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Hiploko:
Nairaland Family,

I am in a dilemma. There is a lady I met and we started getting along. We reside in different states. We chat, call and video call. All seems good and rosy!

I was serious with her… pure intentions and all. It got to a point where she has to go for NYSC. I assisted her and got her to serve in the state I reside which was also her choice.

She came and somehow got a PPA in my area so we started staying together. However, the relationship had a major issue with beliefs as her dad wouldn’t allow her marry someone with my belief. So it looked like a dead end but there are emotions from both ends.

The issue now is she answers some calls, comes back late from work and then sleeps out sometimes. Like yesterday, she said they were going for a school reunion stuff and a guy came to carry her in his car. She didn’t come back till today.

My issue is how humane will it be to ask her to leave my house? knowing how involved I was in getting her to serve in the state and all? How harsh could that be?

If I don’t do that, I get caught up in webs of several hurts. The calls, late night returns and all. Of course it’s is very likely na guy she dey get all these stuff with. I have asked he before and she said if she has a guy would he allow her to be staying with another guy, but you know babes na! She could have even told the guy I am her uncle from the mothers side 😃😃

One mind is saying I should forget been humane and ask her to leave. Like that is what is left for me to do as I am unable to keep up with all she has been doing. If I leave her to stay, more issues for me. Like I’m drowning in jealousy. She closes by 9 and sometimes come home by 11pm

What do I do please?

Call me whatever name, I gree but I need genuine advise

i was in a similar situation like u some time ago, the babe lives in my house and broke my heart.
It took sometime but i told her to leave, my happiness returned after she left.
Now i dont regret it.

fuckJones:
fubara is acting childish, he was the accountant general under wike administration, he should know better

he was a civil servant, his duty to just to sign papers from the govt.
He cant dip his hands into the treasury of the state.

Also @OP, we should also study the governors that owe civil servants and yet make them work, other gov'nors should emulate them too

He was a tyrant, many people are afraid of him.

Wike is a dangerous man and he wants people he can control, he never expected SIM to be this bold, the rest are just his puppets

hammer567:
I DEY SCHOOL U NOW, U NO GO LEARN.

thank u chukwudi for the schooling.

How is Nnewi today?

ZIAZI:
Politics is a funny game! Sim that some persons christened dumb, foolish, and "Wike's puppet" is suddenly a good man. The same man that many persons challenged his ascension is now a "SAINT" because he is fighting Wike.

Why the hatred for Wike? Oh! Because he didn't support your candidate when the latter begged for it. Or is it because he worked for Tinubu? Is it both? Tell me

But you once praised Wike when he fought Buhari nau! You don forget?

Know this! Wike may not be perfect, but when it comes to Nigeria's style of politics, FEAR HIM.

I do not see Sim winning this war because he's playing all his cards at once. He brandished his weapons too early.

SIM will win the war, my state will be free from Wike grab.

hammer567:
YES, U ARE NOT ABOVE EDUCATION, NOBODY KNOWS IT ALL.

IJAW ARE ORIGINALLY FROM THE WESTERN BINI.


WHEN THE YORUBA CAME DOWN FROM THE NORTH TO BINI FROM ILE IFE, THEY FLED SOUTH, IGBOS FLED EAST. URHOBO FOLLOW RUN SOUTHEAST


SINCE THEY FLED SOUTH TO THE SEA AND THE YORUBA KEPT COMING SOUTH, THEY STARTED JUMPING FROM ISLAND TO ISLAND IN AND AROUND ONDO, DELTA MAINLY.


THE YORUBA FOLLWED THEM DOWN SOUTH AND GAVE BIRTH TO ILLAJE AND ITSEKIRI.

IN DELTA, THE IJAWS SETTELED AND GRADUALLY SPREAD EAST.


THEY ARRIVED RIVERS STATE LATE ATTRACTED BY THE TRANSATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE, WHICH THEY ARE MIDDLE MEN SELLING IGBOS.


IJAW DONT OWN BAYELSA. EVEN YENAGOA IS NOT IJAWLAND, WE HAVE A NATIVE TRIBE THERE CALLED THE EPIE AND ATISSA.


U STILL HAVE IGBOS IN THAT SAME BAYELSA NORTH.



THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH.

all these igbo boys sef.
Chukwudi rest abeg

obaidan:
You are the ignorant one here, so as the account general, is he the one that will approve funds to be disbursed by contractors? If the person whose job is to approve the funds does not approve it, u expect accountant General to do a magic? Make una stop to dey smoke igbo, una no ho hear

accountant general is nothing but a civil servant answerable to the govt.
He cant act on his own

GloriousGbola:
There is nothing to celebrate here. This is why investment in several states in Nigeria is stunted.

If the project is not finished within the current admin term that is the end.

It is very possible that the same Fubara who is currently grandstanding collected his cut from the contractors at the time.

He was the accountant General and he would have signed off on the payments

A failure to pay a vendor for a job done according to a legally binding contract sends a bad message about ease of doing business

accountant general is nothing but a civil servant.
He was not a politician

IBB007:
lol…na the accountant general of the last administration be the governor now…he has questions to answer too

the accountant general is a civil servant and answerable to the govt.
He has no question to answer

Believeintruth:
Dude Okirika and Kalabari are not Ijaw, forget all this expansionist games, the Ijaw only occupy Brass and interior swamplands and coasts of Bayelsa, Edo and Ondo

I am from Kalabari, u are telling me my origin?

How many times will this man resign?

Malawian:
First of all, You are an Ijaw squatting and loitering around Kalabari people. The only "Okirika" people you can understand is your fellow Ijaw that is also squatting and loitering around Okirika people.

Ok

TerrouMuda:
I repeat no soul laid a finger on him.
If hand touch am, he would have being without clothes.

keep defending rubbish

hammer567:
GO AND DO YOUR DNA.



IGBOMAN

Ok

hammer567:
ETHNICITY IS NOT CLAIM,BUT YOUR BLOODLINE.



THOSE COAST ON THE EAST, IJAW ARRIVED LAST, ATTRACTED BY SLAVE TRADE, WHICH THEY WERE MIDDLE MEN,SELLING IGBOS.




EASTERN IJAW ARE MIXED IGBOS.

ok

MrCork:
Is mindset a product sir??
The answer is so simple!!

ur mind is a product, except ur definition of product is those things which u see and can touch

torqque7:
Wrong..A true Alpha is the one who doesn't let himself get cheated by the one who hurt him or broke his heart but also took his pound of flesh from her before going their separate ways and learning also from the bitter experience,and NOT one who got hurt and cheated by one Olosho somewhere and then he is now taking revenge on other innocent girls out there especially those with good intentions towards him.

most Alphas dont take revenge depending on the situation. They probably dont have time for revenge.
Only an insecure and a weak person looks for revenge.
True Alpha are rational rather than emotional

hammer567:
OKIRIKA IS NOT KALABARI.



OKIRIKA SAY THEY ARE NOT IJAW.

Ok

Wike go be like "was fubara cloned"
This is not the idiot i gave power to

hammer567:
OKIRIKA IS NOT IJAW.

Okirika is ijaw, i am Kalabari and i understand some part of Okirika.

Doyin2:
Buguma!

I did my National youth service at Kings College of Commerce.

I hope the school still exist?

it does

CapitalBank:
I am an igbo person and I will not watch you bring your nonsense here. Rivers state has Ijaw people... Yes, there are Igbo descents there but don't say the entire Rivers state is Igbo land.... don't dare that nonsense.

na so o.
Somebody brought pictures of his tribe and these fools are insulting it.
2moro now u go hear Nigerians hate igbos.
The Yorubas no even talk for this thread but na the people weh claim to be brothers deh fight themselves

TerrouMuda:
I watched the video nobody laid hands on him, he was only booed.
But how did they know the voted Apc?

they might have checked his ballot paper.
U defending that no body laid hands on him, The man was pushed and dragged out, person father o.

TerrouMuda:
Yes, people vote APC in Igboland.
Throughout the election do you hear of any electoral violence in my Alaigbo? Even with the sit at home troubles?

https://www.nairaland.com/7585504/elderly-man-assaulted-voting-apc

immortalcrown:
Until you point out any falsehood in my comment, you are the one refusing to admit you are wrong. You are the one crying blood because the truth in my comments torment you.

btw, the igbos didnt vote for Yaradua or Obj. They voted for PDP and that is where their stake is.
They got feral and begin to threaten people when PDP fell and they knew their only pot is gone.
They voted Atiku in 2019 cos he was PDP and not because they wanted to vote him, we could see how much they hated him in 2023 election.

MrCork:
SIMPLE QUESTION;

Name a product that gains value with age & use?

..and

N20,000 Will be transferred across for the correct answer within 1,hour

.THIS IS REAL.....LETS GO!!!!!

PLEASE NOTE;
THE CORRECT ANSWER MUST BE REPEATED TWICE TO PROVE YOU ARE 100% SURE OF YHE CORRECT ANSWER!!

Gooooood luck!!

the mindset or the brain, it gains value the more u use it and the older u get.

Should i send my UBA or Opay?

immortalcrown:
Until you point out any falsehood in my comment, you are clearly a hypocrite.

no issue.
Looking for who to blame, you people will never admit u were wrong at some point.
You begin to hear "Everyone hates the igbos" or "Nigeria is still standing cos they make igbos the common enemy"

You go cry blood, nobody gives a fck

confusedlady:
You assume a lot of things. You assume that I am a kid when I may actually be as old or older than your parents. You assume again incorrectly that I am supporting the APC government when I may actually just be pointing out the tribal lies and lamba of Peter Obi.
You also wrongly assume that President Tinubu is my principal when I am actually just a social commentator.

I only pointed out that the PDP shot itself in the foot by balkanisng and splintering its votes into four different factions under Atiku,Wike,Kwankwaso and Obi and faced a united single APC at the presidential Election. Obviously the result was glaring to all superior minds. The only minds that would not and still do not understand why the APC won the last elections are inferior and tribal minds like your own.
My final response to you because if I keep responding to you,I will be bringing my mind down to an inferior and tribal mindset.
Good day.

You are probably arguing with a 19years old boy.
This is a faceless forum, most people just want to insult

immortalcrown:
You are beating around the bush. The war is not only about politics and didn't start with Buhari. Even if you want to focus on the political aspect, the war has always been more against the Igbo. The Igbo were not allowed to vote in some parts of Lagos State. The Igbo has not produced a president. Even now that Tinubu is the president, Obi and the Igbo are attacked daily as if they are the president. The Igbo voted for Obasanjo, for Yar'Adua and for Atiku. You hate the Igbo just because the Igbo rejected Buhari. Did the Igbo do anything against Obasanjo and Yar'Adua?

do have a nice day.
No need discussing with someone with a victim mentality.
When Yorubas are southern betrayers and asslickers, Ijaw are ogogoro people, Hausas are jihad terrorists things were fine.

You felt it will remain like this forever.
Oga its ur turn to swallow the bitter pill.

Crafteck1:
Na ment? In a poor country tax be revenue?

taxation is a good thing, the problem is that if citizens are taxed and their lives dont get better, the country will burn.
Only the rich are taxed currently, but when taxation reach poor man, when every band in power sector begin pay tax and u no give us light, then endsars will be cute compared to what is coming.
We thank God that the era of PDP where people dont hold their govt responsible is gone, currently almost every Nigerian understands a little of what is going on, eyes are on the FG, now even state govt are compelled to work as people are holding them accountable, soon the local govts will have it tough too.
APC might be a bad party but thanks to them, we now know that we can change govt

immortalcrown:
So, what happened before Buhari came to power?

we all knew how hausas and fulanis get insulted daily na.
The problem is that those people dont replyso their attackers were having a one-sided battle.
But igbos and Yorubas are not forgiven as the north. They give u as e deh hot.
I believe The igbos and Yoruba war is a battle of supremacy, the igbos thought they could get away with it just as they did to the hausas, but the Yorubas are no pushovers and can match the igbos fire for fire, vawulence for vawulence.
The igbos dont want to end it cos they may look weak, the Yorubas also dont want the igbos to feel they have a chance of winning.
At the end, only seuncan end the war but he is not interested

immortalcrown:
The war may not happen now that the tribalism affects the Igbo tribe most.

the war started when tribalism affected the igbo side the most.
Cos seun didnt enact the law when Buhari was in power and the north were collecting wotowoto, he allowed the igbos to enjoy it.