₦airaland Forum

koyyes:
They get married faster but the marriage never really lasts or ends up making them miserable. Ask them...they full nairaland.

Any good 'church' girl that ends up with a bad guy whether rich or poor is a big fool and will eat shiiit through out the marriage.

Let bad guys be with bad girls and kill each other. Not my biz wax.

Leave all the pretenders who call themselves good guys but chase after bad girls. Its their type that end up fathering another man's child unknowingly.

Good guys should go after good girls. Don't let your timid nature stop you. Abi no bi man una be?

hmmm....

interesting
tho not in all cases

Dinho20:
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND;
LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST;
IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE.
IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING,
BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH.
LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.

the recipe for remaining in marriage

chloride6:
Someone already explained, been a good girl is not all you need to get married.

exactly

Chepy:
Not true. You eventually end up with someone with in the same category as you..That’s how my friend who smokes married a girl who does same too. I’m waiting till they gave birth, let’s see what the children will turn out!

another one dimensional thinker

Pojomojo:

“I’m not married yet please. When I get married, I’ll stick to only my partner”

If you can’t stay faithful in relationships, you will never be faithful in your marriage. It’s not rocket science
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If you can’t stay faithful in relationships, you will never be faithful in your marriage. It’s not rocket science
2 failed marriages and a sex tape she did not consent to being made public, the world was convinced Kanye West had lost his mind when he decided to marry Kim. They made jokes about him making a song about gold diggers and marrying one. The world was convinced that the union would not last after all to them Kim was just a gold digger and a reality star who is nothing without her nice body. Now it's 3 kids later, after Kanye's depression,

after Kanye's many failed business venture, after Kanye had declared bankruptcy and Kim is still around. Kim is still is still Kanye's pillar and Kanye has never been crazier about Kim. My bro, the world will always have something to say about your partner - they will call her a LovePeddler because she has done the same thing men do everyday, with many sexual partners.

They will call her a gold digger because she chooses to be compensated for her time. Some will even tell you about her one night stands, they will even know her favourite positions and will tell you about that. However, if you ask me, your woman is yours. She is a reflection of you. It is your duty to protect her honour. It is your duty to not to gossip about her with those people but fight for her to be respected and never stop loving her because of other people's opinions her.
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QUESTION OF THE DAY!

IF YOUR PARTNER SHOULD CONFESS SOME HORRIBLE THINGS THEY'VE DONE IN THE PAST, WOULD YOU STILL GO AHEAD WITH THE RELATIONSHIP?

You have spoken well

just as I said

as long as two parties are willing to put in the work

That marriage stahds a greater chance of surviving

tee59:
How many of these ladies do you see spending ten to thirty years in your better marriage? They may be lucky to get men to wed them but may not be able to stay married for long. Do you think, drinking of alcohol, smoking of weeds, performing all sexual styles on bed, living a reckless life can sustain and hold a marriage for long? Why are our celebrities still have failed marriages despite all they have? Change your orientation. You can as well follow suit and tell us your experience in marriage after two years.

being a good girl or a bad girl has ZERO bearing on whether your marriage will last or not

it is putting in the work, making the sacrifices and doing your best that will keep you married (both parties)

One dimensional thinking is very prevalent amongst Africans

So I am not surprised

lilmax:
they deceive "good" men who do not know left and right

the bad guys deceive "good" women who do not know left and right

only a dumbass won't see through a hoe bullshit

moral lesson: be good and wise at the same time not foolish

You have a point

musicwriter:
Dangote will receive a big lesson on neo-colonialism. This would be the worst thing he've ever invested into. I am not saying more than this for now.

Why do you say so?

black man has to take his destiny in his own hands

Neo colonialists can do him nothing as long as he play his cards right

ezemme:
none of the plant will start production this year.. mark my word .

Why do you say tha5?

Konquest:
^^^^^^
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@obailala

You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!

I have my sympathies for the CURRENT APC government because
they at least steered Nigeria out of recession which came as a result of the
massive drop in crude oil price, and have laid the economic foundations
gradually with the completion of road such as the Ilorin-Jebba highway which
previous governments never completed. I saw the Oba of Jebba in Kwara
State thanking the current for completing the road which should ordinarily take
45 minutes to drive from Ilorin to Jebba... and on to Northern Nigeria by driving
across the River Niger at Jebba into Niger State.


The next government at the Federal level will definately become popular when
the 650,000 barrels/day refinery comes on stream. People would subconsciously
tranfer much love to the incoming government.


It is also good that the current government has NOT removed the petroleum subsidy
due to the increase in global oil price after the recession and also during the heavy
winter periods in the Western world. Doing so would have made Nigerians to suffer
more than they are doing now.


Peter Obi was saying during the Vice Presidential Debate that PDP would remove
the petroleum subsidy... but this is VERY UNWISE, just as Vice President Yemi Osinbajo said
because Nigerians would SUFFER more economically with over 200% rise in the cost of good
and services. It baffles me that some people are insulting this government, NOT realising that
the Federal Government is doing Nigerians a favour. The oil subsidy should ONLY BE REMOVED
when Dangote Petrochemical Refinery starts producing from end of April 2019 through to
early 2020!


Several countries had recessions during that period... including some
oil-producing countries and primarily that of Nigeria was caused by insufficient
foreign exchange [FX] in the Central Bank of Nigeria [CBN] to fund imports, so
ultimately OIL & GAS DIVERSIFICATION is the key as the 21st Century
advances!


Read more here: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-35345874
"Falling oil prices: How are countries being affected?"




All the best and Happy 2019!

removing subsidy is unwise? ??

That comment you made alone negates the entire write up you got up there

Cancelling the fraudulent subsidy in Nigeria is one of the major steps we need to take in order for us to move forward.

We have wasted trillions upon trillions of naira that we would have used to build a whole lot for NIGERIA on consumption

chiedu7:
It's an insult that Oil is taken from the Niger Delta & refined elsewhere.

The Niger Delta needs to get its act together.

The Niger delta is not safe, and it is anti investment

You know it, and I know it.

They need to change their "devey" mentality and see how investments will pour in.

Mizwisdom:
There are some things that shouldn't be brought out to the general public, this is supposed to be for the military, we know machines get spoiled or need servicing but it's not every that is interesting to discuss

it's exposing the gov't as useless and inept

Let the whole world see what the useless Nigerian gov't has reduced the military to.

goodnessme1:
Boko haram should wipe them all out.

Stupid army if is showing force in peaceful biafra land they will go with their best armoured tanks and fighter jets,but if is boko haram they go with outdated weapons.





Boko haram is northern mineral resources,if you know you know.

Will you keep shut?

kufre2010:
Have u observe the rate which people go into begging now a days? Begging is no longer rampant in the north, it's now a national problem. Yesterday someone drove into the feeling station and beg someone to help him with fuel so he can reach his destination. I reject another level of poverty in this country in God's name

it's a serious crisis on our hands

TimiRume:
Those prints say a lot
Alpha females are traditional women who understand gender roles,love being feminine, prefer men of means and are generally loved by men.
Beta females are strong, independent women who don't mind doing half of a man's work and all of theirs, they talk and act like men and are generally not preferred by men.

Mitchewww:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/just-in-gaidam-town-under-boko-haram-attack.html

Op.. That's the real source.

Meanwhile...

Boko Haram have insiders and sympathizers.

If not.. How?

I fear the west.

Their interference in African politics is very brutal.

we afficans are the ones who allow ourselves to be used by the west

Why don't they go using China or Iran, Cuba or Russia?

Boko haram sympathizers are many in Nigeria

the useless govt released some saying they are "repentant"

And even recruited some

But the media downplayed it (another set of people God must punish in Nigeria)


A complicit gov't and poverty and hopelessness is to blame

awelekiti:
The dullest CBN governor ever lived

very dull mofo

we need another Soludo/Sanusi who brought their reforms

not this joker

thank God he will soon pack his bag and leave office

Koolking:
Politicians will promise all sort of things in their desperation for power. If you mean well for the country and the people, how can you promise free-float of import [which engenders capital flight and job loses] in an entirely consuming country when we can look inward, invest in infrastructures and encourage local production for export?

This is one of the problems of political debates, a stage managed event for bragging-right. Nigerians in their docility will nod their heads in their impending doom. We don't analyse proposals and reports. We are too lazy and religious/ethically bigotry to see beyond political presentations.

Floating the naira, and removing subsidies, as well as disbanding NNPC are the only moves we can make to save this country

However, because my countrymen are stupid and short sighted, they prefer this unsustainable model we are running

they are not ready to go through discomfort now for them and tgwur descendants to enjoy in future.

Just imagine how far NIGERIA would have gone it subsidies were removed in 2012.
Nigerians were not willing to pay 141 when oil prices were so high, but clapped when this useless govt increase fuel to 145 in a RECESSION with lower oil prices AND STILL PAYING SUBSIDIES that they call "under recovery" deceiving idiot Nigerians



If you guys continue like this, your descendants will spit at your graves for bequeathing them a failed and destroyed country


Continue in this flawed system you hear, while those who have left or will still leave the failed country continue to leave


in 15 years time

una eye go clear

athaliya:
we need to float the naira...
Things will shoot up initially but will still find its bearing...
The current exchange rate structure is flawed, why should somebody determine the worth of my currency?
After the initial price spike, the imported goods will be soo expensive that nobody will even want to buy from china again. Slowly but surely, local markets will begin to boom and our currency will slowly get stronger so at the end, we have a strong naira and an even stronger local market.
I'm surprised the CBN governor doesn't know this or maybe somebody wants to keep getting usd for 199 special rate.

Lest I forget, why should Nigeria be waiting for dangote for them to be self sufficient in anything? This market monopoly of dangote is killing the youths. For how long will we keep doing contribution in dangote's pocket?
Never have housing become sooo expensive, now with dangote's monopoly on fertilizers, food will become more expensive. Chai

Dangote is filling in the gap because others are too lazy and short sighted to do so.

All they want is sharp sharp money via waivers and other rent seeking schemes.

Dangote was not the only one given licence to build refinery

Yet he is the only one pushing ahead while the others are being stupid

.Rent seeking killed this $hithole.

But you are right


the naira need to be floated.

globalresource:

Why is CBN boss meddling with partisan politics?
He is not suppose to say anything because Atiku is not yet the president.

no mind the goat

tesppidd:
You're desperate to sound witty and intelligent but ended up coming stoopid and out of point.

To clarify it, look at this way;

If I have a job to do at 80 years i will do my job.

If I don't have a job at 80 I wouldn't go nosing about,
acting like a busy body or a know-it-all.


So me saying I would relax and enjoy myself is not saying I would retire from my job.
I never talked about retirement.

Obasanjo doesn't have a job at the presidency.
And we have many other ex presidents.

Obasanjo has done his 8 years, he should retire to otta and serve his God.

he should help us oust the current idiot in aso rock

ousting presidents is his stock in trade

He should help Nigeria from this shame just once more

then he can retire to serve his God

tungamaje:
If you don't believe hunger as a result of bad economy is the result, then tell me your own reason. As I said earlier, if I have enough I won't set my eyes on another person's to steal. I think you would agree with me if I said that in those days, Nigerians were not as evil as they are now

I have lived in a country that is FAR POORER THAN NIGERIA yet you don't see such crimes you see in Nigeria there.

Nigerians are covetous and greedy in general, and want to live as big man by all means possible

If Nigerians are content people, who is satisfied Witt what they have, we would not be having so much atrocity and wickedness


In this village I lived in, that country people are content with what they have.

there is no craze for big man life, nor wanton materialism

You see boy friend and girl friend happy witt his okada
The one he can buy her, she collects witt happiness


but now some Nigerians have carried their repugnant mentality of wooing babes witt money and all thos stupid things you Nigerians are fond of.


The bottom line is that just like Ugandans and Liberians, Nigerians are TOO GREEDY MATERIALIST and covetous
Wanting to live big man life and oppress others by any means possible

look at your yahoo boys and see what they do with the proceeds of the money they make

tungamaje:
I understand your point. but the governed were not as evil as this until the politicians used hunger to divide us. People are really hungry. All the evil perpetrated presently by the governed is as a result of the fact that people are looking for means of survival. If I feed well, why would I steal someone's coke? If I can afford and maintain my own car, why would I steal another person's car tyres and headlamps? Let the economy improve and crime rate would definitely reduce

you think hunger is to blame?

themosthigh:
The truth is that APC is not the problem
Of Nigeria. There is no difference between apc and pdp. It is the same people constantly switching parties to continue their looting of our wealth. This is not going to change because most of us in the streets of Nigeria are dubious people who are only complaining because we have not had the opportunity to steal. In my workplace, you cannot leave your coke in the fridge without someone stealing it, go to mossque-your slippers will be stolen, sleep off in bus- your phone will be stolen, nowadays, if your car spoils at Night, you will come back the next morning and the tires and headlight had been stolen. If the governed are this evil, how do you expect the leaders to be better.

you have says it all


the governed are EVIL

AreaFada2:
She speaks for many ladies.

That the car might be bought from armed robbery, kidnapping, yahoo or juju money is irrelevant.

true

Her life and her preference

Why are you boys mad at her.


Most of u don't have cars, so stay away trin her

SIMPLE

It's not by force to carry woman

Young men of these days sef

Maski87:
I hate, my dad why is he not a billionaire like as l these people

you don't have to.

Appreciate what he could do for you.

Bidobado1:
Most of your so called rich people are into oil and gas. Loooool, as if that's not the national cake of Nigeria.

so what is your point?

Bidobado1:
Most of your so called rich people are into oil and gas. Loooool, as if that's not the national cake of Nigeria.

so what is joie point?

InvertedHammer:
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Once you lose power in Nigeria, you become an outcast.

This is not about performance.

That's why governors strive to go to the Senate or HOR because it is a lonely world out there without the paraphernalia of government.

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that's the case in Nigeria

Pojomojo:
In 2016, I hired all my staff entirely from Social Media and the business collapsed within 3 months-ReekySleeky

oh really?


How did that happen?

bigtt76:
Can elections still be rigged thesedays?

osun state comes to mind
these apc guys are desperate