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Romance › Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:11pm On Dec 09, 2020

Redpillers and some non redpillers as well as those who enjoy bashing women might be blind to this. Truth is, some women go through a lot in relationships and marriages but they keep mum. This man if probably on Nairaland or any SM will lie about how much of a hoe his wife is, lie to his goons and paint her red. A lot of women go through a lot and are lied on. Men don't like their ego being tarnished so some of them will go to any length to paint themselves as angels.
Sister all I can ask you to do is to begin to save, save as much as you can without his knowledge. Set your priorities right and spend on your kids (if any). Quit spending on a person who doesn't value you or doesn't appear to be honest in his dealings with you. Begin to pamper yourself bit by bit, remember health is wealth and your happiness adds to your health.
You need peace of mind so ensure that as much as possible, you do not engage in rows with him no matter how tempting it might be. Go out more if you can, enjoy fresh air and if he messes up, leave him, at least you'll know you've got savings. You can even make preparations to travel later on without him knowing if he fails to turn a new leave.
Peace and best of luck.

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Education › Re: My Christmas Light Project Check It Out!! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 6:26pm On Dec 09, 2020

You've done very well! Read up more on things like this and who knows? You could do well for yourself!

Celebrities › Re: “I Am Glad That 2020 Flow Has Ended” – Woman Poses With Sanitary Pad by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:30pm On Dec 09, 2020

It's not easy.

Crime › Re: Woman Brutalized By Her Husband 2 Hours After Celebrating Him (Graphic Photos) by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:28pm On Dec 09, 2020

Terrible. One of them is narcissistic.
To those saying women should learn to do this, do that and are quick to saying women are responsible for the battery they receive in relationships, have you ever considered that sometimes, a man is just violent (men who engage in such). I was recently with a family I know and the lady was the one contributing a large part to the feeding of the family, one time she told the husband she had become very broke and didn't have money again which was true because she had been complaining to me that she was running out of cash, the man suddenly became angry, would frequently yell at her, and almost beat her. It isn't my first time visiting them but I get a little unhappy whenever I am with them and the man displays such attitude. This woman has been really sacrificial and supportive. Sometimes, the women you see who have been battered aren't always at fault. Call a spade, a spade! Some men just derive joy in inflicting pains on people or their women and some women are too dumb to walk away when misery begins.

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Romance › Re: See What Happened To A Man Who Slept With 57 Women To Break World Record (PHOTOS by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:12pm On Dec 09, 2020

Community dick, lol.

Education › Re: This Picture Makes Me Cry by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:10pm On Dec 09, 2020

Despite the genocide of 1994, Rwanda has been able to lift itself out of mud. Sad history but great rebirth.
Nigeria, we hail thee.

Politics › Re: Governor Wike Lauds Ortom For Defending Benue During Herdsmen Invasion by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:01pm On Dec 09, 2020*

Defend which farmers from who? I lost my entire melon farm and I'm back to ground zero! Wike should just shut his mouth. Ortom is the worst thing that has happened to Benue state!

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Pets › Re: My Dog Needs Help. Graphic Pics by UndauntedYOCA(f): 3:57pm On Dec 09, 2020

loosecanon50:
Na me run the matter with one baba. He cheat on me

for real?

Celebrities › Re: Speed Darlington To Runtown : Your Girlfriend Is Ugly by UndauntedYOCA(f): 3:22pm On Dec 09, 2020

How can anyone say Adut is ugly? Black, sleek and dark chocolatey Adut! I like speedy but bangdadang is just running mouth here!

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Travel › Re: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 2:14pm On Dec 09, 2020

parkervero:
Meaning this is what you will do or that you are doing (i.e cheating on your man) that traveled?

Isn't it apparent the person behind the moniqer is male?

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Phones › Re: NCC Suspends SIM Sale, Registration by UndauntedYOCA(f): 2:01pm On Dec 09, 2020

It's somewhat needed with the recent news of old sim cards being revamped and resold, that alone is more than capable of criminally putting an innocent person in trouble.

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Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Survived This Year? Inspire Others by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:24pm On Dec 09, 2020

Gwan2:
Typical of me whenever I’m in Nigeria. Immediately I step out, I regain my well being and health fully. I always take malaria or typhoid medication atleast once a month when I’m in Nigeria. Reason why the life span of an average Nigerian is pegged at 54, the body continually fight disease at regular intervals thereby constantly engaging the immune system and depreciating its capacity until it is finally weakened and the person is left at the mercies of fate and time.

Try to always eat food and take supplements that boost immune system

You're entirely right! Almost nothing works well here.
With regards the meal and supplements, I take to that. Thank you and do have a nice day ahead.

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Romance › Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2020

No matter the investment, never stay in a relationship that's full of pretence, cheating and lies if the person isn't willing to change. Also, you might need working on yourself as well because it seems you've turned to something else as well and the next lady you date might suffer for it.

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Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Survived This Year? Inspire Others by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:24pm On Dec 09, 2020

Dremeke:
while I thank God on your behalf however my question is what would such a pit be doing there for someone to fall into. We have left almost every responsibility in this country to God and when we survive avoidable calamities in this country we quickly go spiritual instead of asking questions and making sure no one falls victim to such.

I don't know. It was my first time there and didn't even know a pit had been dug there and I kid you not, all I needed to do was move one foot and it would have been 'gone so soon'.
The situation of this country is appalling.

Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Survived This Year? Inspire Others by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:23pm On Dec 09, 2020

Dremeke:
while I thank God on your behalf however my question is what would such a pit be doing there for someone to fall into. We have left almost every responsibility in this country to God and when we survive avoidable calamities in this country we quickly go spiritual instead of asking questions and making sure no one falls victim to such.

I don't know. It was my first time there and didn't even know a pit had been dug there and I kid you not, all I needed to do was move one foot and it would have been 'gone so soon'.

Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Survived This Year? Inspire Others by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:22pm On Dec 09, 2020

seanwiIIiam:
typhoid rebound like how many times?

Hmph, I can't count o and I wasn't even drinking tap or pure water my whole service year. I remember a month when I rebounded more than 4 times. I was rebounding every week o.

Romance › Re: How Do I Handle Her?she Can't Do Without Sex For 5 Days! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:04am On Dec 09, 2020

What I like is you signature!

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Romance › Re: How Do I Handle Her?she Can't Do Without Sex For 5 Days! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:59am On Dec 09, 2020

Amotolongbo:
e go tire you!

Olomi lo ma re last

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Here Are 35 Great Free Ebooks As My Birthday Gift. by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:50am On Dec 09, 2020

Hello, I'd like the one on Beekeeping, thanks a lot in advance and yes, happy birthday to you, may your life be long and meaningful. Enjoy your new year!

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Romance › Re: Should I Heed To My Friends Advice? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 9:16am On Dec 09, 2020

It's called restitution but you're looking for death, he might kill you and harm the woman. It'd certainly lead to something you won't like, even if you leave the place alive, you might not leave well. It'd take the grace of God for him not to do a thing to you and his wife. You can try sha.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Man Shares The Strict Rules Attached To A N100k Job He Once Applied For by UndauntedYOCA(f): 9:09am On Dec 09, 2020

K'oju ma r'ibi. grin

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Romance › Re: My Son Is A Big Boy Now - Photos by UndauntedYOCA(f): 9:07am On Dec 09, 2020

Great that you're happy for your child. Remember to raise him responsibly, invest in his future, save ahead for him, give him good education and make him acquire a skill before he finishes secondary school.

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Romance › Re: My Son Is A Big Boy Now - Photos by UndauntedYOCA(f): 9:03am On Dec 09, 2020

decatalyst:
I swear, before I opened the thread, I knew its Airforce1

He is synonymous with this thrashy posts.

Not disappointed one bit!

To make posts about your child especially if you're happy with the way they're growing and going isn't trashy. What's trashy is the constant disrespect and bashing some male and female engage in here on Nairaland. Making trashy posts and comments about both genders certainly is appalling!

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Romance › Re: Girls Come In Here by UndauntedYOCA(f): 8:54am On Dec 09, 2020

Another generalisation. On the other hand, I like to know what interests the person, so my question is 'what do you enjoy doing' 'what are your interests?' 'how do you keep yourself busy and how do you relax?'
By the way, some men also ask what ladies do on the first date or day, asking these questions help you have an inkling as to the type of person they are. I am an intentional person and would rather have just 5 intelligent people I can learn a thing or two from rather than many people people whom I have just basic surface things to discuss with simply because they have no interesting hobbies, are clueless about life, don't set priorities right, have no sense of direction etc. I believe you'll also learn some things from me as well.
I'm running out of time in life and I don't have much to waste, I'd also ask these questions even as platonic friends and not because you're interested in being in a relationship with me.

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Sports › Re: Man United Crash Out Of Champions League, Drop Into Europa League by UndauntedYOCA(f): 8:33am On Dec 09, 2020

Lobatan!

Romance › Re: What Are You Proud Of As A Nigerian ? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:02am On Dec 09, 2020

Well, maybe the fact that in Nigeria, you grow thick skin and once one leaves the country, one is able to adapt almost anywhere else in the world and most likely succeed. In addition, I'm delighted that we have intelligent minds here.

Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife Welcome His Son And Princess Naomi To The Palace by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:33am On Dec 09, 2020

Poshriel:
Its midnight and the angles moving about
Therefore I pray for everyone looking for the fruit of the womb. I use the ooni as a Point of contact and I say by this time next year all of you shall be carrying your babies in Jesus name. Amen.

Pls hit like to agree and key into this chain prayer

Amen, I believe you meant 'angels'.

Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Survived This Year? Inspire Others by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:22am On Dec 09, 2020

Tbvxl:
Oh yes, like I said, I could never have survived it, shattered brain and broken bones. I'm grateful for the second chance at life, indeed, it really was God and I give Him praise.
I'll get the date it happened and write it down and the event in my diary, a day I'll never forget.

Wow! Infact God really saved your life that night. All thanks to God

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Romance › Re: What’s Your Boyfriend/girlfriends Genotype??. by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:28pm On Dec 08, 2020

[quote author=ongback post=96875519][/quote]Work on your violent nature.

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