₦airaland Forum

Kennyswagz1:
urhobo girl

Mixed , not totally Urhobo

ericsmith:
i agree with you to some extent esp., on the heart choosy part, remember we're talkin abt a suppose "bad guy" here ...seen lots of women n xperienced ... something must av, could be jus one,that makes chioma stand out among other gurls.
There are two kind of guys, the Mr nice guys who asslick any lady that look there way and the bad guys who don't give a fvck about most gurls that look there way .... such men are only attracted to gurls that would inspire them in way any average gurl can't fake out.
Even if david's heart av choosen these gurl on a luv @ 1st sight ... trust me if she was throwin the same vibe as other gurls he would av fallout with her.
most rich guys are not just mean, the society & women make dem "mean" ..gurls are even more mean to poor guys, here is d logic, most rich guys today were once brokeass n hustling ... so fill in d gap

Hmmmmmmmm


You are right .

One thing I notice about Chioma , which is rare for most women to accept . She doesn't throw tantrums publicly or go online to show shes quarrelling with davido whenever he's with other babymamas.
She simply accept his life and his other women and kids in good faith .

Such kind of woman is rare and she can cook too!
Ladies these days can't cook, except few ladies. And I bet she could be the cleaning type. Making sure his home is clean and possibly laundry . All these things endears a guy who is already inlove to fall more inlove with such lady.

I wish them best of luck. Nigerians are watching

She caused it

Because he's a taxi driver doesn't mean she can disrespect him anyhow with laugh join.

The man is tired and possibly angry on the kind of job he's doing for a living . So just try and be respectful or better still keep quiet after explaining to him where he should drop you.
Its that easy .

I ordered for a cab, the driver came and I explained again where I'm going. I was already late. The driver took a short cut which I don't even know where we are heading . And I calmly asked him , hmmm ...please I hope it airport road you are taking me to? Cause I'm lost here . He mumbled don't worry , there is holdup on the main express, we wil get to your destination on time .
I kept quiet , and watched as he drove fast and swift , I was like my God is with me, nothing bad will happen to me in Jesus name amen.

Then few minutes we got to our destination . I heaved silently and whispered thank you lord! As I saw the number of the house I need to be @.
I paid him off , he even request i save his number incase I need another trip ..then complimented my looks , I smiled and came down jejely .
That's it .
No need looking down on them. They are already frustrated with Nigeria and its economy . its simple logic.

ericsmith:
its not jus about david... for a guy that av seen varieties of pvssy round d world ... chioma must av been dynamic in her own way.

My dear with my experience in love matters and relationship . its not about the other person like chioma being dynamic .
The koko is this , when your heart and body chooses someone , you unconsciously make the person perfect in your eyes , actions and mind . I'm sure chioma has some flaws like we all do , but in Davido mind , she is the best , there is because his heart says so. And he is young, kind , very generous , loving, funny ,rich and famous! With these attributes , any wise woman will calm down and be what her man wants . And she's wise enough to understand her man and follow his lead . Most rich men out there are mean to their women . it's a well known fact . But davido is different .

I'm inlove with a guy at the moment , even with the fact some couple of guys want me. I see flaws in them but I don't see any flaw in this one . In my eyes he's perfect because Im inlove . So is Davido too.

Then the rest baby mamas are behaving anyhow because he has shown time and to!e again, he doesn't love them but what keeps them together is his kids ,he had with them.

This heart is somethingelse . It can choose Whosoevr it desires and want . its uncontrollable. Sighs

Davido, na man!

He's so caring.. Eeyah

My soon to be groom, hope u are seeing?

wink2015:
Why the wife come dey wear "TEAR TEAR TROUSER FOR PUBLIC "

Why now !

What has happened to womanhood in Nigeria?

The husband is not complaining .

Marry your own and wear her hijab!

I love the skirt .

I don't blame her taking time in getting married . she still look young , set! And frosh!

Marry some nigerian men and see yourself age rapidly into an old woman and the same man will still cheat on you after messing someone's daughter up with wrinkles and depression . God abeg o!


fear Nigerian men like plague !

tobby20:
That's called determination. but not every one can be like you. congrats

Thanks

One of the recipe of success is determination .

Breaststroke:
@ Victorian & Midnighter,

My Bible tells me that when I pour out my heart/feelings to God in prayer, I shouldn't turn off my capacity to think.

Some of the men I've heard from (who are married to good women) said they didn't pray so much about marriage or their partners. They saw what they wanted, what they liked and they went for it.

But we tend to be emotional & religious about these things while men are calculative. My brother in law told me, men can be selfish when it comes to marriage - as in they go for the woman who will make their lives comfortable & easy, the one who suits their needs.

A lady I know married a chronic church goer & pretentiously religious man rather than the military man who genuinely cared for her but wasn't very churchy or religious.

She chop shege for that marriage, the guy's promiscuity and infidelity no get part 2. At the time she shared her story with me they were separated and divorce was the next step forward but nigga didn't want to file because whoever files is required to pay a fee or so, yet he was the one insisting on a divorce.

She told me outrightly, she regrets the choice she made, she was fooled and carried away by the religiosity of the one she married, thinking military man wasn't godly or religious enough.

It goes beyond prayers and prayer is not a solution to every challenge or problem. Some solutions only require us using our God given capacity to think.

Women need to start doing what my bible says above and be calculative as well, for those who want to marry.

My dear , I want to ask one simple question?

Why did God give us brains? As in brains for both male and female?

God gave us brains , so we can think , be calculative,be wise as a serpent ( that one is also in the Bible ) and also to be able to do certain things by ourselves.

Women going down the route of praying and fasting only for a good husband have missed it.
Prayers alone cannot bring such good husband .

The man being a worker In church does not mean hes a good man how much more a husband material .

Through the years of soul searching and understanding why certain things are the way they are , I realise women fall victim to such kind of bad men in disguise as good men didn't take time to walk with God in knowing the kind of man to marry .

Nope they didn't , they only prayed , then possibly dating and sleeping with other men by the side ,expecting God to miraculously drop a man on their laps!

My dear God does not operate that way .

If a woman wants a God fearing man ?then please abstain from sexual sins. Then secondly upgrade yourself ,make yourself better along the line, in career and character. Be a great value to yourself and people around u. That's the second one

Then let's go back to the first one I typed , be close to God , not just ordering God to drop a god fearing man on your laps! Anyone who is close to God , his or her instincts or spiritual senses will be refined and intuned to know which man is fake and which is real? It goes beyond telling me, I'm a pastor ? Or I'm a worker in church ! I wont swallow such line at all.

Now for men who marry the kind of wives they want ? Mind you not all men get the kind of wives they bargained for . I know of some of my male friends who married bad women unknowingly and are divorced today.

So such scenarios go both way .
As some men are deceptive to marry a woman of their choice , so is women too. But not all are deceptive .

Don't think all married men are happy in their marriages .

Some are depressed ,frustrated, bitter and angry on their choice of wives .

It's a two way thing.


Even the soldier guy your friend didn't marry , does not mean he is a good husband . its not about ones career or being worker in church . its more deeper than that.

I have trained my self spiritually to the extent. No fake pastor or worker can deceive me with a quiet look and fake smiles. Immediately I speak with u as a man , I already know your motive!. That's how far one can go with God.

midnighter:
Oh, there's even a second human being in this world who behaves like that? I thought one was even enough. Very strange behaviour

Only God knows where these guys get this kind of diabolical idea from

Me sef, I wonder too o

Because this my friend hustle like no tomorrow . and its making her age quick, I then asked her what about your husband ? She said I shouldnt even mention him that he's a very wicked man , he doesn't give her a dime and he travels abroad for biz and back. I say na wa o!

Hmm such men are not one and not two , they are considerable number of them in the society . Where they originate from? I don't know o.

Good women please be very careful whom u decide to settle down with, so you won't regret and say had I known.

Be very careful and prayerful about it .
May God help us all. Amen

The op is not lying ,there are men like that .

One of my friend's husband is like that.

All he cares about is his children he had with her .

She has accepted her fate , dust herself and hustles like a single lady in her marriage . Her husband doesnt give her a dime !

Some men dey o. If some married women tell you what they are going through, you will be shocked to your bone marrow . Op tighten your belt , go back to the drawing board on how to rebrand and sell your skills to companies out there . At the end u wil be fine . don't despair . Hold onto God. Place your husband one side and focus on how to make yourself better .

Yes

IamPatriotic:
This man is just using money to ambush and harass young ladies in the name of marriage

At least he's honourable enough to marry the young ladies.

Unlike most men who will fucvk ,impregnate and run!

He tried .

Na wa o!


Thank God Miracle left her

What a shame .

Na wa !

All to belong and be called big Babe!smhhhhh

dominique:
So ladies are still travelling to meet strangers they met online even with all the horror stories of kidnapping and killing we read online.

He must have assured her , he will marry her and he can't wait to get married end of this year.

Most women no dey take ear hear , my parents has been hassling me to give them a grandchild , then marry . lol

So to hell with risk. Like the saying goes : Keep trying or Die trying .


God abeg o!

eni4real:
I don't agree with you... Her beauty did not kill her..

The guy is just wicked!!!

I agree he's wicked and trust me there are so many wicked guys out there .

Ladies be careful . very careful .

She will pull through in Jesus name amen .

God please heal her amen

What a pity

Her over sexiness eventually killed her .

Ladies , if you know u are overly beautiful and sexy to a fault , biko protect yourself extremely well, scrutinize any guy whos always insisting of getting u laid even before the date .

If you don't want to lay the guy? Then don't visit him! Stay your lane and be safe .
There is no free drink or free lunch in free town. Be protective, Use your brains!

[quote author=HRHQueenPhil post=83204849][/quote]Lol

Wait how old are u first , before I recommend a drink

madenigga:
I was once like that and I knew where my intellect stopped. U can just use screw driver to open an electronics appliance that's a Lil bit faulty dust it and couple it back and people say u have fixed it or translating a spoilt part from another.

Only looking at the cutting and carvings on the plastic would let u know they used at least an intermediate level machinery, that little boy doesn't have access to.

Don't be surprised if this is all a scam. They just transplanted the parts of a working gen into plastic parts and that's all. If an NGO decides to follow this up they would get disappointed.

Well let's not assume .

It could be scam , it could be real .

Let NGO follow it up , if they will and if they are disappointed fine ! But at least they've tried .

I don't assume on people and what they present . I make my findings before I conclude . that's me anyways.

Angelfrost:
Some of those people are not really human.

They are humans .

Thats Nigeria for you .

No Unity, No One Voice , No Consistency , No Loyalty , none whatsoever in any direction one turns .That's why nothing works except personal prayers in ones personal life .
Sighs I'm used to it anyways and I simply do "me" and leave the rest to God and simply seat back relax and watch people .

madenigga:
So u actually believe he created that?

Yes I do.

A kid can be that talented . it simply shows he can be a great engineer in future if he's trained in the right country .

I use to have a brother who can repair anything electronics and he was just a kid when he started with this kind of stuffs. He was actually gifted .

But in Nigeria, talents are either destroyed or sidelined .

No one encourages or support anyone except if the individual have good supportive parents that are financially OK. if not? That kid is on his or her own.

Trust me I know what I'm saying from personal experience.

Angelfrost:
Different countries... If every one of us had a choice of what nation to be born into, Nigeria would be an uninhabited wasteland.

Don't be deceived, some class of people love Nigeria the way it is .

Talk to people from different class and orientation about how this country is , and if they support how bubu is handling the nation .

You will be shocked to your bone marrow, the replies of some people . As in real shock!

That's why I doubt if Nigeria can get better. Infact it won't get better .

So sad he's in the wrong country.


Eeyah

Kingrexyl:
Tbillz ain't doing this for free, he wanna chop kpomo.

As her manager , he will receive his own percentage in the deal and staging a new come back to the entertainment biz.

Life does not rotate round a pussy or pussies . He's gat bills to pay . His name to elevate and all. Sex is not all there is 2 life .

Just cry your heart out , then drink in the comfort of your home .

Then make up your mind to let go for good , because he or she doesn't deserve you in the first place. Then bury yourself in making more money and be frequent in weekly church services, it helps .

abuyus:
Hi every1,i was in my tailors shop 2collect my cloth bt un4tunately i met her absence so i decided 2 wait 4 her,during d cos of waiting i noticed a woman in that house cooking because d house was built 2geder wit d shop.U knw it's a face me i slap u where u cook behind ur door step.After d woman is done cooking d children brought d plates,she then asked d son 2 bring a warmer 4 dia dad d boy was like give me my own 1st dad is nt around.D mother said no ur dad comes 1st because he is d head of d family so she dished d food & put 2 big meats,gave d children food and she had to eat d last portion in d pot wit 1 meat.As i was looking at her dish her own food i had to ask her y she had 2 serve her husband 1st& give him d best meat.She replied saying;he is d head and deserved 2be treated as one.she said he comes first in everything she does &seeks his opinion on every matter.i was amazed & couldn't say a word more until my tailor came& told me dat is her way of life.d hubby also resiprocate d gesture.dey ar married4 14ys

Yes we do.

Its not out of this world .

The husband is the head of the home and the love of her life . it shouldn't be hard giving him the best of meals and pampering him. Its only natural .
He single handedly sponsored 17 of his children to university level, established all his wives who wishes to work .

That's how my mum treated my late dad anyways and there was still enough meat and fish to go round. His dish is served first with huge chicken and fish.
He loves eating his meats and fishes with his eyes closed savouring every taste of it . lol

Infact , she's the one he loves most amongst his 5 wives! She's not stingy. She was even the one that made me love home made meals with enough beef , chicken and fish . sighs I miss my mum.
She can cook for Africa , and feed us well!

No wonder some twisted men prefer to be baby daddy .

Fragility6:
And to think that those criticising them are silent to child marriages going on in the north everyday. Its the hypocrisy dat annoys me. Child marriages in the north is wrong while a teenager dat married right dey want 2 kill her n her family

Which one is child marriage ?

A girl close to 20years! Is now a child in your eyes ?

Lol ! Nigerians !

Bloody hypocrites ! When she was dating her younger boyfriend nobody called her a child o! You all were all smiling at them
But she's successful now because she is married to a billionaire , enjoying her youthful lives , una wan die ontop her matter . calling a 20years old lady a child .

I laugh. Child ko! Chikala ni!

Go and remove her from her marriage , if she will not pluck out your eyes with her finger nails! Lol!