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God bless me early, God pick my call, what if u lack the mental capacity to handle the level of blessing God has for you. do we even ask ourselves that? Your brother never thought of making millions or life working so well for him in such a young age now he can't handle the headach that comes with it. What if u were a bad brother and the man he served was bad and didn't keep to agreement do you think he would have been blessed so early? His boss and you his brother were/is his solid ground. why turn away from such people advice when making any important decision? like someone said he perhaps needs to learn the hard way or you will be seen as enermy of progess. Man-know-thy-self

creolehunt:
I can't, the stakes are too high.
You maybe right that it's just coincidence. But then, it may also not be. I know what I'm saying and experiencing.

My opinion to anyone is "know thy self", people will always judge, advice and conclude ur matter base on their experience and knowledge of the universe but what if in this same universe ur own experience and knowledge is superior to theirs? a leaf may fall from a tree in ur present to someone els its normal but to u who knows ur life journey knows different and it will be difficult to convince anyone. Every Samson has his Delilah and every Naomi has her Ruth. I belived u know their story. i am not the type that like quoating scripture to make my point, i guess there's an exception to everything. Proverb 7:7, i hope u get the massage, i may show up latter to explain my take on it.

Love is a blessing and a course... Lucify was the most loved how did that work out when he break the rule? "This is my beloved son in whom i am well pleased" do you think those words where said to Jesus while he was about to eat fried rice & chicken during valentines day? and what was Jesus words letter on? if its my will i let this cup pass away from me but never the less..... in summary, in solomons words in Ecc. if you see the burden God has placed in the shoulder of man a dead man is happier than the living but one who is more happy is one who has not been born.

If by becoming a pastor u suddenly realized, the problem of this country is economical not spiritual then God should called all of us including Buhari but i should i warn you, Nigerians are like the children of Israel, u will sacrifice yourself for them, divide the red sea for them to passed, provide mannar & water, beg God not to destroy them, yet its still them that will make you missed the promised land if not careful

There are those who fixed problems, and there are show-men. There are write-up that educate, inform or enlighten to unite, there are write up simply to cause fight and this's one of them. Talk about demon-possess-human i will give u the benefit of doubt but making it gender base, are you saying demon they fear female? Someone may have an isolated insident that he may not fully understand & u will see epistle of John in Nairaland, making his reality federal constitution sometimes its for you, sometimes it has rational explanation. 12 men shake the city of Rome after Christ has left. Excluding the missionary that brought us the gosple, Since u guys have been giving ur life to christ what have we seen in this country? U can't even leave ur phone behind during offering time inside church, having bodyguard, building cthedral with electric fence, motive speaking & psychological preaching, yet our forefather didn't need all that nor go through such headach to live in peace, keep themselves nor properties safe.

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] This post is one of the most illogical comments I have ever read on this forum. So now that he is dead and forgotten, how has that helped him? And by the way, have you heard of self-defence before?

Self-defence realy? was he in a war front? He may never have expect such reaction from his wife, it was in this forum that i read a wife cutting off husband manhood cus he suspect him of cheating so was he a weakling too? do u think the man kept his penis waiting for such fate, my point is, this situation was not witness by me and u only what we read & its easy to draw conclusions until such fate befall you

Ammishaddai:
Oga, you are bringing up assumptions that are in no way mentioned in the article. And the fact still remains : the deceased was a weakling

The deceased was a weakling....Its interesting how we are quick to draw conclusion over incident we didn't witness, the woman was pregnant did you read that part? where u expecting him to fight her like a man? when it comes to women drama there's no winning just find a patern that works for u: u beat her up feminism & the world will come for you in this era of social media marriage, u ignore her you are a coward or a weakling, you choose not to marry you are a failure. There's a reason i never get invoved in my parents misunderstanding, cus your mother can lie to you with tears in her eyes: emotional blackmail...hmmm, my people say na because of pikin wey sturborn to come out na him cause the midwife to see your nekedness.

Drsnives:
Continue forbidding
What has been written is written.. I just wish you a safe landing

But brother, I see tears

This I have seen

A brother is puting his cards on the table seeking reasonable imput but here you are foreseeing teers, he said it's not his portion, are you forcing it down his throat, na you write? must you copy copy falsephrophet? As for the brother it's a simple decision you know your life journey, you know how you want to raise your children and you love her, is either she trust you and help you get there or she move on, if she push u in this first step she will push u all the way cus you will always faced choices and decisions to make in the marriage. she's a woman they are emotional creature driven by desires not reason. its good to take risk but a calculated one, its good to have faith as long as u work to support it. They say a bird sing sweetly when there's nothing inside the mouth. She's singing sweetly now.... Man-know-thy-self

Flames000:
Bros leave all this English wey you dey speak.

God wey pick the boy call go soon flash you.

It Can NEVER be too EARLY, but it can ALWAYS be too LATE

Must every stupid decision be God picking call? You may have the talent but may not be mentaly ready to witstand certain level of exposure, how about racism, public demand, praise and scrutiny not to mention social media abuse and all that follows, like a tree with no root to the soil one storm of life and he's on the foor, then you see us looking for the next one.. Kakuta of Chelsea come into mind. The same mouth that sing Hosana Hosana will be singing crucify him. GOD pick Nigerians call for independent, how is it working out us?

FalseProphet1:
Marriage has become terrible because sex is so cheap these days, the day girls learn to close their legs and preserve their chastity is the day marriages will begin to experience the blessings God created it to experience. You can turn yourself into a sperm bank and expect to enjoy your marriage...I see many more marriages crash because of premarital sex. This I have seen.

Honestly i don't get it, when we reduced an institution to just sex? it sound lame, don't get me wrong am not ok with premarital sex. In my opinion marriage is a mess today b/coz it's build on money/sex no character no wisdom for home building in todays women, only competitors, women build home. Our forefathers didn't just kept concubine, some were second,third and fouth wives living in same compound; sharing. A woman's job is to do what a man can't do with humility, what's ur value if u do what i can do? No matter how salty maggi is it can never take the place of salt in a soup

Kriss216:
Get a dog, if you want loyalty.


Humans and Loyalty are two parallel lines that can never meet.

are you saying dog loyalty is different from human? Cos it all comes down to self interest. Once you die or stop feeding a dog any person that feed the hungry dog owns his loyalty. A dog will not be nicer to the old owner than the new one. I think he meant Fidelity

DoubleBliss:
The grammars here can cause stomachache.

But you get the gist right? how often do we correct or critisized a Nigerian who fail to speak or write his/her tongue correctly? Coaches/players comes to England and they start learning English and you wonder was English not available to them in their country? we Nigerians are our own problem.

Ofcours, security agencies are on top matters, no time has matters ever on top of them. Well, to the criminals? The Lord works in mysterous ways, it's not Government alone that can grand pardon even Hoodlums can, the just use different method after all an infant that died save the mother feeding money.

Does this generation still understands words like "private life" ? How often do someone come online to talk about his wife cooking for him or doing laundary? Because it's expected and you and her feel okay about it but the moment it's the other way round you see the need to talk...why? so we help that small side of you(African man) which is not ok to feel ok? Now the one you suppose tell us you woun't until one of these POS Journalist pick it up with an Android phone and it becomes a scandal, then Pastor and their village Elders will be involved....is okay..oo just passing...oo

Resurrection212:
some of you guys are just commenting based on likes you will got from here not for education purposes. Only a fool will say the way masses are dying in Nigeria was equal with elites. Although the lives of elites are important to many of you guys only this month we know the number of people that got killed in Ebonyi state alone God punish Fulani herdsmen

Honestly, i find it difficult to understand todays Nigerians, can't someone make an observation, correction or a decent remark must everything be abuse, courses, or threat, i get it, there's anger in the land but anger dosn't built some of us sound like a prospebtive Bandit or BokoHaram candidate. one bearly get educational reply in Nairaland......hmmmm, just passing...ooo

There's a reason why many countries seperate church from state matters after Midieval period, cos no matter how much someone says na God send me God will never come down and say i didn't send him but as long as any idiot says he's doing it in the name of the Lord people are willing to abandon not just reason but comon sense. This is how Dangote started today eagle cement is gone, He is the only one with a functioning Rifinary & if there's a closed border he will be the only one to passed, is okay...soon our constitution will not matter but what our Religious Leaders says..............what can i say....... is just a one man opinion

Tell someone Religion is becoming a problem in Nigeria he will called you devil. When you find yourself in situation like this, return to the basic: why was school or a particular school founded? It was founded to meet a need or needs. What need was that? Is what you are fighting about help in actualising such need? There's a reason why a building is called church another is called school. You forced someone to do certain thing(s) b/cos of your faith how about that person's faith? I thought Religion supose to be about faith and spiritual matters why do we always fight about material issues. soon we will burnt houses, distroy vehichel and steal animals. yet Bible and Quran is resting peacefully in shops & we called it religious fight. Once in a while lets try to be honest with ourselves. very soon our Religious leaders will say no more elections bt God asked them to come together and choose leaders

Amotolongbo:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/03/30/breaking-csp-military-officers-others-killed-by-hoodlums-in-akpabio-lg-essien-udim/?amp&utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter&__twitter_impression=true

Many military men were killed.... Many police officer goes missing but you know the number of Hudlums 50, all this brown envolope or is it POS, reporter abi journalist. Every kid with an Android phone is a news agent, abeg try get fact, so we can react well since we are all reacting in this country because, to use ur word MANY todays youth grow with their brain but leave their senses behind.

ebuk4real:


Unfortunately, this man is a replica of what is wrong with the country. And to think that 2023 is still far away annoys sensible minds...

2023? And who are you replacing him with? Is not about changing a bad attitude, the new one could be worst and we end up praying for another 8yrs to pass, since we have become to religious to act: talking about religion being an Opium of the masses. There's lack of professionalism in all sector in this country. Walk into any hospital and they way nurses will respond or attend to you even ur illness will be searching for a new body.

talasticlala:
You are below their standard, same as Iwobi

Bukayo Saka is good, so he can compete with england stars

that's just the simple truth.... well, we are Nigerian we have a nag for celeberating mideocrity.That's like ola saying decission to play for Torino not Chelsea is the best.

rottable:
Finally, I have seen someone like me...... Working in a company for more than 6 months makes the job boring and I don't like that. Where I'm working now, I've spent just 4 month and I'm bored already.

I hope this post makes front page for more knowledge people to contribute there opinion.

sometimes boredom is as a result of unengaged mind in regards to that job, they say the greatest room is room for improvement, u will keep jumping to new job cos of "new thrill" but when the "new job thrill" ends u need a "new one" like drugs ur mind dose not offer the thrill else u will always find new excitement in same job. So at the end is the money and the thrill no passion, what happend then? When u run out of "new job" to run to? Cus that drive or adventaurous nature will still be there

OgaRico:
I'm going to click like option on this your post but the like is mainly because writing all this took you time.

even the Bible or Quran was not writen for everyone yet everyone has access to them.....everything u claim u know or believed in comes down to your xperiences and what/how u where conditioned by parent teachers and those you trust from childhood. imagin Moses telling someone he come across a burning bush yet not consume is that what xperience taught us? dose that make sense? I consider everything i say to be nonsense cus to one man is SENSE to another is NON, well, untill he has an xperience that changed his perspective.

very soon our own children will start questioning our sernity cos all it takes to be noticed and relevance in this country is be stupid. Someone run around in front of camara with boxers in glo advert they called him comedian. And you wonder is it the same comedy that Basketmouth and co organised: Night of a thousand laugh, funny with massage to learn. Here is another with waist bead to what end? To show you have money? Or just to feel noticed or to be talked about, and we are blaming Buhari and co? when the follower locate their factory reset it will affect the leaders.

The problem with freedom of speach is that even an idiot has same right. But why can't we Nigerians stay true to ourselves? i'm not arguing about the validity of the statement but of the person making the statement, dose he belives it? or he just want to sound civilized cos he has an opportunity to talk? Also should a woman be given appointment or she should ernd it? This's the same nonsense going on in foothball, do you need to bring a woman into mens game (Ref. or Lines woman) for them to be noticed how often do we take a man to ref women game? We have women league why cant they add their intelligence to draw our attention or corner the market? The problem with a woman intelligence is that when an issue get tough instead of displaying their intelligence and argue the issue to a logical conclution, they resort to either emotional blackmail or gender blame.

Seeing all the pain, the suffering, the sacrifices, the endless death.......... To what end? Hmmmmm

As Wale Adenuga Productions always says we are nothing but pencil in the hand of the creator.

You make Love sound so ordinary, Love is eternal and when the heart makes a choice its almost out of our hands. You can use logic to reason yourself out of it Cus of the likely future disappointment but that doesn't mean you can ignore the pains

There's the LOVER and there's the BELOVED, the lover live the love full of passion, with commitment and Dedication but the Beloved mostly enjoys being idolized "worship", is like the Lover's love is a standard for the Beloved. I guess the Lover does this because he/she sees something in the "Beloved" which in many cases the "Beloved" Rearly sees, and it's the Lover that always suffers more than the Beloved. Because in love there's no holding back. You read the case of JESUS Christ ( the Lover) and we his Beloved.

The Bible says while we were yet sinners he died for us not while we were righteous, to put differently, while we didn't see value in ourselves He sees value in us. You watch it in movie and hear it in songs, like Kenny Rogers coward of the County, everyone consider him a coward but Becky didn't see him that way and Celine Dion Love aren't like fashion the look remain the same.

We can talk about the foolishness of love, and tell ourselves that Money run the world but it's love that make the Journey worthwhile. It's what make that girl fall for you even when she knows you are lying. The three magic wands always stand the test of time: I Love you

Akube1z:
How should we relate with the unbelievers.
The unbelievers are those who practice other religions aside Christainity and those who don't believe in Jesus Christ and God. It best we relate cautiously and firmly with the unbelievers so we don't get confused or convinced in sinning against God or engaging in unholy acts.

How best should we relate with the unbelievers in our working places / places we find ourselves in ?

Do unto others as you will like others do unto you

Religion present God to us as a being we should be looking for like He's far from us...is why you see people jumping form church to church or Religion to Religion where's we should be looking inward and that's the hardest.

Everyman want to be president, Governor, Chireman,....we want to change the world.... But how many really want to change his/herself?
Let your light shine before men....... You know the rest.

sapphiere:
Why is it so hard for men to control their sexual urge?

Not every intercourse is sexual urges, that's reasonable and has direction .... A man may be mentally ill or in pain and the easiest way to let us know is through sex

BRATISLAVA:
More scientific fantasy.

How hard can it be for you to accept the incest genes since scientists have made it believable to you that everyone, including you, has them?

Now they have demystified it and you know so much more than other black people, why haven't you and why don't you plan on acting on the good info you shared?

Typical black man. They read an article and think they have gained the world, not knowing they have an empty groundnut shell handed to them.

If the white man shows you anything, no matter what and no matter how baseless, you will believe it. This is why they told you that genes are responsible for incest, and you would believe it rather than environmental factors. Black mind.

What do twins have to do with the topic?

I'm curious,..... how do you come to believe that it's environmental factors not genes? Is it a black man that make you understand that? Did you even understand my first comment or you just want to argue for argument sake.....So this your environmental factors is not scientific fantasy?

This not a typical Beer parlour conversation in which alcohol is the inspiration..... You asking me what twins got to do with this speaks volumes...

Talking about other factors which can also contribute, perhaps we find solutions is a daunting task.....so please sir, let's blame the Devil and move on, till the next one happened and it becomes the new normal

BRATISLAVA:
Forget your kind scientific fantasy above. Why is none of your relatives carrying your pregnancy? Because you know the above doesn't exist.

Typical black man, One thing is to read another is to understand, that's why two persons can understand one thing differently. There's what we called world view and there's Universe experience. It's yours universe experience that make up your world view, you disagree with my view not because you have provided an alternate explanation, am not saying they are right or wrong am saying outside "it was the Devil theory" and also blaming bad parenting there is also another explanation. What you know about life so far was not handed to you from birth Nop.... But from those that surround you and those you trust. You believe them not because you have something else to support or disprove but because you trust them, until you have experience that question what you always believe to be true then your world view change. Human race is mystery is why science never stop research.... In this country twin was once a taboo

This is called Genetic Sexual attraction, our DNA compels us to connect with our generic tribe but psychological imprinting and social taboo overwhelmed sexual desires.

In a layman's terms you are born into an environment that sees such act as bad, those around you and those you look up to see and practice it, subconsciously it's registered that such actions is bad, But your DNA does not understand , culture nor tradition, its science, that's why if brother/sister are raised separately, they can meet and have sex without knowing they are siblings, not until they come to village for marriage.

Evidently, the force/ bond in their DNA is really strong......not every thing is Devil... Devil.... Devil.... Before now (Victoria era) people where marring their sisters and cousins

If you ask African man to invest in Education he think its all about building Class room and ASSU strike.

debbiebianca2:
Viral video of Nigerian Christians praying for Joe Biden's votes to be upturned in Donald Trump’s favour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GB8g7KhoGo
A video showing an unknown pastor and his congregation praying for US president-elect, Joe Bidens' votes to be upturned in Donald Trump’s favour, has gone viral on social media.

It's unclear where in Nigeria this was held, but many on Twitter are reacting in anger, with one user writing: 'There is always a point when religion becomes a mental illness.'

Many Nigerian jump into Lagoon during Buhari first term cus of hardship, many prayed for his death when he travels out for his treatment, yet God was silent and we didn't pray for God to remove him and bring in sent but here we are Christians for Trump..... Ohhh dear Lord, Karl Marx was right Religion is really opium of the masses. We African over worked God.