AntiMen:


He is not any of the names you called him..
But believe anything you choose....

i don't usually comment but hmmm..... You seem reasonable and matured in this generation its a hard thing to find, judging from most of the reply u are getting here, u will understand why i said so. You are in a situation that makes u uncomfortable i wount say wrong, u know ur Rev. and u know ur Hubby telling either of them could do more harm than good, trust ur instint on how to handle it and the rest will sort itself out, after all u are the one who see urself not someone pointing ur behavior to u. If u depend on this adult-children of this forum giving u advice from their terrible relationship experience, quoting their pastor and scripture they dont understand just to make u feel bad, it may end badly. Trust ur instint in handling it

We are currently experiencing bad leadership in all ramification in this country, instead of creating topics on how we youth can improve personaly and collective incase by commision or by omision it falls on us and We can show a better way. Instead, We are here talking about sex and marriage everyday, una no dey tire recycling headlings. The whole of Egypt didnt experience hardship coz of Joseph gift, Even Queen of scotland was afraid of John knock. which kind Nigerian youth we be. make i pass abeg, coz when Fire touches the pot the pot will touch whats inside.

I was wondering when African variant will arrieved, covid-19, the tv series. Humanity, funny race.

I was wondering when African variant will arrieved. Humanity, funny race. Covid 19: the tv series

There was a time Arsenal was an invinsible team, they compete for league every season. stars other team admire/jealous off with a playing partern called "Englan Barca" suddenly, they started detorating instead of their fans to voice their continious failing, they stasted celebrating top 4 finish, now there's no top 4 to celebrate. Moral lesson; when you celebrate mediocrity for so long you will have nothing to celebrate and if something drastic is not done you will go out of existance, if you doubt me look at NIGERIA today, SHE need something drastic be done. Even Aston villa and Newcastle was once a top 4team. Abramovich came to chelsea 2003, now look at chelsea with 2champions League trophies...... When the fire touches the pot, the pot will touch what's inside.

ikllbrokehoes:
She's 100% right though, but she's the president she should have kept shut instead of blabbing, we all know most female footballers are ugly and flatchested

in other words as a president don't say the truth cause the people can't face it.... And here we are condeming Buhari government and lie lie Mohammed.......... When the fire touches the pot, the pot must touch what's inside

Seniorwriter:


She's not jobless but has spoken as a typical emotional being as most females are! Most Females express their opinions before critical evaluation....talk of speaking without thinking of the reactions that might follow.



@SENIORWRITER

Actually she spoke as someone from African society, i'm not giving her aproval, but i understand where she come from. The kind of treatment, these leadies recieve from their so called in-laws, and husband friends ofcours they know the girls did't creat themselves, so why treat them different coz ur son, brother or friend want to marry "flat chest" how is it so different from racism yet we condem the white. We are so full of double standard. You judge a girl for being dark and she couldn't stand it anylonger, she start bleaching and still get critizise for it........ When the fire touches the pot, the pot must touch what's inside.

When the fire touches the pot, the pot will touch what's inside

Its more about the people than the leaders and it also speaks about the level of our inteligence, maturity and priority of this generation. What you give attention multiplies and what you ignore dies. When you open a business the more people petronize you, the more you think of buying in large quantity and opening another branch, it also speak about he level of our emotionally inteligence, hence the saying "looking good is good business" how does your look benefit anyone? because majority petronize your look than what you bring to the table.Just compare what we called comedy now to Night of a thousand laugh, and the lyrics of todays music to what we have before, then tell me how listening to such everyday grow your inteligence. And tell me, the level of inteligence invoved in glo ads.

Its more about the people than the leaders and it also speaks about the level of our inteligence, maturity and priority of this generation. What you give attention multiplies and what you ignore dies. When you open a business the more people petronize you, the more you think of buying in large quantity and opening another branch, it also speak about he level of our emotionally inteligence, hence the saying "looking good is good business" how does your look benefit anyone? because majority petronize your look than what you bring to the table.Just compare what we called comedy now to Night of a thousand laugh, and the lyrics of todays music to what we have before, then tell me how listening to such everyday grow your inteligence. And tell me, the level of inteligence invoved in glo ads.

I'm not surprise to see this headline. When i see all the nonsense talk about Messi it tells you the truth about life. when someone don't have the heart for you if you like die for them, they will critize you for doing it coz u want go heaven. We don't understand politics hence you can see how we handle Nigeria politics. Many football fans talk about Messi proving himself in another league. Why? Is that what Barcelona and their fans want? They enjoy his imput, hence they pay for ticket and buy his shirt, sing his praise. As for you What have you done for him lately for him to prove himself to you? One of BARCA, boad member just resign and blame Perez for being the brain behind Messi exit and that the CVC deal would have solve Barca financial problem also that he think that Madrid will sign mbape. Messi walk away from Argentina he came back to win trophy. why will big club like Barca conceve 4 to Roma and liverpool, in UEFA why wait till you lose 8-2 to Beryan before you know you have a problem? BOAD

FutureIsFemale:
Women are visionaries. Imagine what Nigeria would become if a woman was the president.

God bless Adejoke for her craft.
God bless every woman out there.
God bless Nigeria.

Today I vowed not to post about rape or negative news. Good news all for today.

I want to use the medium to congratulate that young lady who was called the Bar. May God bless you wherever you are. Keep making us proud.

You mean women like patricia Etteh and Allison

Fahdiga:
Nice one but why was it only black players that lost their penalties

Because its organised Racism, From the top. Remember England fan boo their team and those at the top called it gesture politics. Johnson said nothing. Words from Tyron Mings, England player "You don't get to stoke the fire at the beginning of the tournament by lebelling our ant-racism massage gesture politics and then pretend to be disguested when the very thing happens

Golden147:

It's a lie bro....if I add how much I have spent on the brothers you will pity me...the second son as I talk to you is oweing me 250k nd has refused to pay me...keep giving me excuses....she knows about it...
As a man, you can't endure all this, I have seek advice from different individual.. everyone conderms such act.... By the brothers..... anyways you won't know... match I spent 45k to make sure the last BRO was realized after involving in rubbish act...
Anyways..thank you for your advice.

As for the issue of money and her brothers, here is my take. When it comes to money with friends or relative give if you feel you should but don't borrow, and if must borrow, keep an open mind, if you say i must get it back be ready to either lose the money or the relationship cus money and friendship/relatives are like oil and water they don't mix. Finally if u feel u need to marry, plz do, there's no advice that can prevent you from making a necessary mistake.

Golden147:


Lol...I know this advice will eventually surface...but let me ask you.. How do you know a man who is ready for marriage, does age count too or it's because I added my age and her age??

well, people will always advice base on experience, knowledge and what they see everyday, but not every situation is the same, as for age hmmm, it maters but some grow old but never grow up.. So here is my quota. As always my; know youself which will help you know what works for you, your level of tolerance, patience, temper, how you deal with issues: make excuss, blame others or try fix it. As for her, Marriage is a journey not a destination, anyone can ride with you in a fine car but when the car is broken is she the type that will come down & help u fix it or step in another car and change direction? Cus in this journey things may turn downway for u and upward for her, so its ur question to answer. As for your parents or relative don't expect them to always b supportive.

XXXXTENTACION:
Calm down the world is not as bad as you make it seem
boarding was the best thing that happened to me.. It was through the boarding school that i learnt alot and became a better person..

When you say boarding school was the best, you sound like you also experienced day school at that age. Someone made a decision for you with out alternative, in which you adjust yourself to feel okay with Unknown to you what you missed, What made it the best

executioner:
Jobs or rice, which is easier to give. You no collect the one wey you see.

This mentality is what creat and keep us in this mess. We continue to collect peanut that we see and that give them the morale to steal what we don't see. This is not made in Nigeria character, i think this is Ghana locating their factory reset switch. But as my people would say; when the fire touches the pot, the pot will touch what is inside... Same fire has not touch our pot yet

Africans, what a Failed Experiment...... Old and Young praises Nelson Mandela, how good he was and condemming currient politicians but how many of us can/will emulate Mandela to liberate our own people, starting from our villages, and school politics, yet the so called African youth are shouting for good governance. What a self-centered generation. My people say; pikin no sabi book him mama de praise am say he get fine hand writing..... Abeg...Where him go write am?

I didnt know south Africans were jealous of Nigerians ENDSARS Protest.....Africans, hmmmm our children & grand children will be so proud when they begin their internet journey. In the words of my fore-fathers; A child that urinate inside a village River does not know that if his father relation dose not drink from it, his mother relation will certainly will.

When someone ask about my relationship with God my respond is; that's not your business, you should ask what's my relationship with you cus it is you that will make me offend God. it's the people playing drum and singing for the masquerade that constitut its strenght. Let us continue to fool ourselves with todays Religeous leaders and Audio christianity. Christianity is for people with conscience, that's why the Bible talk about a broken heart and a contrite spirit. People did't called Jesus disciple christians because of talk talk but what they did, their characters was christ like. Noah did't just talk about the flood, his Ark building show that he was sure of what he was talking about, the people own was just enter, whether you are good or bad. Let your light shine before men that they may see your good work and give glory to God. Todays youth has a long way to go. My people say that a log of wood may stay long in a river but that does not make it a crocodile.

My views may sound like am supporting our politicians but i'm someone who look at the root of a problem not the fruits, treat the disease not the syntom, you celebrate mediocrity, mediocrity sale... You celebrate BBN, by watching, talking, praising the participant... school Debate, mathematic or cowbell competition do you show same passion and same financial support? In US, Texas Democrat legislators has fled to washington as a protest against bill that will go against black voters. Paying for hotel with their own money, Do you think this character started that day? Rashford brought back school feeding in UK, i mean,You can only give the world what's in you.

0dav2:
You people should stop brainwasing us, we know say we get our own, but make politician enforce true and uncompromised anticorruption act.

bros, they say charity begins from home, if your child stole biro from school and you as a father do nothing or say nothing what lesson do you think your child is getting? How about in the next 30, 40, 50years of that child? Is not the day a rat eat the bag of a native doctor that will be its dead. Our politicians reflect us. Look at our elders, village and cancelors. Remind me, who did Akpabio went to bribe in the greek with money in Ghana must go? did he say no? We sow cassava and when that cassava had fully grown we now want yam. Do you think it will easy to pull off that cassava with words? Also do you have yam ready to plant when that cassava is uprooted? Yet you want yam not cassava. Nature abhor vaccum

NwaEzefuNaMba:
God bless her immensely!

The number one problem of Nigeria today is truth and dishonesty and we all contribute to this.

This is you being honest with yourself and it's the first step in the right direction. Funny woman, what was the she thinking? That we the citizen will admit our part in this mess, when our parent, sons, and daughters are mention. Its always politicians fault, please this politicians don't they belong to a village, have families and relatives clapping for him stealing money meant for poor masses? Its easier for Adam to blame Eve than admit his part in the mess. its human nature. Knowing our criminally kind nature,When corruption is in your favour, you begin to hear divine favour and grace. Live Nigerians abeg, we are in the business of jokes and show men. But as my people would say; When the fire touches the pot the pot will certainly touch what's inside it.

Todays youths are so weak minded hence everything is their pastor says. The problem with the Bible is its subjective interpretation is why the so called men of God continue to toss you around base on their/your interest & intentions. Judas try his with Jesus, a woman pure an expensive oil on Jesus, he told Jesus the oil should be sold and give the money to the poor; but why the poor? why not buy something or give the money to Jesus? Because Jesus was always concern (interest) for the needy and what was Jesus reply to Judas? Knowing his intention; i'm here only for a while but the poor will always be here. Dose it mean Jesus no longer care for the poor? Intentions. We are all characters in this world, Like characters in the Bible, they were used diferently, in their own unique situations. Adam,Daniel, Joseph, Elijah. Nehemiah was the broken wall of Jeruselem. My point as always, Know-Thy-Self so you know your own part to play. Even the centurion did't need Jesus coming to his house but His Words.

Of course, not many will visit this topic, few will comment with sense, very few will offer alternative or add new idea to the bill. Imagin if this involve a woman, you will see many boasting how they would have bang her brain out with weed or what they did or did't do to such woman, and you can't help but wonder, always reducing a woman to sex symbol, is that all we know a woman is good for? Imagine Mr President put someone in social media, on topics the youth put interest on and comment they like most, what do we think the feekback will be? Using Nairaland as a case study, yet this are the youth asking for a better Nigeria. Funny, How often do we get better comment?..... Well, is just one man opinion..... Man-Know-Thy-Self.

Rossonero:
sometimes I feel the ones playing for Nigeria are not good enough to be called elsewhere...

Same thing you would have said about these ones if they have chosen to play for Nigeria. Country can be like family. Either propel you to a greater heights or an anchor dragging you behind which remind me of a post here in Nairaland about a child who seek Asylum in America with his Mother coz of Boko Haram drama, He became a chese champion, breaking records at such a young age. We are very gifted and talented as Africans but creating an environment to celebrate this gift and talent has always been our failing.

Oluwasaeon:

Don't you ever get tired?

Why will he? When your goods is salling do you get tired of taking it to the market? I compare this current Nigeria to Medieval period (Middle ages) in Europe. A period of disarray, life was short and poor. Religious themes was everything. Reason and Science was discarded, scientist were prosecuted for fact and truth that will bring development and growth why? because everything was God by church fathers, many evil were commited in this period. Lets hope this era soon cross over to rationality and science so we can experience progress and better lives. God never stop blessing us, infact His Second blessings to us is our Brain to think for ourselves, its just those in authority taking advantage of our gullibility, like FA taking advantage of your love for football so VAR can decide anything and call it law, but what are you getting as fans? 90min emotional satisfaction or pain for your money. Karl Marx: Religion is Opium of the masses

openmine:
Na wa ohh
Too many matches for an European based player!
No rest or even a single break!
From a hectic season in their respective clubs to friendly matches and then to a tournament!

I expected UEFA and the national teams to allow these players atleast two weeks to rest!
They are not robots or guinea pigs!

I know some will say they are paid heavily for such strenuous engagement but these players are human beings and go through a lot!

Now This is the reasonable thing to do but how often do we see reason apply when there's money or self-interest? If it's in Nigeria prayer point, Night vigil, pastors will fix date for fasting and prayer. We Ignore good and competent medical team and equipment. See the level of professionalism display. We need another colonalism

In every country there are people who do the work and there are "show men" sadly in todays Nigeria is full of "show men" hence this mess. Producers spend millions on movies/music stars while product stay same. Political and Religious Leaders, Captain of Industries and Generals had master the act of Rhetoric and psychology speaking. When there's an issue, topic or a post youths are more interested to make fun or gain likes than address it. Women has find new ways of getting attractive faces and desirable shape than work on their ill-character, When they are chritized my reply is; they reflect todays men sense of values and quality same way BBN a reflection of our sense of fun but watching Maths, Science, Dabate competition are consider boring yet we complain when organizers give excercise book and biro to those kids. When the roof of a house has fallen you don't expect the ceiling to keep standing. Continue to borrow cause we are brain dead to offer solution, ofcause we will call on God to pay the debt.

When you see a Bird dancing in the middle of the road its Drummer is in the nearby bush