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All I can say is the heart of man is very wicked.

Ladies shine your eyes o!

amacastel:
As in Ehe, well am not surprised nigerian men are allergic to successful women either through birth or hardwork they prefer students and jobless women so she won't question their kukere movt

You can say that again.
Only very few, I mean extremely few Nigerian men marry successful working women. While men from other countries marry our successful women.
The students and jobless women they dally with and marry, makes them rant online, all Nigerian women are gold diggers. And I will be like really?

brodalikeme:
As in eh, she go don give plenty of them green light but I’m sure their liver was failing them.

Of course nah but the men will be forming and be boning face like , what I don't even understand. Am glad a bold guy, more handsome and I bet more romantic guy, swept her off her feet.
The good guys in Nigeria, their liver dey always dey fail them, when it's comes to women.
That's why bad guys end up marrying the good women, while the good guys wallow in self pity.

boladez:
So what would you say about the guy who crossed the road??

He wasnt looking before crossing.
Nigerians these days cross road without looking right and left. I saw two women with children on their backs, gisting at the middle of a bend on a street, if I weren't a careful driver, thats how I would have hit them off the ground. I had to press brakes, with my horn in full volume. Story and gist don carry their Brain away. Who forgets themselves and gist at the middle of the road.

May God help us to be safety conscious in this country.
It's appalling.

She shouldnt worry.. She should brace up. Last last Such ladies end up marrying the best of men.. While the smart useless guy will be served well in his own coin.

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

That's pure lie.
An independent successful. woman is intelligent. If u are not real in conversations, if u are slow in understanding sentences or u have no clue what to do about your life, she simply cuts off. No time to start teaching or training u to be a man.

Just know what u are doing, and she will humble.
Am an independent lady and my man loves me like this We have no unnecessary power tussle issues.

brodalikeme:
All these Christ Embassy brothers, una fall hand, una just allow the biggest fish for water slips through una hand enter one Ghanaian guy hand. Y’all should hide your faces!!!

No mind them. They are waiting for her to woo them and ask any of them out.. Lol

The father try.

If he doesn't spoil her with goodies and car. Who will her boyfriend?

Boyfriend wey no send their babes.

Babe enjoy your dad jare. It's your birthright. And congrats too, for the making the family proud as a graduated Lawyer.
You went to school, and graduated with honours without extra baggage of one unknown baby, alongside . Such daughter deserve more than just a car.

satowind:
I see an u listened I see. Thanks for the correction thou. Seriously knew it was wrong but was too lazy to browse the correct spelling

Ok

Benjom:
Issorite... May God give you your own man that'll appreciate this body

God will but the question is? Can she be level headed and grounded enough to keep her man? That's the million dollar question, she should meditate and ask herself.

I see nothing wrong in bn subservient in marriage, even in relationships.

In my female to female relationships, we are subservient to each other. I have female friends of early 20s, mid 40s . It's the same. We respect each other And submissive as well. Likewise between me and my man, we are both subservient to each other. But seriously he's the first ever have seen like that in a man. We are of the same age, he earns more than me. And am amazed such men still exist.

So op, it's not a big deal To be submissive. If u love your friends or partner, submission is not a thing to argue about.. It comes willingly. That's if u truly love your friends and companion.

I see nothing wrong in bn subservient in marriage, even in relationships.

In my female to female relationships, we are subservient to each other. I have female friends of early 20s, mid 40s . It's the same. We respect each other And submissive as well. Likewise between me and my man, we are both subservient to each other. But seriously he's the first ever have seen like that in a man. We are of the same age, he earns more than me. And am amazed such men still exist.

So on, it's not a big deal To be submissive. If u love your friends or partner, submission is not a thing to argue about.. It comes willingly. That's if u truly love your friends and companion.

She's so pretty..

Oya o! Footballers food don done o!

He had better tell us the truth! He is on the verge of becoming broke!

He had better relocate abroad, he has the means nah.

Keep deceiving yourself lol

Loads of beautiful girls with tight vag and correct attitude.. You are there consoling yourself. Ugly thing.

satowind:
you are still
Stocking him hmmm

It's not stocking, it's called stalking.

Am not stalking him, I simply got recent infos on how his life has turned out by his cousin, whom I bumped into at the mall. And she told me everything. What a pity.

Be ready to be a sexx slave.. Your hole go hear am well! That's if the person is kind enough not to use u for rituals.

Think!

EmpresFIDEL:
you have said it all jare.. no decent guy will even ask for nude pictures.

Of course. No decent guy would.

She could be 50.
Don't doubt it.
Possibly she takes good care of herself mentally and physically, then coupled with genes. It's very possible.

Happy Birthday Bae.

She went under the knife. She try.

Market must sell! Lol

EmpresFIDEL:
but seriously why will she send her nude picture.. I can not even send my nude picture to my husband if I get married.. is very indecent, or maybe he snapped her while she was sleeping after sex.

My dear, those type of guys can disturb for Africa about nudes. Some will even threaten to breakup
The fear of breakup and not having a guy for some weeks or months, that's why they do it and send to bf, thinking the relationship will last and anything they do will make him. Their Prince Charming.

I know how many guys have withdrawn from me because I no send nudes. And I don't fucvking care. My reputation, my family name is Gold to me. I don't joke with it. No matter what. Withdraw? breakup? please be my guest.

Have gone past such emotional blackmail, it doesn't affect me one bit. So that's why, the fear of breakup.
Last last breakup will still happen, so I wonder why someone will place herself in such situation of blackmail.

Let them keep sending bf nudes, na them sabi.

I don't even trust myself with my nudes, na bf I will trust?
She better seat back and enjoy the show. Next time, she won't trust any guy again with her nudes. Ode

soliddust2020:
How much the workera take bail themselves from police? We all know how such stories will end if it is true.

Nothing will happen to the workers, as long as they have a good lawyer backing them.

That's how one boss owed his worker, 5months salary, she comes all the way from egbeda to Yaba everyday, but no pay at the end of the month. She complain taya. Until one day, she went to the office and locked up the company main entrance, followed by a police man. See various padlocks on the gate and a letter dropped for the boss to appear at the station , for his attention is needed.

The boss travelled of course, tongues was wagging
I guess they settled it when he came back and the locks were removed. Na strong thing the bosses need. If u know u can't pay a worker. Then don't employ, it's that simple. Don't even place advert to employ.

They were hungry and angry. They have bills to settle at home, I can imagine how landlord might be disturbing them for bills for Phcn bills, cleaner bills and possibly friends they borrowed monies from to stay afloat are on their necks. Na various excuse dey end am. They've had it to their necks and couldn't cope anymore. I don't blame them and he even had the guts to travel abroad.

Some bosses are really wicked. Serves him right. I don't pity such boss.

Op you can't change him. Only series of failed relationships and eventually failed marriages that can make him sober and calm. He's in for a bumpy sad life later on.
And later you will get tired and frustrated then either eventually dump his assz or God forbid, you may either leave him the simple way or the hard painful way called death.

A man who gets angry at every opportunity ends up beating his woman firstly with slaps and ends with severe blows. So don't worry, u will make a final decision on your own later. Have dated such before, I simply fled at the sight of his angry outburst everytime. He's still single at 49, with two divorce cases on his neck. Now he's cooling off alone .

Well if the man knows deep down in his heart, he cannot impregnate any woman, which means he's infertile? Then he can go ahead and marry her with her children. But if he knows he wants his own child to be born as well, through that same divorcee, then he's digging a deep hole for himself and his own unborn kids.

It's not in Nigeria, one can try such. Not even at this recent times where most people no longer appreciate anything their partner's do for them.
He's on a suicidal mission and regrets will be the end result.

It's very dangerous accepting lifts from strangers. The woman did the right thing. Better to be beaten by rain for more hours than to accept such ride.

martolux:
whatx happening with all these female celebrities na?? Where are they meeting all these monsters the called husbands

Most rich young men out there are beasts. And the female celebrities prefer a rich young man. Only very few of the rich guys are normal, humble and kind. The rest are just empty lots, feeling the world revolve them cos of their wealth.
If they marry an average guy who truly care about them, theirs cases wouldnt be divorce and beating everytime.

Like I said before, Marriage is beautiful, when both partners are kind, selfless, considerate and understanding about themselves and life. Family is everything to me and I won't trade it with cats and dogs or paying young boys to fuc when am itchy. Nah! Not me.

If you run away from responsibility or scared of financial responsibilities even to yourself then marriage is not for u. Then if u are a wicked being or selfish being or too crafty, just Stay single and enjoy your life till old age.

Am not scared of responsibilities I take it head on and I don't see marriage as poverty alleviation either. Cos anyone who wants to stay and die single, pls be my guest. Lol.

Na your life. Arrange it as u see it fit. Simple.
Life is just simple!

Marriage is beautiful, when both partners are kind, selfless, considerate and understanding about themselves and life.
If you run away from responsibility or scared of financial responsibilities even to yourself then marriage is not for u. Then if u are a wicked being or selfish being or too crafty, just Stay single and enjoy your life till old age.

Am not scared of responsibilities I take it head on and I don't see marriage as poverty alleviation either. Cos anyone who wants to stay and die single, be my guest. Lol.

Na your life. Arrange it as u see it fit. Simple.
Life is just simple!

Siga:
...You are right, but how is she different from R Kelly.... and there is a public outcry to jail him... just feel equality card should play here.. right...

I feel. As long they were not raped and they are willing happy playing along with the older ones, be it male or female, there is nothing wrong in it. At that age 18years old are in a state of infatuation. If both people are 18years old it's then better? .
Free them jare. When I was 16years old, I was infatuated with a guy of 20s. But we didn't have sex cos I wasn't brave enough and he didn't want to force me. So he kept me at bay.
At 18years I was looking for the appropriate guy to disvirgin me but I didn't see the type I like, so I held on with my raging hormones till I got to age 24years, thats when I got disvirgined by a player lol.

So u can imagine at 18years? I wanted to know how it feels to have sex. And there are lots of teenagers like me. It's just God that made sure I didn't fall into the hands of a Randy guy back then.

So people should just free them jare.

She didn't tie up the boys nah. The followed her willingly even taking her shopping with their credit cards. The boys are even smitten dating her.