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sweet sleep, sweet death, sweet dreams.....Death is fuccking inevitable.

If it says there is no pending withdrawal then it means bet9ja has authorized your withdrawal... your account will be credited after 8pm

Toto gone wrong..... @Op you don contact totobola..... go for med checkup.

Baba dikedike

Revere27:
Rip ma'am

I pledge to Nigeria my country
To be faithful loyal and honest
To serve Nigeria with all my strength
To defend her unity,
And uphold her honour and glory
So help me God.

It's so unfortunate that the pledge has lost its value by many Nigerian citizens.

We're no longer faithful loyal and honest
Our strength and bravery for this country is long gone
Hooops!!! To uphold her honour and Glory is a now a thing of the past.

This administration failed it citizens!!!

No longer faithful loyal and honest.... see this guy sha. wen the last statement read SO HELP ME GOD..... wetin remain again.

see Op coconut head like ball own

Christmasdon:
PSG IS LOOKING FAVOURITES TO WIN THIS YEAR CHAMPIONS LEAGUE EDITION. GOD MINISTERED TO ME.

Na god of brafia dey whine dis one.... PSG wey don enter express with ur so called god. Minister to u ko prophesy to u ni

abeg say Op mix the fowl blood with the tomato's ni wey e red like tha..... @Op, you don see iya suliya fowl steal today bah... u no dey hear word... Na her turkey remain now... dem go ctach u o

jodpoundz:
Pls guys help, ever since have open my bet9ja account since 2015 I have never won any money they but I won for the first time yesterday but I can't withdraw my money because the phone number I will receive confirmation OTP (one time password) was my former phone number that got lost, pls does any body know how I can change my phone number on my bet9ja account pls.

contact bet9ja via a phone call or a message thru ur online account and tell them you want to change your phn num and your email acct.. they will request for a proof from you to be sure u are d real owner of the acct....
No go do as that aboki wey win 2M+ do o wey go dey send anoda verification gv bet9ja if not ur money don enter express bdat.

I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Dear Op, am sorry to say this but the fact is that you are very stupid and foolish for seeking help from us when your coconut brain can't tell you what to do.... infact buhari brain is more active than yours......... Well what's my concern, get married to him let him send you to an early grave so that i can type that RIP to you...... spit.

DubaiLandLord1:
The people in that picture should all be charged to court and jailed if they have broken the law.

you still used the world 'IF' after those zombies have already broken the law since 1990.

folabayo:
Aiit...

send me ur mail, let me dm u.

folabayo:
Aiit...

aright.

folabayo:
Lol, y? Nah..., don't bite

lol, jst kidding thou. can i have ur digit?

folabayo:
Yes

i use style fear Ondo people o..... hope you won't bite me.... lol

folabayo:
Their witch no strong b dat. The witches in ondo ( ikale people precisely) use light, dats y there is no light in dat place 4 years

lol, ikale people re watching you... dem go bite you o.... seems you are from Ondo

folabayo:
No need for fuel nah.all those Benin witch no de use fuel..., we go just find electric pole, when nepa bring light, the current go just flig us go sky

Electric pole ke... you want the witches to be angry bah. you wan disconnect their light..... Benin witches dey use fuel o... ask benin people.

folabayo:
Enh..., you self they fly for night?

I will spread my wing's till I learn how to fly..., i will do all it takes till I touch the sky.
That's breakaway by Kelly Clarkson

let's fly together then.... but i no get fuel o

folabayo:
The interviewer no try sha.
What will b yours will b, you self next time no wear Jersey go for interview

@folabayo come let me teach you how to spread ur wings and fly.. audio. wen u no be bird

olosho in disguise

Julianah21:
He was the one that wanna take someone out, if you know she as not add up any value to you, or she doesnt worth anything why bring up that subject

you jst dey taku everybody anyhow... Well, wetin concern Actor and Boss.. na Actor dey alwys suffer.....See this your trouser wey u use snap so for ur profile enh abeg come dash me make i use am sew shirt and trouser lenght.... Haba, fear God o.... how come only you go carry 6yards of cloth take sew trouser alone..... Nawa o, bubu is confused and speechless.

chatinent:
My question is what question did you ask her before she said “let me think then.”

Don't confuse the gods.

mtcheew, walia the gods are confused already especially with this fasting... Enugbe.... gods wey don enter express since 1999.

chatinent:
My question is what question did you ask her before she said “let me think then.”

Don't confuse the gods.

walia the gods are confused already especially with this fasting... Enugbe....

OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

Oga ade, you are the problem of your problems. She told you to keep calm and invest in to farming but you disagreed and went in to crypto and looses ur cash then blame it on her... Okay fine, why don't you for once dance to her tune... if she tells you to do this, why don't you do that and see the out come of it..... Your problem is spiritual.... you have a stubborn spirit in you and that's why you are loosing big.... leave your wife out of this bro, you are a failure.

i still dey wait for the real picture bcus na refurbish bdis one and not reconstruction.

Are you an handicap that you can't seek for jobs ni.... If u can't get a salary job then why not venture in to some maniac jobs that pays you on a daily basis. Though she was meant to help you but right now you need to help her ok especially now that she is pregnant... so stand up ane fight ur fight.... we all have our flaws bro.

In a loud voice.... JAPA

after him don thief 9ja money finish, e come build church.... man with swag.... abi na him salary he take build the church ni??

that ps2 i go pay 10k for am.... you gree or u no gree.

k2fresh:
Why can't this bloody gay just keep quiet for once.You done finally see person when go fvck your anus or anus when you wan fvck.Foolish gay proliferating the entire internet with your senseless.Anyways you are in luck, you are your fellow colleague Amajiri VicM6 can come to terms. That one own na to dey carry plate all over the internet. You dey look for anus,him dey look for money.Both of you can come to terms. You can offer your anus to him or he offers his to you.Bloody foolish gay with a leaky yansh. 14 years await you.

bringing gay into sport betting..... truly you are highly foolish and daft.... Bro, go and gather some brain and stop being childish for once.... slowpoke.