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I am my bf and I'm AA.

Losing all I have worked for this yearz devastating! And the day I left where I served, I had to alight in Ondo state because I do not like night journey, well, the person who was going to take me to my host was in church and I needed to pee, no light outside the church but people were there, decided to go to a corner out of sight, as I was walking and speaking to my brother on the phone, something told me to stop walking, I did and put on my phone's torch, lo and behold, I was just about a step into falling into the deepest pit I've ever seen and that pit would have claimed my life. I would have died and left the one person who's been through a lot with me, the one person that means a lot to me, my brother and I can bet he most likely would have ended things himself. I was shocked and truly, there only is a thin line between life and death, that pit was my thin line, the next step would have had me long dead and the numerous sicknesses I experienced this year sha, I kept having malaria/typhoid rebound.

CalliDora1:
Why do you think you can cope with a new man if you couldn't cope with the father of your three kids? Or you're just out to have fun, use and dump them?

Anyways, its your life.

Please don't take this personal. It's just a harmless question though.

What if she wasn't the problem?

How do you sell beans/pod?

It's really at the brink of collapsing.

Wait a while, make.more money and grow mentally and emotionally then get married but be responsible for the child.

When are Nairaland's redpill reps? Come and declare this man a simp!

Mynd44:
This man is me, I an this man.

House husband is the way to go. My wife should go and work, focus on Her career and let me be chopping life and watching TV.

Cooking and cleaning? We can employ domestic staff or I can just use it as my workout routine.

I want the joys of driving my kids to school and picking them, attending their extra-curricular activities and being their supporters. Make their mama go work abeg. I cannot work until my old age.

Kikikikikikikikikikikk, you'll be responsible for taking care of the kids from childhood, won't you? This entails washing their cloths, bathing them, cooking and feeding them, making sure the house is clean, ensuring their safety, grocery shopping, going to docto'a appointments with them etc, also you might be required to also have a job even if it doesn't pay that much or at least, have a business and contribute as well. Abi?

How sad. Please cry if you must. Time will heal your maybe not completely butt a little bit.
I've lost loved ones and the most painful one, my dad.
I have not yet gotten over the death of my dad and in 3 months, it'll be 15 years since his demise, I still cry everyday like I used to. See a therapist if you think you need one. I'm sorry, I pray you heal.

Have you tried talking to him? If yes and futile, please put him in him place, ignore his existence, ghost him and watch your back, from what I can deduce here, he's capable of harming you.

Cptflint:
What of military?
Petrol chemical workers?
Federal inland revenue workers?
Politicians
And sultan.. Emirs.. Olubadans.. All these royal fathers?

Military personnel don't get paid well for literally giving up their freedom and willingness to die for the country. Whatever they get paid is peanuts! How much do you think they receive? Especially soldiers (talking about non officers), even senior NCOs earn little, the worst of them all are private soldiers.

They're pessimistic and they do the label so well they are blind to their own faults. In their eyes, they themselves are perfect!

Indeed, problem no dey finish! I thought about all the things that have happened to me this year and said this same thing to myself and decided to make yogurt and granola, Omo, wahala no dey finish was my caption on whatsapp yesterday and today.
We'll be alright in the end.
Sending you e-granola, enjoy. Lol.

iAbduul:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2W_Yp5ZUlo

Nice! I watched because he was my all time favourite. I was awake watching CNN when he was pronounced dead. How sad.

'ladies are hoes, girls are hoes' of course, men are saints!

If I know your mum still lives and you call me that, I'll just respond with "your mum is at home".

Hopefully, I'll get better.
That's the spirit!

Great008:
LOL. I don't know what else you want to know.

I have some hints about myself already.

And I am not demanding much from anyone.

Just be serious about building a home, then you have got a man who will sacrifice all to make that happen

Wondafu!

proxillin:
Warranted. The way they make men look as if they are nothing.

Exactly what alphamales do.
Make women look like they're nothing.
If you see something wrong with alphafemales doing this, then something is definitely wrong! You cannot complain about one and disregard or excuse the other.

I wish you both good health, joy, wealth success, kids (if you want kids) and unlimited blessings. Enjoy.

CodeTemplar:
Above your head and every other principality and power.

what a savage response! Lol.

meobizy:
If you stay long enough without the person you’ll learn to appreciate leaving them. Only women regret a breakup, men should never.

No, not true.

mezico96:
"Un peu de gentillesse ne ferait pas de mal. Dennez toujours un coup de main si cela est votre pouvoir. ISN'T DEATH INEVITABLE" Does it sound familiar to you?

It sounds like incantations in merlin �

Not at all, it's french and means 'a little bit of kindness wouldn't hurt. Always lend a helping hand if it's in your power.'

I've been following this news since it occurred and I have learnt a lot from it and also have questions for Muslims. Muslims, why does Islam/prophet Muhammad ask that Jews, Christians and other non Muslims who are regarded as infidels be killed? I know a lot of things that are contained in the Qur'an that you do not even know and if I start to talk about them, it might cause a rift. A guy recently killed a lady had been wooing because she refused to marry him and convert to.Islam, it happens a lot in India and other places. We're just lucky and more tolerant here in Nigeria, go to the middle East, it's crazy and killing people who aren't Muslims or who counter your belief isn't it.
Don't get me wrong, I am very welcoming of people and very, very tolerant but where truth must be spoken, I voice out. Some Muslims are taking things too far and that's why Poland isn't welcoming of Muslims, neither is China. Exhibit the peace you say Islam stands for. A lot of Muslims are like "oh, Islam is a religion of peace but if you do this or that then we will not take it lightly with you."

mezico96:
cool...wise to know you more but your profile is really scary...more than the evil I've seen. is that French??

Scary? How so? What made you think that?

mezico96:
Are you in Benue?

No, not anymore. I was for a year and four months, recently left. I should be back there sha but not for long, probably a week or so.

adeolaSexy:
When you are too poor to provide for the poor girl, why won't she take to runs to make ends meet?

Is he her brother, father, uncle or cousin?
Giving should be from the heart and he shouldn't be compelled to foot all her responsibilities.
What does she contribute to his life? I'm female and I have a brother, I'd want him to provide but while he's not yet married to her, he is not compelled to be responsible for her 100% but should give according to his means.
By the way, runs isn't a job although I do not blame people who venture into it because I've seen people who do so so they can go to school and cater for their family members. I pray never to be in the worst situations of life that in the end, it'd be my last resort.

fati2001:
Wow.
So the dolly stories are popular too.


well back in Maiduguri.

a woman told us about Doll as a birthday present to her daughter..

well she said at night she will be hearing different sounds, in the morning the freezer filled with water will be empty... this goes on still one fateful day, she narrated it to someone else and got a advice.... on that night she took her children to her sis place and slept alone..... and the night walker carried out the operation.... she pretended as if was sleeping... watching everything that was going = it was a giant human with red eyes going to the freezer sipping every liquid substances he found inside the freezer, till the next morning.. to cut it short immediately the sun rise up, she returned the dolly to the person that gave her daughter.



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A girly baby bought for a kid (4 to 5 years).

any one that touched the doll must be ill be you baby, adult, kid or youth.... so a pastor observed that... any time Daniel(pastor pikin) play with that toy he must be ill for two to three days.... nahso the thing be ooh, one-day the pastor con noticed the thing... he prayed about it ...if the toy dy out, he no dy allow the boy come out... nah only God know how the toy take go.

Nawao

mezico96:
I want to use this opportunity to reach out to all those suffering the same fate as me "You Are Not Alone" You just have to be strong and prayerful except your hands are dirty...

To my family and most especially my mom who believed me,who stood by me to pray and encourage me,Her prayers works more than she could ever imagine,more than any pastor or prophet,she's my super woman...

Story continue....

After our deliverance the pastor gave my mom a prophecy which came to pass(don't wanna talk about that experience) and he also told her it was a gift and I should work with God(but little Johnny no get time for that,in fact,my going to church was just to play and sometimes I skip church to go play video games)

I kept seeing shadows but this time,they are not after me.There was this particular night that I was called from sleep and as I woke up I couldn't even move a muscle nor speak a word...the only thing that could move was my eye balls.I remember seeing this dark fugure pace from the room I share with my brother to my parents room and moments later two came out and I suddenly fell asleep. The next morning my little sis (who is also a twin but lost her second some years back)fell ill and she told my parents wht happens to her at night ( Please parents be careful of the toys you buy for your kids,most of things are possessed dulls looking for a body to incarnate or initiate into their kingdom).

My little sis had this toy(a female dull that could blink if you shake it)mostly,at night while sleeping she place it next to her cos it was her favorite toy,she said at night while she sleeps the toy turns to an aged woman and lay beside her...but that fateful night she saw her spirit leave her body and the next place she saw her place was at the edge of river bene,the ages woman called her into the water but God mysteriously saved her(please no ask me cos I no know how e happen)....




Humanoid01
Dliquidmetal
fati2001
dorin27
virginprincess
Emmypam
lanreabbey
UndauntedYOCA
OKOATA
SarutobiEky
general111
candygebs
Yujiz

Wow! I haven't been online for a while, I've just seen this. I believe you because I stayed in Benue a little over a year and some of them are not ashamed of whom they are. I've always had my reservations about river Benue. Both bridges are scary especially the old one.

Fear those UniAgric and BSU boys ooo, most of them are cultists and deadly, you know how they can just shoot you in public and no one will do anything about it. If you have to relocate, please do.