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phpNET:
Hi Vicky.

Hi dear

titosantana:
Forget it, you are not fine! That guy was only deceiving you.

Yimmu!

lefulefu:
if na even matured woman dem dey fight for dem person fit understand small but to be fighting over a 16 yr old girl wey never grow breast finish mehn dats taboo.

Heheheheheheheheh

The girl pussy don reboot their brains to factory setting! They can't think well anymore. Lol

lefulefu:
u might be shocked to know that the two men fighting over this 16 yr old lass might be in their late 40s and married with kids.

As in ehn?


Married men can be so jealous over gf matter.

It's crazy!

Wow! Am short of words with what the Op is tolerating, all to stay married.

Hmm, na wa o

Mehn am short of words.

Op, another babe has take his attention.

He knows you are still into him and he knows u are not fuckving another guy behind his back.

When a babe is inlove with a guy. She calls every time and every day., which we all know, even the guys knows but if a babe no send her guy, he's calls and pings everytime.

Don't break up yet but try think less of him and focus on what brought u to , where u are. Relax, and make the best of the 4months. Guys and their tantrums, indifference, absentmindededness never ends. It's something ladies would have to deal with for many many years to come.
So for now, he's into another babe.

Possibly when u show up and done with your course or something, he may come back to you. But it's 50-50.

Enjoy yourself jare and stop calling and pinging him. Focus on other things

yomi007k:
Omo u fine oo...vicky.

Smiles I know.

Starve you of sex indeed.

Pay her dowry, do needful and u will have enough sex than u bargained for.


She's smart I will say. Before you suck all the nutrients out from her body and widen her pussyyy like borehole, then after 4years , you will open another thread : please how do I break up with my clingy gf, without hurting her feelings. I want to move on.

She wan die untop her husband. Smhhh

Husband no send you, you must die untop!
Foolish woman.

Next time, possibly he will stab her to death, so she can leave him alone.

Some women sha. Assuming she has a thriving business doing, will she be monitoring her husband upandan?
The annoying thing is, he has beaten her before on this same issue. She still carry herself go look for trouble. They had better divorce, no be byforce to stay married.
I will always say, there is nothing u can do to a man who cheats. It's in his blood already. If you can't cope as his wife? Divorce him. No need looking for death in a home, you are not wanted. It's that simple.

Lovely couple

The bride looks so proud of her hubby, see love and pride shinning through her eyes..
She's beautiful.

And the son, looks happy with his bride. Calm, confident and ready for the next phase of his life. Such young couple.

God bless their home, amen.

I love this.

Truth be told Dbanj need Don jazzy as his producer to blow again. Likewise Don jazzy needs Dbanj to become relevant once more.
Those two together are dynamites.
If only they can place their pride aside, fuckkk what people will say and make it happen again.

So lovely


He truly adores her


Eeyah

God bless their home. Nice combo

mosesbola:
Yimu

Smiles,yes dear.

NAIRALAND is the worst place to seek for help in thousands of dollars.

I hope his colleagues in politics will help him and not just watch from afar while he dies slowly.

Anyways I wish him quick recovery and quick help from people who have the means. Amen.

weyreypey:
Oyindidi
Lalas247 (crushing to badt) see her first.

Diportivo (trustworthy reliable purposeful)

Gazzuzz ( long post)

Victorian ( confident intelligent and humble)

Pocohantas ( dignified. Can give punches.. and can take)

radautoworks ( ever willing to share. Big heart)
kingreign obekediamondfuto heavenlybang (demeanors)

lefulefu pointzerom

:DThanks dear

Biingoo:
Are you married?? You will die single I swear. .. Guys will only use and dump you. Second wife position self you no go see. na me talk am

Before you run stark naked on the streets like a diseased mad dog

Your dose to eternal bliss is here..

Do the needful.

It won't hurt.

Biingoo:
Are you married?? You will die single I swear. .. Guys will only use and dump you. Second wife position self you no go see. na me talk am

Are u still ranting, Corpse!

Biingoo:
No oh! Your curse still stands. I will die a miserable death if you're currently married...but if you're not, You will die a very shameful and painful death before this runs out. Amen!!

You can kindly help yourself.

It's not too late.
Before this year ends.

mosesbola:
You better talk true....


Puna de scratch you

Am not like you biko.

Biingoo:
Evening newspaper spotted!

Help yourself one more time.

It's all yours, frustrated corpse.

Boys and men on this forum who are highly frustrated and venting their behind online because no woman in her right senses want to date or marry them, should please do the needful.

We are not the cause of your loneliness and frustrations in your various cubicles.

Biko help yourselves, especially Biingoo.

It's all yours. Do us a tiny favour, the rope is there.

She's on fire o!

We4all:
Great analysis! But trust me when I say that the easiest way to kill love is to get married to the person whom you're in love with.

Maybe that sounds weird, or I am weird! But I'm convinced that love is sweeter when you live with the memories and not with the person.

Haven't you observed that most people who claimed to be in love, always fall out as soon as they tie the nuptial but? But trust me, they'd still be in love if they weren't married.

The greatest love stories always had it that the love birds never ended up together, but the memories were cherished forever.

Flavor could be married to Sandra, but still in love with Anna. Marriage doesn't guarantee love, and love should not always lead to marriage.

It reminds me of the great love story between Nigerian singer Bongos Ikwue and former first lady Maryam Babangida. An aunt who was dating Maryam's brother at that time said that their love was so intense. But guess what? They never ended up together.

But that didn't stop Bongos from loving her from a distance. Remember his song for her?

Oh Maryam! My Darling Maryam! Maryam, army woman, I'd forever be your man........

Met Maryam in a dance, and I took a chance. We started a good conversation, and afterwards the sensation.

Oh, that was so sweet! To have a man dedicate a song to you is the most romantic thing ever.

Hmmmm

Anyways thank God I have surpassed that point of been helplessly inlove and stuck with no going forward and not even going backward. Just stuck in one spot, cos am inlove?

Nah, I don't pray to experience such ever in my life again.

Cos it doesn't bring joy and peace. Anna is not happy. That's not life to me.

quivah:
IamD, thank you for this advice. I work and I make my OWN money, any one I see or hear or notice to be into fraud or yahoo or robbery, I flee from them. Guys that patronize who.res, smoke or drink heavily and womanize, I flee from.. Invariably, I flee from people like you and most %% of naija guys, cause you are evil and heartless.
I am not a leeche, but I am human enough to know being a leech or not, evil people are using women all around. A 15 year old girl was killed for rituals, she was leeching? A student seeking accommodation was killed, she was leeching?

Na your sisters and mum dem go use, even your unborn girls, after all if dem go use dem, cut their private parts, comot their eyes, dem go use dem!! I am ranting cause people are killing people and you are here looking for justification!. You must be very stu.pid, evil doer!

God bless you dear.

Majority of men in Nairaland are so terrible and extremely frustrated , it's appalling.

With intense evil mindset on women, but the more, they wish us evil, the more evil goes back them.

The Lexus is not in their garage.

Shes not posing infront of it

She is not seated on the driver seat.

Just some shots from Google placed alongside their pics and they think I will just believe, like that?

Story.

noturbusiness:
Most prefer troublesome guys. I use to have a lot of girls that are ready to pay my bills back then. Maybe a few odd ones out.
Let me focus on my Chelsea match. Goodnight

OK.

Good night

noturbusiness:
I was a bit stubborn back then and I know what I am saying. Even if you are koboless and even beat them, they will still run after you as far as you are popular and love making trouble

That's another class of women.
Not all women love men, who likes trouble or creates trouble. Every woman is not the same. Variety, they say is the spice of life.

Some can marry agbero and be happy with him
Some will never get close to agbero, for what nah?
Some women love men who looks tough like bouncers and bodyguards
some women love men who exudes power and popularity
Every woman has what trips her in a man. Likewise every man has what trips him In a woman.

noturbusiness:
Ok.
But majority of women love bad guys

What I feel women love in bad guys, is not the fact that the guys cheat on them or possibly beat them.

I think bad guys have this confident swag and boldness in them. They are not shy when wooing a babe. Then the so called bad guy is confident or appears confident when he talks about money or talks about his family financial standing.

The thing is A bad guy exudes confidence in everything he displays around a lady and that confidence and boldness is what trips any lady, including me. Be sure of who u are
Be sure of what u believe in
Be sure of where you are

Even if you are not sure deep down and possibly uncertain of where your life is going and u still need to get this babe! Just play the script convincly with few words and look it!
She will fall for you. Lol

So instead of saying women love bad guys. Simply say women love Confident guys with swag, that's what trips us. If a good guy can build his inner and outward profile to appear confident and manly, ladies will trip over him, then his good-nature will be an icing on the cake. Na the good guy go taya for women sef.

noturbusiness:
especially men? both gender have their fault. women also give most of this advice. women also call men all sort of names for taking care of their home.
we need a creator because he is the one that created our heart to love evil. haven't you notice that evil gladdens the heart more than good? our heart is always incline to do bad all the time

Yes! Especially men!

Mostly men! Fear men advice!

Also our creator have given us the choice and free will to choose either be bad or good. It depend on us to choose, either good or bad. We are not robots but human being with brains.

Well for me o, I incline to do good than bad and if I do bad? If it's done unknowingly. Immediately you call my attention to it, I make amends instantly. Evil doesn't gladden my heart at all. Doing good makes me happy. I can't vouch for everyone. Cause wickedness don full everywhere.

noturbusiness:
hahahaha
this you post long o. I hear Sha
but if you can't trust him, why marry him?
I don't blame those that are a bit careful . this world is becoming too wicked. it seems our heart is design to automatically love evil. I just hope there is a creator out there that will repair this world someday because we have totally ruined it

Smiles that's a good question.

She trust him that's why she married him but another man will be placing doubts in her mind, that men are wicked and bad, so she should be careful around her husband and don't trust fully.

My dear everything in life is risk, even marriage.
Anyone who wants his marriage to work must trust their partner oresle if the husband or wife knows u no longer trust him or her, that marriage is heading to the rocks. Husband and wife must be of one mind. If the one mind is no longer there, forget that marriage is gone. I have a cousin female, who got married to a Nija guy who lives abroad, everyone in her family including her friends were advising her to be saving any money her husband gives her and she should pressure the husband to take her abroad and if any gbege happens, she should Zap, as long as she has saved enough money.
Her husband who trusted her blindly and even was sending her money to build a house for him, found out through her phone advise his mother in-law and some friends been giving his wife through chats

This man got so angry, he stopped sending her money to complete his house, he hired a contractor to complete it. Infact he stopped trusting with any thing that has to do with money. His behavior changed, he became. Mean and was like typical. Of Nigerians girls to want to scram after a while in marriage. H then became opposite of a caring doting husband to a mean calculating abusive husband. Just because of those chats
My cousin saw hell in that marriage. At the end they divorced and he refused taking her abroad.

Nigerians with their mouth and unsolicited advice destroyed that marriage.

We dont need creator to repair the world. Human beings, men, women, especially men change your characters and be good human beings.
Young ladies any man giving u advice to scam your husband or not trust him because he feels all men are bad. Don't listen to such advice, follow your mind and make the best out of your homes!

that's how I see it.

noturbusiness:
if you are happy and your mate share same values and marital goals with you, then you made the right choice. people go into relationship today mostly because of what they can get . they don't care about giving in return. I know I will be lucky to see that rare type of girl who think more about us than herself when I am ready to get married. I will rather get a baby mama than marry a useless girl

Na wa o

Baby mama ke!
That's even the worst, she can have sex with whomsoever she likes, no commitment whatsoever.

Well if that's what u prefer? It's your choice. No decent girl from a good home background would want to deliberately become a baby mama, which means not all girls are useless.

But really ehn? What makes ladies selfish is because of men! Yes men! Do u know some men and possibly the ladies parents, will advice ladies to be selfish and think of themselves alone in a marriage . Their male friends will tell the ladies, I am a guy, I know what we guys do when u are not around. Don't trust anyman, not even your Bf or husband. We, men are all the same. Think of yourself first! Before your man or your husband. Don't trust your man with money, and if your man wants to buy you a car or house, make sure it's your maiden name that's there.
Don't go into joint account with your husband
Don't put your husband's name as next of kin, use one of your family names or your child when u start popping out kids.
Don't trust man o! I am a man! Men are wicked!


I swear to God, i have heard all these things i am saying so many times from fellow men and I wonder and I ask them. If I don't trust my husband, how will the marriage stand? If I trust my husband, that means their is no marriage. What are u people saying for God sake! They will then say erhmm, just be careful sha. That's all am saying and keep your eyes and ears wide open and alert! How can a wife be walking in eggs shells in her own home. Smiling to her husband but in her mind. She has been poisoned by another man who is giving her unsolicited advice.

And these men, advice wey u no ask them, they will start giving one, a useless advice.


In this country ehn? The men that crying women are no longer marriage materials and women are selfish , their own friends and fellow men are the ones spoiling another man's relationship and marriage with these things I am saying.

Men are their worst enemies. That's why women have changed. Because a fellow man will tell her, don't trust your husband o. I know what we men can do. Be careful on.

So can u imagine?


If I don't trust my husband ? Who will I then trust!


Men doing this evil in people's marriages should stop! Stop poisoning the minds of women against the men, they are dating or married to. It's very very bad and wicked!

May God save mankind from wickedness! Cause the evil and wickedness is now becoming too much! That's why marriages crumble here and there. Because of bad advice, aproko, radio without battery, they come up with their useless advice without u asking them.

U hear a male friend ask, after greeting his female friend or colleague or neighbor. How's your husband? How's your boyfriend or fiance? that's after the usual good morning.

Immediately u look worried or sad, Gbam! They don get you. Their eyes glittering looking for any sign of sadness or discomfort. Even if u say your husband is fine, that worried look that flashed thru your face, they will capitalize on it and probe further
But if u say he's fine, he prob further but your voice doesn't sound excited saying he's fine. Madam, are u sure all his well? U can open up to me, you know am a man

Chai! May God save us from evil people!
Lemme stop here. Men u people know yourselves, stop destroying people's homes with your bad unsolicited advice!

noturbusiness:
when I see comments like yours that means there is still hope for Niaja men. my cousin is getting married next week and the kind of advice my parents were giving him made me dread the day I will get married. a Nigerian man is expected to do it all alone. he is expected to become everything at all times forgetting we are humans also

Eeyah

There is still hope for Nigerian men in marrying a good wife.

There are ladies who think like I do about loving, pampering and respecting their husbands.
A Nigerian man cannot do everything. And if he's the type that wishes to do everything, cause we have some men like that. The wife should try and make him happy , his money on her and the kids is not wasted.
Before I got married, it took me so many years to eventually settle down. Guys coming my way always judge me by the cover because I look pretty, flashy, great skin and well fed. Guy were like writing me off! I am too expensive to marry from a distance o. Lol. But it's not my fault, I was well fed from birth till date

But last last I married a man who took his time to get closer and know the real me, when my relationship with his friend collapsed and he was like wow! We got married after a year. We are both happy and at peace, we both made the right choice to be together.

Do u know how we met? He was my ex boyfriend's friend and colleague in the same profession but different company. anyways that's story for another day.