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noblefada: That's what you were told, but there are no scriptural backing for that. This going to cause a lot of controversy, but sorry to say, lucifer was never a music director in heaven, he was created on earth, whoever started that allusion I wonder where he got his inspiration from.

ATMC: I offended someone serously and as i'm typing this i'm hurting...

noblefada: What type, what was his function?

ATMC: I went out...regretted it but its christmas you know

@texanomaly Are yhu a white or yhu feigning white? again, are yhu female or yhu are feigning female?

Alikaxon: like I read and I knew ur mind. Will u marry me?

noblefada: Ok, but just to arose ur curiosity, do u know who lucifer was b4 the fall?

njuwo: She Traded Insults With Her Bf's Dad. Why didn't the Bf's Dad buy the insult na? Is not easy to trade insult without selling o

noblefada: Both were different scenarios, the donkey was not possessed, but giving an ability to talk, but in Eden there was not serpent. There is a mystery behind who satan actually was b4 the fall and again I won't go deeper than this. You're free to believe what you want.

Mr Troll: Sorry, Jesus is NOT the reason for the season. I mean this in a nice way

noblefada: Nope there was no talking snake, it was lucifer himself and he was an angel

brytandre: Yardstick? Strokes? Babe u re getting one aroused! Lmao. Be easy, he is making a point too #wink#

ATMC: Deactivation of account on nl na turn by turn...an0nimus yhu got mail...

@amfm shitt separated ur bum cheeks, get them together#new year resolvation

@all how una christmas go? I had madt fun...home at last#winks

noblefada: Yeah, also the devil is referred to as serpent (hence there was no talking snake), the tree of life and that of the knowledge of good & evil, mind you most of the book is literal but not all of it.

mizzthang: They should move it na

Luxiana19: I guess so, ur right
Thank you

dagr8: Menh, i landed on dis thread not by intention bt on investigation..lol

@topic...why are some pple just hitting on d "she had sex with him" part, the op is just explaining the extent to which she gave to the relationship. Iam not in support of pre-marital sex, but she had made a mistake and she had to forge ahead.
In answer to your questions...though is not fair judging a case using only one side of the story...i will say:

1. Yes guys also get hurt ...unfortunately d guy you fell for did not love you from the onset. He was after something and he got it...the "break up" sex u talked about is a clear revelation he had been staying for the sake of sex that he had been getting all along.
2. Love is about 100% giving, you are right for you to give...but when it comes to sex..the creator has defined where it should be used i.e in marriage. Like we all know sex is not equal to love...neither is love equal to sex.
You were wrong by being with the wrong person..that's all i can say...
In subsequent relationships, define and know what you want and also define your preference with your reasoning not with your emotion.

3. Yes. You have to love. A Yoruba adage says, " if you choose to close your eyes because you don't wanna see an evil person passing, when a good person is passing you wont see him too"

God created us as relational beings to love and to be loved...and when it comes to marital love, it is God's design for you...you wont because of one guy who broke your heart become a nun...did you have the intention of becoming a nun before you started a relationship with him?

Life is about learning...for every mistake we make we learn from it and what we learnt we apply in subsequent encounters...
now you have learnt something, apply what you have learnt in the next encounter, don't run away from the encounter

Get good friends around U from both genders,thank God you are now on NairaLand, you can find wonderful friends around, enjoy your life especially in God...I assure you will get healed with time....and you will surely fall in love again ...

My dear, move on and move up, a better love and lover await you don't miss it/him....

In conclusion, rely on Jesus..the only one who knows and owns the future....

...Merry Christmas ..

chymystique: Cos dts ma opinion

chymystique: IMO she shld de-activate her account sharp sharp..

noblefada: Good, this defeat ur earlier assertions that the book of genesis is literal.

youngalex: Noted...am just so hapi dis Xmas

youngalex: Many chics were slaughtered on xmas day....dirty minds I mean chicken...Enjoy d best dis yuletide