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It's not easy to move on just like that...after going though the whole of affair of getting married .. Trust me, it's not that easy.. A male colleague of mine , says divorce changes people and takes a long time to heal , then remarry again... Let her talk away her regrets and hurts.. It's the first process in becoming sane , one more time.. May The Lord give them , the grace and wisdom to find true happiness..

What I really enjoy most is the s3x and exploring. We have it without guilt. Then , the respect and carriage and calling of madam, Aunty has always been there since I started working.. So no, change there for nw.. Then, yeah to have someone to talk 2, and who knows me , so well.. No lonely moments.. It's interesting being married.

jeffizy: lol. Babe will be a big time playa as a man. That's interesting.

possibly.. It's just a question, nah?
But wait o, lemme even be a bad playa sef! .. Haba, Baba God just one opportunity, and one time

As a lady, am extremely pretty and sexy, guys are tripping, ... Anywhere I step in, or even walk on the streets, guys must stare, and sigh...it's in the genes

If I were a man, I will grow up to be so handsome , famous and rich, that all babes .... i mean All The Pretty babes will be tripping for me .... Even gushing with love and admiration, just to be with moi!..lol.... ... But I will date one at a time.

The parents are meant to also give a leverage of growing a business, if he is business minded or give him connections in getting a job, cos in Nija,who knows who gets the job.. An apartment is ok, but with what av mentioned above.. When I was done from schl. My mum sat me down and asked what do u want to do now, uv completed yur Bsc. I told her biz.. She gave me an amount of money to kick start my dreams.. And i worked so hard, to sustain the bizness...Now, I can adequately get luxuries for myself,without blinking. Or going to meet any family member to help..... Mama, u too much... Love u a lot! u will always live forever in my heart and mind.

Symphony007: why won't you call jonathan because he is the security man at MMA. No one will mention mr eko oni baje, whoes state is now being overun with armned robbers. A state governour is responsible for security is his state, but why attack fashola? Jonathan is a jucier target!

Why won't they attack GEJ for everything... Smh.. Simply because Jonathan is not Yoruba.. While Fashola can do no wrong, irrespective of the fact that Lagos is not safe.

@ obowunmi, abi o! .... But he won't listen... And the wife looks unhappy ... While my brother looks bubbly, with his gfs..... .... Av never seen her look happy and content,since they got married and its going to 15yrs nw... Thinking don finish the woman, but she is holding it together.. I bet in her second life, she won't try such with any guy.

He didn't have to marry her, but she insisted on marriage or else, she won't allow him or my parents to rest... And our dad is old, he doesn't like this baby mama issue.. My dad is an old fashioned parent,, that any of his sons must marry any girl, any of them impregnats, at least he should be responsible to marry her, if he was dumb enough , not to use protection that fateful nite or even stay faithful and focused on his first love. And. She wanted marriage at all cost ..

Op, she caused her own misfortune. The only solution is to walk away. I bet she trapped him into marrying her by getting pregnant, when he least expected.. Possibly a one night or one day rendezvous , then viola! She comes up with being pregnant, and arguably forced him to marry, when he is either not ready for marriage, or had wanted to marry another lady.
With that kind of foundation to get married, some men will always despise her,and won't give a damn if she is happy or not..
It happend to my elder brother, he was in love with this cool pretty babe, until one day he went to a party , met this other babe, she was even the one that made the first move. As a guy, he played along.. She invited him to her place that night, they had s3x, next day he gave her a peck, thinking that was the last time, he will see her. He didn't contact her afterwards, she was always d one calling, until after 3 months.. She knocked on our door, requesting to meet with our dad and mum. She was sited quietly waiting, then my parents came down to see her.. She just quietly told our parents that she is pregnant for my brother. They were shocked, my dad and mum were disappointed at my brother, cos he has already brought his first girl that he wanted to marry. And now one older babe is claiming pregnancy? Good lord! ...5
To cut the story short, he argued that its was just one time o!.. My parents said, ok... Give birth to the baby, then we will go for paternity test. Lo and behold, she gave birth to a son that looked exactly like my brother.. Carbon copy ..... I no fit laugh! Everybody just accepted the lady, they got married, and he vowed, he will never be faithful to her , for forcing him into marriage. They got married but he travels, flirts like crazy.. He has a two big packs of condom in his other house, he built in another town, and the wife dares not come there, or else she is done for. . All I asked one day, all these yrs being married to this woman , u still cheat on her, for Godsake let go of the past... He says, he won't that she blocked him from marrying d woman he ever loved.. And he can't forget , but he has forgiven o... But no...
So, op... She has to choose either to remain unhappy for more yrs to come, or do wat her heart tells her.

My hussy.

Nothing will make me disrespect my husband.. Thank God, am buoyant .. He takes care of me , when he is bouyant with cash, why would i want to resent him, if things go wrong moneywise.... nah, God forbid, money is not forth coming from my hussy , there's nothing wrong in assisting our family, financially and spiritually until he bounces back.. It will break my heart to even raise my voice on him... I can't even try it... My mind will not rest at all!... It's wrong!.... Except if he is a serial cheat... I can't stand cheaters...I guess that's the only reason to disrespect him ...but I can't sha.

The bride is so so beautiful.... ... Happy married life...lovely.

I remember, way back in school... I was in my first year... I was Inlove with one of my lecturers, tall, fine good looking guy...he doesn't have any girl's time.. Always smooth talking and serious... I would stare at him for hours, not listening to his teachings o, but how to kiss him ... I was so smitten, by his carraige ... Couldn't even concentrate ... I complained to my best friend in school, then. She just mocked me and says she will tell him ... I shrugged, knowing she wouldn't even go close to him, talkless of tell him, wat?... Abegi...
I had to condition my mind for months to get over him... Until one dashing guy in the Arts department came along to woo me and d rest is history..... But he no easy o...

ifihearam: Are u better of ni?

Am in my best relationship , right now.. He hardly abuse me , nor lift his fingers to my face or body...my second half respects me so much!.....thank God for being choosy .. He is my breath of fresh air..

Cause such women feel inferior and believe that no other man can be good to them... So why not manage and bear the ones, they are in..too bad for such women.

I wish he will listen too .... Cause life situations r very strange and dicey.

Young salute, I later told him thru phone, that he is cursed , and he better go for serious deliverance, he says its lie, then was crying on the phone that how can i say such? i told him, look its true o...that tears will not solve this issue, that come to think of it... Has not called himself to order and ask why did his wife run mad? And any biz he tries his hands on, always fail, and now he is hiding in the cloak of a Pastor...that he should go for deliverance o!... He said his wife madness is from her people... And he has returned her back to her family... A sane pretty woman , u married few yrs back became raving mad in the your own house! U r saying, it's from her family?... Well, if u like listen, u like don't listen.
The last I heard of him, after a year was that he had kidney failure, then liver failure followed suit... His only daughter ran up and down trying to look for money for hospital bills,but as fate wud have it... He died in d hospital. ... May his soul rest in peace.

He then left,immediately he left... I prayed, sanctified my office..and fasted for three days... Do u know, after one week...I say one week o... Clients started coming... I bounced back within one month! Rent I was owing 700k,I paid it within one month!... My account was coming up ... I had saving... Things came back to normal....till now, as we speak... I have no cause to regret my actions,of cutting off from that so called pastor,
Am buoyant since that fateful, I break off with him, till now.... So, op till true to the core! Some people carry bad luck with them... Big bad luck for that matter... So please, to get your life back... Withdraw completely from that babe!
A word is enough for the wise!

The voice, says pls listen... Tomorrow , call him and tell him it's over between u two.. I heaved a deep sigh and say ok, with a sad face.. The next day, I called him to come.. He came as usual with a wide smile... Then I told him, am sorry u can't see me or talk to me or come to my office anymore... Please this friendship is over ... He looked surprised and asked why? I said because since u came my biz is collapsing ... No more clients, which is unusual .. He shook his head and says, he will not leave me alone, that the devil is at work, here. ... I lookd at him with shock! Are u ok? I say, leave me alone! Get off my case! I don't want your friendship anymore, is it by force.! He still says Nope, he won't leave me... I then screamed pple come o, tell this man to leave me Oooo.... He asked y am I screaming like that? I said, if u don't leave now, I will scream r@pe!... For real! I was so mad at him...
I say leave me, I no want friendship, u r saying No! See ,me see trouble o!

Op , break off with the babe without remorse... Some people really have bad luck following them, they might not know , or might know.. From a personal experience, I met the man, age between 40 and 45 yrs of age at my office building thru a frnd. The man claimed to be a Pastor and he usually preaches to me during break hr. I love listening to his wise words and preaches, most afternoons, and then he then became my close friend, with no strings attached.. Just pure clean friendship...then after a month I noticed that clients coming to my company began to decrease, I was surprised but I shrugged it off.. Feeling that next month will be better... Next month, came... I didn't even see any client .. I became worried... I told him my Pastor friend about it, he says we should pray... The more he prayed with me, the more things became so tough around me... I began to deep fingers into my savings ... I didn't like it one bit....we continued praying, until 4 months down...no single client! I was broke!
First time, in history since I started my biz. And at that period, I was meant to renew my office rent... I keep on giving various excuses to my landlord. I felt so ashamed , that I can't even pay my office rent! I was so mad at myself, and I asked myself in wonder, for Godsakes, Lord where did I go wrong? I Thot you Lord, promised me that I won't suffer or beg, why am I going thru this hardship! ... I cried so much late at night, crying ..
Then a voice whispered to me, my dear uv not wronged me, but u r mixing with the wrong person... I wiped my tears and asks , who? I av very few friends, who could that be? The voice, a new frnd...a new person? And the only person I know , is new around me was the Pastor!
I shook my head, I said ... No, not true... Can't be! For christsakes, he is a man of God...it cannot be!

Such is life .. Everyone has a story, that could make u stronger or break u ...marriage comes when u least expect..love and appreciate yourself more. Life is too short for regrets...it's well.

My Rock, my Hero.... Love you mum till the end of time.

ypzilanti: Does she not look prettier in the yellow dress? Sometimes these celebrity's issue is that they are not surrounded by people who will tell them the truth. Too many 'yes men'.

In real life, nobody tells you the truth... U just have to find out through experience...it's only a minute number of close frnds or family, that will tell u, as it is...the bosom showing dress is a no no..

No hate here, but this is purely Eze Goes To School!..... .....oh blimey! hahahaha

victorazy: Pot is advising Kettle to be clean .

U try, with your pots and kettles... I know my stuff, and where I started from...
Am more like an angel.

True words, ammyluv...... Fact!

Yoruba_Omoge: I don't like the make ups. Every woman present looks better than the bride.

U can say that again... Annie's face is chalk white ...na wa and d blouse trashy.... Too over exposed... She could have taken a cue from Kate....

She try.... But start with the actresses first, that can do anything for money.

lindaflorence: HOW SURE ARE U GUYS,ITS BEST U STOP CARRYING FAKE NEWS PLS

Ask the Op where he got his news from!

@ op , if its from family member then call her to confirm, abi?.. Must u ask faceless strangers about specific details of your own family member?..
Ask Annie... Simple!