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doublecross:
the last time i checked.... any child born out of wedluck is a bastarrrrrrrrd

what does that have to do with anything?

emmaodet:
And you think marrying a woman to take care of didn't end in 1960 too? Nobody wants a liability again, what we want now is a partner and not a wife.
A wife is most likely a liability and an adult baby/a dependant that you nees to be feeding and that ends in 1960 too.
A partner is a supporter, a mate and a reasonable person that knows she needs to contribute and support the family.
It is funny seeing ladies screaming they don't want to suffer with a man why they are suffering presently.
Had a lady who is a custom but she divorced her husband because he is not providing enough.
The man is a civil defence and earning 80k why the lady earning 100k.
Now after the divorce, she went back to her parents and complaining how it is not easy to survive on 100k per month but this same woman will want the hubby to perform magic from his own 80k by renting apartment, feeding family, buy a car, buy land and start building, support In-law etc why she is struggling to feed herself now in her father's house.
A poor and broke lady that is not productive running away from a struggling guy is not mocking him rather he is helping the guy to dodge a bullet unknown to him.
Alot of people around me have had there lifes cut short and died of kidney failure due to stress and high thinking due to having unproductive, broke, lazy and frustrating wives and not partners.

You have said it all.

Mizwisdom:
Seems Mr. Tony isn't enlightened, how can you have seven children? I don't see any past rich personality of his repute abroad with these number of kids, seems he's local after all

I see nothing wrong with having seven kids if you can take care of them the way elumelu can

especially if it is from one woman

just saying

in the American Midwest, some women give birth to 5 above there

it depends

AngelicBeing:
Hian, wetin Nigeria and Buhari do, keep praying and engage in dry fast for things to change in Nigeria, prayers is the solution

bia nwoke a

jide onwe gi dia o

just imagine

Mcy56:
This kobo issue again. Lol. Na oga Oracle go solve this one o.
I thought it should be 1,400 x 0.03 which is equal to 42naira.


You converted 300kobo to 3naira x 1400 ??

300 kobo equals 3 naira

300 kobo multiplied by 1400 equals 420000 kobo

420,000 kobo equals N4200

that's my analogy sha

I no sabi maths

Chill2:
I had to respond to you because I think you don't get my point. In other climes people only hire an employee when they can conveniently pay what is stipulated. My point is that most of your celebrated elite are ripping off the ordinary Nigerian because we are in a society where nobody cares about the quality of life of the average citizen. "Cheap labour is dehumanizing, try get a nanny when you visit the western world and ask yourself why is that expensive"

I get your point


but get mine too


The western world has a conducive enviorment for business
and the laws to support labour....
everything is in place

Nigeria on the other hand has everything scattered from the business environment to the Labour laws

if we are to fix these things
it has to be a holistic approach...


Paying "livable wages" to workers when the same govt will raid you with various taxes to pay, in addition to fuel costs and other crazy costs due to jaga jaga nature of Nigeria will NOT work.

we need a complete overhaul....
hope you get me.

I run businesses myself in different countries and I Know how it is

needful:
Not all the Igbo women. If u are doing good, u will not give a dam about a male child as a woman. The worst is him going outside to find make child which women like me doesnt care. My life is so sweet to come start doing baby factory for anyman who will eventual have more babies if he decides

not all women sha


but if a man and a woman agree to produce plenty babies that they can afford, why not?

I Know of a Hispanic couple with 7 kids

and they are not yet 50

MrCuteking:
It was this thread that almost destroyed my life.
This useless thread that is full of proud and terrible scammers.

It was this same thread I met that useless Funnynation who told me how he started making millions in importation.

We joined him on whatsapp last year he now scammed us around 3+ millions.

God will punish those who come here to lie in the name of scamming people.

May their souls never rest in peace.

I also met those useless thieves called Hugo Diamonds who scammed me after I paid them money for shipping my goods from China to Nigeria.

I have almost thought of suicide because of this two godforsaken pieces of annoying hell of human beings.

I want to plead with the moderators to close down this thread.

It has caused more harm than good. Please close this useless thread.

And if you see this two thieves. Tell them many people wish them dead when caught.

so sorry about your experience


Please shine your eyes before parting with money next time

criminals abound in this forum and in this country

bigboyobi:
I made my first million at age 21 from sales of my songs online. I invested part of the profits into music publishing and online businesses; especially affiliate marketing and so far it has been incredible. when the profit rolls in, I save 30% and reinvest 70% into other ventures to yield more and more profits. Youths should have the habit of investment and not squandering money on liabilities. Assets is the watchword!

You have done well

Babanlagenius:
Seun please look into this matter. People are losing their lives because of heartless people in this country.

Close this thread. I give my full support cause there are those looking for means on a daily basis to scam innocent souls and this has been a successful tool.

What they do is just to announce that they’ve made millions and all of a sudden people will begin to fall for their scams.

I disagree

the thread should remain OPEN
.every one here should shine their eyes before parting with money

if you don't, you have yourself to blame

desperation to make money has become something else in Nigeria

StPete:
Ibo, Yoruba, Hausa
The three Nigerian major ethnic groups represented!

You can say that again

hisexcellency34:
Forget it. Tinubu is richer than the three of them combined.

I disagree

nwakibie3:
she dey look for male child na

but God finally gave her 2 boys at a time

a lot of igbo women don't feel complete without a make child, and to me that is unfortunate

But every one has the right to live as he likes sha

meobizy:
I bet the small girls he sleeps with will laugh their asses off at these pictures.
Seven children, them dey use amount of children collect money from CBN?

how do you know he sleeps with "small girls"

let's assume it's true (Assumption)

Those small girls are play things and nothing more
that is their only use

To ease tension

his family is always his family, and when you ask him or any man to point the woman in his life, he points to his mom and his wife

side chick gat no recognition

#just saying

their "laughing" is baseless and they should be thinking of their lives instead

Chill2:
Smart comment, most CEO in Nigeria reap off their employee that's why poverty keep growing. If they actually pay the right wage and benefit some will just be on the borderline of wealth, some don't even pay shareholders. What a shit of a country. Is a pity Nigerians have accepted their fate.

go start up your company and grow it as you like I'm contemporary Nigeria , and then pay your staff what you like, if you don't like the "contract staff job:" and you think it's "easy to set up"

DaBogu:
Marry when you have money to run a home and able to take care of the family. I married your mother when I had nothing ended since 1960. Don’t suffer somebody’s daughter Biko.
Be Wise!

interesting

LordAdam16:
I see this a lot.

But here's the FACT: you have no control over how someone else should react to a grievance.

Same heartbreak that most people have, grieve, then get over with time; is the same heartbreak that many commit suicide over. Similarly, same UTME kids take, fail, brush it off, and try again; is the same kind of exam kids take in South Korea, fail, and commit suicide over.

Clearly dude is mentally unbalanced to a degree at least, but people have killed their kids for less.

This sh*t happens more times than you think, a lady taking a call while her partner is in the background wondering what's making the smacking sound in the background. Some just get depressed, this one went cuckoo.

Can I blame him, I don't know. I don't have his brain.

***

A similar instance is an account I read on Reddit. Dude was smashing a single mother of two in the apartment she shares with her baby daddy. The guy returned and knocked. Unfazed she tells the dude to keep at it as the door is locked and the baby daddy (who is an ex-convict and just came out of prison weeks back) didn't have a key.

They went ham, because as anyone who's been in such situation knows (including yours truly), it's exciting. So n*gga was outside begging the mother of his kids to open the door, while she was having the time of her life. He kept calling her, she ignored the calls.

After a while, the dude screwing her spanks her and tells her to pick the call. She f*cking did, because why not. With sex sounds in the background, she told him he was "trifling" and that she wasn't well and he should come back later.

According to the dude, the n*gga kept knocking, begging, and calling for a few minutes more then left. He was scared to sh*t when he came down from cloud nine, waited an extra 10 minutes, checked the coast, then made a dash.

Turns out, the baby daddy went to a store that night, shot the cashier, tried to shoot another employee in the head and the gun jammed. Nigga was put away for a long time. Now was that the healthy way to deal with that traumatic experience he had? No. But as I said, I don't have his brain. And the lady, well her actions inadvertently put someone in the hospital and could have easily been two homicides. And made her own kids fatherless for a longer time just when he had just come home.

Now, I'm not saying the n*gga is a model citizen, a stand out gentleman who didn't deserve that. For all I know, it might be his karma. He's an ex-convict, what did he do to get a felony conviction? What about the awful sh*t he did and got away with. What if he's cheated on her in the past and this is her payback? Could explain why he was begging?

Regardless, you don't poke a sleeping bear no matter how much in the right you think you are. Cos when it lashes out, you really can't control how much damage it'd do.

***

You want to cheat, cheat. But then to go past that to take a video call from him while you're getting f*cked. Come on now, how cold is that? Then the nerve to act surprised that he acted out. Like I'm pretty sure she knew dude was unstable; yet she did it anyway.

And that's to say nothing about the guys in question (I'm guilty so that includes me). But in all, action and reaction are equal and opposite; and when you do stuff, you have no control over how the other party should react to it.

Like that Dominican guy who killed himself after his ex who he was still pleading to get back together with made a sex tape and sent it to him as the ultimate "leave me the f*ck alone" message. I mean she could just have continued ignoring his calls; but she had to go meta. You know to "show him."

Would she have done that if the guy was a cartel boss? You know the answer!

-Lord

just imagine

femmoy:
I quite agree with u on this man,girls stopped being faithful and reliable since 1989, u see any girl born from then till now has no loyalty. I wonder what they want to explore,from youthful age,down to even after marriage.
I wish we could go back to the ages of no marriage for non virgins.

These days, loyalty means nothing to anyone

be it men or women

as for your wish,

shebi men like to fork around, if that is the case, it means no fvck for guys as well.

Onlyonebuhari:
Z
Can't u just borrow some sense of modesty......enough of social media immorality. Nigerians have cultures, heritages, traditions, knowledge and religions.
Nudity isn't our way!

which culture on earth does not have cultures, heritages, tradition and religion?

arrestdarrester:
Whoever that young man was he just succeeded in making a mountain out of a mole hill. The Nobel Laureate did not as much as exchange any word with him. The Laureate got up from the seat and relocated on request. Although the young man did not in any way disrespect Prof Wole Soyinka, his successful mountaineering of this mole hill on social media shows the height of his stupidity. Shame on that young man.

Tonye Cple was the punk ass fool that escalated this issue


not the young man, not the Prof

poseidon12:
Not true. Some sections of the country are progressive and will thrive if Nigeria divides. The over-centralization of governance is setting Nigeria back.

the prevalent mentality across Nigeria has doomed it to remain underdeveloped for life...
unless there is a change in mentality OR we allow those who have been exposed to how things work elsewhere run the country from the top down

Nigeria even when broken into 10 will still be the same

AmazonHippolyta:
Even in the so called progressive part of the country we have criminal and developmental issues.
We still discriminate against ourselves how would we thrive when we ourselves are tribalistic and hate one another.
If we separate na that time we go dey here say Aniocha person never rule say Nsukka person too dey rule and the sentiments and discrimination continues
We as a whole better change our mindset and orientation as a whole because even if we separate wahala go still dey.

You have spoken well

eguarojeona:
This is right is one of the reasons people don't trust,rate you guys.Attacking everyone.You guys need to do better.Make una dey use una sense small small ehn.

what that guy you quoted said is the absolute truth
Those from the SE has spoken against this bloodthirsty idiotic president and govt from DAY ONE

And due to that, we see the hate comments from many here because of they dared insult their "sai baba"

now he has won a second terrm and do not need votes anymore
this thing will continue till he is out, as he is not sincere in stopping this menace

Omihanifa:
Just buy well tailored suits, rent house in Lekki phase 1, deceive people that you run multiple businesses
, attend big events and make sure you snap with plenty celebs ,
target any girl of you choice that's rich ,
present her a fake business proposal
Before you know what's happening dey don drop money
The last but not the least, turn the business relation to a sex filled one , get them pregnant and move onto the next one

You know the format

Neoteny:
Omotola is a hypocrite

They blame politicians for traveling for medical treatment abroad, yet they send their kids to learn how to be an ordinary seamstress.

Why is wrong with what she did?

It's called freedom of.choice and she can afford it

Olorunnim:
Thinking about this now it's true either they do DJ or Music or Talent management I know a few personally, this is not to say That She can NEVER BE GREATER THAN HER MOTHER. I just feel Why Spend the money in a foreign country When there's a lot of those schools in Nigeria.

It's called freedom of choice

tactius:
Without tailors, many of us won't have clothes to wear.

Not everybody can be doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc...some people have to do other things.

I once had a classmate who went on to read Art in university. His brothers and sisters were all Science students, but he was not good at Science...so art it was.

Infact the reason why we are not developed as a country is because we look down on people who use their hands to do a job, and look up to people who do clerical jobs. That's wrong. Developed countries were built by the handworkers, not the office armchair generals.

The founder of one of Japan's big car making companies started by making a mechanical engine for a mining company he was working for, not by commanding from some office.

think of evry profession as different parts of the body

All are important and one is not beneath the other

And they all contribute their own way to nation building
.that is why I disagree with the below

Developed countries were built by the handworkers, not the office armchair generals.

Without top notch administration and skills, the "hand workers" are useless.
And without skilled hand workers , administration is useless


But apart from that, you are right

timesup234:
All this for prestige. They add no value whatsoever in the development of Nigeria. I honestly don't know why Nigerians waste their money schooling in America. This girl can never be greater than her mom. I am yet to see a wealthy Nigerian whose children schooled in the US. greater than their parents. This rubbish needs to stop. It is completely a waste of money

They should rather school in NiggerArea abi?

Acidosis:
You mean productive??


Lucrativeness is a function of productivity. You can't pay what you don't have.

It's both of them

Dirkcoyt:
The problem is Nigerians are not yet ready for movies online cost of data is not proportional to the income ratio of the people.

Most Nigerians earn from 50,000naira and below this set of people make up the bulk of the citizens in the south where they might give nollywood a chance to watch.

For you to watch movies on the Internet you need bulk data’s check the rate of bulk data’s from service producers then you see 12-17k as price!

How do someone with a pay of 50,000 below take out 12-17k to buy data to watch movies?you haven’t factor other family expenses.its not about paying 3k for subscription but about paying data to watch the subscription!

Even dstv have a dip in there Dstv subscribers cause you can’t expect people to pay 7k and above when power to watch that isn’t stable so people will rather go for Gotv and pay less than 2000naira!

Some can’t even maintain paying Gotv wvrymotnh this amount cause they’re hardly at home they rather buy 150# disc to watch latest nollywood or season film!

Yes if you have a dstv subscription you can watch on your mobile phone through dstv mobile app but the question is how many people are watching dstv through their mobile phone?practically little cause an average Nigeria can’t spend money to watch a full dstv with his data!

I know you will say but people watch YouTube and Instagram ! It’s a psychological thing people would rather watch Instagram of 1mins video and watch several different 1min content with data than watch 1hour plus of same content with data! Or watch their favorite YouTube music video of 4mins!

This problem is from the fact that an average Nigerian earn way too little to spend money so large on data to access internet tv.heck Nigerians will rather download a Hollywood movie and share offline than stream online l.so it’s not a case of Nollywood is bad content.

The purchasing power of Nigerians is low! An average Nigeria will rather buy petrol if 500naira inside I better pass my neighbor generator and put it on for 5hours and watch dvds/Gotv with lesser money spent

The way out is still the normal traditional way of absorbing content! Large chunk from DVDs and Gotv/startimes we just have to solve the piracy problem then the industry players will make money! Cause Netflix works in America doesn’t mean iroko will work in Nigeria !

the purchasing power of Nigerians need to improve for businesses to thrive in Nigeria

romenna:
Poor and lazy people will not cease to amaze me.
Their entitlement mentality is beyond imagination.
I work in a private firm and happen to be in d mgt team.
Companies are not charity organisations.
If you tink it's easy to start n run a company, proceed to cac n register urs.
U want him to pay u fat salaries n allowances ryt? Where do u expect d money to come from if u dnt meet ur target?
It is very idiotic to bash a firm online wen u r free to resign n leave them to crumble to ur satisfaction.

I Know one thing for sure

That it is NOT easy to start up a business at all....

I'm into businesses as well and I can agree with you on that 100 %

BUT THEN....

we should be fair to our staff (relatively) and the staff should also buckle up and give value for salaries paid

#DasAll