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Op u are still a kid

Few days to my first date with my man, I wanted to fix a lovely weavon and look so fly as usual but I didn't have enough money on me, and I just can't afford to tell him, am busy, I can't make it.. I want to be with him ! Gaddamit! So I looked at my semi bald head, Lol and I was like hmm.. What I do with this hair that refuse to grow for years! Although its growing small small but it's just too slow with all the hair fertilizing creams and oils am using.
So I said to hell with the semi bald hair jare , I must go on this date.
So I brought out my wig, a lovely fine wig that's been helping me for a long while. The day eventually came, I brought out one of my lovely top with jeans, I made my face with light makeup, put on the wig and viola! I look pretty and innocent
So we went out, had nice time, then eventually end up at his place.

He wanted to kiss me, I was like this wig should not disgrace me o. We kissed, he was like hmm! I love your kiss... I chuckled, I liked his too. We kissed deeper and I didn't know when my wig fell off!

I freezes first, with pleading eyes. He stopped andlooked at me well, wow! No hair!

In my. Mind, I was like this is time of revelation whether he will still want me as his babe or not. He then stuttered and said hmm! U were wearing a wig? I laughed nervously and said yea. So I bent backward to try fix the wig back but clumsily this time, in mind I was like ohGod not at this moment. Another voice in my head said serves u right! U never listen to reason! I told the voice to shut up! This is not the time or place to reprimand me!
As he saw me struggling with the wig, he said wait just wait.. Drop the wig, no, just let the wig go.. Don't worry I love your head like that. U look so natural..

I was like hian? With shocked looks. And he smiled and said u still look pretty without the wig. Don't worry I still find u attractive with or WIthout it. Then he kissed me again.. I just drop the Annoying wig jare..lol and the rest was history

When I was gisting my bestie about that night, the next day.. She was like oh Victorian! With horrified looks! Lol

How could u allow him see your head! On first date! Cmon! But why?? She has this horrified look on her face... I was just laughing, I said calm calm down.. I know it's not cool but I was just too stressed up with work! and all to go fix my hair nah? that's why.
She said I just hope, he will still want u as his babe o.. Cos u really Bleep up this time. Jeez! My heart then cut with fear and I looked at her with pleading eyes, and I said with a firm voice he said he's OK with my head and I believe him! She said hmm, I hope so o. Cause guys like him are rare o! But seriously this week u must do something to that semi bald hair of yours! I said don't worry I will

But long story cut short We are still together till date

Very loving as ever Thank God he's understanding lol

Op you are not serious, I swear.

Break up with him and seek for simple average or poor man to marry. And you won't need to dress flashy or use makeup. U will be as plain as Jane. And be at peace with yourself. Sorry to say, u are selfish. In marriage u need to adjust yourself to each other needs. It can't be just you you you. If both of you can't come to a compromise on how to accept each other and bend to an extent then better breakup o.
Cos if u don't breakup now and u continue like this, sorry divorce or having a second wife is waiting quietly at your door step in the nearest future. The choice is yours.

I feel ladies should just ignore family, friends, society pressuring us for marriage. As for me, while I was still living single, it got to a stage I don't allow anyone pressure or mock me into getting married. The stubborn ones I cut them off. Weddings of friends I ignore, lol . I simply focus on my work, love life and friends who make me happy, even family sef disturbing me to get married I cut them off, lol.. I don't need such emotional stress Biko.
I pity ladies who get themselves worked up Cos of marriage. I know we all thinking of our biological clock but for me o, what will be will be. I have other pressing issues to disturb my brain on.. Certainly not marriage. Am already in a loving relationship, that's just like been married, the only thing remain na paper work. And we are both happy with what we have going for us.

Do u know because of society pressures, some women end up marrying wife beaters, ritualists and con men. I know of a lady who got married due to pressures to a ritualist. No one knew the man was planning to kill her and renew his wealth. They wedded in a big way. Everyone was happy and saying at last. She married at 32.
Within two Months into the marriage, we heard she's dead. The husband said he came back from work, met her lying dead on the floor. Just like that.
That's how her matter end. Parents cried uncontrollably but shes gone.

Another one, she brought her fiance home to meet her parents, after much pressure. They like the guy gentle looks, after meeting her parents, it's now the guy turn to take her to his parents, whom he claimed lives outskirt of Lagos. They went together. She's meant to come back 2days later. The second day, mum called her phone, it's switched off, the 3rd day still switched off and she's not back from her fiance parents place. They began to panic. One week, she's still not back and phone off. The dad had to report to police station, no one knows where he lives. He gave the parents fake address. All hell was let loose.

Last last, someone on their street saw this lady at Ibadan expressway, half naked running up and down by the side of the road.. She has turned into a mad woman. The neighbor who saw her, quickly alighted from the bus and screamed her name, she didn't recognize him, he was just crying, he quickly brought his phone and called home, tell his friends to go to the girl's parents house , that he has found their daughter and she's now Raven mad . The parents came, shedding tears, cursing the guy whom she brought home., covered her body and tied her up. She is locked up in her room, receiving treatment . Up till date she's still not OK. It's going to 3years now, still locked up.

So single ladies let nobody, no family ,no friend push u to your destruction and death. It's not worth the wahala. Be careful. Be wise.

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Brethens don't retreat. Let's watch it.
Another fellow lady will be spoiling market for another lady, it's not good.
Let's Watch it jare, even if she was dancing like a masquerade. Dance na dance it's part of entertainment to us the viewers.
She simply selling her goods online.

Let's feed our eyes.

Sgoldentouch:
Fellow Nairalanders,
This is stale news as the child has been found since 10th July, which was Tuesday, though details of what really happened was not yet known.
The mot important information is that Ello has been reunited with her Parents.

Wow! Thank God!
Glory be to God!

Next time, they will watch over their kids like hawks.. Thank you Lord.

I pray she's found safe and alive.

I wonder how parents feel safe leaving their kids in children section in churches.

If I were the parents, my kids must be with me in church service. If church does not allow it? Then bye bye to that Church. I can't come and use my kids play ludo.

What a painful experience.

Hmmmm

Pray never to be at the mercy of any human being for survival. It never ends well.

It's better to live and struggle alone than this.

I pray she gets the justice, she's crying out for.

CAPSLOCKED:

I KNOW IT'S NOT MY BUSINESS BUT..
I WONDER WHEN YOU'LL RETIRE FROM BASHING WOMEN EVERYWHERE YOU FIND THEM ON THIS FORUM.

SAME RECYCLED "EVENING NEWSPAPER" AND "ALL GIRLFRIENDS/WOMEN ARE PROSTITUTES" STATEMENTS EVERYTIME. ARE YOU AN ALREADY PROGRAMMED ROBOT THAT CANNOT THINK OF ANYTHING NEW TO TALK ABOUT EXCEPT THE SAME CRIPPLED TALKS FROM JANUARY TO DECEMBER?

IT'S BORING.

You should know guys wailing bitterly about women are frustrated in their relationships, some don't even have any woman to call their own. So they are lashing out at women anyway and anyhow they can online.
Most of them are in one lonely room, lying down on mat, frustrated out of life.
I don't even take them serious when they scream olosho
Cos that's all they have in life to offer ,wailing and more wailing.. Lol

He's not off the market. Moving in is just one of those fun things lovers do.

More over she's not his longtime gf.

His long time gf is always on low cut, he even featured her in his not too recent videos. He was even interviewed on TV about her and he was gushing and smiling how In love they were, and how she compliments him. that's his ex o.. Not this new one am seeing here. So babe! Enjoy the ride for now

Guys ehnn?

dominique:
That's exactly what I do as well, I recgarge just once a month to subscribe. The highest amount you can find on my airtel line is N10

That's it.

There are so many ways of killing a rat. And Airtel has made us wise. They think they are cunning, those bloody thieves!.

Buy credit u can use immediately that minute and leave it empty.. Then try and have another sim from either glo or mtn with enough credit to call in case of emergency at time. That's how I operate mine. On mtn I have enough credit seating duck until I need it, but Airtel, if I want to subscribe 1month internet, I buy 1k and subscribe immediately, and my account is empty. They can't deduct nothing afterwards.

HouseOfWine:
Because African Ancestors are just sh1t heads, to inspire us to build innovations or save us from mental slavery NO, their own job is to kill a husband that has a cheating wife, like WTF do they want to do with the guy in hell

Lol

Honestly am surprised too.

Cos what I know and what have seen is the cheating wife swelling up and decaying if she cheats on her man and still go ahead and have sex with her husband. Or her kids dying mysteriously. Or a cheating wife cannot give birth to her baby during labour, she will labour for days unless she confess. And immediately she confess, with a native priest around, after some incantations she delivers her baby then die afterwards..
That's the one I know and have seen happen.
Not husbands dying over a cheating wife. I know it's Edo people that has such curse of husband dying . Not urhobo where I come from Na wife dey die.

At the traditional marriage, immediately the blood of a life goat is held down, cut and spilled on her legs, with some incantations, then it's over and done with.. She dares not cheat or she dies.

HouseOfWine:

Why the grin?

Op your information is false.
If urhobo or isoko Man marries from any tribe even his own tribe, anywhere in world but didn't do traditional marriage, he won't die, the wife won't die, nobody will die. If she cheats.
But if the traditional marriage is done? And she cheats, the woman or her children dies mysteriously. That's how it works. Even if they later travel abroad after the traditional marriage, and she cheats, she dies.. Not the man. That's in the days of my dad.
Maybe they've now changed it to be killing the man, just maybe? I can't say. But from onset, the cheating woman is the one who dies. Op where are u from?

somehow:
So my first comment that you tried to counter stands.

Are u not tired?

Am just back from the office, with series of meetings and workshops I had to round up today. I don't need this back and forth argument. Just move on!

Argue with someonelse. Am done!

somehow:
In otherwards, you're substituting sex with him for upkeep.

Official prostitutes won't have sex with a man without pay for upkeep.

You won't have sex with your man without upkeep.

Sotherefore you're a freelance prostitute.

End of discussion.

Have a nice day.

Thank God.

The end.

somehow:
You're still not getting it.

Does it mean if your man isnt taking care of your needs, you wouldnt have sex with him even if you find him attractive, he makes the move or you are Hot?

I will stop having sex with him and even breakup sef, if when time of my needs comes and he can't fulfil it.
What's he my man for then? Just to fucvk abi? That's all.
Am not hung up on sex. I can control my Hot moments. I won't die if I don't fucvk

If as a man, I cannot rely on you to back me when I need help then forget it!
At all at all naim bad pass. If he can't even do half of what I request, not once, not twice menh he's no use.. Honestly he is no use.

Mandynews:
As shared by Twitter user,Olivia she wrote;
[b]"Having sex with a man and expecting some sort of compensation after is prostitution whether it's getting him to pay for your hair or nails etc it's all still one in the same - you selling that pussy."

https://twitter.com/SimplyRisque/status/1015627560863100928

Source: http://mandynews.com/2018/07/09/having-sex-with-a-man-and-expecting-compensation-after-is-prostitution-lady/

somehow:
I'm not talking about what works or not work in a relationship. I am talking about getting paid in any material form for having sex = prostitution!

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Bobo yi Fimi si le jare!

I have other better things to do, than argue endlessly on this topic.

Do your thing and I do mine! If you don't want to take care of your babe and u call it, BEING PAID? then that's your problem!

No wonder ladies with stingy bfs are into hookups these days. Every corner u see online is hookups! And u are there feeling fly, you gf does not demand a dime from u. Last last, Na the oloshos una go still marry put for house! As their bfs are just fucvking, thinking they are smart and not assisting them in bills.

Such babes don't want relationship anymore. Cause your kind of relationship is a fraud to having sex for free, chop ,clean mouth, dust yansh waka. If shes in need of any form of assistance financially, u then term her as Prostitute.

Anyways stingy guys deal with it..

That's how one orphan girl I knew died of malaria, cos her bf feels he's not entitled to drop money for her drugs, so he won't see her as olosho.
Ordinary malaria killed her and she will claim she has bf. Mtchewww!

Bleep! Stingy bfs! Wise babes no need una anymore!
If u no get money, cover your face in shame or stay solo. No be byforce to get gf!

For the last time! Leave me jare!

somehow:
My truth is with facts, yours with emotons and manipulations.

Just have sex for fun, pleasure and procreation. Very simple.

Na you sabi.. If u like call it the greatest manipulation from Victorian. I don't give a hoot. Neither do I care. What works for couple A, does not necessarily mean it will work for couple B. I believe in maintenance even in love. I don't joke with it at all. Likewise him as well.
His colleagues and friends envy him and he doesn't hesitate to gist me about it.

So don't worry your head on us.. We are doing fine

somehow:
Cancelling my post changes nothing. Deal with the truth.

That's your own truth.

This is my own truth. Simple

[[s]quote author=somehow post=69214350]

Wether you do one man or 10 men o, na the same prostitution job una dey do as long as you expect something materialistic in return.

Unlike Animals that have sex for procreation and the fun of it, any human that have sex for material gains is a prostitute. Take it or leave it.

You obviously dont know that sex is very useful to the woman too, go and watch sex starved women and compare them to those having regular sex to see who's more happy and glowing. Men lose alot during sex and women gain alot during sex so spare me the misconception.[/s]

Sex should only be for fun, pleasure and procreation.[/quote]At the last sentence sex is for fun and pleasure, no doubt.. But as for me and my household, including my man, he takes care of me, he's not complaining, he's not cheating on me. He's as faithful as a duck. ..
So whether u view it as prostitution or not? That's irrelevant to us. We are happy with what we have going for us.
Am not stopping you, from bn stingy to your babe. It's your choice and hers.

So no need taking panadol on us.

somehow:
Do you have a business card and can you do 3 at a go?

Read and understand. I said my man, not men maintaining me.

Am available only to my man. And he's wise enough to know his woman needs to be maintained to his taste. He met me glowing, and am even glowing more with him, not depreciating. Because he sure knows what maintenance is all about. He loves fair, fresh and supple babe. No be by sweet mouth or water person dey take fresh.

Unlike guys here, u want to use and use and keep using their babes, sucking all her nutrients, fucvking all styles as if she's a machine, without spending a dime to assist her in her daily nurturing . Then end up breaking up with her when she has become an eyesore, for the next sex starved guy to leech on..
Is that one a man to hold onto? I rather remain single than be with such stingy and evil man. God forbid!

Well that's the op problem.

Am not animanshaun o. I can't be fucvking without my man maintaining me. Am not that cheap and worthless.

She can fucvk for free, I no hold her pussyyy. It's her body. It's her life.

By God's grace Olivia, or whatever she calls herself, Will not have a man that will spend on her. Any man she dates or even marry will never spend a dime on her. Let her be taking care of herself by herself. Bloody hypocrite. Smhhhh.

From what I can deduce from the video, he must have been cheating on her withother ladies and even with her best friend but she kept calm about it. She didn't say a word until the day he decided to propose, then she revealed all she knew about his escapades.

Serves him right, if my evaluation is true.
Which means. She was playing along with him with hatred in her mind all these while.
If I were the one, I for cut off since.. No need playing along till proposal time. I don't have that stamina to pretend that long. He Bleep up.

She's pretty, she looks calm, a wife material. I like his choice. He has eyes.
He's wise.