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Sunnybobo3:
Chi chi nwannem, your wish is granted

how did you? ....
OH, my Facebook.

Sunnybobo please marry me.

Okay, sorry, I ddnt see that part well. Ngwanu what do you want to do about it now.

if it were the other way round, would you sincerely like it if she gave you the same treatment you are giving her? You said you love her right, but that's not the way to treat someone you truly love. Please try and change so she doesn't grow a thick skin,. Not when you have truly forgiven her, it wunt make a difference anymore cus she would have forgotten what love feels like. Ok?

betterbest:
I didnt marry her to torment her. After the confession, i forgve her and we moved on but i never knw the thought will come back. Pls contribute constructively, I hope to find help here. The main issue here is that its just too difficult to forget the past.

from your explanations, she ddnt even cheat. You initially told her you wouldn't marry her, so she did what every reasonable person will do. (Kept her door open for other options). Sorry bros, but you are just not a nice person.
Did you expect her to date only you? Then you'll get married and dump her to start from scratch when it would have been too late?
Why ddnt you just let her be? Now you stopped someone else from marrying her and you are still tormenting her. Abeg divorce her. Me I no dey like hear this kind jist

Fxwarrior:
You have been noticed. Now shove.

just as you have too.
Now can you let pretty people on nairaland 'nulu gbala na ezi ama biko'

betterbest:
Thank you everyone for your suggestions and encouragements. May God Almighty bless you all.

I'd tried to let go of the past, but the event is constantly rewinding and playing back in my head, I must confess it's been hell, the thought of her infidelity is really affecting our marriage, I thought she would do it again and again. I get mad easily, I constantly looking for fault, ascribing blames. From day one of the marriage it's been torture, bitterness, sorrowful, I snap at every little mistake she made, I don't wanna hurt her but I can't just control myself its just so difficult to forget her past mistake. As most of you had suggested, we'll go for counseling and I will focus more on the marriage than her mistake. If you ask me, I still love my wife dearly, she is still the mother of my son.

Thank you all once again for your time.

please divorce her so she can meet a better person abeg. You actually didn't want to marry her in the first place. Maybe the girl you were running after jilted you den u decided to use her as rebound. Please divorce the poor girl before you drive a knife thru her heart one day while she's asleep.
Thanks

Am jelos.

190:


awww i miss you too but no offence who ar u again, im tryna recollect is this a NEW ID or smtin






Its u and i till death u hear

it's nothing personal honey... U've been MIA for some time now that's all...

190:

I miss you

Fxwarrior:
I doubt you have crossed beyond your state boundary talkless of country.
So your advice was borne out of ill will, to punish him. Who told you the decision was selfish.If he finishes and secures a higher paying job, who will benefit? Besides every marriage is unique in itself. Just because others can live apart, doesn't mean every couple must live apart. Op is more mature than you. Don't abuse the priviledge he gave you to air your views.

Do yourself a favour and read your posts well and thoroughly before submitting.

Oga, I have noticed you derive joy in carrying people's matter and thread on your head and shoulders. Hope you are okay?

Try to secure a job there for her first. Her old man must have reasons. Bydeway... who is taking care of all expenses (ur schooling et al) at the moment?

Omg! Some people are marring 2nd husband and me I never even see half. Chei!

Thatchesttho

#sighs...

God Almighty! !!

People who lie do not need reasons to. I have such a friend, I feel so bad for her. Its a big bond. They can't even help themselves.

Mutuwa: At least he remembers the man's creativity.Shame on past leaders that didn't remark the old man in anyway.

I had listen to a radio program " brekete family" where the hosts of d show went down to his house to interview him.he had lost hope in the system,and his only dream was for him to get a house within the perimeter of the state secretariat.As he lamented,it brought bk good old memories of yesterday to him.This even his constituency senator or rep member could hv done,talk more the d governor of the state,past and present.

don't say what you dont know. I remember obj did a lot for that flag guy. His family has been taking advantage of the poor old man, swindling his money and always trying to get sympathy every first October.

Okay, thanks. Noted

Good girl. I'm happy for you. Keep it up.

They both didn't dress well, her grand mum looked way classier than them

I'm happy for them. Beautiful pregnant woman.

Errrrmmmmmmm, I actually am not married yet but would need help with a little advice. Please are there people whose marriages were arraged here? I'd like to know if its working, did you get to bond with your arranged spouse later? Your contributions are needed. Thanks

Love you genny...




biko, who isthat beautiful lady on white lace...
God can soo create some people eh.
Now I'm feeling cheated

I'm happy for both of you... God's blessings...

How come you deeen drop their personal mobile number
















arrrr wudaaah loved to just say 'hi'

its just this crazy feeling of keeping urself chaste for someone so far meanwhile he's flexing some cuter shinonies down there.
some times u ask if u're really doing the right thing...
just my thots tho.

@moderator.
thank you.
noted.

i'm just about to start. and am already tired... God help me...