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RomanceRe: How You Should THINK - Excelling With People by voidUpdate(m): 4:43am On Dec 23, 2022
Yusufisraelj:
Why you act the way you do by Tim Lahaye.
Thanks. I heard of the book a while ago but couldn't find the audio book. I guess I'll have to make do with the pdf.

I just downloaded it thanks.
BusinessRe: Solving Money Issues by voidUpdate(m): 4:33am On Dec 23, 2022
Yusufisraelj:
The purpose of this is to be in a bubble of those who urgently need your solution and those willing to pay now not later, all these avenues are ways to secure those contracts.
Wow. Nice. Thanks.
BusinessRe: Solving Money Issues by voidUpdate(m): 10:56pm On Dec 22, 2022
Learning alot. I'll split my growth stages into three.

01. Learn a skill. I thought all I needed to make money was learn a skill. I learnt skills (game and web dev), still nothing changed.

02. Packaging. Create a portfolio, have a CV. I did that and like magic, I started getting contacts.

03. Now I'm understanding from you, that you need a network of people that provide you the updates to apply your skills, and get paid.

This network is sourced from those who gave you the contracts right?
RomanceRe: How You Should THINK - Excelling With People by voidUpdate(m): 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2022
Wow. Please what books will you recommend to me, relating to this write up.
RomanceRe: Why Your Relationship May Fail? by voidUpdate(m): 10:37pm On Dec 22, 2022
This is brilliant. Did you write this?
RomanceRe: 6 Weeks No Girlfriend. My Life Haven't Been More Better by voidUpdate(m): 1:02am On Dec 05, 2022
Franzinni:
You can't trust a woman who is on social media period! (My opinion and I stand by it ).
Wow. I thought it was only I who believes this.
RomanceRe: I Can Never Date A Mummy's Boy. by voidUpdate(m): 4:05am On Nov 14, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy
Lol. You're excited cause this thread is about to create a heated argument. gringrin
RomanceRe: I Can Never Date A Mummy's Boy. by voidUpdate(m): 4:02am On Nov 14, 2022
Animegirl:
I mean, I should come first in a relationship right?
No, you should not. And you will not. smiley
Family is blood. Blood comes first.
smiley

Weak for getting advice from someone who's age is greater the sum of both our ages? Yeah, right! (Wisdom is gotten from experience)

This is how it works;
1. She isolates you from external influence, so she can easily change your mindset.
She uses the "Don't be a weakling, make your own decisions without advice (especially from the most influential person regarding your growth)".
2. The "I should come first" mentality.

If good for you, you break up, you realize just how your whole life revolved around her and the relationship only. This leads me to her next most favorite phrase
3. "if you love me, you would..."


Speaking of red flags, you are the Chinese flag to me.
RomanceRe: I Want A Nigerian Man Living In Canada by voidUpdate(m): 1:36pm On Nov 11, 2022
fluffybaby:
Do what exactly? Run along son. Baby shark is playing. Go dance to it grin grin
I want to see you do it all day. I am ready. Free incitement from my side to you. Oya, leggo. Say your own. cool
grin grin
Lmao

You win!!!
WTF! Baby shark!!! grin
RomanceRe: I Want A Nigerian Man Living In Canada by voidUpdate(m): 11:21pm On Nov 10, 2022
fluffybaby:
Funny you. Oh look, your diaper is soiled.
Lol. No need to contend. It's visible in your name "fluffy baby "



Trust me, I can do this all day. grin
RomanceRe: I Want A Nigerian Man Living In Canada by voidUpdate(m): 11:41pm On Nov 09, 2022
fluffybaby:
I thought you men said submission is the biggest thing man ever wants from his wife? She has that to offer.
Lol. Kid, there's a lot for you to learn then.
RomanceRe: I Want A Nigerian Man Living In Canada by voidUpdate(m): 11:14pm On Nov 09, 2022
Hier:
God knows how she would feel knowing this thread went public lol, like seriously, she never wanted this much publicity
So she had to switch to her male moniker account to be able to comment.
InvestmentRe: What Type Of Investment Can I Put BTW 1m To 2.5m by voidUpdate(m): 7:36pm On Nov 07, 2022
There's investing and starting a business.
1. Land and housing is the most stable investment. You understand this already, my advice; stick to it.
2. Most businesses are not successful, so before you start any business, use 6-8 months to study and learn how it works, unless you want to loose all your money.

Simple instructions but very difficult to follow.


Gold is another fancy stable investment I'll recommend studying.

Businesses.
1. Barbing saloon
2. Betting shop
3. Piggery
4. Poultry.

Any business can be profitable, it's more about doing what you're interested in.
I'd advice you read this book "Secrets of the millionaire mind" too.
RomanceRe: Thing I Know At 31 That Would Have Changed My Life At 21: by voidUpdate(m): 10:13pm On Nov 06, 2022
Stedygrowth:
14. Discover yourself before you chose a course to study
15. Date yourself first, before you date anyone.
16. Read everyday, at least one page a day.
17. In every decision you take, make sure it propells you to your goal. If it doesn't, leave it.
18. Never fall in love with someone you don't know, no matter how you feel about him or her. If you want to love him/her, start by knowing him or her (friendship)
19. If you don't like something don't think about it, if you think about it so much, you give it life and it becomes your reality.
20. Put aside something everyday, even if it is one naira.
21. Always proof read before you summit your write up, no matter how sure you are.
Wisdom choke!
FoodRe: The Sweet Rice And Beans I’m Cooking by voidUpdate(m): 1:35pm On Oct 29, 2022
olasaad:
Beautiful husband material shocked but my problem with you guys is that after marriage most of you guys become lazy in doing house chores.
What then, did we marry you for? grin
And what are the kids for, when you grow old? grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: is it true that USA is planning a terror attack in Abuja by voidUpdate(m): 1:27pm On Oct 29, 2022
Nope.

Even if it were true, the odds of you carelessly reading it somewhere are close to - 1
RomanceRe: Should I Rape Her Or I Should Keep Waiting Till She Gives Me Willingly. by voidUpdate(m): 1:22pm On Oct 29, 2022
If you wanted it and she didn't give you on the second day, move on.

Men have gone to and are in prison because of false accusation of rape, what makes you think a real accusation won't send you there? huh

Thread carefully!
PoliticsRe: Miraculous Transformation Of Bola Tinubu by voidUpdate(m): 11:39am On Oct 24, 2022
Vulturereloaded:
You mean these knees?
grin grin grin
You peepule should stop na. Lol
FamilyRe: What Are The Things You Wish Your Offsprings Dont Inherit From You? by voidUpdate(m): 11:25am On Oct 24, 2022
jasperedetedet:
.

Some people have never received birthday cakes in their lives.

A black boy wept profusely after his adopted white parents surprised him with his first ever cake on his birthday.

It was too emotional for him. So sweet!
There's always a first time to everything, then it's back to status quo.
The joy that comes with gifts fade away quickly.

If you gift a girl an iPhone, she'll still be the same person to come and tell you the screen has cracked. sad
BusinessRe: Konfam Becomes Nigeria's Latest Fintech by voidUpdate(m): 10:46am On Oct 24, 2022
Brendaniel:
Please try and be positive for them....
Have you read their terms and conditions?

This is bamboo app saying you can't hold them responsible for any loss of funds. And it's written, as far as you have an account on bamboo, you have, willingly or not, accepted these terms of service. huh

FamilyRe: Help, I Am About To Marry A Good Girl Naricisssit. by voidUpdate(m): 2:32pm On Oct 22, 2022
Truvelisback:
U gave her the room for all this because were hiding ur feelings abt her behaviour. U should have scolded her.
100% true. I believe women are like mirrors, they show you all shades of "you". Whatever behaviors you tolerate are the ones she'll amplify.
FamilyRe: Help, I Am About To Marry A Good Girl Naricisssit. by voidUpdate(m): 1:25pm On Oct 22, 2022
Richy4:

I tell u, that number 3 is the worst character any man or woman can possess...

embarassed
I didn't fully understand her, till I saw this.
Saintinoo:
Talking about respect, i dont want to sound all good, but this lady will yell at me, belittle me, make it look asif she is doing me a favour. Imagine the lady you want to marry saying that she wish she can turn the hands of time.
This right here is a red flag (a counselor would have spotted this too).
In every relationship, with everyone, there's a scale balance of power and respect.
In successful marriages, the tilt of power is to the man (biblical example, Sarah called Abraham "Lord" ), and respect is tilted to the woman.

Her bad character no 1, shows she's trying to shift that balance. Women are naturally hypergamous. It starts early in a relationship, they exhibit certain behaviors to watch your response. If you "always and constantly" give into their own ideas and demands, there the power balance begins to shifts towards her. In the end, she will "belittle" you, then move on the next man who she can't do that with.

How to stop this?
1. Break up and date a woman who doesn't make it her sole aim to make all the decisions and manipulate the man to feel he's the cause of her failed decisions.
2. Understand the philosophy of power and respect in every relationship. The fact is many average Nigerian women's goal is to settle down and form a family with a man, eventually (you are actually doing her a favour). If she could turn back time? Stories, time is ticking and in her thirties, no man will seek for her again.

Understand that you are the one doing her a favor.
Try not to react in a way she will want you to (shouting angrily).
Try not to constantly give into every single insignificant demand of hers.

If all these don't work in 2-4months time. Then bro, your peace of mind is what's most important.
Cause in the end, she will "belittle" you and move onto another man.
FamilyRe: Help, I Am About To Marry A Good Girl Naricisssit. by voidUpdate(m): 12:59am On Oct 22, 2022
I read your thread the first time. Then came back after hours and read it again.
Still the same thing comes to my mind. She needs marriage counseling to learn to get rid of that No. 3 You need marriage counseling to learn what you do not already know.
FamilyRe: by voidUpdate(m): 9:47am On Oct 20, 2022

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0XqTtW8xow

Download this audio book and play it once every month. It's a good start to increase your financial IQ.
FamilyRe: How Do I Forgive Him? by voidUpdate(m): 9:36am On Oct 20, 2022
advanceDNA:
Tables have turned.....
This happens when the woman is the provider. Very strange to me.
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Married Women Deny Their Husbands Sex? by voidUpdate(m): 1:27am On Oct 20, 2022
Saintmary:
1. She has kids to raise

2. You don't clean up often

3. She's no longer attracted to you

4. You don't satisfy her in bed

5. You don't give her enough money
1. That's no excuse. It's just a phase of life. It's too difficult? Get a maid to raise your child. Lol.
3. Attraction fades over time, too bad, that marriage. Lol.
5. Pay for sex? Lol.
RomanceRe: What's The Greatest Challenge You're Going Through Now? by voidUpdate(m): 10:36pm On Oct 19, 2022
Buying lands, building house or buying gold. Which to do to hedge against inflation?
RomanceRe: . by voidUpdate(m): 10:15pm On Oct 19, 2022
Michelle70:
Relationship never reach one week (probably 4days) but she don open leg for u twice and don ask u for 10k.

Wait lemme try to imagine this so called girl-friend.
grin
RomanceRe: . by voidUpdate(m): 10:14pm On Oct 19, 2022
Martdc:
I like her, but I felt off immediately she asked for money, 10k precisely. The relationship is not up to a week yet, but we've had sex twice.



Any advice?
Hoe spotted.
At least she's made her intentions clear (you pay for the sex).
RomanceRe: Men With Pure Intentions, Why Are You Broke? by voidUpdate(m): 9:52pm On Oct 19, 2022
Burdenbearer:
The Movie "Coming to America" just came into my mind. In that movie, u would realize why the prince left his wealthly kingdom, went to America, disguise himself as an hustler in search of true love.
This, I shall do when the time is right.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Nobody Told You About Life. by voidUpdate(m): 9:45pm On Oct 19, 2022
Listen to people when angry, that's when the real truth comes out. 100 percent!
FamilyRe: Should I expose him ? by voidUpdate(m): 9:06pm On Oct 19, 2022
Tell her Nigeria is divided into different tribes.
A certain culture promotes beating their wives.
But if she doesn't like it, she can divorce the man and take 50% of his assets.

Then she can re marry another Nigerian who is not from his tribe.

Problem solved. You just switched the gear into her hand to make the decision. It's her marriage.

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