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I will stay d whole gaddamn year for that money

oluagness:
Many poor people in society, aishatu giving on Christmas? Islamic way of recruiting poor, gullible, uncontentious and innocent Christian to Islam. One of Islamic agendas. Beware

Oga, you need a 3D slap to reset your brain.
Please do not come online to expose you illiteracy.
Thanks

rman:
The real poor people are all around us in real life and not online!


This is now turning into a NOTICE me gesture on nairaland.

Is Aisha2 saying she doesn't know any single mum in need in her community?

It was babymama now aisha2.

I don't have a problem with giving but I'm beginning to feel this is more like a popularity contest for those with little change on nairaland.

People in need are everywhere, we don't need nairaland to get across to them if indeed we are giving without expectations.

Bia, mr analyzer of the world. So you now live with her abi? Some people cannot just be happy seeing others doing good. You really need Jesus.

frankobaba:
Hehehehhe

You so cute

Paulscholari:
@shyshally,veave, amunkita, heavens own, Kadas, baba, etcAm grateful for your words of encouragement... I dont mind if I can get any assistance from anyone here, especially in securing a good job... Well am holding on, I prayed it will be fine soon. Pls help.

My dear i wish i could help. I currently do not have a 'job' at the moment. Keep holding on



















#there is light at the end of the tunnel

Who gives someone a ring without knowing any of her family members
Ok o...
I dey look una.

If you can afford to get a small place. Please leave. You sound like someone who can be dependent already why not take a bold step and leave, fear a jealous woman like you would fear ebola outbreak.
I pray you make the right decision on time.

Paulscholari:
I just feel like saying it all here.... I feel so shallow, empty and undefined...i dont know where to go Neither do I know how to go about it...
I have no job
I have no money
I have no girlfriend/fiancee
I have no friend except for my church folks
I have no savings but debts
I tried to secure a job but it was a scam
I was duped in that process
I have a career but it's at standstill
I am currently left alone
I don't know what to do any longer
I can't just kill myself, thou
I am so pained, but, well
I keep hoping things will be well, but really
I am at a standstill... What can I do?
I have prayed
I have fasted,
I have work for God
I have helped the work of God
I have cried for helpers, but
I have not seen one
I have struggled since secondary school,
I fought a war of survival at the University
I feel so pained
I don't want to remember it, yet
I am still at it, even attimes
I borrow just to eat,
I have to cater for myself
I am no more in their budget,
I keep trying hard
I reasoned way out but
I just didn't get it
I have sank in the deep troubled water of life
I need help....... Help me O God. Help me.

#I, I, I...
Let go and let GOD

It happened to my friend o bross...
No be small cry o. I tell you.

We refined Nigerians do not think that way.
But come to think of it, are you trying to say you did not see any 'wife material' amongst your own people?

I really need about 60k before wednesday to settle an unplanned unplanned expense
I do not know how it will come, i'm not even thinking about it so i don't get head ache.
Hmmmmnnn.....

The work is too much abeg just for eyebrow
I like make up, but i'm not that patient to wear them
If i manage to shape my brow and apply powder, i go out like that
One day, e go better.
#sighs...

Even as a child, i was taught that football time is sacred time...

I cannot contribute to the discussion because i am not married yet and wouldn't know the right thing to say.
Throwing someone's property out is out rightly inhuman. I do not support this...

This thread made me recall an event that happened in my childhood.
So we had this neighbor with a leaking mouth, she practically had no secret.
After a while, her husband was laid off were he worked and paid off too. You can imagine the worth of 350thousand naira in the early 90s.
Darling husband brought the money home because it was friday and banks had closed, when oga took a stroll, madam as usual brought her friends and showed them the money. Guess what? That night, thieves came, beat them up and made away with the money and every valuable thing they had. Afterwards, things got so bad they had to relocate to the village.

Falabs:
Please NLs, brought this here to get your opinions about the subject. My mum says it's a tradition in our family. In my own opinion, I'd rather give my first salary as my first fruit in church than share with family members. This issue has made me & my mum to be at loggerheads. Pls I'd like to know, how did you spend your first salary?

Please do not be at loggerheads over such an issue...
Both of you should meet halfway... if you can give the first month, you can also give the second month out too.
Use the first two months to settle God and your family...
Nor be everything person go fight over na. The Lord is your strength
#wisdom

Rhukie:
@nwababy, if I was your brother's fiance you would complain till thy kingdom come and I won't change. what you termed love and acceptance I see it as imposition of thoughts of what you think is right.

I dated my husband (if registry will count as a wedding) for years and I never for once liked any form of familiarity with them, rarely attend his family function and when I do, you will not find me till in am about to leave for my house. food sef I no go chop before they will say she didn't do anything but knows how to eat.

why should she help you pick money at an event when your younger siblings were present? and don't you think she was trying to avoid an embarrassment from people who don't know who she is while picking the money. and why should you make such statement about her family, when you know nobody likes their family to be bad mouthed and I am sure if the situation had turned around and your brother told you his fiance said what you told her, you may react worse than she did.

there are so many loopholes in your narration and what you termed love actually seem like a controlling and overwhelming act.

badt geh

MadCow1:
[b]Madam..

Leave all these small girls wey full here wey dey form Online James Bond..

CHEATING IN MARRIAGE is way way different from CHEATING IN BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND relationships..

I have seen enough to start tp pity women. I have witnessed a Man whose wife tracked him to a (Corner side) hotel in Port Harcourt and confronted him live in the reception.. As the Woman was losing her mind and acting a fool there, the Man looks to the Hotel Manager like to say; What type of embarassment is this.. Nna men, Na so Security come evict the woman from the Hotel o!! The Man collect Key, carry ehn Babe enter room.. LIVE!! As in!!! I was in shock.. A few hours later, the Man comes out and drives away.. The WOman was still outside inside her car crying..

I have seen Women whose husbands even impregnated a girl outside stay in the marriage.. Even made moves to adopt the child from the side boo.

Marriage I tell the young ones is a big game changer.. Everything you thought you knew about marriage flies out the window most especially when you are in an unfaithful and abusive relationship.. [/b]

make God no let my eye see bad thing...

na today? 90% of them will go back...
50% have already made provisions for another visa...
most of em have huge investments already...
God help us all...

RIP sir
so sad

Thanks guys. I actually had to wait so i could sleep twice to make sure first
Okay the enya started workin yesterday at about 12noon. Cant really say d exact time tho.
Woke like 4.15pm
Slept again around 1am this morning... woke around 4.53am
Making progress...
Thanks guys...

uboma:
Its obvious you have feelings for the maid. How else can anyone explain why you are so interested in her pregnancy when you are not the one who is responsible for it. Why not make your feelings known to her if its worth it so you can be free from the emotional torture you are currently passing through?

Bia oga/madam.... you do not know what it is to be a good Nigerian abi? We've totally lost our true african nature which is charity... now its all man for himself just like the europeans... do you know the amount of disasters that have been aborted because people refused to mind their business?

100Cents:
Baby, I just want a woman I can love for who she is..

No list particularly.

Hmmmn
How do i help you now

Hmmmn. Which way Naija

So sad...
May we not be plucked out prematurely.
Amen!

Any random guy and his friend can decide to save their bbm display name with anything...
We refined Nigerians are not gullible ok?

100Cents:
I am not bordered but I am striving to do things at the right time.

I would have asked the very lady I liked now out 3 years ago but my premonition just told me exactly what she is doing now, Or I should have disobeyed my family as a naturally stubborn person and go ahead to marry outside my tribe like I wante to do..

Okay, give your Moma a written list of qualities you would want in a woman.
You definitely would be married by easter 2015 trust me.

ShahzadNonso:
you asked him y he shld fall in love 1st before he marries u, you dnt tink dt question is strange too? But ladies are quick to turn men down so I guess any guy bothered isn't doing anytin out of the ordinary

I had to ask o me dear...
The real reason he isn't married yet is not because there are no women. But he wants to be in love first
I still ask, does he have to fall in love with me first? Cant he just marry me in case i decide to marry him back

opella:
Lovely! Would you mind sharing the recipe? I so love fried rice with less oil.

Use butter or margarine instead of oil

ShahzadNonso:
But I just wantu watch. I won't interrupt

op ran away...
I'm just asking him questions he should ask himself before getting married.
don't know why a man would be bordered about finding a bride