₦airaland Forum

Iyaebe:
Foreign women use and see them as intimacy gadgets and they think it's an achievement

the last I heard women love huge Love Machine (gadget),so why travel so far away if it wasn't worth it

Ladycewhy:
Mteeeew.
I really have no sympathy for people who indulge in things like this.

never knew you hate cultists

MYHUBBY:
even at that does she deserved to died? how is freedom of association an excuse to take another fellow human life?



the person that killed her should not die again, what sort of stupidity is going on in southwest? when did westerners now love money than human like Easterners ?

can u carry hot coal in your hands without getting burnt

sapientia:
Most family don't deserve children

She is barely dead and they are already killing her image

Imagine if that girl killed inside a BRT bus didn't do video and call for help

Maybe someone will be somewhere ranting that she hung with yahoo boys

We Nigerians contributed in making our police very lazy and unprofessional

would they lie against her

Kobojunkie:
Let's wait till marriage actually happens to you and then we can talk again then.

marriage happens to a woman ,a man gets married when he wants to

The man performs the action while the woman is the recipient

mixta140:
You know nothing John snow

are u the red hair wildling

Kobojunkie:
The absence of rules leads to even greater contention in relationships and this from either sides. So try to avoid relationships that are not clearly defined so as to avoid becoming the contentious partner in it.

if am ever contentious it would be in a business deal not in marriage

As a man am the head of ma home any woman that cannot respect should run along

Kobojunkie:
Every relationship is a contract, and so when you violate that contract or you cause contention, expect consequences to follow.

I so happen to like rules as such desist from breaking them ,but in the absence of such rules the man makes them cos he is the head

AGAIN MEN ARE NOT CONTENTIOUS IN MARRIAGE

SLEEP WELL

Kobojunkie:
What relationship rules do you know of?

Let's see

Get a relationship contract with rules stating the do's and don't

Whoever violates the rules in the contract gets penalise (from big bang theory)

Kobojunkie:
Again... Marriage is just a relationship like every other out there. You are the same one who drew inferences between this and animals, even the relationship between a president and his vice earlier. Suddenly, you want to pretend marriage is somehow different?

The same rules that apply as far as relationships out there, apply even in marriage..

what rule

Kobojunkie:
Marriage is just a relationship like every other out there. You are the same one who drew inferences between this and animals, even the relationship between a president and his vice earlier. Suddenly, you want to pretend marriage is somehow different?

The same rules that apply as far as relationships out there, apply even in marriage..

in marriage the man is the head ,if u don't like his directives divorce him ,IF YOU MUST STAY YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW HIS LEED

Simple as ABC

Kobojunkie:
1. Pretty much the same way a president is able to abuse his power and privilege.

2. I have no clue what you are rambling about here..

3. Again, Contentiousness has no gender divide to it. As the dictionary even informs you simply, a man can be just as contentious as a woman is.

not in marriage

Kobojunkie:
1. Are some of these men wearing these "head" badges in their relationships given to making orders to soot their egos, as opposed to the general welfare of their household? If yes, then these men can indeed be contentious in their behavior.

2. A power struggle typically forms when a one given power to rule abuses such power, causing those who are previously submitted to the hierarchy to rise up in revolt. So when a man wearing this "head" cap abuses his role, he becomes contentious and those who rise up against him are his contenders.

how do these men abuse their roles ,need I remind you these women knew the said men before they got married ,they knew of the said flaws before they said yes

In truth they taught they could get these men in line by subtle manipulation ,sexual starvation etc and When these fail they play the victims card

So ma dear men aren't contentious only women who gat no more cards to play

I cum in peace

Kobojunkie:

As you can clearly see above, from the dictionary meaning of the word itself, there exists no gender divide as far as the application of the word is concerned. Just as you have contentious females so also you have contentious males. End of story!

ogbeni I no meaning of contentious

Wetin man dey contend with woman for

As the head/leader you give directives

Is like saying the president is contentious with his vice or the earth is contesting with the sun,perhaps the judge and an accused

To contend with a person indicates a power struggle ,the woman was made for the man not the other way round

It's the womans feeble attempt to subdue a man in marriage that is called contention (in marriage)

IN MARRIAGE THERE ARE NO CONTENTIOUS MEN ONLY WOMEN

Grammatically you are right but in marriage you are wrong

Kobojunkie:
I am not certain what the animals references have to do with anything. As I already tried explaining from earlier, this has nothing to do with how a person chooses to view or place himself in a relationship.

A contentious man is that regardless of titles and the same goes for a contentious women.

are men plants

There are things that cannot be altered , tempering with such would only lead to destruction

Men are stronger than women for a reason

If as a woman you cannot accept the leadership of a man it's best to stay unmarried,cos if succed in subduing such a man you would give birth to males who are weaklings and females who are macho (it's evolutionary )

As to ur first question the strength and size of the female/male is used to tell if it's a matriachy or patriarchy system

A man has nothing to contend for with a woman cause he is the head of the home ,the only exception are men who grew up with a subdued father figure

I cum in peace

Kobojunkie:
A man is only head of his home if his wife agrees to letting him live as such. Even in such a case, if he breaches the agreement which is his marriage, he becomes a contentious character in even that marriage.

a man is the head cause he is stronger ,more capable than the woman,the woman has no right letting him

The loin heads a pride cause he is stronger than the female

The male tiger heads the female cause it's more powerful than her

The earth revolves around the sun cause it's gravitational force is smaller compared to it

In animals than Practice matrachy the females are usually bigger than the male

So my dear until women become as strong and fit as men it is a patriarchy

* The only reason they are contentious is cos men have grown emotional (feel pity on them)

A lioness wouldn't last five minutes if it stood up to the male of its pride

I cum in peace

Kobojunkie:
The same solution that exists for a contentious man obviously.

never heard of a contentious man before

What is he contending for when he is the head of the home

oluseyiforjesus:
Prayer, counseling, if ds two didn't work den better separate

exactly what I tell folks notwithstanding no woman can bad mouth me cause I worst for that area ,the only way I would beat a woman is if she threw the first punch

don89:
Instead of hitting a woman ,just use cane romantically for moderate correction .

you worst I swear

Bodmum:
mad States with insane occupants
I know the North will dominate the list, fanatics

for every reaction there is an action ,I don't go physical on anybody unless they strike first (whether man or woman),if u hit a man be ready to receive one like a man

I cum in peace

oluseyiforjesus:
When n where did dey do d counting
Any man dat raise his hand to beat a woman is an animal if she's your wife then u are a beast

what is the solution for a contentious woman

Angelfrost:
Calm down oga... The man set himself up for disgrace by proposing publicly.

There is a reason we continue to warn or advise against public marriage proposals, but many of us will never learn or have sense.

When did it become law that whenever anyone proposes to a lady she has no choice but to accept... Nah! A lady or guy is even permitted to turn away at the altar, not to speak of proposal.

If after the rejection, the man feels hard done by, and wants his 'investments' back, then they can sit down like adults and iron out the returns... Not acting like an animal in public, bringing further disgrace upon himself.

the same way they sat him down like adult while rejecting the proposal

I gat no business proposing to a woman, if I go marry u Na bride price we go talk about

If u get mind reject man for public common sense suppose tell u say ,u no suppose use anything when him buy for u

Angelfrost:
All proposals are equally subject to acceptance and rejection... That's why it's called a 'Proposal' (look up the word)!

It would have been an entirely different matter if an agreement was reached by both parties to actually get married prior to dating, in which case a proposal would not have been necessary. You don't propose marriage to someone who has already agreed to marry you.

she disgraced the man publicly and deserves same

I cum in peace

If u wouldn't marry someone give him/her whatever they gave to u ,stop been smart by half

Shetemi12:
First of all, this is so disappointing Lagos state Government hasn't made a stand yet. A public bus been used for kidnapping is just out of this world

Na only women death dem dey investigate for this country self

rickleye:
Wonders shall never end ...
So he wants to get all the things he bought for her. hmm!.
Does she get the all the "Whoopie" they had all this while.
Or all the km or miles he used on her kittycat !

Dude, walk away - while you are still called a man !

sex involves two partners

If a woman demands money or material things for it ,she is definitely a prostitute

If I go pay u for sex ,I go Bleep u the way dem dey Bleep ashewo (very rough) ,I would make sure u don't enjoy I atom of it

eldoradoxx:
The police need to immediately arrest and prosecute that criminal that stripped the poor girl naked. This is irritating. Nobody has the right to reduce the dignity of another like this, under any guise whatsoever. Police should use this to set a record for other would be deviants.

shebi the man was dignified when she rejected his proposal

CatANDratTHEORY:
Contribute without being rude.

did u consider the man's dignity when he was rejected publicly

girlygirlyMain:
He will pay dearly for dishonouring her.

HEAR ME LOUD AND CLEAR, GOD OUR CREATOR DOES NOT DO DISHONOUR!!!
That is why Joseph did not diagrace Mary when he found her to be with child.

The man in thia video (if it's not a skit) will pay in ways he cannot comprehend. No be everything dem dey put hand. How much is the cloth compared to her human dignity?
Shame!

no be for public she take reject the man

Do unto others what u want for urself

Mynd44:
There was once a debate amongst Americans as to if some American soldiers of a certain religion (not Muslim or Christian) should wear long beards and someone answered thus "I am not a soldier, I don't intend to join the army as I don't have the stomach to risk my life. These people are out there in the line of fire so I can be safe, the last thing I am worried about it has long or short their beard is"

Female police offficers are out their putting life at risk, are paid low, don't get respected enough yet are out there on the streets to keep it save against criminals. Something I am not doing so I can sleep well. The last thing I am bothered with is if they are wearing an extra scarf or not. This arguement over the dress is pointless and silly.

Let the officers dress this way, it does not violate their uniform

protect the street from whom

*Police when de rapo with criminal

When dey collect settlement from Igbo sellers

When go ask u for money before dem go invistigate case

When dey harass motorists dey forcefully collect their money

You sure say u dey stay Nigeria so

FavourWrites:
Please help me Nairalander! Do I have a medical problem? Why do I forget things a lot?

Here’s the thing, I am someone who forgets things a lot. This may not sound like a big deal to you, but this problem is ruining the relationship I have with people.

There’ll be times when my friends would call telling me to do stuff for them, and the next day when we meet and they ask for the feedback, I’ll be there looking stupid because I didn’t remember them calling me at all. This is a problem because most times they think I faking the fact that I failed to remember.

I’ll be nineteen in a few months but I’m seriously worried for myself. I’m the kind of person who buys about three PEN every single day because I always forget where I dropped the last ones.

Don’t get me wrong, I do well in school, I currently have a 4.8 CGPA. The things I’m taught in school always seem to stick in my head, but every other thing doesn’t.

I have lost a lot of valuable friends because of this. Yes! It’s that bad.

There was a time I had a huge quarrel with a toxic friend, we ended up breaking up our friendship. But when the next semester began, I started wondering why she wasn’t talking to me. I tried approaching her but she ignored me.

I didn’t understand her behavior until the day I was flipping through my diary where I read that I had quarreled with her.

Please, I need help! My mum complains a lot about my behavior! Do I have a medical condition?

This problem is so bad that I had to buy a bracelet that connects my phone to my hand because I have lost count of how many times my phone slipped out of my hands.
If not for the sound that my phone makes when it hits the floor, I never would have known that it slipped off my hands.

I can’t write all of the experiences I’ve had, but please I need help! I’m tired of carrying a book Jotter/planner around, and I’m tired of setting an alarm for something small like “TAKE THE CUP BACK TO THE KITCHEN".

HELP ME!

you mostly forget things when ur brain isn't supplied oxygen for a period of time

That memory let's say 5min would be lost to you ,it may come back but it rarely do

This happens to me a lot (at most 30min- 2hrs)

They was a time I forgot what I did in the night

NyamiriFlathead:
All hail Tinubu, our incoming president
Can anybody stops a moving train, if it is no then nobody can stop Tinubu from becoming president come 2023, he is the one we want, he is the one we love and he is the one we want to cast our votes for
Inconsequential ipob pigs from shithole beerfraud land can continue to hate, their hatred and wailing can never stop him
MAY GOD CONTINUE TO PROTECT TINUBU

suffer no dey tire u?

Mine are

* Harry Potter by jk Rowling
*vampire journal by Morgan rice
* The Avery black series (cause to run, cause to save etc

Of crown and glory by Morgan rice

The survival triology by Morgan rice

The warlock

Vampire legend by Morgan rice(in fact all Morgan rice books)

Pls add urs (feel free to criticize mine if need be)