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In other words, if you can not say something good about someone jus short-up.

buckeyemedia:
Then they will be shouting President Buhari has destroyed Nigeria, it is President Buhari’s fault.

ofcourse, our Adamic nature, it's far easier to blame someone else than admit or recognize your short-comings. if showing kindness to a follow human who also bleed red like you is difficult, imagin if such a person get to Abuja. is it there he will learn? This is what we have become as a country....not Buhari

boladez:
Were you part of the arrangement and why do you judge all by your standards.

...even in death , you have no regard or sympathy or feeling for the pain and loss of the families.....and you will claim to be fasting today or claim to be in church or call on any God you want to .......you have no milk of humanity in you and you cannot hide it.

This is the problem of our country, NO Kindness...everyone is for him or herself. Even if she were a professional prostitute, did she deserve to be killed?

it is the new Nigeria , no kindness not to talk of empathy, until it happends to the person or his relative, then you see different respond which make me wonder what's the essence of Religion in this country

This is the downside of social media, they work hard to get you hook, then they become the one controlling your life and anything you can't pass a day without doing makes you an addict

When there's a market for your goods this is what you get... everyone now hear from God, its a time of Religion in Nigeria, so even if you choose not to warm your soup just fast and pray, God will warm it for you, after all there's nothing God can not do...hmmn, common sense is truely not common

Franking:
Those are tales by moonlight. I don't believe a word of the bible.

You don't need to believe the bible for it to be true or false, just like the next day don't need your belief for it to come, nor the law of gravity.... There are truth which exist outside your beliefs, only experiences can lead you to it

udoji2021:
U will not understand what is Happening. Thanks though

People always blame pregnancy for a woman bad character & stupid attitude, was our mother not pregnant? Many women today are so lazy, what they do is put-a-good-show, get what they want, then back to default settings. People don't change they only get tired of pretending. We always talk about money money money, can't someone begin life with a girl and grow with her? Dangote that has all the money yet he is devorce twice, so what's the excuse? Too much money? My opinion to you bro. You need to develop patience & tolerance, Don't bother advising her, its pointless, she knows she had you. Don't quarrel or respond to any of her nagging. Do and provid what you can. Think of ur work & and the pregnancy. Learn what this moment is teaching you cus it will help ur next move after child birth or you fall for her fake tears when time comes.

Finally something worth thinking about, nice one op...in summary, you don't fight a war with someone else weapon: David not using Saul weapon to fight, UK still has a Queen even in this era of Democracy, look at China. I mean, When will Nigeria ever learn? Not UK, not USA. they may assist but with their self interest. No one can fix Nigerias problems except Nigerians. A new broom may sweep the house clearn but the old broom knows every corner in the house. People travel to Jeruselem all in the name of Jesus Christ, i told someone once, every families or country have their Jesus Christ but your attitude only prove Jesus words true: a prophet has no honor in his hometown, just like he didn't in his town, but us, outsiders celebrating him more than his people......is why i always cherish the Americans, the world may be crazy about Football but USA is all NBA, they have their own football and they creat market for it...... Man-Know-Thy-Self

How do we know this is not another lie again (damage control). Grandma and father, i'm sure they are preparing their statement, unless they are well settle. even if a thief is nap he will say..na my first time. Honestly, sometimes i don't know what to believed in this country.... Man-Know-Thy-Self

otinkanika1:
Fr. Mbaka did nothing wrong to give out what he recieved from God. His prophesies came to pass. If the persons thus change from their original promises and fail. Mbaka is not to be blamed

Allow me try and relate to your statement, there's a prophesy that Moses will deliver Isreal, pharoh heard it and kill all the infant including Moses, abeg how is this a prophesy? Do we even understand what is prophesy? Mbaka heard from God and Buhari now change the will of God...wow, this a new one

Christians will always claim to hear from God, Muslim from Allah, so if you are neither who do you hear from?.....like Joseph in Egypt, Non of them heard about covid-19 so we can produce vacine before its arrival, funny set of people.......Man-Know-Thy-Self

Amotolongbo:
https://www.thecable.ng/trending-forum-of-bishops-holds-solidarity-rally-for-pantami/amp

Just give them small change for a Bottle of beer, weed and Bet9ja, they will sale their Birthright like Esau. Todays youth lack that mental ability to decipher what's good for them, anything that's invoked they are there, i get that about women; they are emotional creatures driven by desires, what's men excuse?.......we don't know what's worth supporting or protesting. keep blaming Buhari, in chinese proverb: "when the student is ready the teacher will appear"..... Man-Know-Thy-Self

postbox:
https://brandspurng.com/2021/04/27/aksg-terminates-quebecs-2nd-ring-road-project-re-award-contract-to-hensek/

HENSEK will do a good job, my qestion is will this Mr Cretivity release money for them to work with or blame them for lacking cretivity as he is doing with his commissioners. Sometimes you wonder who's the Governor of this state, Udom Emmanuel or Ephraim Inyang(chief of staff) and what's Mr Desmond doing with security vote money? i mean apart from installing ATM Machine in his house. soon Udom will commission another supermarket.....shift make i pass abeg.... Media Propaganda Government.

Bounch of self serving Sadist in one building and you called them Honourable. please what's honourable about that? as if that's not enough you still expect something meaningful out of them.....pikin-no-sabi-book and him mama de praise am say e-get fine hand-writting where him go write am?

It is all this too much list and rules that make a mess in our relationship/Marriage, we are mysteries, how about we focus on knowing ourselves first, you may believed you know yourself until situations comes & you are shock by your own actions. what you like at 35, you may not like at 45 or 55. Also it seems a pertan is set from childhood, the way a child understand and give love depends on how it was given to him(mother) or her(father), Some of us men either want to marry our mothers or aunties or avoid women like that. Two chronic introvert indoors...Really?One will kill another one day, what you need is someone who patiently teach you the joy of outdoors, while appreciating ur indoors. A girl love her boyfriend but dislike football, her love for the guy was greater than her dislike for the game, so she follow him to watch matches asking questions, it didn't take long she was the one reminding the guy...There's Match today.ooo......Be open minded.

Anyone can complain about a "bad" attitude but what new or better attitude are you replacing the said "bad" attitude with? Was Jonathan good because fuel price was #85 and Buhari is bad because fuel price is #170? so will Buhari be seen as good if the next president's "food and fuel prices" become higher? Cos he will blame it on previous administration, its our custom. 2023 will soon be here so who are we replacing Buhari with? cus one thing that will remained constant is the attitude of Nigerian towards Nigeria. What some of us don't know is, we are not the one controlling the market, so during oil boom what did we do with the money? is it during this tenure that we know that our Refineries has problem? when a politician returned to his village and you celebrate him with honors and titles even when he does nothing, what massage are you sending to that boy who want to be a good leader? A young man who don't obay trafic laws do you think he will do it when he gets to Abuja? Let's look at the mirrow

Though it is our extreem greed and selfishness that put us in this mess, the fact is we just don't care about this country, no iota of patriotism, and we lack professionalism in our jobs, we only see this country as a cow that produces milk, in as much as the milk keep flowing we don't care about the health of the cow unil the milk stop and we starve then we blame the last person that collect the milk without caring for the cow, how about the first person that collect it without caring, the Gowon, the Obasanjos of this world and their likes, blame Buhari, how about our secretariat? permanent secrateries, head of services, state and federal workers; just go sign time book and go do whatever personal businesses you like. The day a child steal from her mother's shop will not be the day that shop will closed. They USA and Britain can continue to give us statistics but they are not excepted the manipulate the system for themselvs, the Abacha loot, Libya and Afghanistan in mind, are these countries better now?

youska:
if you knew him,you would have regret saying this words.he was the most loved lecturer in the department of nursing due to his simplicity with everyone. the last time i saw him was when we wrote our departmental exam which was on 23rd of march. saying a prayer for the deceased would be better than trying to make noise

Just one man opinion, like you said most loved, but not loved by all. I don't have issue with someone i don't know only the statement and you get that Deja Vu. Also i don't believed in prayers for the dead its the living that need prayers

"His death indeed has left a great vacuum" says who? Nigerian enjoys Schadenfreude. Someone in that same Department is Thanking God for picking his call.......hmmm, Man-know-Thy-Self

Nigerian Journalist hmmm, sometimes i wonder did she arrage the question for you

We were unkown to each another, doing our own things in our own ways untill our colonial Masters forced us together, when they left our aim should have been getting to know one another, having open and honest conversation about ourselves cus knowledge build trust and where trust exist great achievement follows instead our focus was getting more power, hence the civil war. Take for instance, the North don't trust the Igbos to be in Aso Rock, Why? when are they going to be honest about their fears and mistrust? facing the had truth in other to have an honest conversation. But u are expecting them to continue to be your follower and you their leader, for how long? this generation may be docile and lack courage bt don't expect the coming generation to be. Take a lesson from women, our grand mother were taught sex as something for the huband to desire so if she desire it she stays in silence to avoid shame and ridicules but this generation simply invent Vibrators and Cocumba to help themselves in peace.

Mr Reno, Religion is a symtom not the disease, its human nature. we like being in control. God has to use "Hell fire" as a threat for us not to completely misbehave. What ever that is handed over to man he will make a mess of it. e.g garden of Eden, God distroy the generation of Noah cos they where sinful only Noah the upright so why is the world not perfect since the bad was eliminated and the good left behind? if it was easy to live in peace with one another why didn't Lucifa and God? funny enough there were many in heaven that sided Lucify & u are looking for peace and justice on earth, even Top teams want to breakaway from UEFA..hmm well this is a conversation for another day. Since Nigeria is the issue: Truth is, We don't know who we are and as a result we don't trust each other, we are simply using our colonial masters play book, the difference is, they know their end game for using such method but what's our? hence we are lost and Religion the easy tool to use, it could have been sothing els

What's FIFA and UEFA not telling us, you blame money for this teams breaking away but i think there's more to this. You are adding more teams into Champions League which is more games meaning more revenue (money) yet you are criticizing the break away team of greed. Dose the health of this players really matter to you guys? Or they are just ATM for the guys at the top

RMoneyInTheBank:
even if he has won a world cup in the past doesn't mean he cannot make a wrong team selection like he did today ... Guadiola messed up.... Debryne was frustrated that he had to frame injury to leave the game... Guadiola wanted to experiment on Chelsea during FA cup semi final..... Now he has seen the result

Do u know how many days it takes players to reach full recovery? after playing BVB on wenesday, traveling on train for 2hr to wembley, if he doesnt rotet he will have so many injury Debruyn is your example, they are human not machin, they need rest its why big clubs have big squard they have EPL on wenesday, next is Champion League in midweek, his first 11 loose to 10man Lead United. and u are talking about experiment.

Epistasis:
Rugged will never die, my brother!.
Reading comments here, I been wondering maybe it I served the nation under a different agency order than NYSC. I Was busy with NCCF, didn't have time for any relationship, that was what made the service great and superb, minus NCCF, my service year would have been very boring. All hail Taraba ex-Corps members!

Honestly, it was NCCF that made the service great. funny enough some of us were not part of it in the camp and we had the chance to redeploy but seeing the good they were doing in the lives of the people with the little money "Capitation" it was impressive. Not that there's no good in NYSC, The bad makes the loudest noise and the good stay silent so they wount be seen as being weid or holly, holly or mr do good. I guess Its the matter of the heart. Do u love this family....e-falla-falla...ZM 15-16 Zamfara

Reading all this i know Majority will carry the day but that doesnt mean there's no minority. Not everyone misbehave during NYSC. Some of us get carried away by NCCF. Rural Rugged Evangelism, GENCO and all the good it brings and don't regret it.....Man-Know-Thy-Self

Reading all this i know Majority will carry the day but that doesnt mean there's no minority. Not everyone misbehave during NYSC. Some of us get carried away by NCCF. Rural Rugged Evangelism, GENCO and all the good it brings and we don't regret it.....Man-Know-Thy-Self

Righteousness2:
If you wanna be on youtube to Preach the Raw Gospel of JESUS Christ, you need to be ready for so many things.

What they term as hate speech is Preaching the Raw Gospel and telling people to Deceit from Wickedness Abominations and Evil.

Youtube has become a den of the devil that strikes and sensors Raw Preachings of the Gospel anyhow.

Really funny, and for how many years you guys have been preaching raw Gosple anyhow look at how the world is.... this generation or todays christian talk too much but do very little.. you overcome evil by doing good but doing good for selfish reason doesn't make you good, it only make u good at being selfish. if talk was enough christ would not have come and do all that he did, God would have speak or preach in heaven and we will hear and repent.......Man-Know-Thy-Self

During the civil war, Ojukwu accused Gowon of not fighting fair according to geneva convention, not allowing food items into Biafra. Gowon respond was, he can't feed his enermy so they wount have the strenght to fight him. NTA is own by Government You want NTA to be better for what purpose? Nigeria don't have image to protect, our culture only exist in social studies and our languages are dying off. who pay their Salaries? how about money for upgrade? That's like asking our lawmakers to make laws that tax anyone that own more than two cars in this country who do you think will fall victim? it is only when the fire touches the pot then the pot will touch whats inside. Man-Know-Thy-Self

limeta:
As long they not investing in boko haram or Islam but again what their interest

Thank you, what's their interest? many time we hear investment and money we will not ask questions....later we hear a different story when e don choke us

FalseProphet1:
Youths of these days love any discussion involving sex or relationship, I see this thread exceeding 5 pages. This I have seen.

ofcouse it will exceed 5 pages: Our fathers don't know how to play politics hence its difficult for a common man or a youth to personalise it so to have meaningful discussion, we see our Religeous Leaders as gods so we follow as them as sheep, only yes and amen is allowed. any personaliz issue stire up discussion. As for the matter on ground: Love exist, Relationship is not a scam, if she love you cus of money and you love her cus of her attractiveness its still love and relationship. am using attractiveness not beauty cus beauty is a combination of qualities character included. Nigerian problem is that we can't stand the truth hence we live in assumtion mood. if she say she love u, u assume she will love u without money, question: is that what she said? if she tell u the truth will u still treat her right? for her honesty?

MrSamsung:
Hahaha oh my God. I don laugh tire

If this acclaimed man of god truly said this, then Buhari is tender in heart and infact righteous.
True True, some 'men of God' have sold their souls to Satan, money and politics. Spits

Oh how I do pity the lost and unrecognized souls of Southern Kaduna.

Now you see why some of us see Religion as a hindrance to this country progress. Muslem or christian leaders are something no longer people you can count on, if you criticize him now the so called follower will see u as devil, the Bible was not wrong when he refers to us as sheep...anything at all handed to man will become a mess its just a matter of time