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Saintly01:
As a guy, if you fall in love with a student I pity your life, I am in exactly this same university school girl relationship shit. My eye don see something, no jokes.

it's being 3 years of sending pocket money and maintenance fee to my fiancee', soo that l don't hear stories that touches the heart.she Don graduate over the weekend. it's not easy! l have learned how to be responsible over this time. dating a student ain't easy is like being married which comes with a lot of responsibilities

32 next yr.

the guy Na Marlian

shugaboy6102:
Really am not talking even based on the new lady I met, what am asking is are we legally married? and if so do we keep enduring each other and for how long. Should I stay with her out of convenience because of what people in my church will say, my neighbours, friends, colleagues etc. Do we keep tolerating when we both know it was out of passion and youthful exuberance that landed us both in this. Oh God help me because my life is in a mess I hope someone understands me

something went wrong in between l still Think there is hope for you two, some of this problem at times are spiritual, but will always draw our conclusion in the physical take it to God in prayer, get a believing church and pastor go for prayers and counseling, above try once again to see if you can mend ur home, you have a kid already and start having them here and there.

olril17:
walai this person is mad how old are u

I'm an elder with experience

Pascopele:
I've heard several complaints from the ladies that it amounts to emotional deceit for the men to straight up ask for a relationship when what the men want is a fling, one-night stand, or no-strings-attached relationship.

I don't know, but I feel it all comes down to this: as a guy asking a lady for a relationship is the only way you're guaranteed sex, if it ever happens. These things are not written in black and white. Just going straight to tell her that you only want access to the cookie will make you seem like you were the worst idiot to ever inhabit earth.

So, ladies how will you feel if a guy straight up asks you for a fling, a one-night stand, or a no-strings-attached relationship?

it happens, back when l was still balling, 3 of my ex'es came unto me, and we had fun for some months, distance was always the separating factor thou

Riele:
I don't know who made Nigerian men God over women .

keep quiet there, what Do you know

Preciousgirl:
For those crucifying me, both my dad and husband know I am a very decent woman . they know I am not an infidel, so your insults here won't get to me. Be charitable in your advice. I didn't send that guy my picture with a bad intention .

the problem women generally have is that most of you, never really think of the consequences of ur action before carrying it out. you had no business sending ur pics to a male friend as a married woman there should be limit to everything. Ur husand feels betrayed, and he his thoughting ur Trust, you also acted wrongly reporting him to ur father. Ur father has control over his own home not urs, this are little things that leads to unnecessary breakup in marriages this days. l will suggest you apologize to ur Husband and limit the way ur chat with male friends no husand or man will be comfortable with that, tell him to forgive you promising never to repeat it again. be wise and save ur home, no third parties, you should both be able to iron ur differences without involving others

KevinDein:
Bullshiiit

You are literally telling him to throw his life away and exit the world a loser because of some lazy girl.

chill Bro ur also literally telling him to throw away the future of his children, since she doesn't want to be serious he is of a more stronger character and will, let him set up other forms of business and get people to run it. while he make profit, his wife can be there producing Bebies. he saw as this from the beginning and still went ahead we should be responsible for what ever decision we make in life

cool down Bro. you are in already there is no way out, not after having two children for you, that will make you a coward, it's a Man's burden learn to live with it and also learn to manage ur wife the way she is .

as a married Man you're suppose to watch the caliber of friends you roll with, most of this beer parlor friends are of no good, keeping late nights as a married man is a no no. be responsible. as for ur wife give her a little time you can go over to her family and apologize if they refuse to let her return home. leave her alone her Brain will return to factory setting after some time.

it's ur wife's village people vs ur village people. Glory be to God two down

That's stupidity at it's peak

that's stupidity at its pick

lol why will you tell your friend to go sleep at your fiance's house girls with fish brain you got served. them no dey give dog born make E keep. E go definitely chop am.

l really don't see this as a breakup, you both should seat down and talk things through, she is graduating she needs reassurance, marriage and all that. l and my fiancee have sure quarrels once in a while and we still iron things out.

talking from experience, l had similar issues, went for prayers, they tell me don't marry her shez bad luck and all that. the truth about all this is that love conquers all, don't let any one decide ur faith, take you destiny in ur own hands, if shez ready. about your health condition don't give up, God is the ultimate mechanic, He alone has our spare parts, and He is in the Business of changing lives, if you are a Christian go to a living church were prayers are held regularly God will change ur story. go with ur woman if possible her story will change too. at some point after intense prayers l and my fiancee are all good to go all the bullshit stop, and by the grace of God will be tieing the nuts early 2020

Sept. 8, 2008 was a day l will never forget, we were on a journey from Kd to Niger state to see our dad, my elder Sis just bought a new car, soo we wanted to also enjoy the ride, past the tole gate, the car entered a very big pot hole, on high speed my brother who was driving but not very experienced applied breaks about 3times, the only thing l remembered was Us flying in the air and 3 heavy sound( our car had sulmansolted 3times) we all black out l woke up in a ditch our car was upside down all Damage close to an high tension electrical pole. to cut the story short God save Us against the plans of our village people 6six of Us came out alive with few injuries that was later stitched up at the hospital. God his awesome and l give him all the glory each day.

why the fuccck will you be sending ur pictures to a male friend, l just Wonder how you women think at times ur husand is right, he is disappointed in you.

chest wey no get landing again

Pedrotina11:
Lol and she would be dumping ur ass a week before.... Just saying..minding my business y'all.

Lol Ok Dude, no body knows tomorrow I'll just keep my fingers crossed, and keep loving you never can tell. it's been a long time coming

deltateam:
You said fiancee?

Better go for counselling to prevent suicide.

Lol Na you wan kill me? l know you will say she may ditch me for another dude, if it happens, That's fine by me in life l expect anything humans don't surprise me any more. watch out for our prewedding pix at the first quarter of 2020.

my fiancee is a student, we started dating since she was in 100level it wasn't easy financially thou. but God was always there for Us she will be graduating next week.

chiommy123:
Men and breast. What's in breast sef

you will not understand

that girl in the first pics go sabi receive prick well well Ooh

awon Dick hurnters

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maynation:
How I want mine. No need wasting money on frivolities.

soo when do we get making plans?

selfish individuals think this way. you are afraid of responsibilities, you are afraid you may fail. don't be self minded your parents bought you into world via natural law. you village people are using ur Brain and blokus to play ludo. recieve sense my brother.

this one done use him dick do money ritual.

Preshy561:
Now, the op is better than you.
Yeah, you pretending and acting all nice when you are dieng inside for how long? For how long will you continue like this? As we all know, human behaviour will at some point, rebel against its oppressor when the mind can no longer contain it. And why tolerate what you don't want in life? Why start what you can't finish? There are simple blending/grinding machines the family can afford, yet you want to act all nice and heroic.
I know my husband won't even like to see me in that condition abeg.

sharappp ur mouth there, you are soo uncultured, as an african wife to be, it's part of ur duties, you are not going to live with ur in-laws or spend ur entire life pounding yam. in life ur don't have to do what you want or plizz Urself all the time, play by the rules and let peace reign. don't go be a bad wife to someone tomorrow. what nonsense