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Oops! Time up..! Av removed it ... My identity should not be revealed.....ciao.

ooseven: All these Nairaland small small girls... post picture, fear no go let una post, but when una see another woman una go use mouth destroy her.

If any of una hair fine pass this one, POST IT HERE!!!

You dare me abi?... Ok wait lemme post mine...

steve_cantrell: Don't forget Khloe's DAD

Lol.... That's not khloe or Kim or even kourtney's dad... That's OJ Simpson, the guy who was tried for murdering his wife...and his lawyer defending his case is khloe's dad...not this black man. Pls get facts straight before posting..thanks.

Please where at Obanikoro?

Les: i wont speak for everybody, but right from time, MANY men never marry for love. If so, a man wouldn't take a second wife for any reason even if d first wife is barren or didn't have a son after ol, some men who love their wife stay wit them despite no issue, A man will never beat d wife for any reason, a man will never divorce d wife if he truly loves her. Look at wat is happening to marriages this days and tell me if LOVE is anywhere close to it?? N.B. Some ppl dont even believe in love- be it man or woman but it's rampant in we guys

Why then, will divorce not become rampant... When most people marry for the WRONG reasons.. And most men, as times goes by, the wives realize there's no iota of love there .... ...just pretense and deceits... No wonder, trust no longer holds grounds in most marriages...the only binding issue between them is se3x and their kids...later when d se3x starts to wane, infidelity crops in, all man for himself .... What a horrible trend...
Keep it up!.... Smhhhh

biolabee: Ahh ahh Ahhh

is it that serious? Abeg take am easy o ....lol

sobastical: Shameful thought, doesn't sound like a good professional with good business insight and a quality foresight, what if Psquare betray Him

Psquare will not betray Jude... They are blood brothers and they know , what it means to stay bonded and united especially when growing an empire.. Am not Igbo o, but av noticed that igbo brothers stick to each other , come rain , come shine... Ego, greed, nor women do not tear them apart.
And Jude is right but shouldn't have said it... No one asked him.

The Hair? Nope!.... Looks like a basket surrounded with weeds... Sorry that's how I see it

biolabee:

Do you have any tales to regale us with

See ears stand at attention.. ... I don't have tales by moonlight stories on this issue o . Make Una no put me for trouble..
But av heard of men inheriting their late brother's wife or father's wife in some cultures.... No specific Tory.

Kamanda: Hi! My name is Lola.
I used my friend to set up my boyfriend to see if he'll cheat on me.

Now they've sent me a wedding IV.
What am I?

A BIG FUVL! ......ODE

It's not wise... It's not advisable, even though its done discreetly within some families... It's totally wrong! And could lead to insatiable wants!...She should go out there and av a relationship with a widower, that will keep her warm.

kenny1795: Dx guy has got no respect 4 dx lady... Treatin like a piece of shit

True ....now I know, she is dumb....shakes head.

Op trust me, just ignore those warning signs of feelings... It's all in the head.. If u eventually lure him into hugs, then a kiss, which eventually cud lead to se3x . I bet u, the reading sessions will end and it's either u guyz end up aving se3x frequently or he avoids u.. Especially if he doesn't wish to be lured out of serving God, because of inner desires... Yes, he likes you but don't go there oooooo. Just clear those thots from yur mind and focus on your studies.. A word is enough for the wise.
When the right time comes , everything will fall in place naturally.

Majority of people are ungrateful, it's in both male and female.. Just help without looking for reward In return...that's the way, I do mine.

9lifes: Naija men are saints and angels..they are talking as if they don't have mothers and sisters.So much bitterness in this thread,and they will still end up with Naija babes,even the ones living outside naija.

I dont mind if a woman wants to marry me because of my wealth,but she must definitely meet my own expectations..who wants to marry a liability anyways.

If she is nice they expect her to put up with cheating,if she is a virgin,she is not experience enof to satisfy me in bed-he now has a concrete reason to cheat.If she cheats all hell breaks loose because she is a woman..for men it is normal.If you marry a poor man you were desperate because of age,and If you marry a rich guy you were desperate because of his wealth,all this wahala na for woman wey from Nigeria-and the useless list goes on and on.

Guys please,this generalization is dangerous,whether we admit or not it's affecting our psych and the way we see naija women,and with this behavior even when you see an angel you may never recognized her-in most cases these complainers almost always end up with the wrong women.

If you want a perfect partner make sure you are one,and if you are one and you were cheated on, move on and stop being bitter-men cheat,women cheat,its a normal thing.the economy is bad,it is a NATURAL THING to look for the best option or partner,its written all over nature,nobody wants to marry someone with no prospect,sorry its painful,but failure has no friend,that's the bitter truth,naija men learn to live with that,its natural.

GOD BLESS YOU...... What have noticed in this thread, simply shows the men saying all these bad words, are :
Bitter about their own single status, cause they can't afford to take care of themselves , talkless of a home and are already clocking 35!
They are Frustrated, so they heap blame onto the women.
Extremely envious cause Women are doing well in their chosen fields of career
The lists goes on..
Bicker for all we care... God is the author of our destiny... No man, I mean no man, no matter how bitter and lazy he is, can stop women from 30+ in getting married.. Right now, am in a church cathedral in attendance to , a big wedding of one of my female frnds, age 35, getting married to a 38yrs successful guy, who resides abroad but came home to marry.. Haters Eat Yur heart out!

Guys pouring their hearts out... But come to think of it,how many men are marriageable, I mean in quote independent, caring, hardworking ( with real jobs o!... Not 419 , or yahoo or Ritualists or human parts dealers or even cultists....) then loyal.. But some expect girls , to go an extra mile on cosmetic surgeries , when we all know the dangers involved if not done adequately in a very good hospital. Do you know how much it will cost to travel abroad, air tickets, surgical bills to get the procedures done.. No be by mouth o... It involves huge money! So many girls have died thru cutting corners in looking extra bootylicious or big breasted.
Then some talk about cereals, to slim down? It's a good idea, but fresh fruits, vegetables and other foods that are less in calories, costs more than Garri and fufu.. High calories foods are affordable to buy in Nija, when her salary every month has already gallop Tfare, taking care of parents, siblings, clothings and feeding.
So when guys r saying that women av over inflated desires, that's why some r still single till 30yrs, I just shake my head.. A female frnd of mine has been dating her firstlovefor the past 15yrs, he was d one who disvirgined her, but at the end what did the bad luck guy do... He travelled abroad without telling her, leaving stranded here to the age of 33yrs old.. But thank God, our God never sleeps. She met another guy, who is like 36yrs...told him , her story with tears dripping from her eyes.. Well, They courted for 7months...then the guy proposed and married her, last two yrs ago. Now they have two baby boys.
They r happy and content. So all blames cannot be placed on the women... Like the saying goes,the heart of man is very wicked!...
Single ladies above 30s, don't worry ... Your own husband will locate you and no one can stop your proposed wedding dates.. Just be patient...don't be pressured .

I will be humbly remembered for Empowering millions of people with my God given talents.....Thank you Lord, so grateful for the privilege..

At least she got the Ring!.....what's there, not to be happy about? ... Which is the most important.... Everythingelse and everyonelse can go to blazes ... So she says

E easy?..... No be Maimai..lol.

It's true and confirmed.. Tools is carrying DonJazzy baby.... Hopefully they should tie the knot... Congrats Don Jazzy again!

dmitroika: i can't beleive Nigerian would be saying stuff about omotola's show like dis, peepz are haters!

The truth be told... No hating here o... The show is fake, empty and baseless... Nothing real there... She should think of something creative and educative to showcase.

Empty show...when I watchd the first show, I didn't imagined it will be fake and empty.. I was like? As it progresses, something real will pop up but unfortunately I just wasted my time watching it. That's the last time, I intend to watch omotola show... It shouldn't be labelled The Real me.... Wrong Title... Empty show.

This guy looks unstable mentally, his eyes have this wierd glass look.. I wonder y she couldn't see it... ...

i remember when , I was in school there was this guy who wanted to start a relationship with me, so I invited him home, so my brother could assess him.... Although I suspected the young chap has anger issues due to few arguments , we do have on trivial issues, but I didn't take it serious. So the day, he came to my house, he was already angry that he missed his way as he was trying to get d right bus here. So when he finally got to the gate, he thot I would be the one to open the gate for him , but alas he saw a guy who looks like me opening d gate....d anger he meant to unleash on me,if I were d one opening d gate for him was then noticed by my brother.. My frnd then, quickly changed his angry look to a calm look in a split second. But unfortunately for him, my bro has seen d anger in his eyes already in a flash. He introduced himself as my bro, walked him in ..
Immediately my bro came to my room to tell me, my frnd is here ... He also added that he keep an eye on us. I asked why? With surprise..he then explained what he saw few mins ago while opening d gate for the guy . I sighed and mumbled he has shown his angry behavior again! My brother just said two words, shine your eyes or else one day , that guy will beat u up, without remorse, and that! I will not take, or else I will kill him.. I sighed and said ok, no probs I will handle it..
I went to d living room, when my frnd saw me, d angry look came bk again, but he controlled it.. We just talked for a while, I saw him out..then few days later..I told him, it's over..I can't be his gf, due to his anger issues...pleaded but no going back..
I sure felt at peace with d decision afterwards.
My point is don't hide your friends from family

But the car Behind, sha... No matter the bad mouth... He try.. Whether he says 42k pounds or 1million pounds, na today?... A lot of pple tend over raise what they spend on things..not only basket mouth...even the regular guy or babe will still do the same thing... So abeg, free the guy jor.

What a tragic loss....RIP, lady .... But honestly if someone snatches my bag or phone.. I won't run.. First, I will be shocked, rooted on the spot, then placed my hand on my forehead, trying to calm the sharp pain that will register in my brain... Then say,oh Lord... But why? ....I will be so confused for several minutes, until possibly he has ran out of oblivion or see him ,hit by a car..and oh wat a relief!... No reflex action will make me run after the thief.. Cos I wasn't expecting to be mugged... God deliver us from the evil pple..

RIP lady

Op, ok.... Noted.. .... Some of the rules , I can abide to, but not all... Haba, person na robot?

Trust is gone...God help me , if I won't detest him... I can't even imagine it....and if he turns out to be a serial cheats, which I reject in IJN... It's over between us..cause I can't risk having HIV, not for anyone... Abeg it won't happen in my marriage, amen.

Be very prayerful and believe that no ghost or evil spirit can touch u, as long as u believe in Christ Jesus. There is nothing medical about it. It's purely spiritual..be fervent in prayers.

If I were a guy...NO..
But we can be friends only.

Buy air condition ( window unit) 1hp...in yur apartment, as heat is the issue there... Then use the rest money to buy the half plot of land, and start the process of building.

If nairaland is not the right place to tell your story of how much you need help? Then nld shouldn't be the right place to ask for financial help... U can't expect people to just trust anybody that comes online and scream help.. It doesn't work like that, even if you meet up with a close frnd or family member or even chruch memeber or Pastor ....they will still ask you, what happend? Anyone that works hard for his or her money, won't give out large sums of money, cos u want it..
Nobody wants to be played for a fool.. So it's better to keep your story and your demands to yourself.
May The Lord see you through.