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GreatResearcher:
Victorian is my bestie o

Na so! Bestie indeed .

GreatResearcher:
selling the properties is a red flag to me. Victorian is super religious. I can't deal with that.

I got this feeling the girl is not running away.
Maybe she needs some time alone. Because we have really stressed ourselves in qurrales.

Hello?

I'm not super religious . I'm a christian

I simply recognize God in my life and I worship God every day , and anywhere I am.

So don't get it twisted . I no carry church for head but I carry God in my soul and being .

I cannot forsake God because of u . I just can't . sorry

UnclePrincipal:
Madam, God has nothing to do in this situation. It can happen to anyone irrespective of beliefs. You christians see atheist that goes tru normal life hardships as a punishment from god whereas most are of y'all are going through worse

Oga, I'm not going through worse o!

I know I want to marry but I'm not desperate like him biko.

AwkaetitiBabe:
But if someone gives me a phone and I decide to sell, that should be my problem. My problem is your angle at getting the wife. Anyways na contract things naw so na you Sabi. Personally I can't go for such arrangement.

This one you complaining, have u fallen in love? Why didn't you give Victorian the spot? Atleast we know her and can deal with her if she tries nonsense with ur properties? U fvcked up

Ha!
Marry him ke?

He didn't believe in God and me? I can never marry an theist !

My man must believe in God and worship God in all sincerity.

Marrying an theist ? Its like digging ones grave in advance .

Except they are both atheists. Which I'm not.

So, its no use .

AstroG:
Who Companionship Epp ??

Your welcome

It wil help me biko.


I need a new family , i dont have any , except distant relatives . so my new family will be my companion including my husband , not strangers out there who have their own families at heart.

That's for me o. That's what I want for myself and kids

AwkaetitiBabe:
So you even applied sef? Buhhahhahahahahhahahhaa, you seriously funny. Babe calm down, he wasn't meant to be yours and Yes, yours will come. Funny he won't be a nairalander. NL guys get craze upstairs especially romancelanders.

I didn't apply to great researcher o

I simply told him. He cannot marry successfully without hand of God in it and if he cannot recognise God exist and choose a woman who believes in God , with himself believing in God , then he's wasting his time finding an theist wife .

Me, i m not atheist . I believe in God with all my being , so there is no way I would have applied .lol


I'm talking of the experience of another studpid guy I met outside nairaland .

Greatresearcher request back then, was dead on arrival as God was not in. It


And you are right , guys on nairaland there brains ehn? Lol

Lemme not talk , if not they will transfer their life aggression on me .lol

AstroG:
Haha

As for me,Marriage is just for procreation.

Cus ah don't believe that a female can add a valuable meaning in my life that will make me grow.


Take care

Well that's you


I feel marriage is for companionship and also increasing the family networth and procreation too.


Have a marvellous day !



I feel so happy!! Hahahahahahahahaha

funmisticqueen:
longest time, that is how you did not invite me and victorian for your wedding, God dey.


I like this your wife, she seems like a smart woman. If i was in your circumstances, I would do the same, before the man ztarts telling me thatt he made me successful. if your bullcrap gets too much, she can leave without too much loss.

hope she doesn't have a side nigga she is sending the cash to? That will be pure foolishness
As for the lying part, it is messed up, two of you have to have an understanding

Don't mind him


He had it all figured out .







Shebi he was mocking our God and saying trash back then ...




Hahahahahahahahahahah

My belle oooo


This op has really made my day, hahahahahahahahah .

AstroG:
Am touched

My dear initially when he chose her over me, I felt so sad . I said so its now a crime for a woman to be an orphan ? And to be robust looking.

Well no problem , everybody has their own partner and mine wil come

Today I don't feel sad or touched about his situation .

I don't pity him one bit!

He can go to blazes with his houses and money! I wil never marry a wicked man, no matter how much he has !

This will teach him a big lesson in life ! Some men are so dumb! And they feel they know it all.

AwkaetitiBabe:
duuurrrrrrrrr! When you were here pushing nonsense into our faces you didn't know eh? Ur stupid desperation led you into nonsense. Promising money and car, how ugly are you?

You've laid your bed, now lie in it quietly. If I hear pim again eh!? I gave her my mom plaza indeed. Li kwa nsi there

Do majority of men hear word!

Women who wil show them pepper ,is whom they go for!

And I bet the girl wil be very ugly with no manner!

No single grain of sense !

He's very annoying! I swear!

GreatResearcher:
3days afta wedin i told her to giv me hr acct to pay d cash i promsd. she tol me she wants to open a new acct b4 i pay in. she did dat and i transfer 3m to her. we were given a car gift on are wddin and she requstd i gv hr d new car. i refusd. wen i gav hr d old car she ants to sell it telin me she cant drive bla bla. a lot has happend i cnt type rite nw

Anyway greatresearcher when dog wan lost , no matter the whistle from its owner , e go still lost!

You see what your desperation without God in it ,has cost you!

When I was advising you, you thought I was mentally unstable to place everything I believe in on God's existence .

Now you av been duped of 3million naira , your mum shopping complex is on the verge of bn sold off. Your car was sold off !

E remain to sell you off next !

Men just like placing their lives in the hands of bad women , who wil sweet mouths on una.

Good women , you people wil Dodge us and say we are not wife materials .



A worse situation happened to one of my toasters . he wanted lepa shandy who has parents , thinking if a woman has parents she can be controlled. But lo and below ,the lepa shandy with her parents showed him pepper!

Orphans like me are not well cultured , so he blindly thought ! Without creating time to fine out my personality , and I'm robust again! No! I won't be a good wife material. Even though I have a job while the lepa shandy just graduated fro school and no Job insight.

His wife ran away , he's alone now and asking me to start a relationship with him

I looked at his wicked face! Because his face now looks wicked unlike when I use to know him , when he was a bachelor looking all calm and fine .

But come and see how wicked his face now looks !

For my mind. I say no be and you! I dodge you pass! Do you think I come this life for men to keep harming me due to no fault of mine? Abeg swerve!

Woman you choose with your hands show u pepper then u now want to transfer the aggression and wickedness on me. I no send you message ! When God sends a good woman to you , don't underate her . she can be your saving grace in life ! And make your life peaceful and more happier !

Any ways I told him, I'm not dating him again! Till today he still looks wicked !
What's my own? Upon all his money and cars , his wife showed him pepper !


So Mr great researcher I wish you best of luck on how you've laid your bed !

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mrdharkchild:
Wow!!
Permission to save that lovely pics ma'am

You can dear , before I remove it .


Some peeps here are already angry lol

mrdharkchild:
Fine girl, no mind Teddy A

Its well o!


Happy weekend !

Its well o!



Only God knows the kind of men getting married these days .


May God help us!

chiomarita:
Desperate to get married and start up a family early, Sylvia Ukaatu got entangled with blood oath with her lover but unfortunately that one ignorant move backfired and she’s full of regrets.

In a chat with pearlsnews.com, the actress recalled how the journey of her heartbreaks started at 18.

“It all started when I was 18 year old. I fell in love, deeply in love. I was so carried away at that tender age. I was lured into a blood oath with my then lover. I never knew the repercussions behind such move. I was only young, naïve and in love.
We played along. I was happy. I was planning to settle down.

Until, love became sour. I tried to walk away, I begged to be freed but the guy refused, so I kept to myself and stared living life to the fullest. Even when he traveled out of the country, I encountered so many failed relationships without knowing what was behind it. Suitors were coming but on the day of the introduction, they would cancel. I waited for many years for him to come back. But it never happened.

I desperately needed to start a family, but that wasn’t forthcoming. I tried so many relationships, but they all failed,” she said amidst uncontrollable tears.

She continued: “The guy later came back last year and we spoke at length. I told him we should break the oath if he is no longer interested in getting married to me but he ignored me.
Then, few months ago, my brother called me to search for his (My fiancé) name on Facebook that the said guy just got married. I quickly rushed to Facebook and checked.

I was shocked, but I laughed over it. But I can still feel the pains. Right deep inside my heart. I want to warn our young ones out there. Love is not enough for blood oath. He deceived and used me.

https://pearlsnews.com/help-blood-oath-i-took-at-18-has-ruined-my-life-actress/

Attend Divine appointment ministry international and you will be set free of such blood oath without the guy's permission and you wil marry and settle down .

Op let her see this message .

She wil be completely free !

Nigerian kind of smart is you need to be a crook! Or succeed in taking advantage of people or their fellow friends and family trust in them.

Thats where they beat their chest , smile foolishly and say they are smart .

Who wil first outsmart the other, is the deal of most nigerians .


Thats their full meaning of being smart !

Kamani8:
1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi)

2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear)

3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o)

4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir)

5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o)

6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh)

7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please )

8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?)

9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga)

10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?)

11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time)


12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish)

That's men for you.
So many unhappy married women these days .

Not encouraging one bit !

theButterfly:
You Nigerian men have no one else to blame for this but yourselves. Some of you think it's your responsibility to be doing this and that for a girl you're dating b/c you want to prove you've money. I don't think I can ask a man I'm dating for money or for this and that. If he's my husband, then that's a different story.

Wait! Seems I'm not current o


Do Nigerian men still give money to women these days ??


And op, simply shift gear if she's placing her financial problems on you , simple!

Don't ask about her welfare
Don't ask if she has eaten
Don't ask about her job

Avoid these questions and you will be fine !

It's that simple .

madenigga:
But u don't look slim though

I'm not slim!

That's what I'm saying

I would have been married since . I'm just scared

A guy wants to propose to me this morning , we are scutinizing ourselves with questions and answer. He is scared of lies from women , with disrespectful behaviour from women . He's a young widower.

While I'm scared of infidelity , lies , mind games and irresponsible behaviour from men.

So we are both on hot seats towards each other and scared lol.

Although He likes my plump shape .

Hello? If you are the lady who called my line yesterday about enquiries on my fashion school to meet up with me today ? Please call back , my phone crashed last night and I lost all the numbers who called yesterday afternoon.

Pls call me back if you are the lady staying at Gbagada .

I'm already in the office . thanks .

God bless .







Re modified : we've met . thanks

Hello? If you are the lady who called my line yesterday about enquiries on my fashion school to meet up with me today ? Please call back , my phone crashed last night and I lost all the numbers who called in the afternoon.

Call me back if you are the lady staying at Gbagada .

I'm already in the office . thanks .

madenigga:
This guy just frustrated slim ladies that are beautiful yet can't find a man...lol

The weird thing is that , my friends who are fat ,are all married to successful men.

That's just one weird thing about men .


If not for my shakara and fear , I for don marry early this year . but still watching


May God help me , amen .

MedicH:
You're already fantasizing seeing a full grown man in tears.

na so!


All of una no serious !

I pity una babes!

Lol , keep crying o!



What a deceitful guy!

wickedtuna:
Both of them are not serious...lol. But doesnt courtesy demand you say hello when you come into someone's home?

Even most average people out there , they don't know what courtesy is all about .

They breeze into your domain and breeze out , like they own the place .

Its when they need help with directions on which office to walk in , or which floor to meet up with whomsoever they want to meet , that's when they reduce their egos and greet . if not? The walk head on , breeze past like no on else exist except them and whom they came to see .

Tiwa simply behaved like an average nigerian . that's all!

Nigeria is unserious , manipulative in everything just name it. So I'm not surprised he chose england .


Smart move Boi!

Akuruoulo:
. Hello Dear

Long time !


Where have u been!

[quote author=Clazzone post=82812757][/quote]You are even sugarcoating your words .

She misses the sex!

Anyways op, if she can't provide accommodation and a good job for you there ? Then just breakup with her already . complete your nysc and start building your career in Lagos

Don't let any gf confuse your goals in life because she's missing sex with you..

She can move on with her life . what kind of pressure is that sef?

I hate pressures without any concrete backup plan. Its crazy!




You see what constant sex cause? Both of you are confused and ain't thinking straight anymore .

God abeg o!



Mehn I don't envy her one bit !


To sleep at night will be war !

Just too big!

One thing I admire about Ebuka?

He does not allow his handsome looks , perfect clothing sense to affect his commitment and love for his wife . See how happy his wife looks!

Definitely women will still be after him , but he's grounded, humble and focused to his family at home . Which most fine upwardly mobile guys rarely achieve .

An average fine guy will think he's the only guy God has made fine . forgetting there are billions of drop dead gorgeous guys out there.
Ebuka, you be man ! Your head is screwed right ! Likewise your wife .
I wish you and your lovely wife, many more years of laughter , joy and fulfillment in each other in Jesus name amen . Slay queens and slay mamas will not split you guys amen!