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RomanceRe: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by victorian(f): 2:59pm On Nov 26, 2018
cheesy




Thank God for life tongue

RomanceRe: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 10:43am On Nov 26, 2018
Fadedvoiced:
Stop living a fake life . Alexialin,do you want me to expose you again?
Go back to your grave!

Your mates are waiting for you there.

I don't exchange words with the dead, both known and unknown dead person.

RomanceRe: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 10:39am On Nov 26, 2018
vingeophysicist:
I understand you better now. But most ladies the way they request these days we find it hard to decipher the genuine ones. Don't be surprised if the guy you requested assistance thought you were another gold digger. if he knew you were really in such condition he would have helped.
That's why long distance relationship is not advisable.

Assuming he's in the same location with me, I would have text him my house address, at least seeing me all doubts will be cleared.

I can never go into long distance relationship, cause the guy will always be in doubt when it comes to money issues and like you said he will feel I am gold digger if I request for any financial assistance, anytime in the relationship.

What's the use of a relationship if we can't help ourselves when we are down? Is relationship all about when I see you, then we Bleep?

It shouldn't be like that.


Op forget long distance, focus on guys in your area, school, office or church.
CelebritiesRe: Flavour welcomes 3rd child with first baby mama, Sandra Okagbue by victorian(f): 10:19am On Nov 26, 2018
Omoluabi9:
I love your literary expression.

I especially like the way you described Sandra and Anna (the bolded);although I see softness in Sandra too.

There are a few typos in your writeup though.

I think the best case would have been for Flavour to marry both of them, but that is wishful thinking.
Smiles thanks.

Sandra would not want to share the title of Mrs Flavour one bit!

While Anna wouldn't mind sharing and becoming number two, if need be.

And Flavour wouldn't mind marrying both but he's considering how Sandra will feel. That lady will not share that title one bit!

Sandra is not soft. Maybe around Flavour. But remove flavor from the picture, she is a bad assz babe!

Pls don't mind my typo..biko
CelebritiesRe: Flavour welcomes 3rd child with first baby mama, Sandra Okagbue by victorian(f): 7:32am On Nov 26, 2018
Na wa o

I truly pity Anna banner, she's lost and got caught up in the euphoria of a sexy famous singer, thinking it's love. Well it could be love for her but all I see ? She's simply infatuated with flavour . Her eyes never clear yet. What a pity.. Such beauty just floating in space, waiting for flavour.

Whereas Flavour is inlove and hooked with Sandra, his hands on this Sandra. It's clear he won't breakup with Sandra and be with Anna. It's clear, Sandra is the one he has chosen. It's clear all he had with Anna was a fleeting passionate moment cos of her Angelic and innocent beauty which was only meant to last for some days but he got hooked along the line with another pregnancy .
Anna does not want to smell the coffee: Flavour will not marry her, no matter how long she waits for him and No matter how beautiful and angelic she looks.

Sandra too is also beautiful but in a strong and edging way. Sandra beauty is like a refined rough edged diamond. Anna beauty is like an enchanting soft flower.

What's a web, she's got herself into and with her eyes wide open.

Na wa. O

A Worst case scenario to ever see my self in. God forbid!

She try

All of them try cheesy
FamilyRe: 16yrs After, Mum Secretly Flies To Nigeria To Surprise Daughter On Her Birthday by victorian(f): 12:18am On Nov 26, 2018
haywire07:
Shame on the both of them.

That was how Aunty Ramota left her 1 year old baby for her sister in-law and travelled to Dubai just this year June o. Last month she called her husband that she's no longer married to him and he should do whatever he likes with their one year old son.

I'm sure the same thing happened to this one. The mother most likely had the chance to escape Nigeria , she abandoned her daughter and husband and she chose not to return because she found greener pastures. After sucking dicks and hoeing for 16 good years, she then had the courage to come home for a useless birthday. I mean, what's so special about the birthday, is she clocking 150? The woman better tell us the real reason she came home

And the girl too is crying because her so-called mother is from "abroad" .

Whoever watched the video would see that the mother initially felt no bond, she was just looking like "who the f*ck is this girl hugging me"
Well that's the one you saw.

This other version I am about to drop will shock you.

I know of a family. The wife gave birth to 5 children in quick succession. She is married to a man who does not like to work. So to live a better life. Husband agreed his wife should travel abroad and suck dicckss with doing menial jobs, so the kids and himself can live a better life.
He promised he won't remarry and he kept to his own end of the bargain.
The wife sends money steady to them in Lagos.
The children are grown now, all graduates, thanks to the mother.
Three are working, two are still searching for jobs,
They all know what the mum and dad agreed on. I think some years back, she visit her family. Come and see joy in all their faces. With the dad beaming with smiles. They've even built a house in the portharcourt and moved down.
And guess what? The father is an elder in Church!
They celebrate their parents 32years of marriage on facebook, not too long ago.

The wife has gone back abroad to continue working, as she's old maybe she's focused on other jobs, who knows.

That's another angle .


The husband is in cohoot with his wife. I hope I got the cohoot correctly? undecided

Anyways they are both in agreement.

Nkan be!
CelebritiesRe: Empress Njamah Slaughter A Big Cow For her Birthday Party (Pictures) by victorian(f): 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2018
She try..

Correct babe! smiley

Celebration of life, good health, money , flowing steady ain't easy. It's takes Grace.

God bless our legitimate hustles amen.

My own cow this Christmas! It must happen cheesy
RomanceRe: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 9:20pm On Nov 25, 2018
zicoraads:
So, your own reason for not dabbling into long distance relationships is just about money?!

Why would you even want to ask him for money when the both of you are not even totally on a 'I know you level?' Before you met him, how were you taking care of your needs?

The truth is, anyone you meet and demand financials from immediately, will have second thoughts about you. Both male and female.
Anyways thank God. God has settled me, I don't need to ask any random guy in the name of dating for any money. He can keep his money.
CelebritiesRe: I No Longer Find Dark Chocolatey Guys Attractive - Toke Makinwa by victorian(f): 9:15pm On Nov 25, 2018
BABANGBALI:
story for the gods
Thank you.

The gods are already aware.
RomanceRe: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2018
vingeophysicist:
your comment is always shielded with controversy. What is the meaning of "don't dabble with long distance relationship". The fact it didn't work for you does not mean it will not work for others. you sounded like an epileptic social creature. Learn how not to dabble into other peoples belief because it doesn't augur down with you.
The issue here in contention is demanding money from a guy you only started dating for a week.
I don't dabble into long distance relationship means I don't go into it. Not for anything in this whole wide world. You know why? Cause of trust issues.

Then asking a guy for money, be it one week or one month or two years in the relationship is not advisable. Financially issues can erupt in someone's life at any time! There is no perfect day or perfect time to ask for money from anyone.

So for me, the Op shouldn't have asked even if she's dying on a sick bed cause the guy will take a walk and that's the reality.

I have been in a situation in the past, when I started a relationship with a guy from long distance, and unfortunately I fell ill. After some days. I was seriously ill and I am an orphan. It was just me and God. I asked the guy I was dating then for money to treat typhoid and malaria, but he didn't believe I had such illness. He said it was too early to ask. I laughed in hysteria, cos the typhoid has gone deep into my brain and system. That's like four days battling with how will I have money to go buy drugs and treat myself. My eyes were white, I was short of blood cos I had my menses days before the typhoid came. And heavy flow it was.

So I was short of blood, then coupled with typhoid and malaria to treat. He said he won't send, it's too early. I said OK, thanks, don't bother.
I cut the call. I laid down on my bed and I was praying with tears in my eyes, God if this is how I will die, without help, it's all good. I was managing my health , all my friends back then said they don't have. Thank God none back then are my friends again as I type.

For 1week and few days I was ill with typhoid, no drugs, no food nothing. My temperature was very high, all my insides were trembling until one day, my bp rose and I had heart attack , a thought said I should call my Pastor. And I did as I held unto to my chest with sharp pain. My Pastor picked immediately. I said Pastor I am dying pls help me. He said God forbid! What happened, I said my heart and I am down with typhoid. He asked are u at home or where? I screamed yea! Am home. Then I collapsed and fainted.

The next thing I saw, I was in the hospital after some hours when I woke up. With my pastor and his wife staring at me with relieved faces.

Anyway to cut it short. I got saved. My past Bf then, I cut him as soon as I bounced back. I didn't regret cutting off from him. He called after some weeks, hoping to revive the relationship and I asked him assuming u heard I am dead today, will u still be saying u are inlove with me and want us to date?



I just pray God should bless the hustles of everyone trying to make it and trying to survive. Cause only very few truly cares. If the Op has money, she wouldn't even ask the guy for money. And there is no perfect time to ask for help. And I pray small illness will not kill us before our time and our financial problems will not choke us. Amen.

May God just help us.

And lastly the friends I have now are far better than the ones I had in the past. God will keep blessing them for taking me very close. If your friends are selfish! U have all the right to cut them off, and change everyone of them when u are back on your feet.

As dem no owe u anything, u sef no owe them as well. They are better off away from your side. Make yourself better and screen any new friend coming in ,before accepting their hands of friendship.
CelebritiesRe: Sean 'Diddy' Combs At Kim Porter's Funeral (Pics) by victorian(f): 8:35pm On Nov 25, 2018
Eagba:
ignorance ooo ignorance na bad thing walai. over there even if she is that broke she can still access medical care as long as she's paying her tax, that I know cos if she isn't, IR people for they burst her door
So all the people who are not paying tax abroad, IR don burst all their doors?

Cos I know some people still evade tax, in US for a considerable period of time.


And assuming she paid her tax, why wasn't taken to the hospital for medical care immediately?

Why wait till it got to a level, the illness had to take her life?

It simply shows nobody cared about her. Nobody send her.

Which is very typical in the world we live in.

Except one is very lucky and blessed to have good hearted and caring friends and family.
RomanceRe: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 8:23pm On Nov 25, 2018
Op, I repeat don't ever dabble into long distance relationship.

It's not worth the stress.

The guy won't trust you with giving out money for the next three years or so , even if you guys see once a year. He will still say, it's too early cos he saw you just once in a year.
Then secondly don't expect any guy u are dating to solve your financial issues. Cos he won't.
Look elsewhere for such money and pray God bless your hustle enough to be able to fend for yourself without asking a soul for it.
Although I have friends whom we help each other, when things are down, then sometimes my man do assist, whenever I ask.. Just maybe because we've been together for some years down the lane.


So remember cancel long distance shiit!

Pure waste of time and emotions.
CelebritiesRe: I No Longer Find Dark Chocolatey Guys Attractive - Toke Makinwa by victorian(f): 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2018
weyreypey:
Be careful of womenfolk here.
I know, that's why I don't and will never post his pic of online. Only my female friends offline have met him and that's just briefly.

Thanks for the advice smiley
RomanceRe: It hurts... by victorian(f): 7:38pm On Nov 25, 2018
LivingDead:
It has been from one complication to another. From the throat discomfort, i get weariness, disorientation, watery eyes, heavy chest/breathing, difficulty swallowing lumps of food, chronic headache, irregular excretion. I just noticed pile. In short, i've stopped listening to and fighting signals. Where i stay, the major concern is how to get food in this harsh economy. Only the rich think of health tips or having a family doctor. But it hurts because i have lost the vibrancy of my youth. I used to be good in public speaking. I used to be good in event planning. I used to be assiduous in any occupation i embarked in. All that is no longer possible due to my physiological debility. I'm now subservient and obeisant to any one giving me succour. I can't fend for myself at 26. I'm feeble. Mum still feeds me and buys me things [down to undies]. It hurts that she's struggling for me despite being in retirement.With my knowledge, i should not be using canoe soap to bathe or eating garri without sugar.

Someone without good diction is governing us at the top. Hmm... Ordinary 100 naira to buy ampliclux for the inflammation [boil] in my eye, i cant afford. Some of us are just alive but not living. Hmm... All my mates have moved to the next level. Some are aspiring for political offices and others in government jobs due to their qualification. My consolation/comfort is my cathartic threads and the will to keep on going.

RomanceRe: It hurts... by victorian(f): 7:37pm On Nov 25, 2018
Offpoint:
I'm done advising this guy. A good Samaritan stretched forth a helping hand you rejected.
It's either you get a long note and poor out your daily grievances or get a Glo SIM... It's easiest way to increase one frustration, it makes suicide easier.

I honestly don't know what you want us to do. We offer solutions you said no.... Honestly if you don't find life worth living, kindly do the needful.
Hahahahahahahahah cheesy


Livingdead we are waiting for you to kill yourself already!

This death never still kill am since? huh

He's a morrafucker!

CelebritiesRe: I No Longer Find Dark Chocolatey Guys Attractive - Toke Makinwa by victorian(f): 6:28pm On Nov 25, 2018
That's her problem.

She can go for fair guys.. Nobody stop her.

But mine is tall, 6"3ft, very dark, broad shoulders, he body builds wink and to top it all, he's such a shy man. Lol grin
CelebritiesRe: Sean 'Diddy' Combs At Kim Porter's Funeral (Pics) by victorian(f): 6:21pm On Nov 25, 2018
chuckjonesbaba:
Flu is not ordinary cold and catarrh. We dont even have flu in Naija that much. Flu symptoms here in USA include, Fever, stomach pain, running tummy and pneumonia.
I didn't say ordinary cold and catarrh, I mentioned high fever inclusive.

We do have flu here, during cold and rainy seasons. Have experienced flu before and yes pneumonia can also be part of it as well.

But it's easy to treat, if taken to the right hospital. It's not hard and it's not that expensive sad

Straight to hospital and get a doctor to examine, get the right drugs with injections prescribed by the doctor , don't take cold drinks or tea anymore. Try as much as possible to stay warm , sleep in warm room and always remember to take the drugs prescribed.

With immediate help from a qualified doctor, the illness is not that expensive to treat. All the patient need is urgent medical attention, and warmth around her when she gets home. simple.
RomanceRe: Do Men Really Love How It Smells? by victorian(f): 6:12pm On Nov 25, 2018
lefulefu:
hahahahahahahahahahahahacheesy.. This comment is so interestingcheesy.. Oya oo highqueen,folake4u,Marialavina,victorian,tossie101, LivingFree wat have u to say to thischeesy.
Na wa o!


Am short of words!

The guy own strong!
CelebritiesRe: Sean 'Diddy' Combs At Kim Porter's Funeral (Pics) by victorian(f): 6:10pm On Nov 25, 2018
Ishilove:
What kind of flu kills? I've never heard of the flu killing a full blooded Nigerian undecided

I wonder why Diddy never made it official. The woman just dey born dey born like baby factory yet no ring on it.
It's shocking to me as well.

Flu is just like high fever with cold and catarrh.


It clearly shows, she was broke as fucc! Before her death, that she can't even afford to get drugs and treat the flu!

Na wa o sad

Now they are giving her a grand burial, very typical! Smhhhh.
CelebritiesRe: Sean 'Diddy' Combs At Kim Porter's Funeral (Pics) by victorian(f): 6:06pm On Nov 25, 2018
Died of flu? undecided

Just flu? Na wa o

It says alot on how supportive her family and kids were to her sad

Rest in peace Kim cry
Christianity EtcRe: The Man You Marry Can Make Or Break You – Mrs. Oritsejafor by victorian(f): 10:14am On Nov 25, 2018
True but it goes both ways.

One has to be very very very careful whom we end up with as a spouse.

Shine your 6 senses well!
CelebritiesRe: Actress Abimbola Afolayan Shows Off Her Natural Beauty With Cleveage Photos by victorian(f): 8:43pm On Nov 24, 2018
She well so? sad

I pity the husband, wey carry this type put for house.

Smmmmhhh.

And I thought I have seen it all!
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 8:31pm On Nov 24, 2018
Pidginwhisper:
You're welcome Ma'am, you too.

On and Off for barracks but been good so far..
OK that's cool.
FamilyRe: My Brother's Relationship Is Under A Serious Threat by victorian(f): 5:41pm On Nov 24, 2018
stansaintly:
I was on the phone with the lady. She's just going home since morning she left for church.
Na wa o


Since morning till past 5pm? sad


Is she alright upstairs? sad

No wonder the husband is thinking of breaking up. What's the use marrying a woman when she will not be available on Saturdays, and spend the whole day in the church?
When the husband start beating her now? She will quickly snap her face filled with blood with broken tooth and post online.

That's how one of my neighbors beat up his wife after warning her several times to stop weekly church service, Mondays and Wednesdays. Cause she leaves home in the mid afternoon while he's still at work then come back home at night from 9pm.
This. Man is already back from work around 5pm. That's how he will start preparing his food and food the children will eat, cos his wife left the kids with house help. The man has complained taya, she no dey listen. Very stubborn wife.
And he married her when she was very young working as house help in one lady's restaurant in the village. He was the one who freed her from job of househelp, paid her bride price, bring her to Lagos, feed her well. She don fat now look like yokozuna cheesy

She now talks back at the husband, that she can't leave her church or stop serving God, that the husband is the devil.

I look at both of them in amazement as they both table their grudges before my mum, when she was alive years back.

Chai! Some women can be so stubborn. The man beat her one day and threw her things out. She fought him back and threw her things in cheesy

Na wa o


Later, neighbours had to take her elsewhere for safety.

Women ehn? grin

"Shakes head. "



Op , your brother need to call family meeting and someone she respects to talk to her and advise her.
FamilyRe: Lady Empties The House After Husband Sent Her Packing (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2018
lefulefu:
no sane man would bash the woman.go thru the thread naucheesy.. U will see dat evert guy here is bashing d dudecheesy.
Oh OK.
FamilyRe: Lady Empties The House After Husband Sent Her Packing (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:23pm On Nov 24, 2018
lefulefu:
All those boyfriends and husbands dat will jus sit down doing nothing while the lady is d one hustling should take a lesson from dis storycheesy
No mind those kind of men, they think they are smart.

The woman will collect all her properties, let the man too start from scratch!

Even men who buy car for their babes, when the relationship turns sour, they always collect their cars back. Men rent house for babes, when relationships goes south, they throw her out of the house, with thugs and lock the house. Especially if her name is not on the receipt of the house rented and not in her custody.

No be today, both men and women are doing themselves when everything goes south.

So we shouldn't blame the wife. It goes both ways.
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 2:09pm On Nov 24, 2018
Pidginwhisper:
Choi!! shocked. Judging by this writeup, aswear dem don take your eyes see shege for NL.

But in all honesty, i wasn't trying to invade your space but rather to drop a compliment and move on as i wasn't expecting you take it as serious as this.

I've done the same with some pretty NL ladies, we make joke about it and move on like it never happened.

Enjoy you day ma'am wink
Oh ok, I didn't know.

One has to be on guard with some crazy creeps here.

But seriously , I won't say they take my eyes see shege but they've made me very tough here, no be today and have grown a thick skin and sharp tongue on those creeps! cheesy

So whether anyone likes it or not :

I AM MARRIED AND UNAVAILABLE TO ALL GUYS ON NAIRALAND!

Take it or leave it!

Drops mic! angry



also pidginwhisper smiley Nice chatting with you. You sound like a nice guy.

Well hope you are enjoying the weekend, as e dey go?
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 12:59pm On Nov 24, 2018
Pidginwhisper:
.Definitely not, but have problem with you not vouching for yourself
This is not the first time, nor the second or third time, people on this forum have asked this same question , over and over again.

I am tired of saying the same answer. Then boom! Out of the blues, a lifeless creep from nowhere wil start wailing : it's lie! We won't take it! Victorian is not married. She's an evening newspaper, lonely and with no kids! We personally know her! She's not married!

Have heard such ringtones a million times and I am done answering the same question a million times. So in other words, I am done vouching times without number over my marital status.

Thank God, there are other people vouching for me. Allow my supporters pls.
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 12:51pm On Nov 24, 2018
Pidginwhisper:
So if the person wey dey vouch for u dey do am wrongly. You go still approve am?
He's not doing it wrongly.

Mr wereypey, is right on spot!

Correct guy! More accolades! grin

Bar man! A carton of the finest wine for Mr werepey!
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 12:48pm On Nov 24, 2018
victorazyvictor:
grin your even looking like them "lifeless people" because u speaks their language and think about them.
I pity your boyfriend frog!
grin
Heysh!!! Time up!

Just go back to your grave and sleep! Stop disturbing people on earth.
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 12:45pm On Nov 24, 2018
Pidginwhisper:
Mr weyreypey na u be the hubby?
Uncle? Na only hubby dey vouch for another person? undecided
CelebritiesRe: Femi Posh And David Afari Stabbed Wizkid’s Bodyguard, Emmanuel Obinna by victorian(f): 12:43pm On Nov 24, 2018
weyreypey:
She's happily married with children
God bless you. smiley

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