for me and my descendants


It's goodbye to NIGERIA o

It's just my country of origin
nothing more

Drabeey:
See this foolish bread seller wey God helped to fame, one marketer don dey fvck you now you think you can jilt someone who suffered with you, i even heard the guy was the one who bought her the tray she used to hawk bread. Let me tell you something Orisaguna or what that fvck name your useless papa name is..... You are going into oblivion soon. Mark my words ashawo, omo ale jatijati.

Guys you can now see these useless hoes aint loyal , as a matter of fact they are going to leave you for a rich guy as soon as they are above you!

Ask yourself, Tee-bliz no try for that ashawoo smelling pvsy called Tiwa? Now it is Orisadasewo JumoDO .


God will definitely make that your fame burn in flame. Oloriburku omo ale.

what is this one saying

Antichristus:
I really don’t care about your air mileage. It is daft to pass judgement on issues without knowing the full details.

Okay....


Let's assume we don't know for sure whether he is a Nigerian


you mean to say, that you don't know; or have never experienced how rude, uncouth and loud mouthed many many Nigerians are?


there is NO smoke w/o fire

Originalsly:
Awww!.....just anxiety... the man just could t wait a bit longer to get into Naija airspace to start shouting and being rude once again....with no consequences. Man must flex his ego.

don't mind him

planetx:
Don't mind this low self esteem idiots, they don't know the full story but they are cursing themselves already. Oyinbo can never do wrong in their eyes, they will make good slaves picking cotton or cutting sugarcane if slavery ever come back.

look at this one

Antichristus:
Nigerians are daft. This case exemplifies it. Without knowing the full details of the matter, see how Nigerians are condemning one of their own. “When you deny generations of people sound education, they become monumentally incapable of thinking rationally and critically.”

In work or professional context, the fact that a white person grins at, and are courteous to, you doesn’t mean they’re smiling at, or respectful of, you. For anyone to meaningfully comment on this matter, we need the full picture.

oga

I fly with black folks (Nigerians) from time to time


we see and know how these fvckers behave
There is nothing to hide or deny
except you are not a frequent traveller yourself

Nigerians need to br taught manners

kenechi072:
Honestly the black man has serious issues. I worked briefly at an organization stationed at the airport and I really had a very bad impression of Nigerians. because they are paying how much to fly they start making noise and being very disrespectful. no regard for airport staff or anyone simply because their bush brains seem to believe it's a big deal to travel out. the whites should keep disgracing and humbling these idiots. Typical bush mentality. yes I know that some whites are racists, but believe me, I observed that whites are generally more polite than blacks. they are not unruly or proud. Black man had few millions and he becomes very arrogant and unruly, cannot even clean his butt. White man who is far richer still does his laundry and cleans his dishes. I learnt so much about Nigerians during that short stint at the airport and I am very disgusted by alot of them. I also observed that a white person always greets or says hello when they arrive or when they approach your desk to make enquiries. But black ppl will never greet, they are waiting for you to greet them simply because they are flying out or arriving

you have saud it all

empty barrels making noise and distorting the peace

Kenmatt:
Nigerians are too arogant. Just a token in their account , they feel as if they own the world.

Imagine entering any Bank or Eatery, you will see Nigerians posing, waiting for the man on uniform to open the door for them and greet them "welcome to this Bank".

I once entered a particular Eatery with a senior friend who came from Germany, as we finished eating, this my senior friend carried the tray, the plates and empty bottle of water and soft we drank, it seemed strange, I hurriedly did the same too so that it would seem uniform, he had to dispose them properly and returned them adequately too.

you have saud it all.

black man has a DEEP SENSE of inferiority complex

But they mssk it with their assurance and "big man" behaviour

Westsida:
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The igbos started their tribal nonsense by cursing out the yorubas just cos yoruba supported Buhari in 2015.

huh?


I'm not a kid

this bickering pre dates 2015...


And hey, Yoruba folks (well the foolish ones who don't understand how democracy works) vilified Igbos for not voting buhari as well goading him on that he should "Give Igbos nothing" for not voting him

this stupid behaviour from Yoruba and Igbo has to stop

Anyone can vote whoever (that is democracy)

NgeneUkwenu:
$103M only? This is just the money in one of Patience Jonathan's numerous bank accounts, she and her husband cornered from our Common patrimony.

May God Punish Jonathan!

the one in Tinubu account nko

the Nigerian political elite are career criminals

That's the fact

Elemosho478:
May thunder fire Azikiwe wherever he is he betrayed the South and sold us off to the North and you know it but you losers keep on blaming Yoruba for your woes.

??

ricon:
That's why it's very important you verify and verify again whatever address you're been called for a job interview.

Using the job vacancy format is a very easy way to scam or get anybody because the rate of unemployment is high.

This is just uncalled for

exactly

Arizonaaddict1:
Ndi Igbo and gang rape den go soon reach here now dey prach sey fake news from afonja land and visual evidence dey scatter online from absu 5 to chidinma IMO 7 anoda one don land

look at another one

Fadomero:
what an insult to national unity abeg free the pigs

look at another fool

Aboks:
BIAFRA TV presents
"crime city"
starring:Udochukwu reginald gene: rape, fraud location: umuezuo naze owerri north.
am out

look at this fool

Elemosho478:
Azikiwe neglected Awolowo that they both fought for Independence to form allegiance with the north just because of power, he sold the south to the North and betrayed Yoruba but Yoruba never be a bitch and accuse igbo of anything but it is Igbo that is playing the Victim Card today. Igbo is a tribe of Traitors, losers and envious souls Everything that is wrong with Nigeria started from them but they are the one playing the Victim Card today

@angelicbeing look at one of them

AngelicBeing:
l wonder why the recent tribal wars on Nairaland, like seriously, and the politicians are eating chicken, Turkey and fried rice and they sleep in cosy hotel at Abuja and Nigerians are fighting themselves online

because they are all stupid

the inclination of a typical black man is to think short sighted and not reason properly.

You can see that exemplified in Nigeria

If not, is it not better to build a country THAT YOU ALL WILL BE PROUD OF than to form tribal superiority


I don tire for Nigeria foolishness

AngelicBeing:
, meanwhile listening to peoples club music

lmao


Nigerian youths have been pathologically defeated

And when that's the case

you continue to wallow in foolishness

chiedu7:
I guess we never learn our lesson.
No be Tinubu dey do lackey for Buhari?
Many southerners have been foolish


The way 9ja moved 4wd was when the igbos & Yorubas worked together.
Now dem don use psychology to make sure we don't work together.
So it's Afonja vs Biafra.
Cone Head vs Igbo

Brown Roof vs developer

Skull Miner vs Baby Factory.
And una say southerners get sense?

indeed southerners are stupid

What is the basis for the Igbo vs Yoruba bickering?