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RomanceRe: His Money Is Our Money by victorian(f): 5:59pm On Nov 04, 2018
2buffagain:
So basically you agree with the OP.
So why call her out?

NAiralanders really need to learn 2 skills:
1 - Agreeing to disagree
2 - Agreeing to agree
I agree but we all know the mentality people feel about Nigerian women especially men : which is a woman will say my money is mine and your money is ours.
That's what most men feel women are.

I don't see any reason trashing it here. Let each man deal with his wife and household as he deem fit . Simple
EventsRe: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:55pm On Nov 04, 2018
asuustrike1:
That is not enough reason to call off a wedding he should marry his daughter then. Don't tell the bride's father will not be present at her wedding too as it is mandatory except otherwise
If she's well trained. She won't go ahead with the white wedding without the dad's presence.

The blessing of parents go a long way in marriage.
EventsRe: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:53pm On Nov 04, 2018
WritePal:
Don't you think it's better the bride remains unmarried (at least in the time being) than being brought back a year or few years later dead, badly bruised or suffering miserably. No father's heart will take that. The old man simply wanted to have an important meeting with the prospective son in law on the day preceding the wedding. How hard can that be?

He can't be too busy, he was simply being mischievous, thinking he's a smart guy and forgetting the old man don do his own young man age too pass. Didn't he make time to sleep, eat, and speak with other people. How come he couldn't make out 2 hours to speak with the man on the last day he still has his full authority as a father?

Although not exactly a good analogy, but for the purpose of this discussion, will you handover your business to a new manager without some critical heart-to-heart discussions to know whether to finally hand the business to him or not if he doesn't give you certain commitments to protect your investment? But the manager-to-be said he's too busy organizing his handover party, so that when he takes over power tomorrow, and you try to correct him about how he's abusing your business, he tells you to shut up and stop interfering in his family. Do you appreciate the man's action better now? I don't blame him. I don't blame him at all. Contrary to what you said, the bride is the one who dodged a bullet. A much better man will come soon.

Forget all that trash talk about women rushing men, if a young girl is well behaved, well groomed and domesticated, too many men will be running after them and they will have a headache choosing a suitor. So, if the man trained his girl well, he and she don't have a reason to worry. cool
You are right as well.

Maybe she's well trained and full package for a wife.

The dad feels a better suitor will come.. He values his daughter.

If the baby dad cannot respect the dad enough to answer to his call, then the father feels he is not worthy of his precious daughter, forget say she don born one already.
It's all about respecting the girl's father , no excuse.

At least he could have called him on phone. But he didn't.
EventsRe: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:48pm On Nov 04, 2018
atiku07:
the disgrace is on the lady's family cause the tag will forever remain on her coupled with she already has a kid it will be very difficult to get over that shit the father should know better. i dont want to believe that is the reason as stated by the man but there is something fishy not revealed thats all
In a way, the disgrace is on the family cause the lady is after one.
But the father is not seeing it that way. He feels whether she is after one or after ten! My adorable daughter is still valuable . And her baby daddy has to realise that fact. In his mind, he feels he can still marry her off to a better suitor.

Maybe she's very pretty, that's why the dad is making shakara with his daughter. I don't see anything fishy there, a typical Nigerian man is egotiscal.

The dad unfortunately falls on that group. And he also feels if he snaps his fingers the intending son In law must show! No excuse.
EventsRe: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 2:03pm On Nov 04, 2018
Next time, he won't ignore family meeting called by the father in-law.

It's height of disrespect sha

At least he could have called the dad on phone before time of the meeting, if they reschedule the meeting or possibly brief him on phone. At least with such act, the father in-law will see the son In law, as well trained.
If any of my in-laws or even elder ones call me for a meeting and I can't make it? I always place a call to make them understand I won't be available then and can I briefed about it on phone? If the head says no, unless I come.. I will then request what if I make it later that day? It's that simple. The in-laws won't feel one is proud or disrespectful.
RomanceRe: Woman Celebrates Her Husband's Sidechick Accident (photo) by victorian(f): 1:34pm On Nov 04, 2018
She's delusional.

God does not destroy legs of side chicks or allow buildings or fire fall on them.

She's praising the wrong God.

Later another side chick will thank God for the wife's demise. Lol
RomanceRe: His Money Is Our Money by victorian(f): 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2018
highpriestess:
This woman and her threads?
I expect these guys to have engaged you by now, since you are the minister for men affairs
Honestly I weak myself.

I expect she should be married already not even engaged, as she posts topics that suits what guys want to read and see.




Then back to her topic. His money is ours, likewise mine is ours.

I won't carry money to grave.
RomanceRe: .. by victorian(f): 12:49pm On Nov 04, 2018
Analeater:
i have nothing to contribute? How about i give you money and you let me trash or deposit my spermatoa into your pvssy reservoir since money is all you need.?
Abomination!

God forbid! Anuofia!

Spits!

RomanceRe: Guy Who Paid 200k & 1.5mil For Bride Price Caught Bae Cheating, A Mnth To Weddin by victorian(f): 11:03pm On Nov 03, 2018
Martin0:
come madam nor dey spoil my mind again oo, i dey warn you ooo, shuuu why you dey make ur brother fear like this na
Heheheheheheheh, no need to fear. Simply marry the babe who stood by you when u had nothing was struggling. She still loved u with all her heart.
Do the right thing sensibly and you will marry right . It's that simple.
RomanceRe: Photos Of Bikini-clad Kim And Kourtney Kardashian Riding An Elephant by victorian(f): 10:58pm On Nov 03, 2018
Money is indeed good.

Even the elephant has a dreamy smiling look in its face, as she seats on it.

The elephant should be a male! grin
RomanceRe: Guy Who Paid 200k & 1.5mil For Bride Price Caught Bae Cheating, A Mnth To Weddin by victorian(f): 10:54pm On Nov 03, 2018
lefulefu:
of course its an arranged marriage nacheesy. If it werent an arranged marriage why will the girl still be sneaking to have hot sex with her excheesy. Some Guys always make this mistake over and over again. Dem go hammer money den break up with their long time girlfriend. Then dem go request for their friend or family member to search for wife for dem. Dem go eventually see one young girl wey dem go reccomend and d parents go force d girl cos of d guy moneycheesy. D babe will have no choice but agree but she will still be going back in secret to have nice time with her ex that she really loves. Money no dey buy loyalty. Na fake love e dey buycheesy.
Your head over correct!
You know exactly how it is!

When the guys make money, they dump their long time babe and go for one small okpeke, who looks like an angel, introduced to him by a family member.
Forgetting such angelic looking girl should have a guy she's inlove with and still dating.

They feel money can buy any woman they want.

Of course the right amount of money can any woman they desire at a specific period of time or days or weeks or months but she will still yearn for her true love and heard back to the main guy who's got her control number. Especially if her bf is still loving and caring towards her.

Serves the fiance right!
RomanceRe: Guy Who Paid 200k & 1.5mil For Bride Price Caught Bae Cheating, A Mnth To Weddin by victorian(f): 10:44pm On Nov 03, 2018
lefulefu:
my brother even very ugly girls still cheatcheesy. U might be unlucky to end up with a very ugly girl with bad character who is a serial cheat. U might also be unlucky to end up with an attractive lady with bad character and a serial cheat or u might just be lucky to end up with an attractive lady with good character and she's loyal. Its a wrong perception that its ladies who arent attractive that make good wives. U might even be surprised that this benue girl that this guy dropped 2 million naira and 250k as bride price might be a very ugly girl who still cheated on him with her excheesy.
You are so right!

On point!

It's not all about beauty!
RomanceRe: What Attract You To A Person Before You Start A Relationship With That Person? by victorian(f): 10:41pm On Nov 03, 2018
The man, I'm with? His spirituality and kind nature in everything that concerneth me.





Initially way back, it was handsome looks with body to die for but to hell with extremely handsome jare. Such types are empty inside.
RomanceRe: Guy Who Paid 200k & 1.5mil For Bride Price Caught Bae Cheating, A Mnth To Weddin by victorian(f): 10:35pm On Nov 03, 2018
lefulefu:
na from d story i see am
according to the writer he say wen d guy catch the babe redhanded the babe come dey vibrate dey say she go pay the guy back the money.so its obvious she go make her parents pay back d guy money cheesy
Then she never loved the guy in the first place and it was an arranged marriage.

And who says the parents will pay him back?

Money don enter voice mail!

He go wait taya.
Things that happen to guys like this? If u look closely at the guys life, he must have broken lots of heart on his way to the top without flinching.

Now it's pay back time.


He can cry me a river!

RomanceRe: .. by victorian(f): 10:26pm On Nov 03, 2018
Analeater:
How many of you agree with me ladies are just mere sperm bank.?

They have resiveour where you can just deposit or trash your sperm whereas you can trash your somewhere else.....
There is no difference between some ladies and sex doll(sperm trash banks)..

And they expect guys to even pay after sex, isn't that wicked?...

Don't even go into relationship nowadays cos na scam, it's like hiring a sperm trash can.

Even marrying all these girls sef it's llike buying a sperm trash tube. Nothing to offer aside her trash tube.

#justthinkingoutloud
Oh! U are yet to realise u are just a mere polluted sperm. grin
Absolute nothing to contribute in a woman's life.

You see your life?

RomanceRe: See What A Lady Found When She Visited Her Man's Place by victorian(f): 3:28pm On Nov 03, 2018
shakmati:
Fine geh, it's like you have never heard of accessory to murder! If you are joining voice that they should kill man for ordinary shimi in his house, if dem con catch am on top another woman, what will you say?
You should ask those ones clamouring for his head.

Or those ones that will just walk away without ever looking back.


For me, I have no issues about it.

I will simply excuse myself.
RomanceRe: See What A Lady Found When She Visited Her Man's Place by victorian(f): 3:21pm On Nov 03, 2018
shakmati:
See as you fine and you are still habouring evil thoughts! Wot consain kill in the matter na?!!
It's not me that's harbouring killing.. I am simply advising her on what lots of people here are advising I should do if my man cheats on me .

It's on behalf of men and ladies here who prefers a lady divorce her husband if he cheats or better still kill him.

Am helping them to voice out what they want a lady to do.

Cos most of them said they cannot condone such act.
RomanceRe: See What A Lady Found When She Visited Her Man's Place by victorian(f): 3:09pm On Nov 03, 2018
She can kill, poison him or better still dump him and move on.

How dare he!

RomanceRe: Why Are You Ladies This Desperate ? by victorian(f):
Greenbullet:
My uncle just bought a car , a new model Benz , he is very much single , a hard-working and non philandering individual , he is over 6 feet and fair in completion and has an athletic build , when he had not bought his car , very few ladies associate with him , but since he bought his car , haaaaaa ! , His phone , his house , has never been at peace, almost every girl in his church comes to clean his house on a daily basis and cook for him , they all know he is not married and are flocking over him , as I am typing a lady is cleaning his house and cooking, he didn't invite her over at all, we just heard a knock on the gate by 5:30am this morning and it was the daughter of the woman he buys foodstuffs , from, she should be in her middle 20s , she came to clean and cook for him and even offered to give him a massage , my uncle is not interested with having sex with any lady , most times he switched off his phone , ladies always wanting to see him at home , even when he is at work , they visit him and give him food , I know what these ladies are doing but they are disturbing him alot , some call in the middle of the night to check up on him , the previous time I visited , two ladies came at once and a verbal battle ensued between them as to what each of them was doing there , I was on hand to separate them , I don't really blame the ladies , the pressure to find a suitor is quite alarming , when mother's force their daughter to go and visit a stranger because he is eligible !

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Mynd44
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Smellymouth
Op your uncle is the one leading them on. Giving them his number and house address. That's why they are rushing to come cook and clean. If he keeps a straight face and answer none of them. They will stay in their houses and he will be alone doing his cooking and cleaning.

Or he complain give you say, he taya for their attention over him? He's enjoying it. So what's your own?
Why not mind your business and focus on making your life better instead?

Radio without antenna. Aproko!
RomanceRe: . by victorian(f): 2:47pm On Nov 03, 2018
Uglymugg:
Yes! It's what cheaters deserve.



Just looking out for you? Sweets.




Nah, I prefer being alive.



People affect each other in life.
Don't look out for me dear.

Look out for yourself instead and worry about your own life.

Mine is already settled. cool

RomanceRe: . by victorian(f): 2:38pm On Nov 03, 2018
Uglymugg:
Your husband is not an alafin. He's no royalty. He's just your husband.
Yes he's not royalty.

And do u have a problem with me not wishing to divorce or kill him?

Is it your marriage? Or is he your husband?
Why is it paining u like this?

If u can't bear the fact I want peace to reign in my home, then Biko, hang yourself.

I no come this world because of you.
RomanceRe: . by victorian(f):
Uglymugg:
That's Victoria's proposition. "As long as he provides for her and the kids, and _fucks her maybe once or twice in two weeks" she's okay with that.


That's a baby mama subscription package.
That's no baby mama description. All the wives alafin oyo has does he Bleep them everyday?
At least they have roaster.

That's what I meant. My husband married me and if he wants to have another wife, no problem. I am not against it. As long as he takes care of me and my kids. I don't have time stressing my mind and life over a man or husband. I still have many years to live in earth, peacefully and enjoy my old age when the time comes.
Who get time for man and his insatiable drama?

Have done all those fighting, fuming and all in the past, not anymore. Have had enough men drama in my past and sincerely it's not worth all the fight and wahala.
I am more concerned about my well-being ,my business and my kids well being. Every other thing is secondary if he chose to remarry another woman. Abeg life no too hard. Na we dey make am hard. The reamaining years of my life will be joyful and grand. That's my focus.

So Is that too hard for you to read, understand and comprehend?

If you are a broke guy? My apologies I am not the cause of your misfortune in life.

So don't twist my words to suit your imaginations.
CelebritiesRe: Lilian Esoro Hints At Going Back To Her Estranged Husband, Ubi Franklin? by victorian(f): 1:41pm On Nov 02, 2018
Biingoo:
Lmao!!! Is that your new mode of advertising your 33yrs old expired product?? You look​ like an embalmed corpse! spit!
cool
CelebritiesRe: Lilian Esoro Hints At Going Back To Her Estranged Husband, Ubi Franklin? by victorian(f): 10:15am On Nov 02, 2018
Biingoo:
Evening newspaper Spotted
Really? cool

CelebritiesRe: Lilian Esoro Hints At Going Back To Her Estranged Husband, Ubi Franklin? by victorian(f): 2:53pm On Nov 01, 2018
She now realize guys coming her way just want to fucvkk and move on.

No go reconcile with your husband. Keep deceiving yourself, while your husband keeps growing successful and u are there claiming, no man can cheat on me.

Men cheats whether we wish to admit it as women or not.

Her eyes don clear .
CelebritiesRe: Omonioboli Playfully Search Husband For Singer Chidinma by victorian(f): 9:52am On Nov 01, 2018
Most Nigerian men always look and get lost in looking until a fast shooter collobi her for keeps .

That's when they will wake up. Then be wooing and disturbing a married woman.

CelebritiesRe: Asamoah Gyan’s Wife Reportedly Has Another Husband In Italy by victorian(f): 9:35am On Nov 01, 2018
None of those kids look like the footballer.

Lol

Chai!
And people will still blame his side chick! angry
CelebritiesRe: Asamoah Gyan’s Wife Reportedly Has Another Husband In Italy by victorian(f): 9:33am On Nov 01, 2018
Lefulefu ooooo!


Come here o!


All of una wey dey condemn the side chick and feeling sorry for the wife!

come and see, fowl Yansh Don open!
Now who's the wicked one in this love triangle! cool
CultureRe: Oba Of Benin, Ewuare 5 Wives At His 2nd Coronation Anniversary by victorian(f): 5:05pm On Oct 31, 2018
chilisauce:
Hanty, did you seriously expect the wives of a king to look unkempt or malnourished?

You sef angry
Huncle? Can't I admire their looks in peace again?
RomanceRe: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 4:33pm On Oct 31, 2018
lefulefu:
yes oo
when one of my friends showed me the texts and whatsap messages she was getting from lesbos the messages shock me.i had to pose as her boyfriend for a week to tell off the lesbo girls.lesbians mostly prey on ladies they feel are single.
Then she's daft, if she feels I don't have a man in my life.

Very daft.
RomanceRe: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 4:17pm On Oct 31, 2018
lefulefu:
lesbians are naturally aggresive and they can force themselves on a straight female without any fear of repercussion unlike a gay dude who is always careful on the way he approaches straight males cheesy
That's just too bad angry
RomanceRe: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 2:32pm On Oct 31, 2018
[quote author=lefulefu post=72564007][/quote]You shock bah? sad

I went to one owambe party. Talk of the town party. I really enjoyed myself that day but I never knew a lesbian lady was already inlove abi inlust sef. Anyways fast forward we got chatting, drinking and all. Then exchanged phone numbers. I made her understand, what my company is into.
She was like wow! She and her group of friends needs a professional like me to handle her businesses, including her friends biz, she then introduce me to a group of classy ladies. I was happy. They all liked me with admiring looks , so I thought
I smiled sheepishly and said thanks..

Then later i left for home.

Fast word, she came to my office one week later, looking good, nicely dressed. I ushered her a seat, as the door behind her closed.

She sat down and smiled. I was all Smiles too. Then we chatted about what happened after party hours. I asked her what will she like to drink? She said nothing, then she stood up came to where I was seated, hugged me and was lifting her lips to my face!

. I was woh! Woh! Hey! What's the hug for? Were u thinking of kissing me? shocked angry

As I tried pushing her away from me, she hung into my waist, she said babes have been so into you since the first day I saw you at the party. I can't even think or sleep, pls I love you dear. You've been on my mind all thru Last week. Pls be my baby, I will take care of your needs. I'm rich! I pulled off her hands off me, as she was still trying to kiss me. Then she lunged at me again. Straight to my boob's! angry

I was like wtf! Jeez! U are mad o!

Then I pushed her forcefully away from me. She smiled and said I know this is your first time but don't worry just relax u will enjoy it or perhaps I can wait for u till closing time and we can go somewhere cosy. I will make it worth your while. I won't Bleep you. I will make love to u and just for an hour, not like men that will Bleep u for so many hours, leaving u with an aching pussy.

I was so shocked.

She then said, OK if you doubt me, send your account details nw and I will surprise u with 200k, then wait for u to close. Just to show how much I care and willing to be with you and love you. Gosh u are so sexy!

I said hey! Just stop this madness! I don't need your money. So this is the patronage u are talking about? Oh wow! I can't believe this.

She said yeah! And licked her lips and wanted to come towards, I held up my hands and said stop! I don't need your money! Don't u get! I am fully for a guy not ladies. I am No lesbians! Just leave!

She then looked at me and said with your looks how much do guys give u, or your man? Guys are stingy! Self centered ! They don't know how to handle women. I am a woman and I know what u want. With money and good sucking on your boobs and pussy. And u doing the same to me, u will be in heaven. With 200k already in your account. Babe wake up!


I sighed and I said if u don't leave my office now! I will scream rape! And my workers will barge in! Do u want to be disgraced? Now just leave! See me see trouble o!

And for the last time, I am not broke! I don't need your money or you! She said look every woman always want money and u are not an exception. And the money u will receive, even my group of friends love you already. Each one of us are ready to give u 200k each for some minutes with u.. At least an hour and it's over. Or is it too small?

I became so enraged and I screamed are u deaf? Get out now! Seems u are not normal. You and your group of psycho friends. Oya leave! I reject u all in Jesus name!

She then adjusted her dress looked at me, then winked , smiled shook her head and walked out.

I was so shaking.. Honestly I felt like vomiting there and then.. All my intestines turned inside of me. The next day I fell ill just thinking about it. One week I was scared of even leaving my house! Jeez! angry angry angry

God forbid!

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