₦airaland Forum

betafuture:
Thanks for your perspective. I never see it from that angle

u know, when u are angry u can never see it from that angle or get a clearer picture! U were at fault once and was forgiven, why is it so hard for u to forgive? I never ever excuse adultery from both sides, but pls, read the word of God, pray and praise God and watch how easily u will forgive her! U both can start praying together to draw u closer to God as He alone can give u peace!
Ps: don't listen to negative advising, it won't make u feel better even if u carry them out. Go to God in prayer!

dingbang:
But you cheated on her...even had sex with a girl...

And now your wife is just only chatting with someone else you are here boiling like molten magma ....


See God is not stupid ok... He has allowed the devil to come into your marriage which you started the adultery.. You are the one that needs to seek for mercy

God bless u 1 million times for saying the 'hard truth'

They've terrorised us enough on that sea, thank God! This would serve as a deterrent to others.

Explorers:
From a distance, the building can be see forming the 'pupil' of the eyeball.




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Lalasticlala, Mynd44

I don't know how u do it, but u are the best on Nairaland. Keep it up!!!

tunde82seidat:
Thank you o.she's looking so white ...wt dark knuckles

very nauseating sight

Why do these ladies bleach with reckless abandon Do they know the consequences of it? I could hardly recognise the queen who has obviously started bleaching badly

Gush! Nairaland known for changing someone's name, hushbingo, hushpoopoo, hushdog if only that guy can come to nairaland and see his trending names, smh

Delphi:
Young lady @iyaayi, you don't need to worry cos 'nothing spoil'. I can bet or vouch that you brother-IL did not see anything. I know, to you, he saw you unclad but for me, due to the momentariness/swiftness of the action he wouldn't comprehend what he saw. That is the situation of things. He stood there for some time because he was stupefied. Let me give you two examples; if you've gone to the mortuary, you see dead bodies in their unclad state but true to fact your brain wouldn't comprehend/amuse at their unclad state due to the queerness of the mortuary situation. Secondly, someone involved in an accident may suddenly run amok and people will hold him in place. At that point in time, the victim doesn't know/comprehend what he does. @iyaayi, these illustrations are to let you know that you BIL didn't enjoy your unclad state. Also, he stood there for awhile apologizing because he lost control of any other voluntary action to execute rather did what (apologies) his brain thought best at that time. Your hubby who was there understood the situation at it's best and hence he dished out the best judgmental action. So, cool your temper madam, you're still intact.

u and the 'richyblink 1 on this thread are the most matured with your illustrations and all, afraid nairaland is filled with filth, I can't help but say thank u! To the lady in question, rest your mind and leave your hubby be, your BIL prolly didn't register so much with how quick u were!

My heart beating seriously for Madrid, they'll surly come out victorious!!! My love for Cr7 tho

He has always been a humble person no doubt!!!

He changed the face of Rivers state as much as u can hate to admit, the colossal failure is your boss and former governor Dr Peter odili

Mynd44:
Part of the reason why men dont like when their wife is richer is because they want to dominate the woman but the more financialy independent a person (male or female), the less possible it is to doninate that person. So they say a richer woman will be proud but it is that she will not agree to be subjugated.

They also seem to think a richer wife won't have time to take care of the home. They want a maid as a wife who will be in the kitchen or in the bed.

Personally, if I have a wife that's richer, better for us as the family have more disposable income and the standard of living rises. I dont see the need to control my wife as we are partners, we can just be ourselves.

And on the issue of taking care of the house, my wife is not a maid. I will rather employ a maid and pay the maid to do that. Heck, aint nothing sexier than your wife going for a board meeting and coning back to "thank" you for supporting her prepare for it.

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a GF.

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God bless u for this post, I don't know why men don't see it this way, if only they have wisdom they'll know it's a win-win for them!

AngelicBeing:
Yes, she is late, l think she was in either Abuja or Lagos then and there was a robbery incident and it was alleged that she was raped, not too sure about that but that was the rumor then, she went to England and they said she committed suicide or some other sources said she took some pills and ended her life because of the shame of the rape incident back in Nigeria, all this are hear-say / speculations, l dont know if that was the truth but she is late, may her soul continue to Rip..


Follow this link and read about her death >>>>>>https://www.google.ae/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=3&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwixyKy7uLvTAhUGYVAKHcPaB80QFggtMAI&url=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fumariayim%2Fstatus%2F419807877369712640%3Flang%3Den&usg=AFQjCNELRmLJUECpLyOP4plbxcEOxMvPEw

oh my God, what a death, I didn't hear at all... thanks for this!

AngelicBeing:
Thanks for updating the list, cheers


Yup, and the likes of Ruth Benamaisia Opia, late Tokunbo Ajayi, Abike Dabiri, Cyril Stober, Ronke Ayuba, Eugenia Abu, l will add more if l can still recall them

omG, didn't know tokunbo ajayi is late! It is well. I miss all this faces on NTA, I done old be that o

gurunlocker:
Abeg no talk that Vagina o, that thing can smell like rotten fish.

No no no, except the person has an infection, the vagina doesn't smell that bad, it has its own unique odour! Let the person go seek for medical attention.

I thought I saw in an earlier or later thread of how they have the best drainage system in Nigeria Correct me if I'm wrong!

Papiikush:
No, just irritated by your ignorance...You are embarrassing Nigerians on the Internet by asking what relevance Don jazzy holds to the present community. Would you have said the same thing if I mentioned JayZ?

someone's relevance can be outside the Internet world, try to think outside the box. If she feels she wants to leave, she has a right to it, and shouldn't be compared to any other one who's relevance im still trying to figure out.

Leopantro:
considering what I'm going through, I totally understand why he did it. you get to a point in life that death is considered bliss. pray not to walk in those shoes.

but it never solves the problem rather it amplifies it, my dear friend pls and pls don't think about it, find peace in Christ. Give ur life to Him alone and worship Him in truth and in spirit, be a worker in church and God must surely come through for u. God bless u dear

Mightyify:
Suicide is a demonstration of Self love! People commit suicide because they hate to see themselves suffer so they take their own life.

...the suffer is too much everywhere. I just graduated from university waiting for NYSC....life has been hell, no help from anyone sometimes I just feel like ending it once and for all.. .

dear friend, I don't know u personally but pls suicide is never an option, think of those u are better off and give urself that boost in life, remember no condition is permanent! Give ur life to Christ and u will find unending grace to live in spite of what u see now. Have faith and believe Roms 8:31-32

9jakohai:
Depression

It actually is a serious problem among medical doctors.

Doctors get depressed. Because the medical job is full of stress.

Modified

In reading some of the comments here, I see a lot of jokes and a lot of funny comments, so let me explain to you all why that doctor jumped, and why he was that depressed to jump.

Many medical students face a lot of pressure from the time they decide to read medicine. It starts at unviersity. You are suddenly reading tough courses, and most of the time, you have no idea of what you are doing. The amount to read is too much, and the time to read it is too little. Your professors and lecturers expect much from you, your family expects much from you, and somehow...after the first three years of preclinical studies, you pass...and it is on to the next three years of clinical studies.

But then you go to the clincal side...and it is as if the pressure increases. You are expected to not only master plenty more stuff...you are also expected to take part in managing real live patients. And the thing is, there are many patients who come to hospital that will die. Many will die of some of the most horrible diseases known to man. I can still recall seeing a young woman my age, when I was in 400 level , dying from HIV. Someone my age...dying from HIV. Or the time I watched a father die in front of his fifteen year old son....and in that moment I watched as a young boy became fatherless in minutes. After a while it gets to you, this constant train of death in the clinics, of suffering in the clinics, of pain, hurt and fears. And added to that is your own academic fears, then, after 3 years of that, you graduate.

Then you become a house officer, and then a resident. Your responsibilities increase. You begin to see more and more patients come in, whom you diagnose with illnesses that in some cases cannot be cured. Or you struggle to take care of a very sick patient, like the time I was responsible for a baby as a house officer, who was very sick and who despite the best efforts of the medical team, died. And what;s sad about the case was that if the child had survived, it would have been severely disabled for life. Meanwhile, you struggle against poor equipment, against lack of facilities, bad working environemnt, and the idea that you are really not good enough as a doctor, that you are more of a liability than a blessing (Yes, we doubt ourselves sometimes).And you sturggle too when patient's relatives , and even colleagues accuse you of not trying hard enough. It hurts.

So to all those making jokes about this death, saying that his village people have got him, that why cant he make himself happy.....it is not as easy as you think. Medicne is a rewarding job, but it can drain the life out of you. No....it will drain the life out of you. Sometimes, you will womder how you can go on one more step, how you can continue, how you have to be an angel all the time

Yes, doctors are depressed. According to a study 27% of doctors are depressed. Yes....we are human too. We fall sick. We get depressed.And we do not admit it...even to ourselves. We lie to ourselves....till it gets worse...and then the unthinkable happens.

As a medic who sometimes feels down, one thing that keeps me up is the fact that I have to be there for my patients. THinking about others can be a great depression releiver. Jesus did talk about the benefits of being a servant. Perhaps that servanthood aspect of being a medic is where we may yet find our salvation....somehow.

I think I can relate to all u have said, but believe me, suicide isn't the best option. Knowing Christ and been happy in Christ is a saving grace we have. Trust in God always and know that no condition is permanent!!! May God bless u with His unending grace.

I see beautiful ladies with little or no make up at all. Ill definitely explore here myself...

Agent's of darkness sent straight from the pit of hell... smh, God will always win.

They are forgetting that men with real monies far wealthier than both Combined spend and keep mute about it. That's what I love about the "Abokis"

Factfinder1:
95% of the wealth and fake life people flaunt on Instagram and social media are monies gotten from the proceeds of.
Scam
Blood money
Prostitution money
Ass licking fame/money
Drugs
Etc


Young people should be patient and dont allow what you see online to push you into making money through any means

the last but not the least, "Politricks"

ToriBlue:
Nigeria's like to crucify people just cos of a little mistake, knowing fully well that no one is perfect.
We all have sinned one way or the other.

They should give Kemen a break, after all the guy have apologized.


Is it when he commits suicide that they will be happy?

the height of the hypocrisy is terrible, do they all want to tell me they haven't been guilty of this act once in their lives? Hell no! The should learn to forgive and move on, I'm so pissed right now

opethom:
6 years in primary school
6 years in secondary school
5 years in university
1year at law school
1 year or more of strike, protest & co for some of my people..
1 year of youth service
And you will luckily get a job of N50,000 &
someone will just say
"Skiborobo skibo" and be making millions,
and his friend will reply
"It's young john the wicked producer" and be making millions as
well.

And you think say the person who
introduced education will
make heaven ...

I will be waiting for him at the gate of heaven.....

that one dat introduced "examination" should not bother coming near heaven o

Shebi u see that one that brought "mathematics"......?..
I will say no more....

u are just hilarious

Why does he always dress like an old man na? This doesn't suit the occasion jor

Whynotthetruth:
Hahahahaha...Efik lady?

Nope

Whynotthetruth:
Are you nwa Aba?

mbok Noooo

Northmall:
Threads like this tend to break relationships and cause problems in people's homes. Nigerians are gullible people. And sadly, a lot of people will buy this 'supposed' signs and cause depression for themselves. Forgetting that what applies to Mrs. A isn't always applicable to Mrs. B

Truth be told,some pple will take this to heart and cause trouble for themselves, smh

U? Woman rape u? Mtchew!

Whynotthetruth:
I already know enough about their ingenuity...just haven't been there...Have some relatives there too... I bu nwa Aba?

OK o