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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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Lesbians are Fun Loving. We Explore! Come On Lets Hook Up At Least Once, you Will Enjoy It. Your Man Wont Know about It

Nope I am not interested. It's against my spirituality and beliefs. And a taboo to my spirit being.

I am perfectly OK like this.

No need asking me the third time, cos I won't reply you.

Romance › Re: Footballer Asamoah Gyan Files For Divorce From His Wif Demands DNA Test For Kids by victorian(f): 12:40pm On Oct 31, 2018

lefulefu:
a man who is not wealthy can still marry his spec. U dont need to be a billioniare to marry a lady that has the physical assets or character u desire. I have said it b4. I have seen commercial drivers with attractive wives, barbers with beautiful curvy wives. The same ukwu wey daniella okeke get wey she dey flaunt for instagram and facebook dese men some of their wives get am in abundance. Its jus dat daniella okeke and co dey package demselves wich dem dey use deceive some guys wey go prefer use money to chase dem wen they are made.

Na so.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:26am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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I Can Teach You One Or Two Things. We Can Rub Pussies together

Nah ,thank you... I will pass on that.

I am allergic to rubbing pussies together. I fell sick when a lesbian wooed and almost raped me in my office. That week was a very terrible week for me cry

Not my thing, Sorry.

I am completely straight. My man is enough for me.

Duty calls. bye.

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Romance › Re: Footballer Asamoah Gyan Files For Divorce From His Wif Demands DNA Test For Kids by victorian(f): 11:13am On Oct 31, 2018

lefulefu:
i am not disputing what u saying but he could just be bringing up d DNA issue cos he's just looking for a way to chase his wife out so as to make room for his sidechic. Wat if d DNA result come out positive nko?. Of course he ought to do a DNA test if he has some doubts in his heart. Its his right and besides he has the money to do it. By the way i have noticed that many african/black footballers hardly get married to wives who are loyal to them unlike their european counterparts. Just look at david beckham. He's still waxing stronger with victoria beckham. They got married when david beckham was just an upstart in football..or look at Wayne Rooney who married to his longterm girlfriend that he was dating when he was 3rd rate boxer. But for an african footballer wen dem don make am they start looking for slayqueens to wife. How u expect a slayqueen who got married to u for ur fame and money to be faithful to u.

If it's about breaking up with women that start up with men when they had nothing, and marrying slay queen afterwards it's synonymous with all African / Nigerian men.

A man will date his spec when he's made but when he's not made, he is as quiet and meek as mouse, that's for black men.
But white men, come rain and sunshine they will stick like glue.

So let's see if he will divorce her after the results of DNA comes out showing positive. But If it shows negative? Don't blame his actions.

So before we attack side chick, let wait for the results.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 10:23am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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Yes and I Am A Lesbian..

Oops!

Incredible!

Wow!

Hmmmm OK.. Cool.

Culture › Re: Oba Of Benin, Ewuare 5 Wives At His 2nd Coronation Anniversary by victorian(f): 9:47am On Oct 31, 2018

The wives are beautiful.

Oba of Benin is classy.. Look how well kept and groomed the wives look.

Nice one

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:31am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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Smh.

The Wickedness Of Nigerian SlayQueens!

Hehehehehehehehe cheesy

Wait are u really a lady behind that moniker?

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:11am On Oct 31, 2018

funmisticqueen:
true, but treating people's fuckup is my specialty

Chai!

O GA ju!

Also my dear I have hanged my boots on treating fuckups from men or from my hubby! If he bleeps up

All I need is serenity around me and within me. No time

But when I was younger, I used to be fire o! Lol

But as years go by, one tend to evaluate so many things and see through life.

I have a very calm spirit thats so eager and enthusiastic to explore the children's department. I don try for man with so many years down the lane. Although I am happy, am settled.

But make man stay one corner, especially if he's fucvkin up. I care less. And I don't waste my precious energy getting angry or worked up.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:05am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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I Know He would Wish You Agreed To Date Him but No, you Friendzoned his Ass

Yea he wants us to date but unfortunately we can't date.

At least he receives a hug anytime we see. And he's OK with it.. He says I look like a pet. I will be like eeyah, pet ke! undecided

Then he can stare ehn? Jeez!

But as days and weeks rolled by, he has accepted his role and position in the friendzone department. He's gat no choice.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:33am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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Its A Lie. There Is Alot Of Resemblance. Look At The Eyes

Smiles, yea true.

I have a friend who is always amazed looking at my eyes. He will say u and this your eyes.. He will shake his head and laugh.

It's true, we have same eyes only!

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:18am On Oct 31, 2018

funmisticqueen:
true, but if i find myself in such a situation,i would make the man impotent, then file for a divorce and drain him dry and make sure to get custody of the kids also. life is too short to be sharing a man.

that is why i advise work to work on their marriage till the level that a guy thinks twice before trying such nonsense

Wow!

You harsh o!

Biko cool temper dear , life na jeje. wink

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:05am On Oct 31, 2018

Biingoo:
So you're now a transgender? What will you use your 3gunz Account to do? Chyking your fellow females??

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 7:33am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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Check

Have checked.. I don't look like her undecided

Nope, no resemblance there.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 7:30am On Oct 31, 2018

Biingoo:
Why you replying yourself now? Are you that jobless??

Jobless ke? Check the time I replied you.

I don't do night work. I relax, chat, take care of my family needs, then chat again and sleep at night.

Oops! I forgot! Ekuke like you guard and work only at night.. No wonder.

Lol cheesy

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 7:25am On Oct 31, 2018

IamPlato:
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You Look Like Pocohantas. Not The P0rnstar Or The Fake One On Nairaland.

I Mean The Real Pocohantas from Disney

Lemme check Google if I can see how the pocohantas look like.

undecided

Romance › Re: Footballer Asamoah Gyan Files For Divorce From His Wif Demands DNA Test For Kids by victorian(f): 7:12am On Oct 31, 2018

But lefulefu and everyone castigating the side chick. Note I am not supporting the side chick. But read the story and understand first.
Now, the footballer is insisting on DNA test on his three kids. Which means he has info or rumour those kids are not his. Or he feels they don't look or behave like him. Just take a look at those kids?

None look like the footballer! It's clear like crystals.

So what are we saying?

Which husband here will still stay with his wife if he feels his kids don't look or behave like him. It's either he will quietly go for DNA with those kids and when the result comes out, he will still file for divorce OR

he immediately gets enraged and feels he has been betrayed, makes it open and still go for DNA tests while threatheing and tell everyone who cares, if the results are negative, he's throwing her out with her kids. OR

he may start drinking but shocked to his bone marrow, are those kids truly mine?

But with a man who has money the last scenario won't happen to him.

Now most rich guys have gfs or side chicks, whom they confide in some times.

So it's not new he would want to start his life with his side chick, if he realise those kids are not his.

Let's not be myopic and place all our focus on side chick alone.

Why would the man insist on paternity test? Something the wife did was fishy.

Thats that's angle I am looking at

If you as a wife don't give your husband reason to throw you out or divorce u.. I wonder where he will start seeking for divorce?

The wife has some serious questions to answer but first do the DNA ..

Let's not scream side chick! Side chick! The wife nko? Her hands clean?

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:23pm On Oct 30, 2018

3gunz:
Lol... no need to talk naa, as e be say u don conclude and you no fit even code say d way I dey talk or write dey different from the woman, oya na drop your number for WhatsApp make I control you thru voice call. Detective Biingoo....

Please enjoy detective biingo, the only ekuke in his miserable generation.

Everywhere he is seeing is Victorian and every handle on nairaland is Victorian.

Don't blame him. His obsession on me is legendary. He sleeps, wakes, thinks, type, Victorian..

That's all he thinks about 24/7 grin

. My beauty will not make u run naked on the streets, and be singing Victorian oooo cheesy

Ekuke! Detective Biingo. Oya rewind And replay! Evening newspaper, single , 33 years old and what else again.. Keep repeating it for as many years u have on earth.

cool

See more of your rantings tomorrow. Lemme get my beauty frosh sleep.

wink

Goodnight, detective biingo, alias Ekuke!

And goodnight everyone, till tomorrow kiss

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:15pm On Oct 30, 2018

3gunz:
Nna men, I am beginning to enjoy your insistence that I'm the op, oya what else can you find out?

Lol

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:14pm On Oct 30, 2018

IamPlato:
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Victoria!

If I Catch You

Lol

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:05pm On Oct 30, 2018

trojan84:
Can u not say this same thing without insulting her? Whr as its ur opinion and it shouldn't be anybody's code of conduct... That's how she sees it and considering everything she said, that's how she would handle it if it happens that way. I don't think I saw anywhr whr she mentioned that she wants it

God bless you dear.

Nairaland and insults are like 5 and 6

We only need to ignore and still lay our points down.

I must say, You understand English extremely well.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 11:16am On Oct 30, 2018

SmellingAnus:
I agree with you... There is no need killing yourself or giving yourself BP because of a man/husband... Victorian... There are at least two types of views regarding issues like this... we have the view that sounds rational on social media and we also have another view that is realistic in nature... I have seen someone advise another one to leave a particular relationship but she herself its in a worse relationship and she is still holding on...

In all... just be happy as much as possible... These days even many married women cheat not to talk of their male counterparts...

I like the bolded

In reality all these women making mouth, will stay put!
They think it's easy training and taking care of kids alone ? Then paying house rent join. Them go taya.

I don't have the energy working my mind to a pulp cos of husband, biko.

I grew up having the best of life and I was even the favorite child amongst the young crew in the family. My dad loved me to a fault. My siblings too had rosy life's when our dad was alive. It was indeed rosy.

Every child in my family were trained to university and hnd level. We were all catered for well.

So for me, I ain't going nowhere as long as he still fulfils his responsibilities.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:52am On Oct 30, 2018

IamPlato:
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Why You Talking Like You Wont Fall In Love. Do You Even Plan On Getting Married?

Don't mind her.

She's still naive grin

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:50am On Oct 30, 2018

lefulefu:
Op all this u saying i will have u know there some dangerious and desperate mistresses or sidechics who would even hire assasins to gun for u just because they want ur husband all to urself. My aunty told me a scary story about one married guy who is a DJ by profession and he travelled to italy and started dating one italo based babe. Sometimes if d guy travels back to benin the italo based babe will even visit nigeria and both the italo based babe and d guy would have a wonderful time in d hotel. The wife was not in the know. It got to a point that the italo based sidechic hired assasins to assasinate the DJ's wife. Na God save the wife. No be person tell d wifeto carry their only dauther and run for her life. Na so d marriage take crash. It was the assasins sent by the italo based woman dat told the wife everything after having a change of heart when she begged for her life. So victorian jus pray to be with a good man cos if na man wey be chronic cheat u marry its either he might bring STD to d family home or the sidechic might jus make attempts to get rid of u if she's d obsessive type.

Lefulefu!

Always seeing the one out of a million negative part of it.
It's possible the side chick would want to kill the wife or the wife would want to kill the side chick.

It's very possible and by God's grace such kind of women will not come close to my man amen.

Rich celebrities, kings, politicians , rich philanthropists marrying more than one wives. Have their side chicks killed their wives? Or are the wives killing each other?

Osama of Benin, married many wives, did they kill each other?
Raymond dokpesi married many wives, are all his wives dead?
Alafin of oyo married many wives, are his wives dead as well? Infact he still dey born twins upandan till date
Eyan Mayweather the boxer in US, he has so many women, baby mama's, have they killed each other?
Even Ben B has more than one wife lipsrsealed

.. But it's coded. Has his second wife killed the first wife?

There are so many out there. We should just pray evil don't come close to our homes. That's all.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:40am On Oct 30, 2018

Iamgrey5:
Most polygamous homes are not pleasant for the children, I know what i am saying.

I will advice any lady left with that terrible option to quit such relationships.

Even when the other woman lives in another location and separate flat?

You think it's easy to just divorce, pack and go with kids?

I was chit chatting with a friend, a guy. He is washer man. One day he was talking angrily to his mum on phone, after the call. I was like but why are u angry with your mum? He said he is angry with his parents, not even his mum alone. I asked why? He said his mum has been squatting with her younger sister for years and now the younger sister wants her privacy, so the sister said he should come and collect his mother o and she's about to get married.

And he, himself. He is not yet settled in life. He stays in one room and he needs his own privacy too. Now where will he see money to rent a room for his mother. This one business is not going well for him. Customers are owing him. And he Is yet to complete the loan he took frm a microfinance bank to set his mum's trade.
That he doesn't even understand how foolish his mum can be.

I said take it easy, moreover where is your dad?
He said his dad is comfortable o and because he married a second wife, his mother packed out of the house, took him along. And they went to stay with her sister, until later he left his aunt place and hustled to train himself and stay on his own. He had a hard life all because of his mother's decision to leave.

He said his dad didn't drive out his mother, only she carry herself Waka Commot for marriage and the dad didn't move an inch to go look for her. They were enjoying before but later hardship came when they left.

And now, see the responsibility she's placing on his neck.

Not too long he gave her money to start a trade, but she's saying no gain in the business and she's just managing in it.

Now they want to him to rent a room for his mum.. When will they allow him to settle himself and marry in this life.

I just shook my head.. I said its OK.. U just have to try.

Can u imagine? She left his dad's house and he's seeing her as a huge burden On his neck. Even talking angrily to his own mother on phone.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:12am On Oct 30, 2018

Iamgrey5:
Most polygamous homes are not pleasant for the children, I know what i am saying.

I will advice any lady left with that terrible option to quit such relationships.

Even when the other woman lives in another location and separate flat?

You think it's easy to just divorce, pack and go?

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:08am On Oct 30, 2018

highqueen:
I can't stay in a marriage where im being regarded as a half entity.
What's his reason for opting for a second choice? I'm not satisfactory enough? To me,it brings self contempt.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:05am On Oct 30, 2018

highqueen:
Please, call us for owambe when he gets another woman.; D

Lol

Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 9:00am On Oct 30, 2018

Iamgrey5:
Most rich men have more than one wife, Igbos or not, Christian or Muslims

You think any of our heartless politicians abide by "God's word"

That's it.

And there is nothing the wife can do about it.

Except stay or divorce him or kill him

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:57am On Oct 30, 2018

Iamgrey5:
You will be making a huge mistake allowing your husband to marry another woman

I know cause I am from a polygamous home and the politics and intrigues just became clearer after my dad's death.

I am from a polygamous home myself and my mum was the last wife. All other wives could not stop my dad from marrying more and more wives, initially they wanted to give him he'll at home. But he angrily told everyone if u can't cope as my wife in this house. Then please go back to your fathers house. I am fulfilling all responsibilities meant for a man to fulfil, if u are not happy with it? Kindly vacate the flat u are living in and go home to your dad.

None of his wives left. They all kept quiet. After the meeting, calm and normalcy was restored in my dad's main house.

So do u think? A man needs his wife to allow him before he can cheat?

Do u honestly believe so?

Cos I know. Majority of Men cheat out there.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:52am On Oct 30, 2018

highqueen:
Hmm.
You can hardly hear of the polygamous shitt in Igbo land, full Christian man and someone that abides in God's word won't bother bringing in second wife to add in his home.

Op, becareful what you wish for

I am not wishing it for myself.

I and my friend were discussing about it.

But assuming u are not igbo and u didn't marry from the east. What will u do in such circumstances.

Cos in life, anything can happen. You can only control YOU!

you cant be 100percent sure, uv controlled your husband enough not to have a side chick or second wife.

So assuming? What will u do?

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:42am On Oct 30, 2018

UyaiIncomparabl:
You lack self dignity.

As you defined your friend, she truly is a no-nonsense lady. She knows her worth.
I can't be dragging roles with another woman. It's either he belongs to her totally or he's with me solely. No time for confusion. We can't be battling for just a man when there are better guys out there to be that which you desire.

Nope I don't lack self dignity. Because I don't go out to fight the other woman or break my husband head like a deranged human being then ending up in jail does not mean, I don't have dignity.

My friend who wants to kill her husband will end up in jail and her lovely kids will be left with relatives that will maltreaat them even rape her daughters, and taunt them that their mum is a killer.

How do u think the kids will feel?

Killing your husband will only land you in more trouble than solution.

Because I don't agree in killing or poisoning him make me not to have self dignity? Fine, all well and good.

But I will never act irrational cos of man. Or land myself in jail cos of man.

God forbid.

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Romance › Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 8:20am On Oct 30, 2018

I was discussing with a new friend of mine, she is married, calm, kind of shy, but no nonsense lady.
So we were discussing about men and husbands.

She was like she doesn't disturb her mind about her husband tantrums most times and she will just keep quiet while he speaks especially when he's angry but one thing she cannot accept is if he marries another wife. She can end up killing him in his sleep or poison him, and she can't take such.
I looked at her and smiled.
She asked why am I smiling? Don't I know all men are cheats?
I said I know most men are cheats but if my husband cheats on me and marry another woman, I won't even bother myself killing him or fighting him or even fighting his mistress or second wife.
My own is as long as he is still taking care of his responsibilities at home. No wahala. He should make sure the children school fees are paid, house rent is paid, money for upkeep is given to me. Then we can have sex once a week or once in two weeks no problem.

I don't have strength or time fuming or master planing how to teach him a lesson.

She said what? With shock in her eyes

I said babes, I have seen enough about men in life. I have bp issues ( hereditary) , at this level of my life, I need peace and joy. Thank God my body is in a calm and peaceful mode.

As long as my kids are OK and growing well in front of me, he can do what he wants jare but he shouldn't bring any disease home.

My dear, I don't have time watching my man upandan. Have been thru hell and back.. I just want relax and enjoy my hardwork and kids, then enjoy him whenever he is available. Thank God i have friends. Both work and home. So no big deal jare.

Have hang my boots on men and their antics ,jare

Lol

What's your take ladies?

Will u kill your husband or kill his mistress if he marries another woman.

Will u pack your stuffs and go with the kids or leave the kids behind

Will u fight him and cause hell at home.

How will u handle yours?

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