₦airaland Forum

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So it's safe to say men actually love money more than ladies right? Cos it's only them that involve in crazy things just to get that money. How many ladies don marry old whity for green card?

NdiaraIGBO:
Perfect! Go and correct or amend your previous statement then.
Marriage is not for everybody.

NdiaraIGBO:
Times have changed darling. Being single is the bomb, uninterrupted happiness and peace of mind.

Pusyiter:
My dear, I pity those who are even commiserating with the guy. He deserves to go to jail and the lil boy's momma. He should just come out clean and tell us he used him for ritual for his occult because I buy no crap of this fairy tale.

highqueen:
I was the one that reported it.

I have tried to be civil with you by reporting any nonsense that oozes out of you.

IamD18:
You reported my post to be removed Yet una go dey form thick skin


Calm down and learn from your elders, una nogo gree, na to dey form nonsense....Smh

IamD18:
I intentionally didn't spell your main acc correctly, but you did it yourself Meaning we know what you are pretending not to know


You are not wise atall Smh

IamD18:
Just take corrections and move on without pouring your frustration or insulting the person.

That's what a smart lady should do.



Smally.

IamD18:
Reasons why mothers should do well to train their daughters well to avoid them growing up to be online prostitutes and wayward hoes.


Now, tell the forum how married men wished their wives to be like you with what you just replied me


Ashawo-Mentor bagging on Nland as an intelligent woman. What stops you from getting married if you are what you claim to be?

Chubby Alexaline

openmine:
But that's what you are insinuating.....
For the very fact that you are holding back some certain things esp due to what happened in the past confirms my assertions...

We all have had heart breaks in our lives at one time or the other but that should not make you change simply because of a certain guy that never cherished what you were doing for him.....

IamD18:
Please shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself online.

openmine:
Sorry what did women change into according to you?
They became bad right and you think that will get them a good partner?

So you had a bad past with your previous relationships... does that imply that other guys will do the same thing to you?

So you Were good before and some one used your goodness for granted....does it now stop you from being good?

ClassRep001:
That's a real man out there.
Not all these modern chicken hearted men who'd go to any extent to please a woman cos of pussy.

My wife dare not purchase any goddamn shit without my consent or she'd end up in her father's house the next day.
I married her, i paid her dowry, i took care of all of marriage bills. I own the house she's living under. She dare not do anything under my roof without my consent, she dare not possess any Property "be it phones, clothes, necklaces or shoes" without me knowing about it.

Giving ladies "free hand" to do anything is one of the reason that makes them go into sleeping outside for financial reasons without their husband questioning their moves.

God bless every real man out there!

Elder001:
You must be a very stingy young lady.

Very ridiculous. I hope your future husband known you carefully before getting married to you.

CorGier:
Oi, I struck a nerve.
Sorry Vicki, I didn't mean it to make it hurt.

Anyway if after doing all that shít (which is obviously a very big deal for you), a man still see it fit to make a decent woman outta ya then maybe, maybe you just ain't all that...

Holamscoh:
Thanks a lot dear. I really appreciate u. Btwn i think we think alike.

franchasng:
lol, thanks sis.

Guys need to have mentor and check around, check all the successful great men u know; not the Yahoo Yahoo men and drug dealers and ritualist and armed robbers, I mean real successful men who built their wealth with time; check their wives, they are usually virtuous, amazing ladies who aren't trophy wives married for showoff.

I am not talking about Yahoo men wives, not talking about drug dealers wives, not talking heartless politicians wives, I am not talking about daddies sons that used their fathers influence and wealth to marry trophy wives, I am talking about real successful great men who worked the soil to get to where they are in life. Check their wives, u will understand why they ended up rich and successful.

But will guys of today learn No!

They want Chioma assurance that only come for the money o......they don't want Amaka weh come for the love and joint growth, they want fly fly girls that are yellow like sun with ikebe big like trailer and Bobbi big like tundra, ah, they die there

CorGier:
You show love and care for a SO because it's the right thing to do. Because your affections for them and the emotions they conjure up in you warrants and justifies you giving them your all. You cook him dinner, do his laundry and keep a wet mouth and puss at night for him because in that moment, there ain't nobody more deserving of your "all" than him.

Now here's the bitter truth; if you find yourself doing all that not because of the aforementioned but so you would be termed as a good girl, a wife material - with hope that one day he puts a ring on it, then you're obviously faking and a high value male can see right through all that. So learn to live in the moment, when love comes around embrace it. Cos if you doing all that shít with an ulterior motive and you fúcking for a ring, then you ain't no different from a hoe.

A lame arse hoe at that. Any idíot can cook, clean and fúck...it costs nothing. So ask yourself, how do I stand out?

franchasng:
great men don't marry for beauty and sex, they marry a virtuous lady who supports their dream and helps them achieve their life goals; financial, business and family.

Non great men marry for beauty, sex and fashion and at the end, the woman ruins their life and squander the little money they thought they had and they go back to square one.

In our today world, what every young man should consider before marrying any Lady are:

1. Is she industrious and productive financially?
2. Is she respectful and well mannered?
3. Is she contented?
4. Is she a good home manager?
5. Is she a good cook; take it or leave it, this is a vital quality even if u are a billionaire man.
6. Is she compassionate about others and does she respect other people?
7. Is she neat and organised?
8. Is she a star; some ladies carry good star that attracts good while some carry badluck

Once a lady ticks the above qualities, wife her no matter her looks, once she is presentable, forget, u can help her become the most beautiful woman u desire, thank God for science and technology

But sadly, we have very few marriageable ladies with the right qualities, reason many guys are still single and searching frustratedly like he-goats, ladies pls help the brothers and become marriageable ladies.

Get a job, if u can't get a job, learn a trade, start a business and be serious about it, believe me God will bless it for u. As a lady, try and make sure u are working or doing business or engaged in a trade that earns u steady income of at least 70,000naira.

Start a savings plan for your future family....start to save to support your husband even if u end up marrying a billionaire, he will love u more if u tell her how much u saved for your future family while single.

Stop wasting all your savings on fashion and irrelevant things.

Prepare to be a good wife and mother.

Your fine body alone is no longer enough to sustain a happy marriage in our today world.

Be a help mate to your hubby.....pray and work to be a financial support to your future husband, don't plan to be a leech and a money spender wife even if u marryba billionaire. Be a virtuous woman your kids will be proud of.

Wish u all the best as u strive to be good women8)

Holamscoh:
My dear believe it or not, I'm a Nigerian. This is not a matter of of flaunting a sugarcoated tongue, I mean it and I'm standing my ground.

MISEDUCATIONS:
you really took your time on this response. nice one.

so in essence what the girl is doing is right. but with many guys' mind focused on sex it wont get her a wedding ring. yet the same guys will miss her when they tire of sex with the sex freaks they chose over her! i agree. fully.

working from your point then the girl is better off being slutty in bed and reserving the housekeeping skills for marriage when the magic of sex wears off and her and hubby have to face the reality of marriage. mmhmm makes a lot of sense. let me think more on it

Holamscoh:
Truly that's for most nigerian men, but not me though, because beauty and sex or whatever u call it is always the last thing i always crave for in a lady. Love & Undrestanding, Kindhearted, Intelligence, Wisdom, Finance, Knowledge are what really matters to me.

MISEDUCATIONS:
okey.
If doing good doesnt guarantee a wedding ring, how will doing nothing guarantee you anything?