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Romance / Re: Who Still Remembers This Castle? by Unlimited4G: 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2022
Michelle70:
the destiny of a great kingdom...

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Rest on the shoulder of a young boy
Romance / Re: Why Do I See Strange Things In A Split Seconds Whenever I Doze Off? by Unlimited4G: 7:26pm On Aug 29, 2022
TheGenius001:


I am sorry but I detest the words "God wants to use you". I detest anything about religion. I believe in God. I believe he is somewhere and he knows us all. I don't believe in gathering of people thinking they need to help by themselves by coming together to serve God. He should rather strike me dead than me say I want to be a Pastor or sorts of things like that. It won't just happen.

The thing with this stuff is that, it's intensity has dipped over the years. I only fear I don't let it die completely. Cos it's harder to do the process these days than it was before in my teenage years.

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For the fact that you detest the word "God wants to use you" is the main reason God is going to use you. God didn't send His Son Jesus for the righteous people/people who are willing, but He sent Him for the "Ungodly and those who ain't willing"..

I started seeing visions when I was very little and they normally come to pass. I can get to a particular place for the 1st time but it will feel so familiar like I've been there before and all of a sudden the vision will flash in my memory(It's always very short not upto 2secs)... To be honest, when I started seeing visions; I wasn't Godly at all but there was 1thing about me which is "Reservation/assertiveness", I was very reserved & picky, I choose the things I want which made it very difficult for my parents and they classified me as stubborn.

As I grew I realized that I can telepath, which makes it very difficult for me to be free with people because I knew their true intentions.

The difference between that time and now is that "The Holy Spirit found me", I don't need to fall asleep before I can see visions any longer, He tells me everything that's about to happen while I'm busy with my daily activities.

ADVICE: while I was reading your write up, I sensed that you're so excited to talk about it but be careful OK?,
--The GIFT of Prophecy is not for people who blows trumpets about it, learn to see things & keep quiet if not; familiar/environmental spirit will use it against you.

--Don't meet any pastor to tell you who you are. Spiritual Gifts can be stolen/bought.

--Don't defile/sin against your own body(Fornicate). You'll really really be faced with this particular temptation and if you fall into it; it'll be very hard for you to see those visions again b/c your spirit has been interfered with, the frequency will change, and you'll be defeated in your dreams.
Romance / Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Unlimited4G: 10:13pm On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Can a man be too nice? Please explain better ooo.
I don't like cheap guys too. I like men who place value on their body and time.

No to petty men, those things annoy me.

Lol @Baby Men.
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A man is "too nice" when;

1..... He agrees with everything I say/request for without objecting.

2.... Can't say his mind just to avoid getting me upset.

3.....Tries so hard to impress me with money and material things.

4.....Keeps making calculative moves b/c he fears that I would walk away if he expresses himself freely.

5.....Can't make a bold decision without asking for my opinion.. If he expects my opinion to be positive but it turns out to be negative, then he'll change his mind simply because I said the color isn't that nice.

6.... Too scared to exercise authority/take charge of a situation.

To me; these behaviour means "Submissiveness". And it's really annoying to see a man being submissive instead of dominating & taking charge.

I like a man who dominates (not in a toxic, abusive/narcissistic way). It shows he's confident, emotionally matured, strong, etc. Which in turn gives me a sense of security and makes me respect & submit to him.

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Romance / Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Unlimited4G: 12:15am On Jul 12, 2022
Persephone1:
Mine is :

Mouth odour

Invisible bulge, I hate dots angry

Excessive display of material things.

Lack of respect and finesse.

Talking too much angry


I will add more later.

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1... A man that's too nice. [They appear boring & immature].

2....Lack of self confidence.

3....A man that goes after a lady like a lost puppy, can't control his emotions.

4.... A Gossip, a liar, a thief, a bitter/jealous man.

5.... Possessive/insecured man.

6.... Irresponsible man who makes excuses over little things.

7..... A man with entitlement mentality who thinks one doesn't have the right to say No to him because of his money or favours he offered.

8.... A dirty & messy man.

9..... Poor dress code, bushy hair, poor colour combination, dirty nails, body/mouth odour, wearing rumpled cloths.

10.... "A baby Man".

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Religion / Re: What Is Your Favourite Gospel Song? by Unlimited4G: 7:15pm On Jul 10, 2022
AMEN - - By Salvation Ministry Chior
Religion / Re: How Long Does It Take To Receive The Holyspirit After Salvation? by Unlimited4G: 1:21pm On Jun 20, 2022
Lighthouse50:
Dear readers, Acts 1 vs 8 says 'and you shall receive power when the holyspirit falls on you. Then you will be my witness from jerusalem to the uttermost part of the earth' Holyspirit is needed to receive power. Please how do one get the holyspirit? How long does it take to get it? Those who have gotten it, can you tell us your experience. Waiting for responses.
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[/b]The Holy spirit is alway here with us[b]. I know you desperately want to encounter the strong & might manifestation of the Holy spirit in your life.

1st... Understand that the Holy spirit is LOVE, HOLY & PURE. So if you're a type that's always selfish, self centered, rebellious, proud, discriminates alot, envious or greedy ; then make up your mind to let go of those things.

2nd....Confess your sins & Accept Jesus as your personal Lord & Saviour.

3rd....Get baptised, it doesn't matter if you were baptised at birth; You were young then and couldn't make decisions for yourself so I advise that you get baptised again now that you know your left from right.

4th....Step-up your prayer life. (I.e if you normally prayed for 30mins only/once in a week; then increase it). Show the Holy spirit that you're desperate for Him.

5th...Never lose Faith/doubt the process.

6th...Take your time and study 1 Corinthians 12:1-31.

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I was once like you(Very desperate to be baptised by the Holy Ghost & communicate with Him directly).. But something was holding me back which was my "love life". I kept wondering how I will manage the whole process ( serve God & go against Him).

Not long, I began to have troubles in my love life and I used that opportunity to make up my mind & I got baptized immediately. At first I thought that I'll begin to speak in tongues immediately I'm raised out of the water but it wasn't as I thought. I tried my best not to doubt the process/the pastor who conducted the baptism.

After the baptism, I kept believing God that one day I'll be baptized of the Holy Ghost. I kept praying, I studied the word of God, I adjusted most of my lifestyles, started showing concern about others, stopped treating people the way they treated me, became more forgiving.... Along the line; I got in contact with a friend who invited me to a youth revival service which held in the evening.

At the end of the service, a young lady came up to the podium and made an announcement; "Those who haven't been baptize by the Holy Ghost should wait behind" which I did.
I was taken to another room and was asked to pray first, later on 3 young ladies around 19-22 yrs came in and held my hand (forming a circle) and started praying in the Holy Ghost, it became so intense and it started feeling as if something was loosening up in my tummy, I start shouting & jumping while speaking in tongues along side with them. It was so sweet, I didn't want it to end....
Since that day; My life has never been the same. From one success, breakthroughs, blessings, fruitfulness to another.

[/b]Note: I had my water baptism last year April and got baptised by the Holy Ghost on June last year. (Patience is the key)[b]

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Religion / Re: Why "Safe" Sex Could Be Very Dangerous by Unlimited4G: 10:36am On Jun 20, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
You forgot that not everyone is gonna swallow your bible book teaching huh? cheesy

[/b]What demons[b] are you even talking about..?if they go the masturbation way..you folks complain..they indulge in safe sex you still complain..

Having sex before marriage is not a sin...People & religion have made sex before marriage a sin...There is nothing wrong with people having sex before marriage.. undecided


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Sleeping with someone you're not married to is very wrong. The Bible explains it by saying "He who sleeps with a prostitute is one with her" and that's where the "Demons" angle comes in.

Anytime you have sex; a part of you is deposited in that person you slept with and a part of her is also deposited in you. So if the person you slept with had a bad omen; then you'll start experiencing bad luck in anything you do... If she's a prostitute and you both made out then you have no right to judge her anymore because you're now 1flesh with her.

The more you keep sleeping around when you're not yet married; the more your sex life and self control gets weaker & weaker which will then create lots of problems for you in your marriage(e.g You become unsatisfied when making love with your wife/husband, you begin to compare him/her with others you've slept with, you then start looking outside due to unsatisfaction & lack of self control. Which will result in conflict and divorce).

When you sleep with someone you're not married to; you're taking what's not yours which is a sin & you'll pay for it dearly. Don't let peer pressure influence you, many fornicators today always wish they didn't get involved in it in the 1st place. They're living a complicated life, some have contracted STIs, STDs, HIV/AIDS, some are emaciating because of depression & guilt yet they'll wear baggy outfits to cover it up and you'll think they're living a happy life for the decision they took. They're not happy but they'll not tell you, instead they'll sugarcoat that "fornication is very nice" because they had no one to advise them when they fell into that pit, so they'll gladly clap for you when you're walking into it.

Fornication is very bad � and marriage will not change you.
Religion / Re: What Is The Most Seemingly Misinterpreted Portion Of The Bible? by Unlimited4G: 10:29am On Jun 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
That mindset is in fact not that commanded by God since instead what God commands is continuous submission and obedience of His teachings(and commandments). undecided
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God's word has many explanations. What I said is part of the commandment God gave. If you study Proverbs 6:10,youll understand my explanation better.
Religion / Re: What Is The Most Seemingly Misinterpreted Portion Of The Bible? by Unlimited4G: 8:27pm On Jun 18, 2022
Cypress042:
God help those who help themselves.


Where's that verse in the bible

People use it alot but i don't think is in the bible.
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"God helps those who helps themselves" means; you can't fold your hands and expect a positive result. You need to invest your time and efforts, when God sees your sacrifice(Time & effort); He'll bless you and makes what you invested in to blossom & yield more.

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Family / Re: What Is That Thing You Don't Pray Your Children Inherits From You? by Unlimited4G: 6:08pm On Jun 18, 2022
Beebah2000:
No.
Pisces ♓
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You're too cool to be a Pisces ♓ person. All the Pisces ♓ weh I know; na full time amebo and they can't mind their business.

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Family / Re: What Is That Thing You Don't Pray Your Children Inherits From You? by Unlimited4G: 4:32pm On Jun 18, 2022
KiNg0G:
I'm not friendly

People who don't even Know me just the sight of me they always conclude I have 2much pride and ego.
The way I walk and the way I seclude myself from people sometimes adds to it, I don't really blame them.
If you don't talk to me, I won't talk to you
I have stayed in my street for 7years now, they are about 3 neighbors I see everyday but not for once have we Said hello to each other.
They stare I stare
They walk pass, I walked pass

My spirit select's people too much, making me come of to them as been prideful.
Don't get me wrong I'm an extrovert, nice, bold And welcoming to strangers but hardly will you see me bring myself to you first.

I won't want my children to inherit this from me.

So what's yours?

Seun
Lalasticlala
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I was too formal, uptight but I don't hold grudges, rigid, anti-social. But they're now in the past, I just hope non of these traits will surface in any of my children because I know what I missed for being too uptight and anti-social.

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Fashion / Re: Nigerian Crossdressers Turn Up In Asoebi For Colleague’s Birthday Party (Video) by Unlimited4G: 12:50pm On Jun 07, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
If God said He Created Us in His Image

That means, We are all puzzle pieces with different shapes and form
Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay, Heterosexual are all different puzzle pieces.

The same God created people without limbs
He created people with Alzehmir disease
He created people with Downs syndrome
He created people with deformity

Each puzzle pieces has unique shape
When you put all puzzles together
You get a Full Image of God.

These Cross dressers are part of God just that they are different.

God created everything and said
IT IS GOOD

GOD is the Alpha and Omega
He knows what He is doing
He Loves Everything He Created

When you look a one piece of puzzle
You will think it is useless
Or It has no meaning
But put that piece of puzzle together with other pieces and you get a Full picture of God

If you want to beat a gay because they are gay
Then you can also beat a person born with deformity because they were born with deformity.
That is who they are
That is how God created them
God create some people to be short
Will you go and beat short people for being short?
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All humans are created in the image of God and everything God created is perfect & Holy. Gayism, lesbianism, bi-sexuality,etc are not Holy/righteous things so they're not part of God tho He created them(Humans) all but they ain't part of Him.

We all know that the devil/Satan's duty is to destroy what's perfect and those things you mentioned are just devil's plan so that humans like you will mock God. But God can't be mocked, He has placed before us Life & death and He advice us to choose life(Holy path) so that we will live.


N/B: You can't compare people borned deformly with Gays. Gays have a choice, the deformed ones have no choice.
Romance / Re: Boyfriend Retrieves All He Bought For Girlfriend After He Saw Her With A Guy by Unlimited4G: 2:42pm On Apr 22, 2022
Discovery4today:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkQDLNwMG3g
LADY WHOSE BOYFRIEND RETRIEVED ALL HE BOUGHT FOR HER AFTER SPOTTING HER WITH ANOTHER MAN SPEAKS
Greg Okoro���

My fellow men, we can do better. Collecting things back from someone you dated is very low class and childish. And worse when done publicly. It's very bad. No matter your reason, don't.
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What he did was so childish...

I remember back then after my high school I met a guy and we started dating. I'm a very independent person, I love working for my own stuffs & hardly get things from people even in high school, I'm also very analytical and pays attention to people's behaviour. So each time we go on a date and he ask me to order; I'll just ask for a bottle of water, no chops, no soft/alcoholic drink, etc. He thought I was very simple not knowing that I had other stuffs in mind. I started paying attention to his behavior and noticed he was so childish, disloyal, unfaithful which were a big turn off for me. I knew that it was going to be hard for me to commit to the relationship because of the "turn offs" from his angle, so I kept rejecting the gifts he got for me on many occasions without getting him upset.

One day we got into an argument simply because I refused to sleep with him and in the process he was like; "I've proved my love to you over and over again, I even gave you my phone to show you how much I love you", I just smiled at him and apologized to him (I apologized so that I'll have a way of leaving his place). Not long, the COVID-19 started where offices & business places were all closed and prices of goods & food stuffs became so high which affected him badly because he was no more working. I used that period to my advantage; I started visiting him with massive food items on different occasions which made him so happy, he saw it as love perhaps "She's so simple, dumb & stupid" not knowing I was indirectly paying him back for his phone. I did that till the lockdown was over.
(Well, Long story short; I silently walked away from the R/ship after making sure that I owed him nothing, I also made sure that he had nothing to emotionally blackmail me with especially for refusing to sleep with him all through the tenor). Even if he sees me with another nigga; He can never stop me & start up unnecessary drama because he knows that I owe him nothing.
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LADIES stop being greedy, if you know that you won't be able to pay the price that awaits you then don't get the free gifts because they ain't free. There's a proverb that goes this way; "If you won't eat the food then don't smell it/don't wash your hands".

Also, know who you're getting into a R/ship with. Don't be in a R/ship because of physical qualities. Indirectly engage your partner in a psychological discussion to know how they handle matters because that's the same way they'll handle/treat you when such case arises.

When you know that you're done with the R/ship and they ask for a refund of the things they gifted you, then save your dignity and refund them... Stop being greedy and trying to act Boss over someone else's efforts,it's UNFAIR.
Religion / Re: Why Many People Pray And Don't Get Answers To Their Prayers? by Unlimited4G: 3:47pm On Feb 27, 2022
Steep:
Prayer is an interaction with God, Jesus gave out a template on how prayers are to be made, this is called the Lord's prayer.
The following are some of the principles of prayer.

1. Prayer is to be addressed to the Father. Not that we cannot pray to Jesus, or address the holy Spirit but however it is not ideal, this is because there are roles and positions in the Trinity. The father is the primary source and father of us all including Jesus. Therefore prayers should be addressed to God the father not Jesus.

2 God should be addressed with absolute reverence and honor, our whole attention should be focused on the prayer, our language should be one of maximum honor and respect.

3. Our prayers should be kingdom centered not self centered to gratify our flesh remember he is the father of all spirits.

4. What we ask should be according to his will, not our lust .

5.prayers should be in the name of Jesus for this is our authority and right.

6. Avoid vain repetition, our words should be few.

7. Prayers of warfare of warfare and deliverance should be done in christ authority.

8. Don't demand for the death of any body, that alone can cancel your prayer.

9. Your spirit should be connected with the spirit of God, edify your spirit.

10. Praises and Thanksgiving should fill your heart instead of complaining and murmurings.

11. Ask what you need.

12 when praying listen to what the spirit is saying, after prayer expect what you have asked.

14. Dont tempt God. Like asking God for healing but ignore medical warning or refuse treatment, asking God for good result but you don't read, or knowing something is not right for you but asking God to give you anyway.

15. Some prayers actually need to be back up with fasting, some prayers need to be prayed prophetically, there are prayers we need to pray with other believers, that is why we must listen to the holy spirit ( I am going to write on how the holy spirit speak to us some day).

16. Infact before stating your request examine yourself to see if there is iniquity in you, ask for forgiveness and for the Lord to cleanse you and also you must have forgiven others also.
An unforgiven person cannot hope to get forgiveness but as Christians we forgive because christ has forgiven us.

Some Christians do not believe in asking God for the forgiveness of their sins because the scripture says God has already forgiven us.


While indeed we are forgiven of our sins in christ, however we still need to sanctify ourself and these require that we ask for forgiveness of our sins.

People do not get answers to their prayers because they pray wrongly.

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Lots of people pray but they don't see results because ;
1. There's absence of faith(Christian/non-Christian, as long as you believe and have faith that you'll receive what you've asked for then you'll surely receive).
2. There's room for doubt.
3. They don't know their redemptive right in Christ.


Mr.Poster, concerning your no.1; don't try to confuse yourself..... God-the-Father, God-the-Son, and God-the-Holy spirit are one. The Holy spirit is the spirit of God and just like we have it there's no how you'll be in Cameroon and your spirit is in Canada. The moment your spirit tries to separate from your body then you're a dead person. It's only God that can be everywhere at the same time. My point here's that the same way your spirit dwells inside of you, that's the same way God's spirit (The Holy spirit) dwells inside of Him so not minding which of the God head you're praying to, your prayers will still be answered as long as you have faith.
Moreover JESUS said in the Bible that "No one can see God-the-father without first acknowledging God-the-son". so when you're praying don't leave the Holy spirit and Jesus aside all in the name of "I'm focusing on God-the-father" No my dear, try your best and realize that there are one... There's no big, great or least in God's kingdom, they are all equal.
Religion / Re: Speaking In Tongues Is Not Heavenly Language – Mummy G.O (video) by Unlimited4G: 10:13pm On Feb 13, 2022
Niece:
A Nigerian controversial evangelist, Funmilayo Adebayo commonly known as Mummy G.O has opined that speaking in tongues is not a heavenly language.

Funmilayo Adebayo who is the founder of Rapture Proclaimer Evangelical Church of God made this known during one of her church services.
Funmilayo Adebayo who stated that speaking in tongues is not a heavenly language gave an instance and said that speaking in tongues is like a Yoruba man speaking an Igbo language.

, she said.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeM_dbQnwsc

https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ6YOoXIqFs/
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You this mummy GO wetin dey worry you sef? Better go and study your Bible properly rather than blaspheming & misinterpreting it.
Interpretation of tongues is part of the gift of the Holy Ghost, there are lots of people who can interpret tongues but that doesn't make it an earthly language.
"If you seek to understand your tongues before speaking" then you're deceiving yourself (According to the Bible).
Tongues is an heavenly language, it's a way of communing with God and there are lots of people who has the gift of interpretating Tongue.
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e be like say this Mummy GO just encountered the Holy Ghost na why she de jump up and down like this. But for those that just encountered the Holy Ghost try and calm down let Him lead and guide you, don't try to outsmart the Holy Ghost simply because some secrets have been revealed to you,try your best to calm down taking it step by step 'cause it's a progressive encounter and don't forget to pray and engage in intense worship with Him.
Romance / Re: Help, My Roommates Hate Me So Much Because Of My Looks. What Can I Do? by Unlimited4G: 6:52pm On Feb 10, 2022
Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!
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From my view it's really going to end badly for you if you continue associating and being so close with them 'cause heart of humans are desperately wicked.
Listen dear, it's not a must to have friends or be so close to people, know your worth and act as the boss. Step up your self esteem and stop seeking for their opinions. Stop trying to fit in and be more independent.
I have lots of people that are jealous of me because of "my art skills, drumming skills, Ability to make things out of nothing,Financial literacy and lot more".... But guess what; I set limits and distance myself from lots of them, their criticism/hatred doesn't get to me because I know my worth.. They see me as a mystery because I don't associate with them to avoid "See-finish" And it's going well for me. Lots of them treat me with respect because of how I carry myself.
If I had let their criticism get to me perhaps I would have committed suicide, but instead I paid attention to the angles their jealousy & hatred centered on and used it to my advantage by perfecting those angles and bring out the best in me.
So dear know your worth, for the fact that you're the youngest among them shouldn't mean you should depend on them, seek their opinions, simp for them or try to lower your standards just to make them comfortable-----NO DEAR DON'T! if not you'll be manipulated and will surely regret it. And since you have those kind of friends, learn to shut your mouth stop telling them everything....

LASTLY; Remember you're there to learn and bag your 1st class not to impress people/friends.

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Religion / Re: Have You Ever Fallen Under Anointing? by Unlimited4G: 11:41am On Feb 06, 2022
Michelle70:
Share ur experience, so we will know those that are possessed on NL, how did u feel when u came back to ur senses?

As for me ehn, maybe the witches and wizards in me is coming from the lucifer directly, no matter how pastor touch my forehead, I can't fall.
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Falling under the anointing is also known as "Being Baptized of the Holy Ghost".
I remember early last year around April I did my water Baptism and I hoped I was going to start speaking in tongue immediately I'm raised out of the water but to my greatest surprise I didn't. I tried my best not to doubt the pastor who conducted the baptism and kept hoping. Later on in June I got an invitation for a youth revival service from my friend which held in the evening. At the end of the service, a young lady came up to the podium and made an announcement; "Those who haven't been baptize by the Holy Ghost should wait behind" which I did.
I was taken to another room and was asked to pray first, later on 3 young ladies around 19-22 yrs came in and held my hand (forming a circle) and started praying in the Holy Ghost, it became so intense and it started feeling as if something was loosening up in my tummy, I start shouting & jumping while speaking in tongues along side with them. It was so sweet, I didn't want it to end....
Since that day; My life has never been the same. From one success, breakthroughs, blessings, fruitfulness to another.

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Family / Re: Should She Go Ahead And Be Withdrawing His Money? by Unlimited4G: 10:47pm On Jan 28, 2022
Dainy1:
Pls mature mind in the house.
What would you advise a young lady whose husband is into betting, any salary, loan, contributions that enters his account, he wouldn't tell her, until he finished it.

They have no accommodation right now, they are squatting with a family friend.
Because the husband can not save and he is into loan.

Last night, she said she took her husband's ATM card because his salary has entered
few days ago and he has started withdrawing little by little on betting as usual. He was looking for it this morning, but she denied.
Would you advise her to go and withdraw his money without his permission? What would you advise such person?

She's my colleague and I don't want to give wrong advise.
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Betting/gambling is a very bad game that can render you poor and useless.

From my point of view, I think the woman isn't withdrawing the money to spend or for selfish reasons. She might be withdrawing his money and paying it into another account to save it up for rainy days or would you prefer them to go about begging simply because the husband has spent all his money betting? She's just applying wisdom where it needs to be applied so mind your business and let her run her affairs.

That's one of the reasons her husband married her, he knew his short comings and how he's bad at managing his money so he went out to search for his helper,his support system, his missing ribs so allow her to go ahead with what she's doing..... It's something that her husband will thank her for in the future as long as she'll do it loyally and not get selfish/tempted along the way.

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Religion / Re: What Does "The Wages Of Sin Is Death" Really Means by Unlimited4G: 3:54pm On Jan 02, 2022
Solofresh2:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders

Well, am sure we all are aware of the Bible verse that says "the wages of sin is death"
But to my knowledge,I find out that all humans must die and even some wicked people we know still live longer than the ones we call saints.

Sometimes, you will see some wicked people live so long till old age before they die and you will also see some kind hearted people dying young.

If the wages of sin is death,then why do this wicked people live long and why do we believe everyone will still die

I think there is more to this Bible verse than we see it

Please any one with good knowledge should explain.Thanks
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Don't let your focus be on the ungodly/wrong doers, but let it be on God.

°Proverbs 23:17-18; "Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD. There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off."

The wages of sin is actually "DEATH" because every wrong deeds always yield negative,painful and regretful results.
"I've placed before you life and death choose thee this day the path you'll trade, choose life so that ye and your house hold may live"..... Why didn't God ask us to choose death/bad/destruction? Because that path only brings suffering, pains,regrets, depression, sadness,restlessness,etc. But the "path of life" brings happiness, joy, peace, gladness, etc.

LET ME SHOW YOU FEW EXAMPLES THAT PROVES THAT THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH;
°A teenage girl disobeys her parent & God and goes ahead to have premarital sex and gets an unwanted pregnancy. Certainly she won't be the same again, she'll start over thinking, feeling depressed, drops out of school,sent away from home. The guy on the other side will feel depressed,restless and regret sleeping with her. What They Are Going Through At The Moment Is The "WAGES OF THEIR SIN".

°A man defiles his matrimonial home by cheating and becomes restless,overthinking, lying to cover up his mess. One day the wife gets to know the truth and move on with her life. Now he has lost his marriage which's actually the "WAGES OF THE SIN" he committed.

°A parent pampers her child and refuse to caution him/her when they're wrong and they grow up later with bad characters, terrorizing the parents, beating up and disrespecting their parents and elderly ones... That's the "WAGES OF THE PARENT'S SIN" because they failed to correct them when it was early.

Just do the right thing so that you'll have a peaceful and happy life. Remember: "To every action there's an equal & opposite reaction" so for every good thing you do; Your reward will be doubled so now imagine doing the wrong things..... Your reward/consequences will be tripled. Don't let the devil try to paint an ugly image to look pretty. "THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH".
Religion / Re: Pastor Bathes Female Church Members In Basin During Crossover Service In Ghana by Unlimited4G: 2:33pm On Jan 02, 2022
Thandiubani:
A Pastor has been seen bathing his female church members inside a basin during crossover service.

The bizarre incident was live-streamed for many people to see.

The crossover ritual was performed for his female church members and it is believed the incident happened in Ghana.

The cleric also claimed that he got the directive from above and knows it might cause controversy even though he has no option other than to obey the spirit.

Local news platforms in Ghana reported that the Pastor engaged in the ritual to cleanse his members so they will be "holy and pure"'.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgGrOfdYzJY
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You got which directive from above?

JESUS sef weh come from above na only leg weh em wash.

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Crime / Re: 21-Year-Old Photographer Kills Pregnant Girlfriend In Adamawa With Abortion Drug by Unlimited4G: 12:53pm On Dec 01, 2021
saphiere:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2021/11/30/adamawa-youth-remanded-for-impregnating-girlfriend-killing-her-with-abortion-drugs/%3famp=1
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Simple instruction "DON'T FORNICATE" you refused to listen.

Now let me clear the air up for you "The court won't forgive you simply because you're 21" No they won't so don't start assuming that you'll be pardoned simply because of your age, you should have obeyed simple instructions.

NOW ENJOY YOUR LIFE IMPRISONMENT.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Bank Cleaner Or Petrol Attendant , Which One Is Better? by Unlimited4G: 12:30pm On Nov 23, 2021
yemite100:
Dear Nairalanders
I just finish my OND,but I planned going for my HND but there is no helper that could help because my both parents are late, and it is just me and my other siblings and I just manage to have ND.

I planned to get a job so that I can save up little to start my HND.

I have search for job but could not get any, so i just got this opportunity and I want to seek your advice on which one I should go for

The bank Cleaner is 17k per month and I will spend #200 daily for transport, the petrol attendant is just few kilometer to where we stay and the basic salary is just 10,000,and #150 for feeding daily.

I am just a bit confused on which one I can choose.

Please no insult, I just need advice...
Thanks.

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I advise you to go for the petrol station job offer.
It's close to your place and they give out #150 feeding fee daily which you can actually save some because it's not all the time that you'll be buying food. There are times that you'll eat from home. Unlike the bank that pays #17000 without any feeding fee and you'll be spending #200 on transportation.
NOW #200 × 30DAYS =#6000. #17000-6000=#11000. #11000-FEEDING FEE=SUFFERING & REGRET my dear. NO MUCH DIFFERENCE FROM THE #10000 FUEL SALARY.

In the bank the big bosses there might make you feel inferior as a cleaner, you'll always be answerable to them if not you'll lose your job and you'll be so stressed. Unlike the petrol station that you'll also feel as your own boss, you won't feel inferior, no one will judge you there, you'll have time to interact with your fellow colleagues and be happy.

GO FOR THE PETROL STATION JOB OFFER.

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Religion / Re: The Habit Of Remembering Sex Scene While Praying by Unlimited4G: 9:58am On Nov 14, 2021
1.The way you hold/place God in your life also matters here, if you place God highly things like that won't be popping up in your mind when you're praying because you'll have the knowledge to know that God is very pure.

2. Control your mind, don't give in to any form of distraction.

SOLUTION:
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If you have difficulties concentrating during your personal prayers, then you can always listen to a worship song using your earpiece. The song shouldn't be loud,let your whole thoughts and attention be on the song....it will help you focus.
Do that every time, it will help you be in control of your thoughts and mind.
Crime / Re: Identity Of Corpse Abandoned At Edo Hospital Revealed, Police Arrest Suspect by Unlimited4G: 6:39am On Sep 11, 2021
[b][/b]Why would you do abortion at 8mnths when the baby has already developed so much, it's very risky.


[b][/b]Moreover Abortion on it own is wrong, you were 27 and at that age you're old enough to single handedly mother a child, it's so sad that you allow your family to decide for you......I wonder how many wrong moves you took while you were alive simply because of your family's decision.
Romance / Re: Found Out My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian by Unlimited4G: 9:34pm On Jul 18, 2021
So sad Bro, but to be very honest with.... Just move on, despite how much you love her.
It's very hard to change a lesbian, once a lesbian always a lesbian. You'll never have a peace of mind in that relationship, you'll never ever be happy and have you thought about the future? What will she teach your kids... You deserve better Bro, Your kids deserves better. They deserve a good role model.
Maybe you don't understand let me break it down for you, Lesbians see theirselve equal with men, she'll never submit/respect you.... If she confidently displays unloyal characters with you now that you both are dating/courting, she'll bruise your Ego when you both get married... You'll be perceived as "weak" by her gengs and every other people around....She'll be the head of You while you take the backseat.
she's also a liar... Don't ignore that fact.


I take God name beg you Bro, don't set yourself on a journey of no return.
Romance / Re: 10 Boyfriends Rules Ladies Should Set When They Enter A New Relationship by Unlimited4G: 6:17pm On May 02, 2021
Iammrkez:

10 Boyfriends Rules Ladies Should Set When They Enter A New Relationship
Entering a relationship can be something new for many of us. Even if we have been in a relationship before, and we are about to embark on a new relationship, these boyfriend rules are what ladies should set for their boyfriends if they look forward to a smoother start of the relationship. It also ensures that even after your honeymoon phase is over, the dynamics of the relationship don’t change that much.

Make Me Feel That You Miss Me
A girl likes to feel that she is wanted by her S.O. Tell your boyfriend that he should make you feel like he misses you – even through the simplest way like saying “I miss you” or “I know I just sent you home but I miss you already” – it can continue going for the next few months or even years.

Talk Things Out
Guys used to be more direct and open but now they tend to be more emotional and sometimes, they just keep their unhappiness inside until it erupts one day. Set a rule that he must talk things out with you if he’s unhappy with things. Communication is key.

Always Set Aside Time For Me
Because what is a relationship for if you don’t spend more time together? If you don’t spend more time together during the initial stages of the relationship, you probably won’t get past the honeymoon phase. Even if you do, you’ll hardly spend time with each other because things are different.

Make Me Feel Like I Am A Priority
Tell him that you need to be seen as important in his life – other than his family, friends, and video games. If you don’t set it as a ground rule, and he doesn’t see you as a priority, perhaps only seeing you when he has nothing to do – then you will suffer in the relationship.

Always Reply To My Messages
Don’t “K” me – that’s worse than not replying. But seriously, what is a phone for if you aren’t going to reply to my messages?

Unless You Are Busy, Then Inform Me
Make it a point to tell him to inform you that he is busy before he disappears. Otherwise, you will end up getting funny ideas and quarreling because you think he isn’t interested in the conversation.

You Plan Part Of Our Outings
Tell your guy that he needs to take the initiative too – the relationship is about the both of you. Don’t just leave it to you to plan the dates!

We Must Share Chores
Especially important if you’re planning to get married in the future. Build the habit of sharing the household chores and he’ll be well-trained by the time you guys have your own home.

Let Others Know We Are Together
Some girls feel hurt that their boyfriends don’t tell anyone else that they are a couple. They feel strange – they start to think that their S.O is not serious about the relationship and might even be ashamed to announce that they are together.

Take Things Slow
Future plans, physical contact… Whatever, you name it. In a new relationship, don’t rush things. Take the time to get to know each other better first, just like friends, before proceeding to go on to the next level.

Be Serious About Me
Most important ground rule. Be sure that your boyfriend is serious about you and that he knows he is serious about you. Make it clear what you want out of that relationship.

Truth be told, boyfriend rules are rules in a relationship you set based on your own preferences. It’s based on what you want, what you can give and what you expect. So hopefully with these boyfriend rules, you’ll be able to rock that relationship girl

Doing these will only destroy your relationship.
You don't force all these on a guy.... It's not all about you, stop being selfish.
You're very wrong in many points you've made up there....
1stly "Make me feel that you missed me", for him to miss you, you need to play95% role/part.... You don't just stay there and expect him to miss you,or you can't be a pain on his nerves and expect him to miss you.
2ndly "Talk things out", I know communication is an important part of every relationship and guys are always open but here's the bitter truth, a guy only opens up where he knows peace, where he's understood, where he won't be judged ...... You can't be a nuisance and expect him to open up, you most first create a serene and peaceful environment for him.
3rdly "Always set aside time for me", You don't need to make this a rule..... It's something that should be there and if it's not there you should slow down and check what's wrong, he might be occupied with work.
4thly "Make me feel like I'm a priority"..... I would love you to know this, a man only makes a woman that respects him a priority..... You can't be disrespectful and expect him to place you first.... You can't treat him like trash and expect him to make you his priority,You can't bash him publicly and expect to be his priority....
5th "Always reply to my messages", I know it's totally disrespectful to get snubbed but you shouldn't make it look like it's an obligation that he should reply.... Instead study him... You might find out that he's the type that likes talking on phone rather than chatting/texting.
6th "You plan part of our outings".... If you find out that you're always the one planning the outings and he rarely plans it that's because you're all over the place, you've refused to allow him play his part, you act like you're the one in charge so he leaves it for you. All you should do is to remember your place as a lady and let him be the man.
7th "we must share chores", like I mentioned earlier you don't force things on him..You don't need to make it a Must.
8th "Let others know we're together", This one takes time to be very honest because you need to meet certain needs before he makes that announcement.... You can't be bitchy/disrespectful/a LovePeddler and expect him to announce his relationship with you.
9th "Take things slow", yeah down here you need to take things slow.
Lastly "Be serious about me", the way you present yourself determines how serious he'll be with you.

Like I mentioned earlier, Respect him, understand him, be the woman and allow him to be the man, be kind/caring to him, be loyal and submissive to him then all those needs you're craving for will be met easily.

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Romance / Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Unlimited4G: 7:24pm On Apr 22, 2021
fidtopade:
You are a foolish man!! [b][/b]

Same with you Bro.
Romance / Re: Who Wants To Play The Name Game by Unlimited4G: 10:02pm On Apr 21, 2021
Ariana.
Romance / Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Unlimited4G: 3:36pm On Apr 21, 2021
I know that it's good to always be true with your closest friends..... But there are times that one should consider and view things from different angles.

Bro you messed up big time, you should have just mind your business. You just destroyed someone's relationship and the curses she actually placed are definitely going to work....Yea, 'cause right now Karma has actually paid her back for the life she lived in the past.....and that same Karma will also pay you back for what you did that very day... It might not be now or it might not manifest in your life but it might manifest in the life of your daughter.. Hers might even be on her wedding day, after you must have been very happy that your daughter will be wedded then suddenly the husband runs away on the faithful day.

You've messed up Bro, big time.....It's a guilt you'll live with for the rest of your life.
Romance / Re: What Are These People Doing (pics) by Unlimited4G: 5:44pm On Apr 20, 2021

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Romance / Re: What Are These People Doing (pics) by Unlimited4G: 5:38pm On Apr 20, 2021
They're worshipping the ground the females walk on.

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Education / Re: All The Chemist Should Come In Here. by Unlimited4G: 8:06pm On Apr 18, 2021
ClassicPesGamer:

Is it urgent sir?

Yes, it's very urgent.

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