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The number of persons viewing this tread is unbelievable

amnesty7:
Double wahala for the woman cos if proved she will lose the husband as well.

Did you read well before commenting?

keepingmum:
I just realised theres no point carrying on .....you already have another wife.....their in lies your wife's action

Well said dear.

Adamrealman78:
sorry for yourself, this happened last week Monday, on Tuesday I bleeped my new wife.she is on her way to Abuja to replace the other one.life goes on always have plan b,c,d-z

You already have a woman you're sleeping with. Does she know about that? Why are you complaining about her building a house and not telling you, when you are cheating on her. The Bible at 1 Corintians13:7 says love bears all things and endures all things.
Your action shows you are not faithful. Keep your family out of your marriage. Marriage is not all about children. Children come and go, two of you will remain. Have you carried out a check on yourself, before hastly accusing your wife of not giving you children. Most infertility issues lie with men.
Africa has stereotyped us into believing we must have children when married, while it is not supposed to be so. Even with the number of children in Africa, we are not inproving and developing. The earlier we improve our thinking abilities the better for us. Everything in life is not about marriage and children.
You are married but have plans b-z already. That shows you know what you are doing and need someone to put the blame on. I'm sure you will still come back to tell us your second woman has not bore your a child. When Africa starts respecting women, things will get better.

Donald3d:
Hmm , this one is strong . Don't you think you are going overboard with this ?

My broda ask am

Op, what will you do if she test you with a small slap? May people you encounter test you with slaps.

Mynd44:
The man, his mother, his phone, and the hand he used to slap her are all mad

Mynd44, you dey vex o.

Until we learn how to love people for who they are and not there age, we'll continue to have problems. Men marry women 10-15 years younger than they are, yet the heavens did not fall down. Just 4 years difference and the issue is on nairaland already. That means other problems in your marriage will be on facebook and twitter.
In my opinion, it is better you marry someone matured who can handle issues and pressures in marriage. You come across to me as the immatured one here. Do you love her for who she is? Then go ahead and marry her. I rest my case.

One just needs to be very careful.

MhizzAJ:
I'm not cool with this

You shouldn't dear. It sounds stupid.

BizLifeE:
Those women who think they can get money for sex, please know that your days are numbered.



Perfect Money/Payeer/Epay/Neteller/Skrill: .com.ng

But, you're paying for the doll.

fpeter:
Demonic something.

You nailed it dear. That is what it is.

dollyjoy:
Lolz, what's wrong with you Leave those already in relationship alone!!!!

Help me tell am o

SlimBrawnie:
"I love you my daughter" to Bobrisky?

Ahhh

God I want either Male sons or female daughters

I am not Oliver Twist

Babe, you dey vex o. Which be male sons and female daughters?

Ahmed0336:
Bobbyrisky dey form philanthropist

Abi e no good?

@op, it it clear that you are not if the same believe. Pls do not press further. Look for someone else who shares your believe. The Bible is clear on this. " do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers". Pls leave her alone.

mikejj:
a good husband will teach his wife how to make it...there is no marriage in heaven so guys respect your spouse.

May God bless you

Dear Nairalanders, everybody is not programmed to be slim. Our genes programmes what you will look like. We should not allow the media to decieve us into believing that we must be of a particular size. Appreciate your bodies and like yourself. you can be fit without looking slim. Some people are very slin but with dangerous hidden body fat. Pls, we should not be decieved by media puctures.

cerowo:
Those two women up there dont look the same

You have eyes and you can see

Good research @op. That is the truth.

AleksAndria:
Have anyone found the Confusion?, I can't find any.

Funny you dear

thesicilian:
When Aba jam China. One can only imagine the level of fakeness.

You no well o

thesicilian:
When Aba jam China. One can only imagine the level of fakeness.

You no well o

ednut1:
most likely depression induced suicide. rip

You seem to make some sense

So true. Kids putting people in trouble. It happened to someone in my area, thank God the child did not die. But the person spent so much money treating the child in the hospital. We just need to be careful always.

Pls, who brought back this thread? Ooh mpa's reply is hilarious.

Archangel15:
He should take clay and mould her himself.

May you remain blessed.

In view of this Spanish appointment, will we fault the Imo State governor's appointment?

Nigerians should learn to be contented. Greediness only plunges into danger. A contented person does not get into trouble.

EMPEROR48:
[color=#000099][/color]My fellow nairalanders, or my good brothers and sisters I thank you all for your comment and good advice well to those who are yet to marry I will advice you stop making comments on marital issues because some of you are yet to format your brains on family life. Those who were spilling rubish by the time u ever get married you will know what life is all about. Those who said I shouldn't lay a finger on my wife may you always have great joy in all ur endeavours, those who thought my wife was cheating on me, well I didn't marry such a woman because were she came from, once you cheat its either she dies or I the man will fall sick if I ever eat her food. So creating was never an option, I was so much angry because at least she shouldn't have encode what I know about already, my anger is why would she ever do such a thing, what is she trying to portray?
Now to the main thing that happened on Sunday of 3rd December. I woke up in the morning around 5am I didn't even know how I managed to sleep but I saw myself in the morning on Sunday so I dash to the bathroom did the usual routine and ate a little akpo also known as 6to6, got dressed and off I go .... straight to the hospital to see my wife sick sister who was admitted the previous day and also my wife who was at her bed side although. When I got to the ward they place her, my wife greeted me and I answer her with a frowned face. Then she was like what s going on we were happy the previous day so whats this change of expression? So we were there till about 2pm when suddenly her sister demanded for lucozade boost then both of us went out to get it then I said this is my chance to confront her, suddenly she glanced at my finger and discovered I was not putting on my wedding ring, then she gave me the best opportunity to send my missile by askin me were is ur ring?

You know your wife does not cheat, why did you get so angry with her saving a male number with a female name? My brother next time please, make sure of all things before coming to a conclusion. I wish you all the best as you resolve your marital problems ameekably. One more thing, never bring your marital issues on social media you will not get the best of advice. Do not involve third parties in your marriage and you will get the best of your marriage. I wish you all the best.

UbanmeUdie:




The beauty of a woman's breez is the nipples.

Thank God the wicked poverty stricken drunk of a man did not succeed in frying them out with the hot oil.

With that, her CV is still in tact!

When she is fully recovered, she should switch her line of business from frying Akara to something more lucrative. I will personally advice she rents a very cheap one room apartment at Maraba and be rendering services to mankind.

It is quite profitable and less risky than frying akara.

what really do you mean?

To free yourself from bondage, all who claim to be christian should read the Bible for themselves. The Bible is not meant for pastors, it is for all christians to read. When you read the Bible, you will know the truth and and the truth will set you free.

It is unfortunate that so many people do not read the Bible and thus knows nothing about the tithing arrangement. The tithe was for the Levites and the Priesthood since these have no share in landed properties in Israel. With the death of Jesus Christ and ransom sacrifice, he died once and for all. He is now out high priest interceeding for us in the presence of God in the heavens.

Following his death, the tithing arrangement ceased since there is no room for a human Priest again. (Heb 7:11-28). Now, in place of a tithing arrangement, there is an arrangement for voluntary contribution for christians, which no one is compelled to pay rather out of ones heart condition, one makes a contribution as one is moved to. (2 Cor 9:7).

Thus, holding anyone down to pay tithe is unchristian. Each one should be allowed to contibute as his/her heart moves him, for God loves a cheerful giver.