₦airaland Forum

nkpommpko:
If nah man do am now, e go be sexual harassment

I think the woman is scared of flying.
If it was a man, he won't want to show his fear in front of a woman so he will make sure not to hold her hand.

kevwemike:
She was afraid from the way she held the guys hand, but my guy done dey think another thing lol

He is a man
She is a woman.
What else do you want the guy to think?
Even you will think that thing.

tritt:
The same shit happened to me even as a guy, first day she invited me to her place and the next thing I saw getting in was a canopy with her dad and relatives welcoming me. Now getting to the sitting room na sisters and cousins dey welcome me again. I swear I confuse, na my driver I use discharge from the house that day and that was the last time I saw her. Crazy shit happens

Very wise move.

Error. Run away now.
This man will beat the woman.
Domestic violence men. That's how they are.
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He hasn't even done any courtship. Has no idea how the woman
behaves in different circumstances. That's what courtship is for.
He will marry her, discover her shortcomings and start beating her in the house.
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Run NOW.

OriOko88:

Can those effing military officers try that in US? Where everybody Is whielding gun. They'd be shot straight by the driver.

Fckk around and get found!

Don't compare the 2 countries. Not the same in any way.
US is a country formed by Americans. It favours all of them.
Nigeria was never formed by Nigerians. Hence it doesn't favour any of us.

I'm tired of "Being Constructed".
I want to see, "Being Used", "Generating revenue", "Providing security".
Anybody can construct anything.
Termite can construct mound,
Bird can construct nest.

pocohantas:
No, she is not too young for you. The average wide age difference is 7 to 12 yrs.

People only raise eyebrows when you are generations apart. Nothing new in 9yrs between a couple as long as you understand the realities of what it entails and do not expect more than she can give at 24.

I won't argue with this at all. But though, these days, there's a stupid problem of phone/social media.
Before social media, everybody kind of had same mature mind.
So, 7–12-year age difference, both parties would be similarly minded and get along. Our parents and grandparents.
But this current generation that is governed by internet and smart phone.
The man's Internet, music, social media is 12 years different from the woman's internet, social media and music.
They are not on the same page at all and may ended MARRYING their PHONES instead to seek companionship with their phone, instead of finding companionship with their spouse and paying attention to their spouse.
It can lead to strained communication. You just don't understand me... etc.

lecowas:
Even Ned Nwoko who is a public figure didn't ask this. The age difference is very okay as women tend to catch up later on. If you marry your mate, they may end up looking like ur mom at 50 while u're still bouncing around.

It is this school of thing that is making us to be looking at our mate.
Nothing in history ever stated that a man should marry his mate/woman. Historical men figures (Bible etc) all married, 10, 20, 30 years their juniour.

kestolove95:
Wia that woman wey bin dey sale bread dey form model that year dey?

Bread girl?
We are not seeing her again O.
I think the husband got angry or something. As per she's earning more than him.

ednut1:
He was prepared to sponsor her education in uk which costs over 40m naira but cant pay 3.5m? If you love her just carry am go court and promise to come back for the list. Then run 😂

At this rate, let Nigerian guys forget Nigerian girls.
Nigerian girls are expensive and useless.
Do your runs, leave the country and marry outside.
Cameroon, Niger, Benin Republic, Ghana.

TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

So you are selling the girl?
What if the family has a son?
Will they sell him off too?
Or suddenly, between the 2 children, boy and girl, their parents will love the girl and hate the boy?
Explain your statement.

davidtemi:
I hope dey won't sack the security man dat allowed him into the banking hall with dat speaker

The IDIOT boy PURPOSELY turned OFF the music
when he was passing the door to enter.
Because he KNEW the security man would not allow him in.
But once inside, he turned on the music to disturb others.
If i was there, I would smash the radio to pieces.
You like shit music does not mean that others around
you like same shit music
NOR does it mean they want to hear shit music at this
particular time.
Use your headphones to disturb yourself or get out of the bank.

TemplarLandry:
Music lovers are happy people.
Only sadists and moralists would comdem this youngin.

I dedicate "Young Metro" by Metro Boomin and Future feat. The Weeknd to him.
Great jam!

Asshole.
The bank is not music studio. It is an office.
And no music or loud shouting is allowed in the office.
Go outside to the road and play your loud music.

Kobojunkie:
Name one of the chemicals?

Your asking for chemicals? This is Nigeria. Tomorrow, they will open one thread here of fake noodles made with gutter water.
Shey 2 years ago, we saw the one of fake drinks in Lagos Island..

IamtheTruth1:
What's the difference between a rat and a mouse?

Lol.

Rat is dirty and disgusting.
Can swim in 100% shit water and carries all manner of diseases along with it.
Mouse is clean.

The size of the mouth.
Snitch has small mouth
Informant is amebo, with big mouth.

Ievi:
More than that, we need to start asking question on what created them the first place

Western Economics created the situation that created Bandits.
West needs to be rich but they need Africa to remain poor and undeveloped so we just hand over our minerals and raw materials to them, and sit behind jobless.
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Our leaders are all puppets of the West.
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This is the reason that the French nations, Niger Mali, Burkina Faso have done a military take over and cut themselves off the coloniser west/France and are now using their own resources in house.
Jobs will result for their people and bandit will not be an excuse anymore.

Zeng feng ching
Ching fan zong...
Oya point him from this crowd.
Point his face...

Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

There's excuse
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As Nigerians (Africans), all our traditions put women in the house and the man roams about unchallenged.
Even most especially all them Sharia states up north.
Western people came with English and Education, which makes women TALK.
And quite frankly, Nigeria/African men are not sitting very well with this "Talking" of women.
It doesn't follow anybody's tradition, for women to talk about anything.
Before the man married the woman, by tradition, he had to pay a price, kill cow, recieve some beatings or some
other heavy burdens placed on him by the inlaws,
So who the f*** is the woman to "Talk" in the house after the wedding?
Western people don't do these things.

As people continue to hold on to African traditional values,
then you continue to get this sporadic acts of violence on the women from men
that can't bear the "talking". (Talk/challenge...)
It's either you 100% let go of your tradition
or you 100% let go of Western Education.
The two cannot work together.

oluwaseyi0:
Lol

You can't be singing about happiness when you've got girlfriend that's stressing you

So you gats' to be truthful to yourself and stop singing fake song.

bejeh:
yet u say its possible

Your wife/partner has to understand that that is your identity.
They either comply with your lifestyle before marrying you or
just kukuma leave you alone to do your artiste stuff.

Well, artistic things depend on inspiration.
Inspiration comes at any time, day or night, sober or drunk.
And the marital home is not quite the place for irregular behaviour.
Unless your partner understands this and is prepared for this type of spontaneous irregular life.
I don't really think Nigerian ladies, after all the suffer and struggle for water, light, education, want
to live in a scatter-scatter house.
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I know a guy. He was a teacher in a Secondary school.
He was very good in Art and photography.
But his artist lecturer at university taught them do be doing raster hair.
He didn't do it in the school. But was always wearing local dress when the other teachers were
in suit, shirt and trouser. His home was suffering, scatter-scatter, paint everywhere.
The wife comot, as she couldn't stand it.
Last I heard of him, he's in US with complete raster hair and totally separated from wife and kid.

dom:
Immaturity and childishness.
They'll regret it when they eventually grow up.

Grow to where again?
They've already grown the grow!
Sheybe everything in Nigeria is about competition?
I'm better than you, You are better than him.
Oya now.
As the 1-3rd positions oppressed them when they were kids,
they are now oppressing the 1-3rd positions with their wealth.
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Education is not for passing exams
It is meant for solving problems.
And if you are a full grown adult and still cannot solve your personal problem of NO FOOD, NO JOB,
.... hen! You are a stark illiterate. Better tear all your useless certificates because you just wasted your life.

redcliff:
Why you sef wey carry 1-3rd no make am like your peers? In school ypu giys castigated them, allow them do theirs too.. lol

Simple and correct!!

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......Hope y'all are having a nice day + flexing on the harmattan season that's already gotten it's aroma allover the place?
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these guys are only out to add more pains to people's depression

Have anyone experienced this kind of scenario before?

Life is meant to be lived forward not backwards.
They were in your primary school, DOES NOT MEAN, they were your friends.
You all just met, and each person has his path in life to follow.
I left Facebook around 2013 or so... as former classmates were focused on
showing the rice and stew they ate or the shoe they bought...
and I couldn't give a rat's ass about such nonsense.
I wasn't interested in your rice back in school, and I damn well am not interested in your rice today.
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Move on and make new close friends with whom God brings to you.
Your best friend is supposed to be your husband/wife.
And it's only ONE person. So what are you looking for 100 friends for?

Best regards

Sleekfingers:
Why is the idiot smiling ? Someone that should be arrested....

Arrested for what?
Did you provide food for him? NO.
Did you provide a job for him? NO.
You are useless to him.
Let him do his thing.

Ever8090:
Javis will be one of the lecture....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0FBGrtAicY&t=11s&pp=ygUGbXIgemVk

People should control themselves O.
This Mr Zed has been doing this Robot whatever since the 1990s
and he's still stuck behaving like that till date.
No more normal behaviour.

samwash:
For the past few weeks now, una nor let me rest for this fight, finally, the fight don come & go .
I give it to grandpa Mike, at his age, it not easy to be in the ring to fight a young guy like that.

8 rounds and the young guy couldn't still knock him down.
That means if they were the same age 27, Mike Tyson would have killed the Jake Paul in 2 seconds.

Overmars36:
I'm Tinubuphobia

No.
Protest phobia.
Right phobia.
The fear Africans have of their leaders.
Rather than protest, they just gather all their money and run overseas.
Only those Niger and Burkina Faso Military leaders, Ibrahim Traore and General Abdourahamane Tchiani
kicked out the fake democratic, oyibo slave serving leaders.
The people wanted a change, just like us in Nigeria. But were TOO FRIGHTENED of their leader to fight.
But now, they are in full support of the Military leaders.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQ6og8UHLJI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R_qOVWQEq8&pp=ygUTbWFsaSBpYnJhaGltIHRyYW9yZQ%3D%3D

She get one kind strong face like these Team America dolls

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpqXwJXI0KQ

This the real guy!