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Wow! Congrats

sherina10:
Please my dear im sorry for exchanging word with u i didnt come here to that really. Thanks a million for d critisism as painful as it sound its highly appreciated. i pray u get a good husband who wouldnt look at girls like me if at all there is any, Amen.

AMEN!
Sorry for exchanging words with you too.
I don't have any right to judge you. We all have erred somewhere and elsewhere.
If you really really want a divorce, then do not get pregnant yet. Save as much as you can within the period you will be waiting to run because you need money to be on your own. Go to a very far town and rent a place. Make sure you run first before you start talking about divorce. And no matter what, do not return to the house for anything what so ever. You will need a lot of prayers and strong bones to do this...


If you have changed your mind about the divorce, you will have to stop listening to people's opinion. You are a second wife and so what? Most of them don't have perfect lives also. Even if you do not want to practice ogas religion, try to cover your hair whenever he is coming to see you or has a function. Were clothes that are not revealing.
Late mariam babangida was a christian before she married her husband. IBB did not marry any other person after her while she was alive. Why? She conqured his heart. Try to conquer Ogas heart entirely...


Peace!

tooltip:
just start something , so long as it has income yielding potential

I don't even have an idea of what to start and were to start from

frustratedman:
I want to be richer than seun and linda ikeji but i'm currently jobless. Please help me nairalanders if u have any info concerning getting legitimate jobs. Thanks

Honey, you cannot be richer than linda and seun put together by working for someone...


I also want to be richer than bill gates. But my head is so blank to profiting business ideas right now...

Toh... and people will say money is not good?

Happy for her oooo

Omo see height. Chai! I be short geh o

These are the ones that disgrace and spoil our name. When a man volunteers to take them out. They go and show how hungry they are. One person will eat 2 portions of rice, a full chicken, a bowl of ice cream, a can of one litre juice,normal coke, diet coke, fanta, sprite, nkwobi, fish pepper soup, assorted as if it is not enough when she is going home she will request for take away... cake, 7meatpie, 10sausage rolls, a carton of juice, 3 full grilled fish. 1,500mtn airtime, 1000glo, 750airtel...




As if its her whole village she is feeding. Mtchwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

onegig:
That your colleague does that doesn't make it right or true. And that he is an Alfa or whatever does not bestow him authority on a religion. Mistake you are making is judging a religion by the acts of a few people.

What kind of work environment are you even in that a colleague calls another such a vile word and he doesn't recieve a query?

You can challenge him when you resume and repeat what I told you and see if he would say such ever again. There's a clear difference between what religion stipulates and what some people choose to act. And mind you its not my opinion. Its the written down understanding of the religion.


I don't want to derail this thread. Take Care.

I don't work there anymore... was supposed to say former colleague. okay lets not derail the thread... take care too...

onegig:
Wrong notion please. When people repeat lies continually it becomes the truth.

No muslim has a right to call another person an infidel or Khafir. Because only God can judge and who is of him. Stop repeating this false assertions.

My colleague doesn't have the same opinion as you do.
He is an Alfa and has called all non muslims 'to our face' infidels.
Not just him. His friends too.
Our superior who is also a Muslim did not caution him neither did he ask him to apologize to us.
So what are you trying to tell me again?

sherina10:
my life? sweetie im 100% happy with it even beyound my expections, dont take things too personal or did anyone snacthed your husband from you which made you single again? if that is the case sorry about it but you should know that your husband was also vulnerable. About bringing my sob story to nairaland to disturb u sorry about it but i didnt force you to read/comment but since you already did move on with your life.

Sweedy there is nothing personal about your matter abeg. Nne i am not married yet, and when i do it definitely would not be another woman's husband. Again when i i finally do honey, i will wait patiently for predators like you with my cutlass, bows and arrows. You are a very wicked girl, this is how you want to pay the poor man and innocent woman for all their sacrifices by backing out of the deal... you better open your legs and start shooting out babies if you don't want Amadioha to strike you dia. Mtchwww... yeye geh...

Melahou:
is that what you think...
some girl jst love doing thing like that...its more like a hobby to them
am sure if someone like you visit your bf and notice his house or room is dirty you`ll jst
sit there and be looking without knowing you have to help out and clean up
home training is inbuilt..some times you just do somethings like cooking and
cleaning without even thinking you are not in your house

its not call desperate..

Note: thats why most people wonder while some pretty girls are still single
even though they are of age while the "ulgy" once are getting married.

Abegi. Of all the girls that cooked, washed, licked your ass and did jackie chan kerewa for you. How many did you later marry?


At the end of the day its just one.
As for me... i will not cook, wash, mop your house. and i do not expect you to buy anything for me or give me money. You are not yet my husband neither are you my father or family. When you know your worth there will be no need to turn to a slave for him to marry you. Sebi its people that still married ladies that cant cook and paid for them to go to catering school. Abegi, lets not deceive ourselves jare...

ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

Let me cook my own food first and wash my own cloths first na. They are the ones spoiling things for others.

blublahd:
point being, you can and she cant?

Sweedy, read it again. From the beginning

Make i see d pishoooor

Mynd44:
So you are spending your honeymoon uploading pictures on NL.

Clap for yaself

Jelosi. Go and marry and show us your own.
Congrats OP

blublahd:
come on, your siggy says different... Lol

read it again honey

sherina10:
excuse me, dont decieve yourself from your own little world. I dont know where you drew conclusion from that im not happy, i had it all or are u hurt that i want to eat my cake n have it as speculated? sorry its not such a mess as u think.

If you were soo soo happy with your life, you would not bring your sob story to us on nairaland... honey, you cannot eat your cake and have it either that is were sacrifice comes in. if i were you, i would go and shop for different types of beautiful jalabia, socks and scarf and start going to the mosque. Dress appropriately because you are married to a muslim so that he can start respecting you. As far as he is concerned you are still an infidel in his eyes... Madam do the right thing and stop disturbing us biko...

[quote author=sherina10 post=28861547][/quote]Honey... you were an aristo choper. any lady that goes out with a man knowing he is still married to his wife is a runs girl. God gave you an opportunity to leave when he said he reconciled with his wife. But no, you did not. You still stayed. Change your ways honey... and the third wife? i see her at your door step already...



FYI. There is no way the life of a second wife will be better than the life of a single happy woman... don't deceive yourself with the material things at your disposal. If you were a bit patient, you wouldn't have been in this mess. We are SINGLE but we are HAPPY.

fadjnr:
Come and partner with me

What of you
Is your akpobi fresh

tohero:
VACANCY! VACANCY!! VACANCY!!!



Kindly send me your C.V for review

Firstly, do you have akpobi

obongproff:
Chai! U like quarrel pass fight!

My broda, nor be my fault o. I be good geh before... na nairaland tish me o

I have to discover the partner first

obongproff:
U know say to follow woman argue day give headache? Madam eh! Wot ayam saying be say, I want to marry someone becos I like d person irrespective of d tribe d person is from. Do u understand now? Or shd I speak it in ur dialect before u understand?

Na wa oh!

I actually do not understand english in the evening. I nor go mind if you speak am for my language sha

obongproff:
Babe! Is it dat u cannot read or u just skipped d places wia I insisted dat am not bent on marrying from yoruba or any oda tribe? Na wa to u oh!

No, you were not bent on marrying from any other tribe, but you were stressing on knowing why they dont like to marry each other. So i went ahead to tell you that if someone doesn't want to marry you, go to were they will agree to marry you. Be it hausa, igbo, yoruba, igala, edo etc... after ally, we have seen cases where both parties were from same village but because the girls mum had a different click from the guys mum in womens union, they strongly refused to allow their children wed. So what are you saying again?

Melancholy:
Wickedness!

I tell you broda...

Ojukokoro...
You are not wise as coogar said. Your mates know when it is time to run away but you did not. Aristo girls do not want the whole package they know when to bail, but alas you were too greedy, thinking he will leave madam so you can get everything. Babe, i have no advice for you. Deal with your problems and PLEASE remember to be kind to the third wife when she comes just as the first wife was kind to you.

jmoore:
Is this another 'refined' way of thinking?
Eg, an Igbo man works in Crossriver, the probability of him getting married to an indigene of crossriver is high.

Yeah thats true... i only asked the question cus he was so bent on yoruba-igbo marriage ish... if someone does not accept you, you go were you will be welcome with arms open wide... my opinion tho.

Babe i don't have a partner yet. When i do, you'll know

Vikkyk10:
must u b harsh?

Its the harsh truth o sweedie

When you sleep with him, the truth will set you free and then you realize men can say anything to get into a womans pants

Melancholy:
And dont tell me she killed the photographer oo

No, guy was too smart, he did not come in person to give them the great news. He called from wereva he was and refused to return the advance paid.