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This is a regular African occurrence considering the environments we grew up in. That does not make it acceptable though. Read through it and loved your take on it being an addictive cycle. Thank you for not asking an abused to stay back too cos many need to reconsider their marriages.

That's wus up! Nigga na man u be.

chisus! This country Sha! Person go just dey fight depression on a daily . Nothing to smile about. Na to just hold baba God cloth o as person dey work from him side. E reach to fear person.

Human beings will never take responsibility. Blame money rather than the people handling it. Well said.

TCMA:
My dearest, money is simply a tool. We do not blame a crazy bike for hitting someone but instead the cyclist is to be blamed. Money could become either a positive or negative force depending on whose hands it gets into. Secondly I must also mention that a cheat is a cheat. Cheating is a learnt behaviour. Both the person cheating consistently or the person who cheated once (with tha sales boy).. Hope this helps.

Meanwhile one solid chick go dey somewhere they slime up unto the nigga dress sense. E sad o.

sylve11:
Gad damn it! I just dislike seeing this guy.

What an irritating sight.

I just finished reading an article on how to identify Narcissism and then proceed to get help only for me to stumble on men putting on pants again? So im imagining myself asking my wife is she saw where my "hoochie daddy " pants were. Sad. Guys please read this. https://templescounsel.com/identifying-narcissism-narcissists-are-created-not-born-part-2-of-2/

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Please try out Temples Counsel & Mind Academy. https://templescounsel.com They have local counseling centers in Lagos Abuja, Port harcourt. and in SA and Accra. I reffered a HIV positive friend to them in 2018. As i dey talk, she happy pass me. She has been in therapy with their lead therapist for almost 3 years and keeps telling me about him. I had to go in myself. Please dont take my word. Just watch this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8dPyVwOyUdo

I read the entire article. This one touch me gan!! helpful.

It's a dicey one because both of you are one.. but if she complains it means shes not happy about something. Thats if she complains.. what if she doesn't? I weak o.

I see many peeps using the term "she", guys are bisexual too and after i read through the article, i think this whole bi thing is a bit more serious and goes beyond having three somes. What happens if you are over the partner and your bi partner isnt? a lot of if's and but's that i personally suspect would not be the most comfortable scenarios.. I think i will pass and just get a normal relationship.

I read your post and if i'm honest, i think it will help somebody out there because me wey no be homo learn from am. Nice.

This table you shook oga, the leg no strong at all. People dey see nwiiii sha!

lol.. nice graciee..Just give him an opportunity to change full circle o.

Thank you so much. We will contact them. thanks

Onyiiet:
My elder sister had some issue sometime ago similar to what you are talking about. Unfortunately you are not in Nigeria but please check this link out. The guy was referred to us and he helped her after a painful 6 months for us all. https://templeobike.com/deprogramming-and-exit-counseling/ . Speak to them i'm certain they can help.

Thanks Hatima. we will do this again. Just hard seeing her go down daily.

Hatima:
Good morning,
First she should give her life to Christ and truly repent
Get baptized
Get a Bible
Then go for deliverance or do a self deliverance by fasting, and praying.. especially at midnight..

God will get her out of it.

Please if someone was initiated into a spiritual sect at birth, How does he or she get out? The victim is christian but at a point of madness and depression and stays in Canada with me. We are both Liberians and friends who have known each other for over 12 years.

Please help with any constructive assistance please. it's urgent.

The girl reasoning is deficient.

EmmySparky:
what is this one saying...is the lockdown. affecting ur reasoning?

LMAO...

worworbabe:
I am more concerned that you and your neighbours are visiting one another.
She will soon kiss corona and come and sneeze in your sitting room.

Bros didn't you read the story? he just needed advice?

Pharaoh350s:
And so
Won't you mind your business in this lockdown??

Sir just make sure you don't get engulfed with guilt.

tutidaplug:
Firstly, i don't like getting my nose in people's business but this one pass me. My neighbor is in his early forties and a really nice guy who i've known for 3 years. I was sick of staying home last week Saturday so i strolled to the estate gate by 7pm as this lock-in period was really getting to me. On my way back, i took a longer, lonelier route 3 streets behind mine only to see my neighbors wife in a parked LR4 kissing one old man in is fifties. For some strange reason i looked at the car and the mobile phone light inside shone making me see here as clear as i'm typing now. In shock she waved and i waved back. After 10 paces , the car honked and i looked back to see the woman running towards me. She wanted to explain and i asked her "Madam do we know each other?" and winked. She smiled and said "no" and went back.

As sleek as an answer that it was, i feel guilty because the couple as always came visiting two days ago as they always do. After they left, i told my wife and she said that she will leave this with me and god as she trusts me to know what to do. This thing has made me spend money calling one popular therapist yesterday. I even pay on top for phone counseling.. After we spoke, the guy said he needs me to mind my business and not take up some other persons load. He said if i saw the woman, it simply meant that she was already getting reckless with her affairs and would be caught soon.

I took the advice peeps but don't know if it was the right one he and my wife are giving me o. Conscience dey knack me no be small anytime i see the guy. I just tire.. This lagos na truly wah...