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Vickyboy24:
Good evening nairalandere,as this group is the most active here,I decided to post...
The question I'm about to ask might help other persons as well..please do well to comment your opinion ...thank you...

Please I'm 19years old,by next year,would be 20...and right now,I'm not getting any younger again...it aches my heart that I don't have any skill doing...most times I wonder is studying in naija worth it...I do come to an opinion that it worth it but can you survive without a skill...a tough question....
Please,nairalandere,I would like to ask..what skill can I learn to help better myself,my future,my life....I'm not a computer person...if you have anything apart from computer stuffs,please share...I don't know how to do business..like all those goods stuff....

Please any opinion you have for me...please share...Thank you...have a nice Sunday Evening...

Furniture making, automobile repair, barbing, painting, etc.

joseph1832:
hehehe. Ain't no such thing like am overused dick, babe. It's why a 90 year old man can still make a woman cum.

Lol, hypocrisy.
When a lady is sexually active even with two guys, she's seen as a hoe, on the other hand, if a guy has multiple sex partners (say 5 upward) he's seen as cool.

Tony142:
hahahaha, I laugh, what if I tell u all u wrote up there are just theory? and not practical?


if a guy u know 2weeks ago tell u directly that he want just sex from u, I am 100% sure u will reject him with the mindset that "He does not love me, he only want my body for sex"



pls do not tell people what you yourself do not practice, I hate it

Lol, talking.like you know me.

These SA guys are too bitter when it comes to Nigeria.
If a lady decides to twerk for Nigerian guys what's wrong there? They should channel their anger towards making money biko!
It's not their fault sha. We don't respect ourselves in this country.

Amotolongbo:
shower me with onions before I can respond

your head dey there, lol.

I think the most important thing to always do before you as a lady or guy have sex with anyone is to let the other person know from the onset (before sex) what you want.
I'd like to have free pussy or dick
I'd love for us to be friends with benefits
I'd love to be in a relationship with you.
I'd love for us to date with sex or no sex involved.
Set it all our straight and I'd the other person is in for it then great!
It'd save us unnecessary stuff.

Must you cheat? Nawao.

Inform the dude and get a DNA test carried out once you've delivered. If he doesn't help with raising the kids then ensure you do that yourself.
Ladies, if you must have premarital sex, ensure he wears a condom and if you notice he doesn't like CDs please get yourself enough female condoms. It'll save you a whole lot more than you think.
I like it raw naim dey cause unwanted pregnancy and in the end, you'll be blamed by so-called saints, even if you were faithful and aren't promiscuous dudes who are worse than prostitutes will start talking about how cheap you are, how you're a hoe when they aren't any better.
A lot of times, ladies get all the blames and insults.
By the way, why are there morning after pills?

Disheartening and scary news everyday.

Powerfly:
If he says 'come and visit me.' baby re-strategise and visit when you're on the second day of your menstrual period.
That's what i do to ensure nothing will happen.
don't announce that you're on your period.. Just surprise him.. Guys love surprises.

Well, some people are opportunistic, when they ask that you visit them then it is about sex. Even if you get raped or something, they'll still lie about you having initiated the sex, you're a hoe, yadayadayada.
About menstrual stuff, it seems as if you never jam guy that loves period sex abi?
I rarely visit, if I have to then ah, it must mean I really know you or we meet in an open place.

joseph1832:
as if the vagina hasn't been disorganize before. Lol

As if the dick hasn't been overused.

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave these planet for you people?!

Ah, see,.brotherly, may God bless you immensely.

WandaMaximoff:
How that kind of marriage wan last abeg?

It will.

Ofemmanu1:
Awusa?!
son of a cow?!

What does this mean?

PremzY002:
I could have been among those commenting boldly here (being married).

But I made the greatest mistake of my life.


You see....

We were the perfect match.

Our love was divine.

She promised me eternal loyalty.

I felt like a king.

Yes of course....! I could take a bullet for her.


All these changed the day I went through her Facebook chat (not whatsapp ).

I discovered that I was nearly her '13th sweetheart'

That her veejay (hole between her legs) was running a 'feed the nation' program.


Anyway, I would marry blindly or by recommendation.

'Love' can go to hell cos it's a scam.


Hopefully, what I get might be 'the one' destined by heaven.

But if it's not, I'd simply endure till I get my 4th kid.

Then divorce the jezebel.


PLEASE...!!!

If you truly love your woman, NEVER open her Facebook messenger chats.

Some.men also cheat.

ZIINI:
If truly you're saying the truth
Then I give Kudos to you
If we gather 100% of women together those that depend on their main hustle like you are just 6% the rest are hoes both married, unmarried, young,& old
spent 6 days at a very popular hotel here in IB and what I saw every evening is not pleasing
I came out at around 11:20pm on Saturday outside the hotel and my aspirations for marriage drown from 76% to 0.00000% .
In short I pity any nigarrr that will get married or that is getting married now he's gon wife a how.

We're also scared of getting married to violent men! I'm scared of getting married to someone who will pretend and then when we get married, the battery commences, the lies, deceit, cheating etc.
Good ladies are also scared bro, do you think you are the only ones who are scared of marriage.
If I live to see more days, I am not 100 percent sure I'll get married.
Narcissism is of both genders.
And of course, with regards my quotwd comment, you do not have to believe.

That's if they do not dispose dirt into it.

Bodyodour:
Why are you guys so bitter seeing a guy and his relationship prospering?? Why do you guys trying to influence people with ur stupid redpill stuffs? Just today,someone posted his pre-wedding photos and the comments I saw was really disgusting. Jeez!!

Abeg make una stop all this nonsense,if ur girl don break ur heart,repair it and stop displaying all this toxic actions here.

The mata taya me sef they'll be acting like saints and some of them.are even lying about all they say.

Escabado:
Yes but we know that majority of Nigerian ladies are hoes like u called them. Even the ones that earn 300k salary are still hoes , they are still looking for richer men that will sleep with them ànd give them Money. Nigerian girls are extremely corrupt. May be 10 our of 10 million are good

Oh, true, just the way the men are thieves, ritualists. They earn well but are still greedy that they are into rituals and yahoo.

[quote author=vicmac09 post=95995935][/quote]No, I am not trying to impress men okay! I just had to let him know there are hardworking people whether male or female! There are people who make their own money and don't have to sleep around or steal to Kae care of themselves, I don't usually talk about myself unless I really need to drive home a point! Nairaland is getting more annoying daily, a lot of men here keep trashing women and it's wrong! Talk to them not me, they're the ones who need the correction!
This lady is dead and there's no need to hurl insults at her, the best you can say is 'everyone should be careful about where they go and people the role with' and not 'she must have been a runs girl!'

ZIINI:
And that of women too Ode how are you sure that she was killed by a man

Lol, that's how it is said bruv! And man doesnt connote just the male gender! It's used for both genders oga!

Escabado:
She can be a sales girl and still be doing runs. Are you telling us is the salary from the sales girl job she use to buy clothes and pay all her bills ? Anyways rip to her. U girls should stop asking men for money because u will Definitely pay back in one way or the other. No man is a fooool

Look at you! It's annoying to think that some people can't fend for themselves, if she had wanted to do runs then she could have left the sales girl job if it wasn't paying her bills. I partially put myself through school by teaching, selling cloths and hair and skin oils. I was a full time student in UI and missed almost all of my German language classes because I had to travel to Lagos every Thursday to Lagos to get cloths and come back either Sunday or Monday. I have been fending for myself fully since 2012!!! No one buys me cloths, shoes and co okay!!! That mentality females are lazy, can't fend for themselves, are dependent on men and co is a dirty and annoying one! Oh yea, if ladies are all runs girls then all guys are frauds, they are into yahoo, ritual, some of you are gigolos, gays who get paid by your sugar daddies to fend for yourselves. Stop freaking trashing ladies! Yes, I have lost a lot of help because I've refused to do what some men want! STOP FREAKING MAKING LADIES LOOK LIKE HOES!!!! IT IS ANNOYING!

Mutemenot:
Wont say Congrats cos some marriage with kids no near 8 years .. only u can explain what u Saw in her over 8 years.
All d best

Did you read it well? What he saw in her or what she saw in him? She stood by him through thick and thin. The way some people feel like men are doing women favour always ehn, nawao.

Lol.
From grade 6 to grade 9, I was never whipped but I think I was whipped about 3 times from ss1- 3, on one of those times, I actually caused a scene because I had an embarrassing issue then. I can't remember why I was whipped those times though.

If you fail to see that there are hardworking and independent ladies in Nigeria then please stick to your abroad girls, no one is forcing you to like naija babes. It is sickening to see that many guys believe that all Nigerian or a vast majority of ladies are the same here in Nigeria, oga, even abroad ladies have their own issues and if you think they're perfect then please go with them, if you don't marry Nigerian babes no one will notice and it isn't anyone's problem.
By the way, there's something called privacy, you have no right to also that lady because no one ever called you into their conversation. Go work on your temperament, some men be thinking Nigerian men are perfect as well!

Oba aiku, Oba airi, arubo ojo, alewileshe, aleshelewi, awimayehun, alagbada Una, owo kembe re ibi ija, arabataribiti, kinihun eya Juda, atobiju, ogbeni Nina keruobonija, Olori awon wooli.
My Yoruba is poor sha!

Oga, the energy you put into coming online to spread your dirty linen line would have been put to better use of you had taken the time to talk to her in a loving manner, correct her out of love for her and not out of anger. Ask her what she'd do if she lived with someone who did this, that'll help.her change. Tell her she would not love it if you did that.

When a person cheats, confront the one who cheats and not the person with whom they cheat! It's a disgraceful thing to do.