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Fadedvoiced:Go back to your grave! Your mates are waiting for you there. I don't exchange words with the dead, both known and unknown dead person.
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vingeophysicist:That's why long distance relationship is not advisable. Assuming he's in the same location with me, I would have text him my house address, at least seeing me all doubts will be cleared. I can never go into long distance relationship, cause the guy will always be in doubt when it comes to money issues and like you said he will feel I am gold digger if I request for any financial assistance, anytime in the relationship. What's the use of a relationship if we can't help ourselves when we are down? Is relationship all about when I see you, then we Bleep? It shouldn't be like that. Op forget long distance, focus on guys in your area, school, office or church. |
Omoluabi9:Smiles thanks. Sandra would not want to share the title of Mrs Flavour one bit! While Anna wouldn't mind sharing and becoming number two, if need be. And Flavour wouldn't mind marrying both but he's considering how Sandra will feel. That lady will not share that title one bit! Sandra is not soft. Maybe around Flavour. But remove flavor from the picture, she is a bad assz babe! Pls don't mind my typo..biko |
Na wa o I truly pity Anna banner, she's lost and got caught up in the euphoria of a sexy famous singer, thinking it's love. Well it could be love for her but all I see ? She's simply infatuated with flavour . Her eyes never clear yet. What a pity.. Such beauty just floating in space, waiting for flavour. Whereas Flavour is inlove and hooked with Sandra, his hands on this Sandra. It's clear he won't breakup with Sandra and be with Anna. It's clear, Sandra is the one he has chosen. It's clear all he had with Anna was a fleeting passionate moment cos of her Angelic and innocent beauty which was only meant to last for some days but he got hooked along the line with another pregnancy . Anna does not want to smell the coffee: Flavour will not marry her, no matter how long she waits for him and No matter how beautiful and angelic she looks. Sandra too is also beautiful but in a strong and edging way. Sandra beauty is like a refined rough edged diamond. Anna beauty is like an enchanting soft flower. What's a web, she's got herself into and with her eyes wide open. Na wa. O A Worst case scenario to ever see my self in. God forbid! She try All of them try ![]() |
haywire07:Well that's the one you saw. This other version I am about to drop will shock you. I know of a family. The wife gave birth to 5 children in quick succession. She is married to a man who does not like to work. So to live a better life. Husband agreed his wife should travel abroad and suck dicckss with doing menial jobs, so the kids and himself can live a better life. He promised he won't remarry and he kept to his own end of the bargain. The wife sends money steady to them in Lagos. The children are grown now, all graduates, thanks to the mother. Three are working, two are still searching for jobs, They all know what the mum and dad agreed on. I think some years back, she visit her family. Come and see joy in all their faces. With the dad beaming with smiles. They've even built a house in the portharcourt and moved down. And guess what? The father is an elder in Church! They celebrate their parents 32years of marriage on facebook, not too long ago. The wife has gone back abroad to continue working, as she's old maybe she's focused on other jobs, who knows. That's another angle . The husband is in cohoot with his wife. I hope I got the cohoot correctly? ![]() Anyways they are both in agreement. Nkan be! |
She try.. Correct babe! ![]() Celebration of life, good health, money , flowing steady ain't easy. It's takes Grace. God bless our legitimate hustles amen. My own cow this Christmas! It must happen ![]() |
zicoraads:Anyways thank God. God has settled me, I don't need to ask any random guy in the name of dating for any money. He can keep his money. |
vingeophysicist:I don't dabble into long distance relationship means I don't go into it. Not for anything in this whole wide world. You know why? Cause of trust issues. Then asking a guy for money, be it one week or one month or two years in the relationship is not advisable. Financially issues can erupt in someone's life at any time! There is no perfect day or perfect time to ask for money from anyone. So for me, the Op shouldn't have asked even if she's dying on a sick bed cause the guy will take a walk and that's the reality. I have been in a situation in the past, when I started a relationship with a guy from long distance, and unfortunately I fell ill. After some days. I was seriously ill and I am an orphan. It was just me and God. I asked the guy I was dating then for money to treat typhoid and malaria, but he didn't believe I had such illness. He said it was too early to ask. I laughed in hysteria, cos the typhoid has gone deep into my brain and system. That's like four days battling with how will I have money to go buy drugs and treat myself. My eyes were white, I was short of blood cos I had my menses days before the typhoid came. And heavy flow it was. So I was short of blood, then coupled with typhoid and malaria to treat. He said he won't send, it's too early. I said OK, thanks, don't bother. I cut the call. I laid down on my bed and I was praying with tears in my eyes, God if this is how I will die, without help, it's all good. I was managing my health , all my friends back then said they don't have. Thank God none back then are my friends again as I type. For 1week and few days I was ill with typhoid, no drugs, no food nothing. My temperature was very high, all my insides were trembling until one day, my bp rose and I had heart attack , a thought said I should call my Pastor. And I did as I held unto to my chest with sharp pain. My Pastor picked immediately. I said Pastor I am dying pls help me. He said God forbid! What happened, I said my heart and I am down with typhoid. He asked are u at home or where? I screamed yea! Am home. Then I collapsed and fainted. The next thing I saw, I was in the hospital after some hours when I woke up. With my pastor and his wife staring at me with relieved faces. Anyway to cut it short. I got saved. My past Bf then, I cut him as soon as I bounced back. I didn't regret cutting off from him. He called after some weeks, hoping to revive the relationship and I asked him assuming u heard I am dead today, will u still be saying u are inlove with me and want us to date? I just pray God should bless the hustles of everyone trying to make it and trying to survive. Cause only very few truly cares. If the Op has money, she wouldn't even ask the guy for money. And there is no perfect time to ask for help. And I pray small illness will not kill us before our time and our financial problems will not choke us. Amen. May God just help us. And lastly the friends I have now are far better than the ones I had in the past. God will keep blessing them for taking me very close. If your friends are selfish! U have all the right to cut them off, and change everyone of them when u are back on your feet. As dem no owe u anything, u sef no owe them as well. They are better off away from your side. Make yourself better and screen any new friend coming in ,before accepting their hands of friendship. |
Eagba:So all the people who are not paying tax abroad, IR don burst all their doors? Cos I know some people still evade tax, in US for a considerable period of time. And assuming she paid her tax, why wasn't taken to the hospital for medical care immediately? Why wait till it got to a level, the illness had to take her life? It simply shows nobody cared about her. Nobody send her. Which is very typical in the world we live in. Except one is very lucky and blessed to have good hearted and caring friends and family. |
Op, I repeat don't ever dabble into long distance relationship. It's not worth the stress. The guy won't trust you with giving out money for the next three years or so , even if you guys see once a year. He will still say, it's too early cos he saw you just once in a year. Then secondly don't expect any guy u are dating to solve your financial issues. Cos he won't. Look elsewhere for such money and pray God bless your hustle enough to be able to fend for yourself without asking a soul for it. Although I have friends whom we help each other, when things are down, then sometimes my man do assist, whenever I ask.. Just maybe because we've been together for some years down the lane. So remember cancel long distance shiit! Pure waste of time and emotions. |
weyreypey:I know, that's why I don't and will never post his pic of online. Only my female friends offline have met him and that's just briefly. Thanks for the advice ![]() |
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Offpoint:Hahahahahahahahah ![]() Livingdead we are waiting for you to kill yourself already! This death never still kill am since? ![]() He's a morrafucker!
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That's her problem. She can go for fair guys.. Nobody stop her. But mine is tall, 6"3ft, very dark, broad shoulders, he body builds and to top it all, he's such a shy man. Lol ![]() |
chuckjonesbaba:I didn't say ordinary cold and catarrh, I mentioned high fever inclusive. We do have flu here, during cold and rainy seasons. Have experienced flu before and yes pneumonia can also be part of it as well. But it's easy to treat, if taken to the right hospital. It's not hard and it's not that expensive ![]() Straight to hospital and get a doctor to examine, get the right drugs with injections prescribed by the doctor , don't take cold drinks or tea anymore. Try as much as possible to stay warm , sleep in warm room and always remember to take the drugs prescribed. With immediate help from a qualified doctor, the illness is not that expensive to treat. All the patient need is urgent medical attention, and warmth around her when she gets home. simple. |
lefulefu:Na wa o! Am short of words! The guy own strong! |
Ishilove:It's shocking to me as well. Flu is just like high fever with cold and catarrh. It clearly shows, she was broke as fucc! Before her death, that she can't even afford to get drugs and treat the flu! Na wa o ![]() Now they are giving her a grand burial, very typical! Smhhhh. |
Died of flu? ![]() Just flu? Na wa o It says alot on how supportive her family and kids were to her ![]() Rest in peace Kim |
True but it goes both ways. One has to be very very very careful whom we end up with as a spouse. Shine your 6 senses well! |
She well so? ![]() I pity the husband, wey carry this type put for house. Smmmmhhh. And I thought I have seen it all! |
Pidginwhisper:OK that's cool. |
stansaintly:Na wa o Since morning till past 5pm? ![]() Is she alright upstairs? ![]() No wonder the husband is thinking of breaking up. What's the use marrying a woman when she will not be available on Saturdays, and spend the whole day in the church? When the husband start beating her now? She will quickly snap her face filled with blood with broken tooth and post online. That's how one of my neighbors beat up his wife after warning her several times to stop weekly church service, Mondays and Wednesdays. Cause she leaves home in the mid afternoon while he's still at work then come back home at night from 9pm. This. Man is already back from work around 5pm. That's how he will start preparing his food and food the children will eat, cos his wife left the kids with house help. The man has complained taya, she no dey listen. Very stubborn wife. And he married her when she was very young working as house help in one lady's restaurant in the village. He was the one who freed her from job of househelp, paid her bride price, bring her to Lagos, feed her well. She don fat now look like yokozuna ![]() She now talks back at the husband, that she can't leave her church or stop serving God, that the husband is the devil. I look at both of them in amazement as they both table their grudges before my mum, when she was alive years back. Chai! Some women can be so stubborn. The man beat her one day and threw her things out. She fought him back and threw her things in ![]() Na wa o Later, neighbours had to take her elsewhere for safety. Women ehn? ![]() "Shakes head. " Op , your brother need to call family meeting and someone she respects to talk to her and advise her. |
lefulefu:Oh OK. |
lefulefu:No mind those kind of men, they think they are smart. The woman will collect all her properties, let the man too start from scratch! Even men who buy car for their babes, when the relationship turns sour, they always collect their cars back. Men rent house for babes, when relationships goes south, they throw her out of the house, with thugs and lock the house. Especially if her name is not on the receipt of the house rented and not in her custody. No be today, both men and women are doing themselves when everything goes south. So we shouldn't blame the wife. It goes both ways. |
Pidginwhisper:Oh ok, I didn't know. One has to be on guard with some crazy creeps here. But seriously , I won't say they take my eyes see shege but they've made me very tough here, no be today and have grown a thick skin and sharp tongue on those creeps! ![]() So whether anyone likes it or not : I AM MARRIED AND UNAVAILABLE TO ALL GUYS ON NAIRALAND! Take it or leave it! Drops mic! ![]() also pidginwhisper Nice chatting with you. You sound like a nice guy. Well hope you are enjoying the weekend, as e dey go? |
Pidginwhisper:This is not the first time, nor the second or third time, people on this forum have asked this same question , over and over again. I am tired of saying the same answer. Then boom! Out of the blues, a lifeless creep from nowhere wil start wailing : it's lie! We won't take it! Victorian is not married. She's an evening newspaper, lonely and with no kids! We personally know her! She's not married! Have heard such ringtones a million times and I am done answering the same question a million times. So in other words, I am done vouching times without number over my marital status. Thank God, there are other people vouching for me. Allow my supporters pls. |
Pidginwhisper:He's not doing it wrongly. Mr wereypey, is right on spot! Correct guy! More accolades! ![]() Bar man! A carton of the finest wine for Mr werepey! |
victorazyvictor:Heysh!!! Time up! Just go back to your grave and sleep! Stop disturbing people on earth. |
Pidginwhisper:Uncle? Na only hubby dey vouch for another person? ![]() |
weyreypey:God bless you. ![]() |
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and to top it all, he's such a shy man. Lol 

