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packman: How do you react when your Husband spouse back home heavily drunk

Whether a man or a woman i don feel its rite to start nagging or quarreling your spouse when he/she is drunk nagging or quarreling a drunk person only provokes the person..

To me I feel the thing to do is to comfort your spouse at that moment and if you are not happy with it you can call he/she when he/she is sober to reason with he/she

I feel that's the best option

whats your take on this

First, i wouldn't marry a drunk or anyone who deems it fit to take to the bootle always.
Secondly, if man sensible ever sober husband were to come home drunk one day, i'll put him to bed no matter how digusted i am(which i will be) and when he's sober enough find out exactly what's wrong.
An abnormal attitude like that has to be triggered by something.
Afterwards he gets a piece of my mind and has to swear NEVER to try that again.

[quote author=190-the-clown]
well lets just say I have little faith in the ability of Nigerian men
to raise kids all by them selves

strange weird and can only happen in the movies [/quote]You're just trying to annoy me aint ya?
Any thoughtful man will consider the fact that the next woman he'll marry may not be a good mother to his ex wife's children. Wanting to avoid that is a good enough reason to single handedly raise them. That's selfless love my dear .
Now stop derailing this thread.

[quote author=190-the-clown]


compliment [/quote]Tsk i don't think you're sure you mean that.

You have so little faith in the ability of men, i wonder why.

[quote author=190-the-clown]na so [/quote]dunno if i should take this as an insult or compliment.

[quote author=190-the-clown]
And in how many cases have you heard or seen child raised by a MAN alone

he either re-marries or the kids are sent to live with a relative!
abeg check your surrounding enviroment before you talk (Jusskiddin) [/quote]I'm a living example. Single parent, 4kids, 1 man . Perfect role model huh

@190, So basically you're saying if she's raised by her mum then there may be issues, but if daddy raised her she's good to go? How sad.

onila: as for me i avoid n ignore them and avoid any contact with them

2 prevent cheating or flirting that wld be considered as cheating

you didn't even answer your own question.

Dream come true .

It shouldn't matter if her family state hasn't affected her negatively.

That was exhausting, but in a good way. OP made some good points.

*subscribing*

Great story Lola.luv. Now that i'm here plz don't keep me waiting for updates. I dey provoke quick.....

Why u wan pour sand for the guy ijebu garri?

Ofcourse they can.
Do you think we're all genetically engineered to lie?
Na wa oo

His face -Smile (esp with dimples), eyes.
I like cute guys generally but i love a sharp mind better.

Love is unconditional,
Love is sacrificial,
Love is God,
Love is me .

[quote author=Mynd_44]Some people do it a lot but to me, I think they are falling in love with a character which the person portrays and most times, It is a false one[/quote]this.

You fall in love with an image you've created in ur head. Nothing safe about that.

How do u go about falling in love with someone you've never seen?

S.ex killz

If she's the trigger, then she changed you.

Alkaline