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Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).
Macron is way younger than his wife and younger than her children.
I think what you should be more concerned about is respect, do you both respect eachother regardless of the age difference? Even if you're older and neither of you respects the other, it might not work unless you both enjoy violence.
Personally, respect and other stuff are what I consider and not the age (especially if the age gap isn't much).
Anyway, no be Piqué, Macron and other people go decide for you.
What do you both want? How do you treat eachother?

SarutobiEky:
Lol. Crazy doesn't mean I'm evil o. Chillax, I'm just spontaneous. Good character all the way though. I'm quite meek. That's my weakness.

Meekness is your weakness? Interesting, at least it's better than some traits.
How do you do?

chatinent:
Person I wan marry.

That shouldn't deter you from going ahead.
Have you purchased the ring yet?

Iyaebe:
Omo mi where have you been? My day is going smoothly, just some groups and market issues to resolve lol, hope you full ground remain.

I just dey, I just dey observe o.
I've been fine, I bless God.
Are you in good health?
Iyaebe, Iyaebe, you just dey give me joy sha.

Candidlady:
Hmmmm


you stabbed someone to death cuz of "argument"

how do people stay in a toxic relationship? Asin it baffles me!

i rather have a monkey pet than date any man be you rich/poor/handsome/ugly/short gbola/long gbola/fair/dark/short/tall.

rest in peace BAW

Lol, about 5 years ago, I saw a post perhaps on Facebook from a guy who needed 'advice' on behalf of his friend, his friend and his fiancée had had a bit of altercation and the friend slapped her, the lady quit the relationship and left.
Now, the friend told his mum what happened and the mum told him that the woman wouldn't make a good wife simply because she couldn't take 'small correction slap', ah!!! Which one be correction slap now? The friend decided not to apologize and his mum saw nothing wrong even though he could have been the one at fault.
In 100 level, my roommates and I were having a discussion on violence in relationships when my bunkmate decided to gist us about someone she knew. These guys were engaged to be married in about a month or so. On one of the visits to her fiancé's place and while doing the dishes, she broke a mug, his favourite mug
She told him what happened when he arrived from his workplace and the next thing he did was to slap her! She removed the engagement ring, dropped it, removed her slippers, dusted them and left him for good. He went to apologize but she never went back to him.
I had a.floormate in 100 level back then who loved a certain guy I knew, we were all in 100 level o but this guy dey beat am steady, he'd embarrass her and do all sorts but na she go still dey beg and buy him gifts, chai! They were together for more than a year sha. I don't know if they broke up or not and I didn't bother asking her, the guy was an acquaintance of mine but I always advised her to leave the guy, she no gree listen. Omo, she go sit down dey cry everytime.
Some people just don't know how to leave toxic relationships.
I might be wrong or not entirely right but I'd like to believe that for some people, they become so clingy and desperate to be loved as well as stay in toxic relationships because they don't love themselves.
Some aren't from loving homes and they're badly affected and seek love and validation from people even if they're abusive.
Some people think they don't deserve love and so when they're in one, they become too attached no matter what goes on in the relationship.
Some stay in toxic relationships because some find it difficult starting afresh, especially the ones who have become so abused to point of it resulting in low self-esteem.
If you know much about narcissistic people, you'll know they're tricky individuals who know how to manipulate their lovers or victims into believing they're the real problem and not them. A narcissistic person might say something like ' you know I love you but you just have a way of making me lose my mind... Why do you like to frustrate me? I've warned you not to question me, warned you not to do this/where this/ say this..." Etc. They have a way of pushing projectintt their true thoughts and identity on people/lovers.
Some people stay because the people they're with are dangerous and might harm them if they try to leave.


The society also has a way of making some people stay in toxic relationships and by society, I mean friends, family members etc. Sometimes they aren't aware of the turbulence that exists in the relationship though.

Some stay because they believe they can't exist independently, some stay because of social status, what they have to gain. I read about a lady who was being beaten by her man and every time he did that, he'd apologize with a bigger or better gift than the last time he beat her. She was afraid to leave because he had rented a store for her mum, her sibling was in a private university courtesy of her darling abuser.
Some stay because they have absolutely no one or place to go back to.
There are numerous reasons I believe some people stay but I'll stop here biko.

Candidlady:
lol

you go drink jameson black barrel to use enjoy the show?

=kabiru bring another chair and tell nkechi to bring cup and two pepsi

Your head dey there.
He should also add stuffed grilled chicken with a bottle and the best brand of vodka they've got.
OLDESTWARRIBOY , which Kain lady you go like take hold body make dem arrange one for you.

Candidlady:
Kabiru please pass me that chair!

Make im bring two abeg.

Iyaebe:
Hmm i know the lady you are talking about,her Monika starts with "V" . I'll need your services and that of pansophist too since I'm 60+ and still hopeful. Are you in or not?

Iyaebe Iyaebe.
You never cease to make me laugh.
How're is your day going and how've you been?

That's why it's important to not let people *dictate* for you, take advice but be intentional and apply good ones with wisdom.
E don happen, if having kids is what you so desire then maybe you should consider other options of having kids. You can decide to have find someone who'd be interested in having sex with you without withdrawal method, you should or can also explain the aim to the person but ensure you both are healthy. Once you're pregnant then you're good, also, note that since this is what you want, the financial responsibility will have to be on you since you both it's you who wants a baby not him. Sha be careful if you intend going with this and get to know the person to some extent.
You can adopt etc.
If na husband and you dey find then maybe you should go to functions, seminars etc more
Whatever you do, be careful oooooo.

I don't know how egg boosting works but you can do findings especially where you're located (country).

ahnie:
Likely suffering from armesia.

If it's amnesia then that's bad o, it'd be difficult locating her relatives/friends/acquaintances.

gasparpisciotta:
The guy no even investigate the girl for area..!!!

She sef no investigate am for area.

He should be jailed asap.
Life imprisonment with hard labour.
His penis should be pricked at least 10 times daily after which water should be poured on him before he gets flogged.
Unrepentant violent people don't deserve to live free lives.

AZControversial:
They're religious fanatics.... it's near-impossible for them to think.

Allahu Akhbar!!! Omo, that's on a dangerous level, so brainwashed and blind.
AuzubiYesu/God minashaitan nirajeem o.

bepositive11:
Very well said. It's such a shame. Western influence has made dark skinned women think that they're ugly

Dark skin is BEAUTIFUL! And dark skinned women age so well!

Any complexion is beautiful, but just because a woman is dark doesn't mean that she's ugly

I personally look at the structure and features rather than skin color

I hope more dark skinned women would learn to love and appreciate themselves and their beautiful skin

I hope so too. I've been following some stuff and I've come to see that many black women are starting to date outside of their own community (the black community) and it's because they are undervalued and shamed. I've seen countless videos of some black men shaming black women and making them feel like the black woman is an angry, ratchety and lowlife soul. Some of them even go as far as saying they can't date black girls.
Nigeria isn't exempted. Honestly the disrespect and hate in the black community and against dark skinned people is high.
There are documentaries that discuss this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NEs3g5LVqPU
That's just one of the ones I find rather interesting.
Colourism is everywhere, even in Asia, Asians are brown and dark skinned and this is prevalent there especially in countries like the Philippines, India etc.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
yes I'm getting married hopefully soon... chatinent sister in-law. She's a Witness which means sex is for progeny reasons not for fun like you lot. So I don't need to know all these iron smell stuffs

Chantinent is a Witness? I won't believe until he says it himself.

No be you talk say you wan watch porn? Eish! You wey dey find 3some na you go marry and have sex solely for procreation, odikwa serious and funny ooooo. No more tape for you.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
you went and screenshot everything!! no be small thing.


You could have create your own article

No, I had to make y'all see it! It seems Mynd44 and his co-mods like to promote threads that demean ladies.
Una go learn by fire by force.
You, ChiefSosa and illicit especially.
I am preparing y'all for your future wives ( shoulf you decide to get married).

Afriqan:
2 & 3 for me but If I were to narrow it down further, I would go for 3.

There's something about dark skinned girls I have always liked. Sadly, a lot of these girls don't feel too comfy in their own skin, thinking they're not beautiful... It's such a turn off.

That's because of the colourism that exists in the black community. People be making it look like light skinned ladies are the prettiest! Just like racism, it's eaten deep and is one of the reasons bleaching is on the rise.
On more than one occasion, I've been with people and whilst talking about ladies, they mention how light people are more pretty than dark colour people and that's the honest truth.
As a dark skin person, I know the struggles and it's not every lady that can stand being made to feel like they're colour is ugly! People should just stop exalting one skin colour at the detriment of others. You can have your preferences but do not discuss is and make other people with lighter or darker skin colour feel less than they really are.

Bleaching won't end until colourism ends.