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They're both good-looking. This lady fine sha!
This guy looks familiar o, e come be like say naim break Risikat and Chiewendu's hearts.


Na play o but he looks familiar sha.

If you're here, a graduate and intend joining the Nigerian Army, do not make the mistake of going through regular! Regular Intakes dey different o and you'll start as s private soldier, be careful and do your research well.
My 2 cents.

That's how I interviewed one guy who was looking sickly after having taken the vaccine. I had to discharge him after about 5 minutes make he no go slump for my front make them no arrest me begin ask wetin happen to am, 'what did you do to him' yadayadayada, I no get body for suffering abeg. The way he spoke that day sef ehn, I just dey pray for mind.

That your signature dey very easy o.
Beware of fraudsters.

Okoroawusa:
Public school students in Kenya pay school fees...try that in Nigeria

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And it's so expensive again.

aremuforlife:
Men and miscalculation,
Some house wife's are the cause of men flirting around, they believe they are already married to the man, so they can do as they wish a play on the man emotion, they will deny the husband sex and start to play the victim game.

You people dha always find a way to turn it around and blame women eventually, can a woman ever be the victim and be innocent at all?
Chai!

Person put disruptor for his bio you no run.
I'm sorry you got scammed though, please cry if you must so that the weight can be reduced in your heart.
You'll rise from your fall, don't worry.
Also, you and the others should join hands and have him reported.

Criminals in suits are everywhere.

phemmyfour:
Dogs are more useful even in protection. Its not about percentage in DNA.

I love cats!!! I can't wait to get one.

Ororocelemi:
Bro don't cos they might tempt you Las las and if something negative happens they might say you used them for ritual. Leave dem and continue to assist them financially.

Thanks for your concern, I'm sure you mean well, however, I'm certain nothing will happen to them. What's money without moral and other support?
If I'm not supposed to relocate I'm sure I'll get a sign/warning.
Thank you once again for your concern.
Cheers.

ChiefSosa:
Wow I'm seriously mind blown right now! All those people are passing through a lot, especially being in the rural areas, not being adequately educated, poverty, etc Because I heard some of these folks give out their daughters in exchange for foodstuffs or certain positions in the village. They seriously need help.
True, Benue state ought to be one of the wealthiest states in the country but it keeps suffering due to negligence on the part of the government. They haven't been quite lucky with governors as the ones they keep getting are self-centred lots and hypocrites. If you're ever chanced, you can go visiting to see for yourself.
Girls could even sleep with men for as low as 200 naira.
Some people are lucky sha but the percentage is low compared to the ones who are suffering.
Any man wooing and/or demanding sex from an underaged girl deserves to be shot, buried and his grave should be dug every weekend so the dead body could be shot again. So creepy and weird.
Hakhakhakhakhakhak, lol, chief this is brutality at its peak. You don't even want to pity the corpse. >:
[b]I pray all your endeavors come through 'cause it's obvious you have good intentions for those girls. I really pray you meet the ones that need genuine help.
Amen brotherly. You're so kind.
My mom relocated 2 girls from the SW, they were given accommodation, food, clothes, jobs, etc She literally paid for everything they do, treated them like her own daughters and was planning to send them abroad for education, it was crazy that when they went back home: One got pregnant for an Okada man, while the other was more interested in being a slay queen.
That's because of the rise in peer pressure in the country, guys doing Yahoo to impress and ladies being carefree for God knows why and what?
The country is gradually burning and a lot of people are asleep. I must commend your mum for being so kind enough to lend a helping hand, it's not so easy to do so. Give her a huge hug for me once you see her.
But, in all and all: EVERY girl-child in the country needs a lot of help and protection. I'm still mind blown about what you just told me. I can't even close my mouth again sef....ahhh egbami o[/b]

True! Even the boy-child does need great orientation and support because once you leave out the boy-child and educate/provide for the girl-child, trouble will keep looking as that boy-child will most likely grow to ruin the society thereby making the society almost inhabitable for both genders.

You'd have to read the whole thing as I didn't know how to properly quote.
Also, do check you mail, I responded already.

You like South African ladies for being bold when it comes to sex but most guys criticize Nigerian ladies for being sexually active and all.
If that isn't hypocrisy then what is?

ChiefSosa:
Lol, my madam, don't mind me joor.... I just hate nonsense. The boy committed such a stupid crime.

Very silly crime.
I am not shocked because I served in Benue state and I saw a lot there. I'm even working towards relocating 2 girls from that state, I pray to have money soon so I can get them out of there. Girls get married as early as 10, one of the mums of my girls there told me her mum had her pretty young. I used to go to their hut almost everyday to ensure they were fine. The mum is in her 30s and already has grandchildren. I think she had her first child when she was 10/12 sha.
I cannot begin to write the crazy things hat happen in Benue.
One of the girls I intend relocating once I have money called me around last month to tell me a man is already wooing her (I am old her she must always call me to report things like this), her mother is in support, she's only 16 and I'm really worried for her. I can't wait to have money to relocate them and give them better lives. The other girl is 13 or so.
Things like this happen everyday in Benue state and is one of the worst places to have a girl child.

ChiefSosa:
I get you! But, it creeps me out for AOC to be around 14. It's even more creepy that the AOC in Nigeria was once 11.
Age 16/17 is manageable, especially for a girl. You know guys tend to have sex earlier than girls, so theirs is a bit different.
Parents really do have a lot to do, especially now that everything is getting crazier by the day. Even small children are acting all grown up now.
Although, the society is getting crazy, but we still have parents that's still raising their kids well. Parents need to monitor their kids' gadgets, entertainment types, kind of friends, etc Parents also need to be open minded and give listening ears to their kids, so that whenever the kid does something wrong, he/she will be confident enough to tell the parents, then the parents will help the child make better decisions next time.

I have a new diary on something like this (sexual assaults).
I also intend creating a thread with regards sex and kids when I'm chanced.

Iyaebe:
Can men ever survive and exist without a vagina? The answer is .....NO

Earth was made for both genders so neither can do without the other.

ChiefSosa:
Look at what the Mechanical engineer turned national Buffon is saying! The mischievous he-goat no know say e don 4cup. In the eyes of the law: HE IS TOTALLY GUILTY!!!
That girl is NOT going to jail/prison. She will only face some form of difficulty and ridicule from people she knows. She and the baby will be MOSTLY catered for by both families, while the most responsibilities will lay on that he-goat's family members. That boy is FINISHED, especially now that human right and his school is involved. Crimes against minors, especially females is one of the most hated crimes in prison. Those inmates will even insert broomsticks into his penis hole (*shrugs while grabbing my penis*).
The moment he enters prison, trust me HE IS FINISHED. Look at how a 400-level Mechanical engineering student just decided to ruin his life, after all the years of suffering and hard work from him and his parents.
The mother and village head should also be arrested for trying to cover up such crime. The officers should put a rope around the village head's neck, then drag him like a stubborn goat all the way from his house to the station.

Chief chief, be calming down.

Nanavati:
But the OP is not Jesus nau

If he's a Christian then he's expected to be Christlike.

Nanavati:
But the OP is not Jesus nau

If he's a Christian then he's expected to be Christlike.

As long as you're not doing anything illegal such as stealing, picking/loading/yahoo/wiring of funds/yahoo, rituals etc then I'm good (some people make the aforementioned career choices).
Also, anything that'll make us see once in 20 years no go too go for me because it's not always so easy for one parent to raise kids.

Even when Jesus met that adulterous woman at the well, he told her her past and present and told her to go and sin no more. Did he carry megaphone to announce it to the world? Did he report her? No! He only spoke to her and told her to go and sin no more.
Everyday, threads are created with regards women cheating and even get to front page (even the ones that aren't cheating). They trend and get to front page, even the ones that ridicule and subjugate women. Hardly will Nairalanders come here to tell us of their friends, colleagues, neighbors etc that cheat on their GFS, wives etc and if any thread like that is created (once in a blue moon do these threads get created), they hardly ever hit front page. I've been on Nairaland for over 2 years and I can say I've never seen threads like that on FP.

As for the woman, her egungun will soon enter express.
As for you OP, either you mind your business or you call the send the woman an anonymous message to let her know you're aware of her infidelity, tell her she'll ruin her home if she doesn't stop and ask how she'd feel if she was being cheated on by her husband.
Who knows if the woman isn't reciprocating what she's sure her husband is guilty of?
See, just do what's right.

SEGLIZ:
mandisunited.

Don't diss us like that joh.

E pain me sha.
Which club is Young Boys again? .
Everyone loses at some point so...
Unto the next match.
GGMU.

You look fit and good overall but the hair isn't it.
Either braiding it or barbing it will give you a better appearance.

It's a norm for people to die, death is the essence of life. RIP sha.

This is true to some extent.
I was learning furniture making in my final year, I initially wanted to train as as automobile reapaire but had the opportunity to get trained in furniture making. Iwould be required to carry MDFs, HDFs and other boards and things, I'd gum, tape, smoothen boards/wood etc that weren't the most tasking. I even started to make Kolo for everyone from bits of woods and boarded. I went everywhere with my boss unless I couldn't make it to work that day. We went to sites and market, I'd get home late s lot of times. I even ate bread, groundnut and coke taya, drank garri also
I'd get smiles and admirations from people who'd be surprised to see a lady training in that aspect. I had to pause when UI exams and project wan kill me before time.
I went for service and stayed there for a year and half but the good furniture making places I saw were really far from where I stayed.
I sha don dey hustle. before Nigeria will make someone's life frustrated and I'll begin to wonder if my life is having any meaning.
I have basic knowledge of other things.
Even if one doesn't have full knowledge, it's really good to know some things in other areas of life, makes life a bit simpler when you have an idea of different things.
Honestly, I'm certain my kids will acquire these skills (automobile repairs, furniture making, shoe making, plumbing and co).
Nigeria is tough, just continue with whatever it is you're doing if you don't have time to acquire skills that's take years to fully gain knowledge of.

Hey one of my children will not become a footballer laidis?

Havesomesense:
Truth Is Bitter. Bye!

You've only stated your opinion of yourself, you don't know me and I won't bother to make effort trying to convince you.
Have a great week.

Havesomesense:
Men that quit talking to you because you won't bulge is because other than sex to them, you have nothing else to offer.

However, even the men that are ok with just been friends still wish to bang you.

Many men are promiscuous, know this and have peace.

Keep your toxic opinion of me to yourself.
You don't know me and have no right to say I have no value. Do you even know me that you'd say such? I blame the women who have stooped low for this, not you.
I don't like disrespectful people so do well to keep off of my mention.

walkingshadow911:
Yes, because he who pays the piper dictates the tunes. If your partners are footing your bills, dont except mutual respect. cos people u think you can't live without can live without you.
This is eternal truth

The redpill

Modified: your fear is that the woman will get attached to your man and it might affect you but it wouldn't if he truely loves you. And the issue here is these girls we sleeps with are someone else own too, they will lose emotional connection with their man and the sociatal relationship problem gets recycled. This sexual escapades we so celebrates this days is what's making relationship and marriages often crashes like pack of cardsl

My fear is nothing, it is only a lady without value, self-respect and anything to offer or who solely depends on a man to exist that will take any rubbish that is dished to her.
I was raised well, even though I lost my dad early, I do not have daddy issues because he taught me great things and I learnt a lot from him. I am hardworking and have more than just my body.
I do not suffer from inferiority complex, pick me syndrome nor do I suffer from emotional issues.
I was raised properly not to condone whatever isn't fine by me that's truly negative. I also do not serve what I can't accept.
The reason marriages keep ending due to unfaithfulness is because some partners are selfish.
If you as a man believe that because a man is the provider then that gives him the right to do anything then I shake my head. This belief is one of the reasons there is a gradual decadence in marriages that work.
Some of you are blind to the fact that just like some men, some women are the providers (does that give her the right to be promiscuous?), Some women also contribute to the upliftment of the family, some women earn their own income and support the family, sometimes even when they man isn't financially buoyant.
In a relationship where the woman makes money and is supportive of the family, she is also required to;
Be emotionally supportive
Take care of the home which includes,
Cooking, cleaning, bathing the kids, making sure the home is peaceful, running errands, doing what's necessary when individuals are sick, pray for the family etc.
Some men are blind to what women do.
I will never make excuses for promiscuous women because promiscuity by any gender is WRONG!
Look, the truth is if some of these men were actually women, you wouldn't marry them. They're toxic but you don't see their toxicity because they're men.
Take note of comments guys here make daily on nairaland, would you marry some of them if they were women?!
If we all did unto others what we'd accept to be done to us then maybe we'd have some sort of self reflection and adjust to be better people.
Redpill this, redpill that! I am not afraid to confront anyone regardless of their perspectives or where they lie, if you're wrong, you're wrong and same goes for women who are promiscuous.
If you're partner is the reason you cheat (only because they cheat) then either you both talk about it, resolve it or go your separate ways.
Also, it's a good thing that men are the ones who determine the gender of a child, some of you will have daughters, hopefully karma doesn't come telling on them.
I am a sane person and I know and do what's right!
As for your Redpill quote, I can only smile.
I am not afraid of being in a relationship and getting married.
I am more than what my face or body is like and I wasn't raised to settle for less than I truly deserve. There are amazing men around the world who also believe in being faithful and being good like I believe, I will not end up with an egocentric, toxic, narcissistic and self-centred individual because I am not like that! Marriages work and mine will work by the grace of God.

Na loff, what's the woman worth?

lkillbrokehoes:
This your Photoshop skill is very wack, try again

I doubt it's photoshopped, people use that word a lot.

SenecaTheYonger:
If you have data, browse about STDs and check Google images

Lol, funniest response so far.
Leave him, trouble dey sleep he wan go wake am.