₦airaland Forum

AVRecruit:
This is the lie women are being told today.

A woman can be anything she wants to be including President. I agree and encourage that.

A woman however has to choose a career that is Motherhood friendly and can not be anything she wants to be if she wants to be a mum.

Women need to make huge money too in order to live a good life and less dependent, men made it so these days. Gone are the days of, "stay at home, I'd provide everything", it is now, "take care of 50% of bills and I'd take care of 50%", yet she's still expected to fulfill her primary role as a woman.
The reason I ask what do men really want?

AVRecruit:
If a woman is biologically designed for childbirth and monthly periods of which none is her fault then she should be the mother she is ordaindd to be not a corporate CEO. Its common sense!

All the work she does should be intense and interesting enough not to interfere with this primary purpose.

A woman can be anything she wants to be and at the same time be a mother.
I only drew words from the op that says "why should women fight for equal pay at work places even though they go on maternity leaves." I smell jealousy.

She goes out of her way to fight privately owned firms and try to force them to comply to equal pay for men and women. And she lobbys the government to make it a law.

But you don't tell a private or non-governmental firm what to do with its pay structure. If they feel performance is relational to gender, then so be it. It's their call to make. Afterall, men don't take the "monthly stomach cramp" excuses for off duties, neither do they take maternity related leave. But this is just a start, it actually gets worse!

This part got me thinking actually, a woman is biologically designed for childbirth and monthly periods, none is her fault so why should men get angry again whenever women take maternity leaves?
Equal pay should be given ofcourse since they are placed on the same level at workplaces.

This Emeka, odi stingy ooo

.. And mama nkechi born 10 yet no gift for her.

Ramotu Idemudia though, born boy too .
Nigerians have no chills.

His beautiful eyes, thick and long lashes, large concave shaped.
His tall and slim figure.

No be our naija men, at all, naija man would not even sleep and dream that he is this f**lish.

So after fighting the side chick slightly, she pounced on her man fiercely, funny illustration. .
When your man cheats, you have no business with the side chick, you should hold your man responsible.

Some men still do not see any big deal in all these, afterall you won't be the first woman to do such.

DeMekus:
You didn't get what I meant when I said I can wash my wife's clothes. I mean, I can wash them without expecting her to do same for me. Washing clothes is no big deal for me. I grew up in a home where one boy could do the entire laundry, while the other would fetching water. The girls were not allowed to do that as it was considered men's job. At the same time, the boys too would not cook because the mom never taught them. Only the girls. I cooked when I was still in school. As a bachelor, I still cook now when I have the time. If I can't, I buy from outside. But when I'm married, my wife will be in charge of the kitchen. That's the situation in the average family from the eastern part and I'm not ready to change that to suit civilization. Ask any Igbo friend you know.
My opinion!

Ying!! Wait until you get married before you conclude.
Marriage entails a lot of compromise where you find e yourself doing what you would not do naturally, therefore, you will cook someday.

I dey my hustle base, wetin concern me with Peter and Paul, they should break bottles sef, I careless.

Uncle keem, you are both over ripe for marriage like plantain, do it ASAP, these pictures describes wedding anniversary not bf and gf..
My boo and Me tied the knot early and we don't look like we are married yet.
My ratings: your Bae is pretty with nice physique, she has the tendency to blow if she doesn't watch it.
You are handsome, looking as healthy and well groomed, Bae has a lot of work to do warding off other women.



#seeasicarrythismatterforheadlikesayeconcernme

He's young and cute.

She's not serious at all, she's makes her money from blogging(advanced aproko) via poke nosing into the affairs of others whether true or false, so why is she pained when someone decided to poke into her affairs too. If the bags weren't fake, she wouldn't be a bit bothered.

Yes o, zero tolerance for bullshit celebrities are humans too.

So the woman is this old, but why did baba tee dump her?

He's actually young and cute.

She should ask his previous wives how they coped.
Karma paid her back in her own coin.

Assassination of character, only if the writer also feeds from Saraki, he would not spew all these.
I bet if saraki called him to be his media spokesperson, he would jump at it like a chicken.

Abba Folawiyo is really looking old now, Chai beauty fades indeed even with all the money.
hbd to mama bassi.

I can't read that, Kai.

What makes you think your older bf is not cheating on you too?
Overprotective men do worse, trust me.

The useless man that abandoned her and the 14 months old baby suddenly reappeared cos she made it, she better dump his asks, the man would do worse if it was the other way round.

#unless the story was fabricated and the photo bomb thing was staged anyway

I just showed my sister the pictures, she said all is wizkid trying to play mind games.

SkinnyDude:
Wifey why adopt plenty kids when we are going to have plenty children

There are enough kids that need help already on earth, why bring forth many more?

If this were to be in the north...

The Igbos truly need this gender equality law, especially on issue of inheritance.
I can't imagine my father's brother taking over his possessions all cos I'm a girl.

I hope to adopt plenty kids when I get rich by God's Grace.

It does not only happen in Nigeria though, it happens almost everywhere, it is just that the Nigerian woman suffers more in such situation. . There are no strong laws protecting the right of women, her husband can do whatever he wishes and even seek for divorce since he has nothing to lose financially.
The society is not fair on the woman as well, when a woman tries to leave her man, everyone would encourage her to stay and endure till she eventually dies from the abuse, there is a bad tag on single old women and divorced women.
The best thing is for every woman to do what she feel is best for her, she shouldn't allow the society influence her decision.

Is Opeifa still their boss?

lilmax:
I dont see anything wrong

Lets not judge.....leave it for god please lets mind ourselves as far no one gets hurt,live and lets live

No one is getting hurt actually at least not physically.
This is only a taboo and I am sure it comes from the writers imagination.

I bet he still spends from that money in one way or the other.

This can't be true though.