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Yusufisraelj:Thanks. I heard of the book a while ago but couldn't find the audio book. I guess I'll have to make do with the pdf. I just downloaded it thanks. |
Yusufisraelj:Wow. Nice. Thanks. |
Learning alot. I'll split my growth stages into three. 01. Learn a skill. I thought all I needed to make money was learn a skill. I learnt skills (game and web dev), still nothing changed. 02. Packaging. Create a portfolio, have a CV. I did that and like magic, I started getting contacts. 03. Now I'm understanding from you, that you need a network of people that provide you the updates to apply your skills, and get paid. This network is sourced from those who gave you the contracts right? |
Wow. Please what books will you recommend to me, relating to this write up. |
This is brilliant. Did you write this? |
Franzinni:Wow. I thought it was only I who believes this. |
Animegirl:No, you should not. And you will not. Family is blood. Blood comes first. ![]() Weak for getting advice from someone who's age is greater the sum of both our ages? Yeah, right! (Wisdom is gotten from experience) This is how it works; 1. She isolates you from external influence, so she can easily change your mindset. She uses the "Don't be a weakling, make your own decisions without advice (especially from the most influential person regarding your growth)". 2. The "I should come first" mentality. If good for you, you break up, you realize just how your whole life revolved around her and the relationship only. This leads me to her next most favorite phrase 3. "if you love me, you would..." Speaking of red flags, you are the Chinese flag to me. |
fluffybaby: ![]() Lmao You win!!! WTF! Baby shark!!! ![]() |
fluffybaby:Lol. No need to contend. It's visible in your name "fluffy baby " Trust me, I can do this all day. ![]() |
fluffybaby:Lol. Kid, there's a lot for you to learn then. |
Hier:So she had to switch to her male moniker account to be able to comment. |
There's investing and starting a business. 1. Land and housing is the most stable investment. You understand this already, my advice; stick to it. 2. Most businesses are not successful, so before you start any business, use 6-8 months to study and learn how it works, unless you want to loose all your money. Simple instructions but very difficult to follow. Gold is another fancy stable investment I'll recommend studying. Businesses. 1. Barbing saloon 2. Betting shop 3. Piggery 4. Poultry. Any business can be profitable, it's more about doing what you're interested in. I'd advice you read this book "Secrets of the millionaire mind" too. |
Stedygrowth:Wisdom choke! |
olasaad:What then, did we marry you for? ![]() And what are the kids for, when you grow old? ![]() |
Nope. Even if it were true, the odds of you carelessly reading it somewhere are close to - 1 |
If you wanted it and she didn't give you on the second day, move on. Men have gone to and are in prison because of false accusation of rape, what makes you think a real accusation won't send you there? ![]() Thread carefully! |
jasperedetedet:There's always a first time to everything, then it's back to status quo. The joy that comes with gifts fade away quickly. If you gift a girl an iPhone, she'll still be the same person to come and tell you the screen has cracked. ![]() |
Brendaniel:Have you read their terms and conditions? This is bamboo app saying you can't hold them responsible for any loss of funds. And it's written, as far as you have an account on bamboo, you have, willingly or not, accepted these terms of service. ![]()
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Truvelisback:100% true. I believe women are like mirrors, they show you all shades of "you". Whatever behaviors you tolerate are the ones she'll amplify. |
Richy4:I didn't fully understand her, till I saw this. Saintinoo:This right here is a red flag (a counselor would have spotted this too). In every relationship, with everyone, there's a scale balance of power and respect. In successful marriages, the tilt of power is to the man (biblical example, Sarah called Abraham "Lord" ), and respect is tilted to the woman. Her bad character no 1, shows she's trying to shift that balance. Women are naturally hypergamous. It starts early in a relationship, they exhibit certain behaviors to watch your response. If you "always and constantly" give into their own ideas and demands, there the power balance begins to shifts towards her. In the end, she will "belittle" you, then move on the next man who she can't do that with. How to stop this? 1. Break up and date a woman who doesn't make it her sole aim to make all the decisions and manipulate the man to feel he's the cause of her failed decisions. 2. Understand the philosophy of power and respect in every relationship. The fact is many average Nigerian women's goal is to settle down and form a family with a man, eventually (you are actually doing her a favour). If she could turn back time? Stories, time is ticking and in her thirties, no man will seek for her again. Understand that you are the one doing her a favor. Try not to react in a way she will want you to (shouting angrily). Try not to constantly give into every single insignificant demand of hers. If all these don't work in 2-4months time. Then bro, your peace of mind is what's most important. Cause in the end, she will "belittle" you and move onto another man. |
I read your thread the first time.
Then came back after hours and read it again. Still the same thing comes to my mind. She needs marriage counseling to learn to get rid of that No. 3 You need marriage counseling to learn what you do not already know. |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0XqTtW8xow Download this audio book and play it once every month. It's a good start to increase your financial IQ. |
advanceDNA:This happens when the woman is the provider. Very strange to me. |
Saintmary:1. That's no excuse. It's just a phase of life. It's too difficult? Get a maid to raise your child. Lol. 3. Attraction fades over time, too bad, that marriage. Lol. 5. Pay for sex? Lol. |
Buying lands, building house or buying gold. Which to do to hedge against inflation? |
Michelle70: ![]() |
Martdc:Hoe spotted. At least she's made her intentions clear (you pay for the sex). |
Burdenbearer:This, I shall do when the time is right. |
Listen to people when angry, that's when the real truth comes out.
100 percent! |
Tell her Nigeria is divided into different tribes. A certain culture promotes beating their wives. But if she doesn't like it, she can divorce the man and take 50% of his assets. Then she can re marry another Nigerian who is not from his tribe. Problem solved. You just switched the gear into her hand to make the decision. It's her marriage. |
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