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edydeyemi:
Haunty, you haff vex o.

Lol..


I should vex more sef!

ImaIma1:
Amen. Thank you.

What people say is inconsequential. I have learnt not to do things basedon what people think. Now everyone is cool even my ex was at the wedding and was one of the people who gave us a special gift.

As we grow more mature, we realize that life is not as complicated as we make it

Can you imagine?

Exactly! We are the only ones complicating our life's.

That's maturity .

Thumbs up!

anthony86:
Who wan go separate them inside gutter. Na only mad man fit separate mad man fight

And the man is looking for who will separate them inside gutter. Lol

None came forth.

Mad man!

The cart pusher sef shock!

ImaIma1:
You don't need to talk too much. I married my ex's very close friend...as in close friend.

Life is not hard at all. My husband and I damned the controversies it would cause and went ahead. We saw what we wanted in each other and couldn't afford to let that go because of a past of almost a decade ago.

Now we are glad we did

You see? Madam, you've summed it up!
That's it.
Both of you are wise.
If one wants to be happy in this life, disregard what people will always say and go for it. Because people will always talk especially Nigerians.

For me, I don't care what people says, I do what I feel is right and what my heart and mind craves for .

God bless your home and mine too in Jesus name amen.

tiredoflife:
How are u sure it was a relationship
What if it was pay as u go they agreed on
And now she come go jam him friend
Madam not all of u are good
Some are side olosho

Thank God u said not all of us are good.

At least there are still some good women and to see such good women? It's not easy. It takes the grace of God.

oyepaulkay:
Haha! The question is *a lady your friend has slept with in the past not had a relationship with in the past*

Her ex slept with her when they were dating, he made her believe he wants to marry her but after scaming her of 400k to sort his buisness deals during the process of giving her a ring. He then said his mother said if they marry, their marriage wont last and she's no longer in support of their relationship. Can u imagine? After collecting 400k. He sent her the message through whatsapp, cos he claims he's not in the country to explain fully.

Some men are evil.

Thank God she's happy with her new husband. Who didn't waste time in marrying her
No time for long courtship.

God is great!

It can only be God.

All these years! Wow!

Thank you Jesus!

Op if you want to marry her please go ahead. Getting a wife material these days is not as simple as people think. Even single guys in their 40s will attest to it. Because your friend did not appreciate a good woman in his life doesn't mean When God gave him one , does not mean u shouldn't when u see one.

Most women as soon as theyve broken up with their ex, it's finished. Nothing takes them back to him. Especially when u admit she's a very good woman

She won't disappoint you.

I have a friend who got married to her ex boyfriend, friend. This lady is so good but her stupid ex is a bloody player and good for nothing guy, who even scammed her of 400k! She almost died of heartbreak. Crying uncontrollably in my office explaining what happened. The 400k is gone till today.

After the breakup, his friend was shocked, her bf could do such to her and also breakup with her. Last last he married her. And they are living happily together. Very nice woman.

Some men do not deserve a good wife. They don't. God will give them a good woman, they will use selfish wicked attitude to drive her away.

lefulefu:
i concur..even uche jombo is married to a mexican guy if i am correct. But this juliet ibrahim sef. U jus allow a man to grab ur azz,snap d pix and release dem on the internet. See as d guy jus set her up for any intending serious guy.

Juliet is not smart.. She allowed her feelings block all reasoning. Which is too bad.

I hope she learns and adjust.

Guys are just after her for sexxxzz.
She better start using her brain.

lefulefu:
hope she's staying with the white dubai based guy ooo. Hope she aint residing in ghana while her dubai white husband is living in dubai or europe. Iyam asking cos all these long distance marriage i dont trust it one bit.

I can't say, they should have discussed their marriage arrangement and agreed to it before getting married
But she looks happy and content with her kids .

The look.of those kids can make a mother very happy.

I just love her kids.. So adorable.

kinguwem:
The Prince is not interested in long life. Quite pathetic.

He will live long. It depend on the kind of women he marries.

My dad married 5 wives and he lived long and prosperous. He died peacefully in his sleep at age 90years.

lefulefu:
gbam! If she wants a really committed relationship she can try out a whiteman or even black american . Those ones wont mind even if u have a sex tape u released on the internet with ur ex. But for we african guys.... We do mind ooo cos of ego.

Exactly they won't mind and they will treat her like a queen . Loving her like Mumu.

That's why I love this buhari lady, Nadia buhari her fellow actress who married a white Dubai guy, she has four abi three lovely biracial kids. She's settled. No more jumping up and down with black guys, who is after pussy and they move on.

Tamarapetty:
Moral lesson: don't expect much from anyone, you might get disappointed.

My dear not even don't expect too much.

The thing is don't expect anything from anyone. If they choose to stay fine, if they choose to leave, fine as well.

That's the way I see life.

lefulefu:
there are men who will still rush her regardless of d pics..though the tricky part wether they will be interested in a commited relationship.

They will date her for sex.. That's all.


Except she date Oyibo . A white man will marry her

Love made her deaf to sensible reasoning.

He was all for the assz and pussy.
While she thought, she had found her Prince Charming and live happily ever after.

Mistakes we make, when we mistakenly fall in love ehn? No small thing.
That's how one of my ex, wanted us to kiss at the bus stop, in broad daylight

I said Hian? For Wetin Na?

He said he is so in love and doesn't care who looks at us. I replied, Pls I am not a fan public display of affection. Pls take it easy, u know I love you already no need showing people, before agbero at bussstop will hurl insults at us to go get a room.
He was angry and pissed I didn't agree.. He said if I don't kiss him. Then it's over. I look this one? In my mind, I said u wey I no even sure if u will stay long in the relationship and marry me. U want to block my future husband who may see us abi? I dodge u pass. Tufia!

I just walked away. And he didn't pick my call any more. Myself I moved on.
No man will disgrace me publicly or even privately sef in the name of I love you.

Is it their occupation u are fucking and feeling regret on? Op? Or is the man behind the occupation? Because all u just mentioned and look down on is because he is mechanic, she's a tomato seller,.
Are those people not human beings? If God turn their fortune around and make the mechanic a very rich clean man like E-money next year.

Won't u beg to Bleep him and announce it online and on radio?

So because he's a mechanic, you are feeling bad?
A doctor fucking a tomato seller is not looking at What she sells but he wonders at the attraction he feels towards the girl behind that tomatoe trade. He's looking at an attractive girl his loins yearns for, without blemish.

Sighs How myopic can some humans be

I can't blame her.

When beadmaking and stonning outfits is no longer reeking in money and she has a kid to feed and take care of.

The best is to use what u have to get what u want.
At least this better than prostitution. Using her tribal marks for fame and money.

Who knows a fashion designer abroad might call up for a contract to model his or her designs. If she were very tall, it would have been possible.
Better than staying idle. Money must be made one way or the other.

Op you have strength! I hail thee

Sex everyday? God forbid!

If I were the one, I would have falling sick since and possibly pass on to the world beyond. You are trying, coupled with anal join! God forbid!

Na wa o

Mehn I honestly pity you, u are not in any marriage. You are more or less a sex slave. That's why sex before marriage is highly advisable. Hmm I don't even know the advice to give to u. Cause I am shocked beyond words. Na real wa

Even the father self satisfied smile is annoying.
He's smiling he has a rare dark gem with long height for sale. Oya buyers start bidding!

Nice one! Her tribal marks has brought her fame at long last.

Adetutu

God bless her hustle!

Eseries:
Hello Nairalanders!

I am just another young Nigerian who resides in Lagos still struggling, hustling and chasing my dreams.

Unfortunately, I have a selfish Landlord. He asks for money all the time, I cooperated last year and each time he does ask, I find something for him.
This year I want to be much more prudent with my expenses and I only want to pay for my rent when it is due because if I continue the same way, I might end up paying 5 years upfront and that means I am working just to satisfy my rather selfish Landlord.

Here comes the hurdle, my rent will be due by December. My Landlord just served me a quit notice to vacate my apartment by January next year, only a month after my rent must have expired.

I pay my rent annually and will like to know what my rights are in a situation like this.
I know and accept that I will definitely vacate his property but how long more does the law permit me to stay and make arrangement for the next place to move in.

Once again the quit notice was served to me today to vacate by January, 2019. My rent is still active and expires December 30, 2018.

I am counting on lawyers in the house and experienced Nairalanders to put me through on my next move. I think I should be entitled to 6 months stay after the expiration of my rent by law to make arrangement to move i.e June 2019.
Am I right? can someone just throw me out of his property by January when my rent expires by December?

I am not sure the rightful section to put this thread, the mod please do the needful so this gets enough exposure so people can contribute, I just want to get the right information so no one can mess with my rights.
Thank You!

Op, from experience by what I went through in my own case, please start preparing to pack by January.

This eviction is a blessing in disguise for u. I know it's shocking and a bitter pill to swallow but please if u want to live a life of peace , and not a life of turmoil coupled with spiritual attacks and possibly slump and die in that house, biko Pls pack by January.

I almost died in my former house while resisting to pack. But when I couldn't bear the series collapsing of heart attacks, my dear.. I had to pack and dash out stuffs.
The former laondord death with me spiritually cos he wants me out as well.


Thank God I didn't fight him in court even when my company lawyer said we should fight him. I told my company lawyer, is it not when one is alive, hail and hearty, that's when someone can fight and win. I know what I am seeing in this devilish house, please no court case, Pls let's pack.
Thank God, we packed. My life is so much better than before now.

My doors of prosperity is opened wider than before. I am 100percent at peace with my life now.


Abeg pack! Before he kills you one way or the other.

Her daughter is so pretty and looks so much like her mom




I pray mine looks like me too, amen!

Advice her to take it easy and take life jeje.

It's not all about getting married but stay happy in marriage.

And is she ready to stay in marriage? Not just doing the wedding and that's all.
It's more than wedding day.

Make she take am easy.

Hmmmmmm.



She's in love.


Hmm, this love ehn?

Please who has that tinubu meme of folding his hands and looking with a grim on his face . I need it biko

He get mind going ahead with the wedding with such gloomy face portrayed by his bride.

He should thank God, she didn't stab to death while asleep.

The man get mind.

crackhaus:
Let's hope to God she's not as deceptive as you.

Me ke?


What have I done?

Glay:
Haha. He has unrealistic ideas. He says music is his passion but the genre of music he makes is not exactly popular demand in these parts.

Then dump his assz!

He is not ready to hustle and make it. Except he changes that music line and work on something real.

Nothing last forever.

Simply move on

crackhaus:
This is how you should go about it:

If you're 90% sure it's NOT yours, sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel - let her know that despite your reservations, you're willing to wait it out and support her until the baby is born. You MUST also make it clear that once she has the baby, you're having DNA testing done to determine paternity and if the results show you're not the baby's daddy, you intend to take a walk right then & there and never have anything to do with her again.

See how she reacts.

She will still. Look at him straight in his eyes and say you are the father of this baby growing inside of me. I am not mistaken.

Even if she knows deep down, she may be lieing or confused who the dad is.

At least he will help on paying for ante natal and all the necessary things she needs to see the pregnancy through. And after 9months, if he wants to go for DNA test? No wahala. She will. Look for other ways to take care of the baby.

At least her breast milk is free.

1StopRudeness:
That's what I said...she should come and give my sister one that has not gotten a toaster since 2017

Jeez!

Na wa o



Then op, choose number two. Be patient with him, you are just 20 years old.
Relax on the second guy jare. Before u clock 25, he go blow

Dump number one, I hate rich annoying guys
Dump your ex forever! I hate underlying issues thats been ignored deliberately.

I go for number two! if I were still 20years old.

Most of you don't know livingdead is a scammer and a sadist. He derives joy talking about all his jumbo mumbo life. He thrives on all your emotions. I just read his ramblings, he is about die, he will soon die, he's on the verge of dieing , I shake my head smile and move on.

Let him just die once and for all

Una get his time sha

Bloody scammer!

Biingoo:
How about a hookup this weekend? Sailors Lodge to be precise. Deal??

With all his rantings from two days ago till this very morning and possibly all through the rest of his miserable life .

My nairalanders make una come o, this is all Biingo has been dying , praying, dreaming and hungry he could have with me. I shame for you!

Sighs, Biingo Biingo, no better still Ekuke! You are lost ! But no one to tell you.


Goodbye and get lost!