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tommyex:
USPRY

i went through your page sometime ago,though i dint make a comment,i was actually moved,Take your time dear and when u done You will date an older guy,I should be trying 2 date your kid 

Dont worry by then i ll hook you up 2 a nice Nigeria dude,we have some cool guys

@tommy

Either young---NOT TOO YOUNG TO BE MY SON AGE or older guy---NOT TOO OLD TO BE MY FATHER AGE! There is no rush for dating. Nope, I won't myself matchmaker for my children seeking for date. My children choose their own decisons when it comes to date, not me! But they do ask me what I think once they introduce their loved one to me.

Following characteristics that what I believe in the foundation of relationship stronger, understanding and friendly at below:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

Here you will find excellent kissing tips to learn how to french-kiss at below link:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-112432.0.html

Bad Valentine Experiences

I don't have boyfriend since last broke up 4 years ago. (his commitmentphobia)

After broke-up, i shredded all ex-bf pixs, love letters, email address that i do not wish to be reminder!!!

Yes, there is nothing wrong with celebrating Val despite the val day was over!

Continue enjoying to celebrate your own Val in special way, does not have to be on Feb 14th!

Nope! She is not right!

@poster

I assume both of you are incompatible in relationship. I am so sorry for not work out! Hey there are plenty of fishes out there!

Here is helpful relationship tip at below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

@efuah and tommy

Nothing I want to choose any guy on Nairaland! Because I am not ready to date anyone on new year 2008! I still am studying learning Nigeria pidgin and Yoruba as well as its culture/economic very slowly.

Here on Nairaland, I find it so fascinated with those hot debatable intelligent matured Nigerian guys I never knew! Wish I could date an ideal Nigerian guy, but I couldn't due to my personal reason i cannot explained here. So therefore, I would not accept anyone half way around the world unless I might change my mind later---not now.

See existing thread at below:

Will you like to date with a person who happens to be deaf?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-38751.0.html

Role Swapping: Would You Be Consider Exchanging Roles With Your Spouse? _{(my post)}
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=106740.msg1868657#msg1868657

Moneybags well said. I wish he is my husband! LOL!

@poster
Nice job!

For me, I have not denied my love for someone special whom I cherished, consoled, be there for him to cry on my shoulder when his heartbroken by his gal, advised, gone shopping with him, gone cruising to new city we never explore before, and so many fun we chat, laugh, tease. _{(locally between two states separately reside---3 hours drive)}

He knew I have feeling for him, but he turned me down TWICE! He blindly loved with wrong gals (3 times, different gals). Who I am? Talking parrot!  

Now this is 2008! I don finish with am pata pata! I ain't his ore no more!!! Happy valentine to NLers.

Please research finding existing topic FIRST using at the bottom of this page, GOOGLE with radio button, nairaland.com before posting new topic!

Here is existing thread at below:

Best Anti-Virus For Better Protection
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99212.0.html

Happy Valentine to all Nigerian ore mi as well as new Nairaland members! 

I will be online until 5pm today!

Happy Valentine to all Nigerian ore mi include new NL members!

@4him

Aisha2 asks anyone to interest in contributing charity. I am not interested in because my church in the USA has already involved in their own Africa missionary activities taking whole charity by gathering lot of items donated and distributed for Africa orphanages, Africa college girls, and widowed mothers with children to meet their needs.

Too many items has been piled filling up inside small old chapel adjacent unexpectedly, we volunteered church members folded, packed, and marked them carefully into strong packages to be sent on private shipping delivering to Africa at their own expenses.

My church is not that big church like megachurches!!

Texcee:
@uspry 1
Please I didn't mean to offend you,  I take back what I said earlier about your sister.

_{My apologies} 

@texcee
Your apology is accepted. Go read bible scripture: Levi ch 19:14.

OMO IBO:
really, this is weak. try again.

whooooooooooooooooo! i wasnt expecting this.
im wondering y uspry isnt fighting back. she'd normally come out with her claws.

well, i believe all girls would prefer taller guys but would settle with someone that ticks every other box

@omo ibo
I no fit haba out claws mi to anyone, simple ignore them like my mother taught me to do! They do not know what they are doing themself---they do not know me well!

Don't mind ore mi, @cooldude62! He just pull his leg! Alafia! Alafia!

Check the following existing thread that I have provided many existing links applying to this question you post I already answered at below:

Why Do Girls/women Always Overlook The Nice Genuine Boys/men?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=101280.0.html

Bifor nko? You chop craze that you love her. But you knew she is getting married to another man, not you!

She don finish with you pata, pata! No put yourself wahala by going to her wedding invitation---her man's kingdom!

@queen01

Welcome to Nairaland! You will love it! Plenty of time meeting different Nairaland people! Plenty of laughing, educating, contributing, learning, and changing your life lot better yourself!

The more you will save too many heartbreaks learning from their mistakes that you won't happen to youself! Be smart! Be cautious! Keep your legs close!

Why you always date BAD BOYS aka sex freaky? Basically they are vultures playing along to come back to you over and over!!!

No thank! My church in the USA has its own Africa missionary where my congregations always donate and contribute things including plane tickets to UGANDA, NIGERIA, and few other East/West Africa countries.

Twelve teams on Africa missionary every year since 1990s, they can afford purchasing round-trip plane ticket that cost them $2k US dollar (2007 price) and hiring Ugandan/Nigerian interpreters with them on missionary journey. Most are pastorial and ministerial staff and few are true Christians with strong prayer warriors.

Last year (2007) informed us at church that they stopped going UGANDA anymore, change different Africa country, because of dangerous travel to UGANDA. (too many orphans turn into youth miliants---my Africa missionary staffs no fit trying to educate them and safely escaped from harm they all visited in the same village they went in the past---suddenly last year was changed)

That is how I got influenced by my church as I joined in deaf church in the major city in the USA two years ago---discovering how friendly my church congregations care about Africa unlikely my hometown rural church congregations are (too stingy!). I got respect Africa too much!!!

My church is working on hosting new country, Kenya. My church got relived from my other pastor with his son just escaped from Kenya during Christmas holiday left Kenya on January 2, 2008, it was released on the Washington Post as well as among Potomac area newspapers spreading around the state.

Now it is wrong time for this year 2008, just wait until everything in Kenya calm for my church's new Africa missionary.

Your friend is definitely desperate over BAD BOYS she chase based on the looks! BAD BOYS are always BAD BOYS no one (girls/boys) can change guys.

The looks are not always best when it comes to relationship. For strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility (refer the knowledge of sexuality)[/li]
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

MOST BAD BOYS has no interest in committed relationships---just play games seeking for unsuspected girls in the name of SEX, SEX, SEX and MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!

No, you are NEVER TO BE OLD having a date with a 38 years old Nigerian despite of your previous marriage and raise two kids.

Your man loves who you are, not about your age. Age is just number! Trust with your heart, mind, body, and soul! Be faith! Make this relationship work for the better chance!

I choose the option "C". I dey fear person who be gra-gra or submission pupo wahala for me.  

@mat2lock

Thank you for your word of encouragement and compliment! I am glad you enjoyed reading my profile as well as my journal.

You have chosen your username resembled to America re-run TV show called "Matlock", a elderly smart attorney on crime/court drama.

I always lift my spirit higher like an Eagle roam around the world.

It is your decision. You don't have to print wedding invitation cards.

My relatives bought 250 sheets of pre-printed custom wedding invitation cards from the office supply store using Microsoft Word and their printer in order to tear cards, fold them and send by mail. Cheaper than real professional printing shop or wedding planner's engraved wedding package.

Texcee:
Well, your sister's case is different. Unlike other women, your sister has no choice
but to settle for whatever man comes her way

@Texcee

You got all wrong. My sister mostly like to date shorter guys that i have noticed her in the past except one was her ex-husband was taller than her. All her ex-bfs were mostly shorter than my sister.

I prefer with guy that has same height or slight short guy as mine.