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RomanceRe: Essentials For Nigerian Girls Visiting Their Boyfriends: Eggs Included (Photos) by victorian(f): 10:35pm On Jul 19, 2018
What a pity.

Some Nigerians guys are so pathetic.

Anyways ladies try and be successful so u can afford to eat, drink and enjoy life the way u deserve. It seems egg of 40naira is too much for some Nigerian guys to make available at home.

What a real pity..

Thank God, my man is not that stingy or poverty oriented. We both have enough to eat and drink at home. He even has more foods and drinks stocked his store and fridge than mine.. By God's grace, food and drinks will not be our problem, amen.
RomanceRe: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by victorian(f): 7:02pm On Jul 18, 2018
Pusyiter:
Cool Dear....I go holler you unto later tinz
Ok dear.
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend For Wanting To Fry Four Eggs For Herself (Pic) by victorian(f): 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2018
ADEMOLA144:
and then when you are 300 pounds in weight and no man wants you you will say its ya village pipo doing you.
Sorry to burst your expectations... Lol

I don't weigh 300pounds.. I weigh 90pounds.

And my man loves me to pieces.. He doesn't joke with me at all.. So don't worry, my village people is not worrying me.. They are living their lives and am living mine.
Am perfectly OK with my love life .
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Keep Going Back To Guys That Beat Them? by victorian(f): 2:21pm On Jul 18, 2018
dangoteinlaw:
If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that
Uncle, not all ladies.

My man dares not raise his hands on me. He's Romantic, humble and calm. Exactly the way I love it. We both respect ourselves. His kindness and compassion keeps me rooted with him.
And I don't want to change him to anyone different.

So not all ladies.
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend For Wanting To Fry Four Eggs For Herself (Pic) by victorian(f): 12:47pm On Jul 18, 2018
Babyforever:
Darling you're so sweet we on the same page kiss
grin
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend For Wanting To Fry Four Eggs For Herself (Pic) by victorian(f): 8:11pm On Jul 17, 2018
The guy sef.
One time, I travelled to spend sometime with my elder step bro. His wife served food with two cube size meat.. I was like jeez! And he claims to be a big Boi o, I just shook my head.. I ate it but the next day I promised my self, when am back to my house, I will buy enough chicken and turkey , cook, fry and eat well with spices . Which I did after I spent one week there. And with enough drinks.. You can only drink one bottle of coke for two days. I felt so irritated.. I couldn't wait to leave. I didn't complain.. I was patient, after one week, I tookfirst bus home, got home and prepared what I love, and bought enough drinks. I can't suffer myself jare
Some. People are so mean with food, I wonder. If it were me the guy, reduced the 4eggs, I will stop, what am doing. Dress up and go buy more eggs for myself, come back, fry well eat, then tell him an emergency came up, I need to go Home.. Sorryy dear .. That's it. I don waka.
RomanceRe: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by victorian(f): 6:13pm On Jul 17, 2018
Pusyiter:
Kisses darl......you nailed it
kissthanks dear..

How are u? How's your day? smiley
RomanceRe: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by victorian(f): 12:28pm On Jul 17, 2018
Well Op, just know he will keep cheating on you with whom he's banging raw with. He's not even using condoms, cos he's enjoying the pussyyy so well.
And pray the lady does not get pregnant in the early years of your marriage to him. Cause at times, postinor fails.
You've used your own hand to open the door of extra marital affairs, all by yourself.
So choose, either breakup with him or accept him like that, cos he won't change after marriage.
Your case reminds me of Toke. In this life, u can't eat your cake and have it back.
CelebritiesRe: Omoni Oboli: Is It Too Late To Be A Model At 40? by victorian(f): 11:33am On Jul 17, 2018
It shows sign of good living.
Even at age 45, if one takes care of herself, both body and mind. The lady will always look pretty, fresh and younger, like she's in her early 30s.
Lovely gown.
CrimeRe: Cynthia Dike: Lady Raped And Killed In Imo, Nude Body Dumped In A Bush (Graphic) by victorian(f): 7:19am On Jul 16, 2018
cococandy:
May your wisdom be enough that nothing ever happens to you since you’re wiser than everyone who’s ever had bad luck.

Obviously God loves you more than he loves those who have passed on. You’re also more decent than her. She must have been showing herself off and dressing immodestly to attract the evil men. (this is someone you don’t even know). May God have mercy on you. A woman speaking like this about another unfortunate woman. Smh

If only you know how disgustingly self righteous you sound, you will keep quiet.
So I sound self righteous, Shey? Eeyah
Well u were the one pushing it, so I had to give you my concrete reasons why mine is different from hers. We all have different destinies and we are all going to die different ways and at different times. Am not her, I am me Victorian. The way u are going to die when the time comes will be different from the way I will die during my own time. So quit this your drama abeg. It's unnecessary. It has happened, just wish her rest in peace and let her rest in peace. No need to be dramatic and keep dragging it.

People should just learn to be careful and protective with themselves. This is Nigeria, not abroad. The earlier u realise it, the better.

This is Monday, work starts again today. Let's focus on the work of today and quit complaining about the dead. Anyways am done with this back and forth arguments with u, duty calls. Typical of some nairalanders, one must accept their theory byforce , forgetting this is a public forum where different views and thoughts are aired freely. It's your duty to read and move on. Not enforce your reasoning on someone cause in your mind somewhere u feel, u are right.. Well to me, you are just unnecessarily emotional without thinking straight on what surrounds her death.
Do have a great day, am out of this death thread. Bye.
RomanceRe: Lady Is In Dilemma After Her Boyfriend Requests N200K From Her First Salary by victorian(f): 10:55pm On Jul 15, 2018
Just give him everything, shebi you love him.

Ode!

your parents who laboured and trained u from birth till u graduated and got this job, haven't heard a word from u. Na bf u quickly confide in.

Please give him all, to prove u can stand by him thru thick and thin.
FamilyRe: Please Any Baby Stuff by victorian(f): 9:55pm On Jul 15, 2018
Jennifer89:
Madam rant it seems you haven't had dinner coz you sound so bitter. Anyways enjoy your night with your family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you o! Have heard.

Will u now rest?

Am happy, thank you.
FamilyRe: Please Any Baby Stuff by victorian(f): 9:27pm On Jul 15, 2018
Jennifer89:
This your rant is medicine after death .
The deed has already been done so if you have baby things give her she is not asking for money
.
Who is ranting?

Please don't disturb my mentions tonight. I and the Op have discussed and wrapped up what I was saying to her few days back. Today Sunday, u are here ranting up and down.
Please am not the cause of yur problems in this life.

Just carry your wahala dey go. I take God beg you.
On Sunday again? Do u think I have time to start trading Insults up and down. I don't have your time o.. And I didn't call your name.. Biko face your front. Pls! Lemme enjoy tonight with my family in peace.

What rubbish!
CrimeRe: Cynthia Dike: Lady Raped And Killed In Imo, Nude Body Dumped In A Bush (Graphic) by victorian(f): 8:16pm On Jul 15, 2018
MarieSucre:
What makes you think you cannot attacked by hoodlums who will break in as you sit in your house right now? Who says you cannot be attacked by hoodlums in broad daylight.

If I leave Niger state early in the morning by 5 and I arrive in Onitsha by 8pm. Are you saying that I should sleep in the park instead of going to my destination. Okay let's say I take your advice putting aside how uncomfortable it is to sleep in the park, who is to say that hoodlums cannot break into that park while I sleep at night and do the same thing? What of the park boys who sleep there? Who says they cannot conspire to do the same thing and dispose of the body before the shop opens in the morning?

Think uncle. There are evil people everywhere. Anything can go wrong any time. We just have to push for better security. One of my friend in Dubai say that they walk around at Night In Dubai, in fact it is touted as one if the safest cities for women. Those people don't have 2 heads.
My dear, this is not Dubai.. This is Nigeria. Where security, lives of humans are not regarded as anything. The earlier u realise it the better. In Nigeria, the security anyone wants to push for, will not even be listened to. No one cares in this country. Not a single soul cares, not even the government and if u are aware of such fact ? U will be conscious of your safety and time everywhere u go.

Remember no government in Nigeria will do anything about safety of Nigerians. Remember nobody.
CrimeRe: Cynthia Dike: Lady Raped And Killed In Imo, Nude Body Dumped In A Bush (Graphic) by victorian(f): 8:11pm On Jul 15, 2018
cococandy:
So you’re safe?

That’s what you think.

Anyway keep blaming yourself for the actions of men. Until you realize that you can also be kidnapped during the day. Then it will dawn on you that this has nothing to do with your actions but with the entitlement of men who believe they have a right to the female body as they wish.

Now they are blaming the time of day she came back. The next victim they will blame her dressing, the next one they will blame the kind of work she does and the next they will blame her parents if she’s a minor.

They will blame anything but the actual men who are making sure that women don’t feel safe in this world. And you will enable them by agreeing with their useless victim blame. Like you’re wiser than those who have fallen victim.
Am safe from the hands of evil or evil men because I have God's huge grace in my life, i know who I am in Christ Jesus. Am the apples of God eyes, u can choose to disbelieve, it doesn't change anything with my stance with God. If one serve God in truth and spirit, nothing bad will befall the person . that's one belief I have and it's been working with me from Birth till date.

Secondly, I have common sense to know night crawling or travelling at night is not for me. Cause danger lurk out there in the dark. And one can easily be kidnapped in the dark, than broad daylight. If one is kidnapped during broad daylight ? It means the person has scores to settle with someone or with some people.


And thirdly am not a show off to attract thieves , kidnappers or rapist. I dress modestly, I don't behave am better than the other person everywhere I go. And lastly my looks and the spirituality in me repel such evil men.. Which am so grateful also to God.. Honestly u don't know how grateful I am.

Now back to the topic, what stops her from waiting till morning before travelling back home? What's the hurry for? Someone with common sense suppose know late night movement is completely bad! It's completely bad. She placed her life in chance. Next time she's come back to life in another form, if it's a woman again. She will be careful walking at night.


You feel so entitled men shouldn't harm women, even if they dress half naked or walk at night. I agree but unfortunately, we are in a world, where evil exist in full glare, whether we want to acknowledge it or not. There is pure evil out there waiting for whom to devour. And the only way u can be safe is through God and Pure Wisdom, nothing more. I can go on and on but lemme stop here.

Once again may her soul. Rest in peace.
CelebritiesRe: David Nnaji: "I Had A Baby With Another Woman But My Marriage Is Intact" by victorian(f): 2:33pm On Jul 15, 2018
LEOSIRSIR:
The pain of marrying the wrong person is worse than your fear of not getting married Before 30. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Am telling you. It's better to be single in one's 30s to marry such a stupid guy.
See humiliation. Smhhhh
CrimeRe: Cynthia Dike: Lady Raped And Killed In Imo, Nude Body Dumped In A Bush (Graphic) by victorian(f): 1:42pm On Jul 15, 2018
lefulefu:
wise choice. Many ladies don become customers for night waka most times because of night vigil. Some 12 oclock,1 oclock for night dem still dey waka.nigerian streets at night is highly dangerious.even for a man wey dey physically strong risk till dey..not to mention a woman.
My dear, I don't joke with my safety at all. Am allergic to going out at night. One day, I was so busy at work, I didnt know time was already 6:30pm.. Come and see me, closing up my office and doors, hurriedly and driving on the express like a bat out of hell. People were screaming at me as I drove furiously back home.. Mehn. Night must not catch me out side.. I got home 7 on the dot. I heaved a sigh of relief as I got to my compound cheesy and do sign of cross whispering thank you Lord.
Mehn, Am very careful and conscious of time. And the times we are in, is so unsafe..very unsafe.. Even for a man too, like you rightly said.

Hmm.
CelebritiesRe: David Nnaji: "I Had A Baby With Another Woman But My Marriage Is Intact" by victorian(f): 1:39pm On Jul 15, 2018
The wife will be regretting why she married him in the first place..

He's an asshole!

What rubbish! Last last she will still divorce when shes had enough of his humiliation.. If he can say this in public with no sense at all.. Only God knows what shes going through at home.

Na wa o!
God may we not marry other people's spouses and call them , ours in Jesus name. Amen
CrimeRe: Cynthia Dike: Lady Raped And Killed In Imo, Nude Body Dumped In A Bush (Graphic) by victorian(f): 1:32pm On Jul 15, 2018
Rest in peace young lady


It's so unfortunate..

What a gruesome way to die. Who did she offend?

Well for me? 6pm, latest 7pm am already indoors..I always calculate time and hours on the road. Nothing can ever drag me out in the night except maybe health emergency by driving down to hospital. Apart from that? Count me out.

Na wa tongue
FamilyRe: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by victorian(f): 8:57pm On Jul 14, 2018
Eketem:
I am confused as to why you are begging him.

You both got paid from a business
He used his own share for his parents, you used your own to build a house now he got angry and decided to kick you out of your own house, you told him it wasn't possible.

He gets angry and moves out
Let him stay out, he is a wicked man that would have been happy to see you out on the streets with your kids begging him up and down.

I don't understand why you are now begging him.

I don't know why Nigerian women are so desperate to keep wicked men
Honestly I wonder at the Op.

God has jejely removed him off her neck. He's more or less a thorn in the flesh. How wicked can a man be? He has the mind to even utter throwing his wife and kids out on the street and she's thinking of begging him and even changing the name of her property to his name..

Some women are so dumb.. I just don't understand.
RomanceRe: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by victorian(f): 6:52pm On Jul 14, 2018
1234IKECHhukwu:
U wish. who told u they re lonely & miserable, I want to let u know that re not ready to give up their wealth for any woman dead or alive, don't worry I know what is going in ur mind u wish u identified with them when they were still struggling so as to fill the vacuum that is why u think they re lonely,let me tell u what u don't know about these guys,they re always thinking of the money move they 'll make so as to add to the millions they re already swimming in.that is why u always think in their time of solitude that re miserable.
Sorry to burst your bubble, with all sense of humility : Am self made , I own two companies ( a group of companies and another pet company I opened years back) , I own cars and few properties here and there all by God's favour and grace , I won't mention the cities, then lastly am in loving stable relationship with a grounded and matured man who knows the value of a good woman in his life.. He's also comfortable as well with a heart of gold.
So guy! Don't get it twisted, nothing on earth will make me date any of those emotionally empty comfortable guys on nairaland. I don't need any of them or whatever millions they think they have.
God forbid our path even cross. Our paths will never cross, and so shall it be! So don't even go there.
RomanceRe: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by victorian(f): 7:43am On Jul 14, 2018
safarigirl:
Recently, George Clooney rewarded his friends with a million dollars.

Why did he reward them? Were they doing him a favour being his friends even before he became a big star?

Anyone who stuck to you in your trying times deserves to be rewarded. If you have ever had a period in your life when you were down and you needed someone and the whole world abandoned you, leaving you with just one person who stuck by you, none of you would come here to make such ignorant statement about why men reward the women who stick by them

Do you know their story? Do you know if these women helped them financially? Do you know how many of these men may have been close to suicide and the woman was the only reason they didn't off themselves? People who kill themselves, you think they would have done that if someone listened to them when they were down and gave them hope?

None of you has obviously been down and out, at that point in life that you become a caricature to everyone, including supposed friends and family, because if you have been there, walahi, if you can, you go even buy Banana Island house for the person that held your hand when you were slipping into darkness.

If you know how many girls feed guys in school, you will not come here and ask a question as silly as "Did she do him a favour?" Yes! She fed him when he had no food, she gave him words of encouragement when he had no hope, she stood by him when he had no support. She took insults from friends and colleagues because she was the 'stupid' girl who was following the broke boy

What is a car compared to years of sacrifice and insult? What is the worth of a car? Do you think a car is even enough to repay someone for being the reason why you were even alive to get these riches?


Like I said, let me attribute this talk to common Ignorance. When you are broke and hopeless and only one person has your back, you will understand the men you think are senseless
God bless you kiss

Don't mind the senseless guys in this forum talking trash about not appreciating the woman who stood by them. Last last with all their money on the long run, they will still be lonely and miserable. I know quite a number of well to do guys who live empty life's. Very empty I tell you. No woman to call their own.. I just pity such men these days.
FamilyRe: Please Any Baby Stuff by victorian(f): 11:58am On Jul 13, 2018
Duchaello:
I was on a ppp (combination 3) but at a time I fell sick and I had to stop it due to it's side effect (nagging headache) infact I never knew that I was pregnant not until when it's past the first trimester. I've really been very careful but.......
Eeyah, and I know the combination 3, that's what I use too. But no headaches on my case sha.
Hmmmm it's well, I wish am bouyant ..
I don't have kids and am not even ready for a kid sef. If not I would have sent you some baby things sad.. Or even money .
God will see you through and bring helpers your way in Jesus name Amen. Keep faith, you are not alone.
FamilyRe: Please Any Baby Stuff by victorian(f): 9:59am On Jul 13, 2018
Sighs I know this is not the time to castigate you but at the end why did u get pregnant knowing fully well, u nor the man who impregnated you cannot afford to take care of a baby? undecided
I know there are times, one get carried away in heated passion but there are still birth control pills u are suppose to have at your disposal, they are not expensive,at most 200naira for a pack.

Now see? U can't even afford ante natal.. How will u then pay the hospital bill after labour? What will u feed your child with? At this time and age, one is still making mistakes about pregnancy? Na wa o.


I pray the right Samaritan will contact u on-time . You've just placed yourself in a deep mess. What a pity.
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 7:31am On Jul 13, 2018
lilyheaven:
I think you should stop replying, they will soon annoy you
Hahahahahahahahaha cheesy

You are right. I was just wondering.. Lol.
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 12:06am On Jul 13, 2018
akeentech:
Since you are not married yet, your claim is baseless
Whether am married or not is none of your concern.
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 12:05am On Jul 13, 2018
akeentech:
maybe that's the reason he cheated on you
Who cheated on me?

I can't remember whom U are talking about? Please remind me, who did. Am not so good remembering the past
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 9:49pm On Jul 12, 2018
akeentech:
"His other women competing with me, at that time, are so worked up now, shocked ,and defeated that he could trace his love back to me." That's a quote from your other post.
Post of which year?
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 9:48pm On Jul 12, 2018
akeentech:
Lalasticlala needs to see it, but let me ask you, are you guys married now?
Am not a fan of are u married now? Are u not married now? When are u getting married? So sorry am not clarifying that question for u.
Am in a union which is already some years down the lane, and we are still waxing stronger.. that's all, that matters.
RomanceRe: This Is Enough Reason For Me To Cheat (pics) by victorian(f): 9:25pm On Jul 12, 2018
akeentech:
Lalasticlala have you seen this?
What has he got to do with my story.?
RomanceRe: Photos Of Beautiful Curvy Nurse Drives Social Media Users Crazy by victorian(f): 9:23pm On Jul 12, 2018
Uglymugg:
This kind of sexy can't stay with one man alone. So if you value your sanity, don't wife this kind babes.
That's where u are wrong , men wife such ladies.

I have two friends with such shape. The first booty , is a bit bigger and she's a Muslim, she only shows off her hips whenever her husband travels. But just for the fun of it, she doesn't cheat, even when men drool when we hang out together. While the second gf of mine has a pretty face with big eye balls, Muslim as well. And their husbands is at peace with them. No fight, no quarrel..
So don't generalise biko

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