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pinky21: Ee talk ee mind. So y some of u dey beef am nw. Some like dem slim,som like dem fat,some like dem chubby,some like dem ugly,som like dem pwetty. Beauty is in d eyes of d beholder.

I wonder, all this hate, because he prefers, Orobo to bad ...yeahhhh, big shapely babes are always ontop , winning....

drnoel: Yawns, when we ask men to get involved with women that would help them progress they won't listen but would prefer women that Bleep their brains away who have no home training

One of the número UNO way to a man's heart and he will eat out of your palms .... Just joking o , but could be true

Efemena_xy: @Poster, you might want to change the title of this thread to: "12 Ways To Have A Happy, Healthy, Christian Marriage"...as this write up of yours is geared towards Christians.

So what about the non-Christians, Atheists, etc?

What words of advice have you got for them?

Simple: DO UNTO YOUR PARTNER, AS U WANT YUR PARTNER TO DO UNTO YOU, invariably both partners should av conscience.

People blaming the mistress only are just avoiding the truth of the whole situation... Or possibly being ignorant.. I use to ask married men that use to woo me in the past that how can u live with yourselves cheating on your wives..? . And do u think, am a robot, that will switch off and on my emotions at your will?... For christsakes, keep to vow, being made in church, court and possibly trad... It goes for both parties.

The pic looks like he's been arrested for questioning... .

Some men will still not learn... If I were a devilish woman, I know how many homes I could have ruined, due to some married men insatiable lust and ojukokoro for women pvssy... The woman is so evil ... And the father.....typical. ... May the Lord give the woman the fortitude to bear this huge loss.. .... Be careful whom you end up marrying... It could cost you, a whole lot of trauma and pain.

kpolli: Bitter truth, ur husband wants to cheat on u

Exactly... But pray more to protect him from the wiles of desperadoes, and be more loving and caring... And Don't talk abt it again...

And you, Jidegirl.... Gosh... Yur so frustrated... Only you and God knows why... .... Whether u like my view or not, I will say it...small fries like you, ain't stopping me... U feel, u have mouth , abi?...smhh...your own story is for another day? With your empty and crayfish words... ... Fish brain is even enlightened than this one.... Ohhhhh, why am I wasting my bandwidth on tis jidegirl again!... Am off to prepare lunch... No time for yur stupid, brainless bickering....duh...!

Woged2005: Well this is another perspective to the issue, somehow a useful insight. It also shows that environment & orientation go a long way to shape one's life. Nigerian men must be blamed for whatever naija girls have become! Back in schl I was a poor girl, but I had pride. To be honest with you all, i was traumatized when men & 'sugar daddies' showered their 'campus girls', with expensive gifts, BB phones, laptops, cameras, dresses, sometime cash gifts of N50k, N100k, N250k, and my own boyfriend was a poor school boy like me. I almost joined the rest but thank God for His grace...Nigerian men are called 'Keziahs' (free givers) on campus...they sabi give, they sabi boast to impress even when the girl did not ask. Majority of our girls back home have this hard-wired in their brains that a 'good boyfriend' is equal to a 'Cheerful giver'. The part they don't get is how these 'gifts' sell their respect to men, when we call same men abusers, womanizers who don't respect women etc. Moreover, most of the sugar daddies in Nigeria did not work hard for the money they give out..politicians steal from govt, while abroad,people toil for what they have and can't part with it freely.

We can't blaim my friend totally. She is a product of Nigerian environment, where men use money to impress girls. I think she just hit a rock.. ! She forgot she's now in US and not Nigeria. But honestly the begging culture of some of our naija sistas taya me too o! even when they're working, they still beg for alms.

AM NOT IN US O.....! AM STILL IN NAIJA.
And guess what? Am happy so happy, my husband can still fulfil his responsibilities financially, without me, begging... Like most girls like you do... ... I will say he simply knows my worth.

k2039: She is fortunate to be with me. She was sensible enough to say yes.

Oh lord...rolls eyes here... She should be the one saying it , not you.

am fortunate.. Very fortunate having my kind of man with me... Love him to bits.

Op, how about may your daughters be treated the same way, u have treated girls in the past and recent.. Say amen nah?
And amen too.

nope.... Pretty girls don't have a thick skin for mind games, especially..comprehendo?

6Packs , abi alligator packs.. ....I must be sexy....ladies where art thou?

Lol.... U dey vex .... Abeg go hug transformer..smh...shift jor!..

Am not talking again... Make una leave me hand... I don't have energy talking or typing for long...it's stressful for me....anyway u see, or believe in it , or accept it or wish it , to happen no wahala.... No hassles...make I relax with my tea, it's meditation time ... Someother time.

Ok.

And he sent that email, because he is frustrated sexually.... He needs sex, when he is supposedly dating? Haba, body no be wood.... Even though his gf thinks differently... That's y , they should split there date other pple who fits their tastes .

I never said blackberry is a necessity or Brazilian weave... I don't use neither of them, even when I can afford to buy them.. I see such things as total waste of money... Am saying girls that claim to be so independent, that don't ask for a dime on serious issues apart from hair, body cream or iPad... Should rethink or shouldnt fool any one... Cos they are not that independent.. Or will be grumbling inward.

Of course no be fight... I don't even have the time for such... Simply advise op, or read and move on.,. Simple.

@ jidegirl I don't owe you any answer or comment.. It's no use saying anything to you... Have replied the op question to the Op.... If u can't stand my answer... Why shud I care?...it's not yur post. ..taking Panadol for another person headache... The op has a right to choose my suggestions or ignore them... So please, advise the op instead of attacking my answer to the op... Abeg I don't have time for trivialities.

One thing u must understand is this, jidegirl ... With In laws and with families...if u want their support in any thing yur doing or if u want them to listen to you... U can never be tight fisted... Or else no one will be there for you, or even given u a listening hear.. It's life... U can't be stingy to your in laws and expect them to love u... All am saying , give them gifts, no matter how small.. That's why I listed variety of items she can choose from.. And I bet u , it's not everyday, a wife is chanced to visit inlaws... Why do son inlaws take a bottle of wine or gin to thier father inlaw house, anytime they drop by... It's simply courtesy and respect, not because the Fil has longer throat.
Well, if u like don't give after marriage, that's yur wahala ... Not mine.
Well, I don't see anything wrong in giving... My prayer is that God should bless me so well, to be able to touch people's life, without grumbling or my account going down...am giver, I don't see anything wrong in wat I said.

jidegirl12: ^^^^wait o ... are you insinuating yoruba MILs are long throat?

....^^^^ bolded .And OP should be ready to continue the rain of gifts after marriage even borrow sef to please dear MIL!......mistakes people make.

Hey God, please help some people to understand simple sentence when they read... I never said yoruba mil are long throats
. I never said the op should go and borrow or please her mil
I never said , the op should always give gifts to the mil.
Please, relax yur mind and read my reply again...Haba, na wa o

They should simply drop each other and move on with other partners that suits their tastes.. Some women here, saying they won't take a dime from a guy when dating and can live within their means? Possibly to an extent but I honestly doubt it... Why? Because there are times, nasty financial situations occur , that u didn't budget for, and you can't ask your parents , friends are giving excuses abt not having, so what will u do 2 solve the situation as an independent babe, that Won't in quote depend on yur guy for any money?..
My dear, u will still ask him for money.. Forget story, that I don't ask any guy am dating, I can take care of my own bills... All, na lie.... Fafafa fowl..!
And let's assume, u stick to your theory of not asking at all, till probability u guys get married... He is not going to help u when yur down, cause while u guys are dating, u can handle everything on yur side... So why change or ask me for money when we r married?.. The guy will be like , yur not serious .
That's one problem, some couples face at home.. They won't say it out but thats what they face, then to cover face, the wife will start having lovers to care for her needs finncially..
Guys here hailing enough Gbosas for babes saying such, thinking its the right thing to do from babes....No wahala, when situations starts unfolding in the house.... U will still be the same man that will come online, complaining my wife is cheating on me...
Men, u can't run away from your responsibility, no matter how independent the woman is...just my two cents,sha
My husband still gives me money for upkeep, even though I own a company... And we help each other, if anyone is down... Cos not everyday is Christmas..

Be respectful,, friendly, and accommodating.. Also when going to yur mil place, remember to take a gift along.. Especially lace material or Ankara or wristwatch, or gold chain on most visits... Or better still ask yur husband.. He knows his family wella.

I won't be surprised if a concubine is behind it....

Such a short life... May his soul rest in peace.

Gambrosia: The stupidity of others!

I can't help but laugh at this one

But seriously, my husband ..... He makes my heart skip anytime , he smiles and hugs me...and he has this boyish look , that makes me smile even thoug he is in late 30's..overall thots of him, makes me glow and happy..he is the best.

Percentage of ugly guys, caring in cash and emotions is higher than fine boi percentage..... Fine guys are so consumed with their looks, self centered and stingy, so when an ugly babe sees a fyne guy wooing her, she go bow nah, and do anything to be with him, even take care of him... But with fyne babes, no way...bobo must drop, no free meal... Cant u see am hot..!... I feel that's why.

Oh Mike , with his sweet looking face , am In love one more time.... Oh gush.... He is so cute , more than Ramsey..!

Take a break...

Minimum 3months.. It's a done deal

Yes, I can marry a muslim, as long as we understand ourselves.

deepwaters :
Life is indeed strange. So Khloe will now have two unmarried sisters with children while she, the one who's (respectfully)married hasn't been blessed with any yet... I hope her story will change soon

Such is life sometimes, we are just pencils in the hands of God...khloe that leads a straight and faithful life would be so down mentally by nw... E no easy..