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 Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 7:24pm On Oct 21, 2013*. Modified: 8:05pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
well sha, brothers are bias when it comes to hijab as prescribe within the sharia for both men and women... Am a living witness and am sure brothers*if they wanna be sincere* can testify that truly, they are more interested in sisters' hijab than theirs... I can understand why though but you will see a clean shaven brother with his trousers or garment overflowing its boundaries telling a sister the qualities of women jilbab and forgetting that his garment has got qualities too.... Think the brothers are just looking after us and I appreciate it*shukran jazeelan* but do not forget yourselves too.... *winks* bro Esji, I have modified to answer your questions... Scroll up |
| Islam › Re: Lodge Your Complaints Here by ummsulaym(f): 8:15am On Oct 21, 2013*. Modified: 4:30am On Oct 28, 2013 |
babylolaroy: lol...so yu dnt wanna go start a thread?...well i should help you thennot really so... Getting most of my questions answered anyways... Thanks #modified |
| Nairaland General › Re: Happy Birthday Mukina2 by ummsulaym(f): 3:38am On Oct 21, 2013*. Modified: 4:14pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
going by the gregorian calendar, guess is today again  HBD ya ukhtee |
| Islam › Re: Lodge Your Complaints Here by ummsulaym(f): 12:25am On Oct 21, 2013 |
It's manageable if there isn't a thread like that for 'just' muslims... Me feel that I could ask a question and 'non-muslims' will turn it to a topic of dicussion far from my intention/purpose... There are questions that only muslims reserve the right to answer because of our understanding of the deen... I wanna say thanks for sharing that thread, I learnt so much from there... |
| Health › Re: Thread For Weed Smokers. by ummsulaym(f): 11:28pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
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| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 4:10pm On Oct 20, 2013*. Modified: 4:45pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
Esji80: **Questionssis sissie question-answered your question gbaskilly*coined from gbaski*... Really, that's a straight foward answer she gave even though in a question format... This is a personal answer, should I say contribution: 1) Though nothing is impossibible with Allah SWT but if a sis couldnt embrace the usage of hijab from primary, secondary and finally pass through higher institution, it just normally becomes 'tougher' to embrace it when a graduate... There are exceptions though but that's how best I can answer that 2) On personal ground, I wouldn't wish or pray to be a second wife not to talk of 3rd or 4th... Other(s)*if my hubby wills to take more* can join me but I love being first... Can't explain it better but I love to be the first i.e if not the 'only'*winks* 3) Allah has made 1-4 permissible and HE is the most wise so I cannot question that rather than pray for the heart to act right 'if' my man ever takes another... But answering why I'll prefer being the only wife is better understood if you put yourself in my shoes which is ''the wife you love so much, the mother of your children, living under the same roof with you but shared with another man or men and you are aware but have to continue living with that''... It's better understood by sisters but All I ask Allah for is to help me bear it with love for my husband and co-wives*if I will ever have any* but bro, the condition that i wount stay under the same roof with the co-wives needs be honoured by my husband... It's better when I dont see things happening... I wont and will never prevent my man from taking another wife*if he wills* reason being that he musn't have any reason whatsoever to 'near zina'... I want to make JANNAH with him*winks* wa Allahu a'alam |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 4:05pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Sissie: Nice, alhamdulillah. Oya come back and start posting, I miss you oh.tell am  |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 3:58pm On Oct 20, 2013*. Modified: 4:47pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
tbaba1234: I apologise if I said anything wrong or inappropriate. Esji80: It's alright.May HE for Whose sake you love eachother and settled amicably love you two... Am proud of you brothers and Wallahi, am very happy with the above quoted lines... KUDOS!!! 1 Like
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| Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ummsulaym(f): 1:10pm On Oct 20, 2013*. Modified: 4:49pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
*Subhanallah! My Nairaland account clocked one month of age yesterday,Alhamdulilah*LOL* but within this one month so far, this thread I rate the best thread I have visited.... There is so much about it. *I cannot mention names to give my 'KUDOS' cuz that will be a long list so kudos to all and ofcourse, moderators did lots of good work here...There is little or no mess... More grease! *I have learnt so much. I gave it my time and the more I read, the farther I wanna go... It's so full of lessons and I hope to find thread(s) that beat(s) this thread as my quest for knowledge, @least on NL continues... ************************************** May the love of God never depart from our hearts... Assalamu aleikum |
| Islam › Re: Lodge Your Complaints Here by ummsulaym(f): 9:34pm On Oct 19, 2013 |
I know of a thread where muslim sisters meet to discuss sisters' affair and I also know of the thread where muslim singles meet to dicuss too but I dnt know if there is a thread for general Islamic issues so that one will not need to create a thread just to ask one or two questions. Please, direct me to the page if it's been created but if not, I suggest that one be created. Assalamu aleikum |
| Islam › Re: Welcome To Our Two-in-one Nikah! by ummsulaym(f): 12:17pm On Oct 19, 2013*. Modified: 4:56pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
bro pmc will not kill me o... I don't even know the names of those am to attend their wolimatil nikkah... Modify 'sharperly' ooo |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 9:12am On Oct 19, 2013 |
I didn't see sis sissie and sis deols yesterday o and I missed una... Hope all is well? Guess sis deols' absence is majorly as a result of her 'Idawo'... Whoever gets in contacts with her should say me success to her... I miss her posts |
| Islam › Re: Hajj Miracle: Sudanese Woman Regains Vision After Years Of Blindness by ummsulaym(f): 9:02am On Oct 19, 2013 |
tintingz: but jehova gave hitler evil brain to fight crusade right? Let be realistic.
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| Islam › Re: Hajj Miracle: Sudanese Woman Regains Vision After Years Of Blindness by ummsulaym(f): 8:46am On Oct 19, 2013 |
simbiatadesomi: This is not a man-made miracles whr mere mortals will promise dat if u com 2 a particular gatherin u will receive "miracles", this transpired btw a sincere pilgrim and the lord of d worlds, Allah, whr there was no middle man involved therefore no tricks applied.tell them... Dis one no be handkerchief miracle, no be olive oil miracle, no be miracle wey u go dey shout like say God na ur mate... Na wetin dey pain them be dat... Muslims dont need any T.B joshua or his likes to prove ISLAM as the best and comprehensive religion... The miracle of the sudanese woman is just an 'added' proof... **********ISLAM ALL THE WAY********** 1 Like |
| Islam › Re: Hajj Miracle: Sudanese Woman Regains Vision After Years Of Blindness by ummsulaym(f): 8:34am On Oct 19, 2013 |
digospel2: Somebody help me. Is there a portion of the quran where prophet mohammed perform miracle healing ?Of what need is it for Him to perform miracle when the greatest of all miracles 'AL-QURAN' was given to Him which he delivered to Us?... If the miracles of Jesus was what made you accepted and believed in Him, no doubt you would have rejected Him if GOD didn't permit him to perform those miracle... If you read your bible well or ask ur pastor questions, you will know that not all the past Prophets were sent to perform 'physical miracles'... Would you have accepted or rejected those prophets if you had met them? ***An advice***SEEK FOR KNOWLEDGE*** 1 Like |
| Islam › Re: Nathan Ellington: People In Football Are Unaware Of What Muslims Need To Do... by ummsulaym(f): 10:56pm On Oct 18, 2013*. Modified: 8:12am On Oct 19, 2013 |
The comments so far make me wonder if the 'Jesus Christ' muslims believed is the one christians take their name after to mean 'christ-like'/'followers of christ' because the christ that was describe according to the bible was the one who didnt even condemn an adulterous woman to death*not to talk of condemning one striving in the part of GOD*... Christians comments so far are 'bitter' and that make me believe my friend who said 'christians' are no more*very true*... Criticism is welcomed if the post calls for that but NO, the post didnt call for it... We fight *oh yes, we do* for a just cause but I don't know what's just about your criticism so far cuz the OP didnt insult anyone in his post*did he?* I'm unfollowing this thread cuz the more the comments, the more I believe christians are really incarnates of 'LUCIFER' who swore to make men associate something/someone with GOD in worship and to make the path to hell ATTRACTIVE and ADORABLE... Let the managers keep denying muslims of their right*that's all they can do*... But ISLAM has come to stay... No man can change that... To my muslim siblings, just know that even the Prophets of God (P.B.U.T) were rejected and threated badly by the people*lost souls* yet, they never gave up but served the ONE GOD and called to HIS service... May I also remind you dear muslim brothers and sisters that Prophet(S.A.W) said ''Islam will return to being strange again just as it was when it was new''*GLAD TIDINGS TO THE STRANGERS*... If getting a job to satisfy the flesh was better than services to GOD, Jesus would have succumb to satan*according to the bible* but NAY! He said ''man shall not leave by bread alone but by EVERYWORD that proceed from the mouth of GOD''... ***what will be will be but my deen AL-ISLAM will In Shaa Allah never be compromised*** 1 Like |
| Islam › Re: Nathan Ellington: People In Football Are Unaware Of What Muslims Need To Do... by ummsulaym(f): 7:42pm On Oct 18, 2013 |
Superking: O boi you really made me laugh.keep laughing but if shaving his beard is what he needs do to get started, Pete edochie will have no strand of beard else he will be no star... Have you ever asked yourself why all the prophets *Jesus included* keep beard? I can see a critic manager in the making. I don't want to derail this thread longer than it's been derailed but learn to speak good or keep mute... Just an advice! |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 2:22pm On Oct 18, 2013 |
babylolaroy: i see that the needy umu sulaym has been adequately served so diaz no need to kuma add my own. Be finewelcome on board sis... A special invitation to this thread: www.nairaland.com/1347088/muslim-sisters-circle |
| Islam › Re: Nathan Ellington: People In Football Are Unaware Of What Muslims Need To Do... by ummsulaym(f): 2:05pm On Oct 18, 2013*. Modified: 5:02pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
Hmmmm! Even in other fields, we have alot of muslims complaining of similar problems... I really don't know how being a practicing muslim affects productivity and/or efficiency at work if not positively... If they do not complain about this, they will complain about that... Imagine my lecturer asking If i want my future career jeorpadized *simply because of a veil*. I told him everyone dresses to work and this is my own dress code though a different style. He smiled and told me that 2 or less out of hundred organizations will hire me dressed like that. Can you imagine that! It's not as if he wished me bad but that shows how much he knows of 'Western criticism and hyprocrisy'... Our life and death are for Allah... May HE see everyone through and do the best for us and for dear brother Nathan Ellington in all endeavours. ***Wa'aleikumus-salam @OP***** 23 Likes
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| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 2:41pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
maclatunji: To be honest, I think he makes sense. Sex is important but it is not food or water, you won't die if you wait a few years jor.The zina part, i think it was just a threat... I've once told my dad so too, simple man! He said I should go ahead if that's what Qur'an has taught me so far and that I will only succeed in proving right those who think such of sisters.... Shikena! @sister sissie, that's principled daddies for u... It's ''take it or leave it'' LOL... Well, I am in year2 (supposing no strike, year3)and my main concern isn't the nikkah proper but @least my people(esp daddy) should know him... What my sis even said was ''proper introduction'' then my dad could ask the brother to wait till in my finals... U might want to ask if i cant tell it to the brother myself but I have and the brother has no problem at all but the question now is ''who is the brother to me and what state are we?'' I would have called him fiance and said we are courting but my sis said there is no such in islam especially when my people do not know him... My father isn't just against nikkah but doesn't want to meet anyone too.... Second reason why I want him to meet my dad is that there is bound to be 'another case' after intro and you will be surprised that before my dad and family will finally sign for NIKKAH*i.e if they/he will*, i will almost be rounding up(I wish I can explain this) but I know it's coming and the brother knows it too... Am not rushing*not @ all*, just preparing ahead & on time.... To all my bros and siss, I appreciate everyone and every suggestion made.... Jazakumullahu khayr |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 2:14pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
maclatunji: My advice to you is to ignore your father's objection for the moment and look deeply at yourself and the man you want to marry. Does it all make sense? If there are issues between the two of you, can you handle them properly? It is when you have properly addressed these questions that you should see your father's objection as an obstacle that you will seek help for overcoming.just like my dad... He insisted there is so much I needed to learn though he never really listed any but base on somethings you have pointed out, Guess I will give it a break but can one ever be prepared enough for marriage? Though I attend classes organized for such around school but I'll still not learn everything, some are just better experienced but sincerely bro, I appreciate and will take to your suggestion... Shukran! |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 2:03pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Esji80: Regarding your case(Marriage/Schooling),I"ve said all that I can say.I don't want to repeat my previous posts.But it seems you want the suggestions or opinions of sisters not brothers.*** Subhanallah! Brother, No ooo... Every opinion is welcome... If i had wanted only sisters' suggestions, i wouldnt be here but our corner... Am sorry if any of my post makes it seem so... Tnx all the same |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 1:53pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
tnx sis... But do u think there is any song or kind of music supported by islam? Have been hearing different things about that topic.... Some said it's haram in entirety, some said its ok if it doesnt have beatings while some others says beating or not, as long as the song content isn't offensive to Islam... Tnx again sis |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 9:16am On Oct 17, 2013 |
deols: Do you share the same fears with him?If you don't there could be a way out. Probably, it became convenient to just put the blame on him.*** NO! I dnt share the same fear with him *not at all*... What difference does it really make between 'a schooling mum/wife' and 'a working mum/wife?' *little or NO difference* deols: Usually, Children know what is expected of them and fall in line with the kind of life their parents would approve of. It is rare to find it the other way around.***very true... Think am just scared of 'displeasing' him... I have acted against his approval for some issues in the past but this nikkah issue is delicate and i want @least 90% of his approval... *guess am being too careful* deols: If you knew your father would not let you marry while studying, the possibility of bringing a man home at the time is slim..just saying sha.***just saying? Dat's the fact o! Guess i need a third party, someone he can listen to afterall, I have tangible reasons... Though before he left for hajj, I told him some funny things that I could swear moved him *just as my sis advised*... Most of my Aunties are christians and you know alotta christians aren't always mature enough for marriage until menopause is calling and these are the people advising my dad on 'my case'... I understand that some of them*even the muslims among them* are still not happy with certain 'changes' I've made... **********thanks sis but i will welcome suggestions as to what to do********** |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 8:36am On Oct 17, 2013 |
Esji80: Here:Ameen... Have been catching up with her revertion case and I wonder why they trouble her so much to the point of threatening her... Am sure if it was a muslim *even if na Imam pikin* that had converted and being disturbed this way, we no go hear word for naija again... Menawhile, may Allah S.W.T give her the strenght to carry on... It's a rise of another 'Jahliyah' where reverts are opposed like bad news... Whoever Allah guides, no one can misguide and whoever HE doesn't, no one can guide... May Allah keeps her 'GUIDED' |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 9:01pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
Esji80: Sister I strongly suggest d@ u seek for 3rd party intervention to marry within d earliest possible time.he fears that I will be distracted especially if Allah bless the union with a fruit and I am still in school... The way he do explain things makes it look like he is the one that will go though the stress... Guess he is just being 'fatherly'... I have bigger issues than he approving of it... The fear of what follows approval sometimes want to make me back down as if am flowing with his decision to graduate first |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 5:16pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
sisters, I've been hearing stuffs like 'only sisters party' organized mostly on Eid for sisters to get together... Just want to know what it's about and how its usually organized like the order of programe for instance... I will like to organize such sisters' get-together one of these EIDs... Jazakallahu khayr |
| Islam › Re: Why Do Non-Muslim Terrorists Get Little Press Coverage? by ummsulaym(f): 5:01pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
bro mahdino, the message is more of a lecture than just a comment and I really love and appreciate it... I've gained alot from here and will keep it for days ahead... ****Assalamu aleikum brother****
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| Islam › Re: Reflection Of Stoning The Devil in Muslim's character! by ummsulaym(f): 4:22pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
rafhell: Hey!! Why did you hide my postwe were derailing the thread and as moderators, they had to put things right... We should let it go and not blame them for hiding it. #Peace!!! |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by ummsulaym(f): 3:40pm On Oct 16, 2013*. Modified: 4:19pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
tbaba1234: Delaying marriage for too long increases corruption in the land. I know of a few stories where the parents kept rejecting suitors for their daughters with excuses like they have to obtain x or y degree before marriage and the girls end up pregnant or committing Zina. I am talking about religious sisters. Waiting is not ideal.can't get my dad to understand that... If he doesn't say you are too young, he says you need to graduate, now the going is getting smooth and his demand is a 'first class' by the end of next session to permit me to get married while schooling *first class my G.P no near*... Truth be told, they always give those reasons with the believe of wanting the best for us... May Allah do the best for us cuz HE is the best of planners |
