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Ishilove:
You're a bachelor giving marital advice? I'm not even sure you're in a relationship but yet you are 'advising' the OP on how to handle a marital crisis

Hian, Nairaland, I shake yansh for una

lol rest about bachelor matter. I'm not married but I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 years now we have been living together since 2018. How many marriages don last reach 8 years?
All these you're not married blablabla is rubbish. Most single guys are far more experienced in women matters than married men. Most married men were never in any long-term relationship with women some of them never even had girlfriends sef the first girl that showed them interest they quickly paid bride price. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a bachelor advising a married man

princeeze1:
No need, no court would give a wife beater and raper custody! He should just ignore them all and focus on himself. If she comes around, fine, if she doesn’t, then she had been cheating all along.

lmao. Na Nigeria you dey abi Sweden? What will they even be doing in court?

bigjackass:
My own is that you actually saw her bleeding when you hit her but still carried on to rape her. The blood and tears didn't move you. And you think you will win custody of your daughter when this story gets to court . You are no different from an animal . That your wife can never love you again and even if she's forced to return to your house, you will still end up raping her again because she will never willing give you sex. Anyway forget about collecting your daughter because I doubt any court will give you custody of a girl child after such an act. Just go and remarry and start a new family.

lmao and you believe Nigerian law acknowledge that a man can rape his own wife?
Even if you follow guy go house and he rape you, you will be asked what you were doing there.
The woman frustrated the guy. This is why I hate all these useless guys shouting one man one wife nonsense if he were a serious man he would have gotten a concubine.
That woman will run back to his house if he has sense and stopped begging. He's simply irritating right now with his begging and grovelling. If he is able to zero his mind and get a concubine, she will call him and start asking him "so this was your plan all along?"

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

I have a lot of sisters I know how they manipulate their husband. I know this will be difficult for you. Don't call her for one week. She and her mother were laughing when you left and have both promised to make sure you see shege.
If you didn't cram her phone number, delete it from your phone so that you won't be able to call her even if you lost it and tried to call again. Erase your call history. The more desperation you show the more they will suffer you. Block her on WhatsApp. I swear she will come and spy on your house in less than 2 weeks. This is 100%

Saintmary:
You had to quote me twice.


Expired rich ladies want to spend their money on vacations now.

Omo, Seychelles is calling!!!!

It's their money.

I didn't quote you twice. Airtel has lost their mind. It's fine. I normally don't particularly "shame" any gender. I criticise both males and females online. In real life I couldn't care less.
It's actually both mtn and airtel

Saintmary:
Whatever rocks your boat.


But stop age-shaming ladies.


If you can't do IVF with them, leave them alone to do it on their own.


Since they have expired to you, they can still live out their desires with or, most of the time, without you.

I can say whatever I want. Women shame guys all the time. Broke, small penis, virgin etc. A 40 years old female has basically expired any man who settles for such is a morron except she's super rich and ready to care for them both

Saintmary:
Whatever rocks your boat.


But stop age-shaming ladies.


If you can't do IVF with them, leave them alone to do it on their own.


Since they have expired to you, they can still live out their desires with or, most of the time, without you.

I can say whatever I want. Women shame guys all the time. Broke, small penis, virgin etc. A 40 years old female has basically expired

ambale:
Can u see how you just generalize everything

Emotions don't win court case, you have to prove every bit of your argument

But it is normal stance for someone to vehemently deny any wrongdoing in the court of law, except in case where he/she finds out no way anymore

Nothing concerns me if he wins or loses but he's never gonna admit to wrongdoings, so it's up to the Fg to try to nail him with evidences.

lol no, do you know what perjury is?
They will ask him to swear to tell the truth and only the truth, if he goes ahead and lie, that's an even bigger crime than what he is already being charged with. There's a big difference between denying accusations and lying. If he's asked did you incite members of the public to attack police and he said no, that's denying. If they ask him, is the person giving those commands on this recordings you and he says no, even when he knows he is the one, that's lie and perjury
I actually liked the guy to be honest, deep down in my heart I like him. He's a very good orator I kind of think he got carried away with the applause worship he was getting

Saintmary:
Someone can donate eggs to her, even at 75 women are still having children.


People need more education in this country.

plus do you even know if they have money for such jamboree?
Why not just take one of the billions of unexpired females

jesvic91:
NFF should go to Genot Rohr's house and sack that man again

or beat him small.
Maybe just slap that his bald head from back

ambale:
So you were expecting him to boast of his membership abi

Nothing happens like that in the court of law, it is the job of the prosecutor to prove he is a member

Legal matters no be moimoi ooo

How do you profile a whole region and nail just one person.

https://twitter.com/Ade4facts/status/1484043831200952322?t=OMeACojjOgi1vpAroIGIig&s=19

Lol he is going to say this is not him talking?

ambale:
So you were expecting him to boast of his membership abi

Nothing happens like that in the court of law, it is the job of the prosecutor to prove he is a member

Legal matters no be moimoi ooo

How do you profile a whole region and nail just one person.

you have no idea how hilarious you people sound. I thought you guys used to boast that Igbos are IPOBs and IPOBs are Igbos and Kanu is your supreme leader?
There are countless numbers of broadcastings from him giving commands to IPOBs including ordering dismantling of all checkpoints, threatening lives of zoo security agencies, threatening a sitting governor and taking credits for the attacks on his home. When they play those recordings they ask him if he's the one saying those things let's see if he will lie under oath

ambale:
Get my postulations right, he's gonna deny most of the charges vehemently, the Fg must be ready to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he's truly an ipob leader

And the question is what makes you an ipob?

lol so Nnamdi Kanu is no longer IPOB member wonders shall never end.

ArcSEMPECJ:
Audio Recordings? Have you heard of voice manipulation in audio recording?
What if he denies that those audio recording was not him
Do you have a picture or video of him running the records?

Don't worry when his civilised lawyers start their claims, Saribu Labido Mongobu Anumanubu counsel of Nigeria will be lost in tears...

so the coward is going to deny his own voice now? Your lord is not even a man. Imagine the coward your people are dying for, someone who is going to deny his own voice and shadow.
By the way, voice recordings are always material evidence everywhere in the world unless he's able to provide forensics evidence that the file has been tampered with no one is going to listen to his own denials in fact that will even be worse for him since he will be adding perjury to his already numerous charges.
Almost all high profile criminals are nabbed with voice recordings, where are you going to get video recordings of someone in hiding?

ambale:
Very funny the government did not plan he would deny it

Now they have to prove beyond reasonable doubt he's a member first

Now who is an ipob member ���

Just like we have cultists everywhere and no one claims to be a member of any cult openly

Malami na fufu dey yaa head abeggi

and you think they don't have countless audio recordings of him commanding IPOB members to attack security officers and threatening Governors of Imo and Ebonyi states, or him taking credit for the attacks on Uzodinma's home?

Emergingnation0:
Says low IQ and inferiority complex unity beggar, that apparently suffering protracted case of mental illness..

Delirium stunts that always believed every propaganda emanating from their Fulani Jihadist.

"unity begger" if we check well now you are most likely posting this from kaduna, Lagos or Benin traffic, hawking gala. You are the people who can't stay in your East and you are same people accusing others of begging for unity

Christipsy:
*To Those Insinuating Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, Denied IPOB

Common sense is not common and in all thy getting, get understanding.

I will briefly state this clear;

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, is NOT a member of “PROSCRIBED IPOB” and will not accept that in any court of Law.

Why must the Government, attach the word “PROSCRIBE” to IPOB?
How on earth do you expect an intellectual like Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, to accept being a member of “A Terrorist group IPOB”?

NO.....

He is an IPOB activist, not a member of proscribed IPOB or Terrorist group.

Now, every IPOB activists must take note of this, when arraigned in any Court or asked by anyone.
We are IPOB activists/Family members, not Proscribed IPOB members or Terrorist group called IPOB.

Not accepting a negative tag on your Biafraness, doesn’t mean you denied your originality.

He is challenging the baseless proscription, Terrorist tag and when allowed to speak, will prove to the Court, he is an Indigenous Person Of Biafra, hence no negativity should be tagged to that glorious name.

The prosecutor Mr Labaran, must savvy that, Self determination is a constitutional right, hence no Terrorist tag should be glued to any movement exercising such inalienable right, if he anticipates an acceptance.

Don’t tag proscription or Terrorism to IPOB, we don’t belong to that class.

Let IPOB be IPOB, let Terrorism and Proscription stand on its own.
Don’t surround a pit with flowers, expecting us to fall into it.

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is too lettered for your gimmicks and will defeat his human right violators, anywhere and anytime.

Abubakar Al Baghdadi was an Islamic state activist, not a member of the proscribed Islamic state

Datboredberry:
moral: don't pressure people into being miserable...

Marriage is mostly a do or die affair in third world countries...

Mumu talk. No be first World country women dey buy small small boys lexus for Ekpoma, Asaba and Benin because they promise to "return" and marry them?
Do you have any idea how much white women have lost to promises of fake marriage?

Seun lalasticlala please help me delete this thread

popesco123:
That's why you are myopically brain dead because you will not see or reason that more than 180 million reasonable Nigerians are waiting to deal with outdated old deceitful failed incompetent fraudulent politicians in any party including APC come 2023. We need people like Adesina of African development bank. Get it in your coconut water brain 2023 will not be about party or ethnicity but personality. Zombii!

quote author=Walkee post=109496012]another brain dead ipob morr0n shey na Atiku wan beat Osinbajo /Tinubu? If Pdp fields Atiku, any Northerner or middle Easterner we are all definitely voting APC in my family

Mumu. Keep on dreaming. President will most likely come from APC, Pdp has small chance too. any other person contesting under any other party is just seeking attention and will never accumulate 3000 votes in total.

DrFunmisticGlow:
moustache ba?
Daughter of Jacob like me, with a moustache like an igbo girl?

You are very ignorant


Adionwa, my skin is smoother than your bald head and hairy balls. Ozuor!!

I be correct benin pikin, from oredo side near ted junction. No be your Esan people dey form benin for lagos, dey misbehave anyhow. Rubbish!!

Esan men dey fvck up!! Deny all you want!!


You no even sabi spell yoruba.

upload your picture let me upload mine let the public be the judge. So you be from Edo state naim you black and short like Yoruba. Your papa better go run DNA test for your head. I'm not just an Esan, I'm Uromi, how many Uromi guys dey Lagos? When we leave here na Malaysia or Cyprus straight. I no go yab my fellow Edo people because of smallie like you.
Abi you no be the same frustrated funmisticqueen wey black with pimples face and small moustache that used to insult everyone here until one lowlife finally toasted you back then? Or do you think I'm new here?

Telegram234:
Thegidredpiller food is ready
well truth be told.
Even in marriage issues settling, people tends to hear from the wife more than the husband.
They push the whole blame to the husband, even if the wife is caught cheating, the husband will be at blame. They push the whole blame to the husband, even if the wife is caught cheating, the husband will be at blame.

no be for Nigeria. If married woman sleeps with another man here, at least in my state nobody will support her. She will be treated as a plague and forced to perform ritual

Mynd44 please help me delete this thread
Thank you

Just look at your life

It's just attention. Stop stroking your penis over an attention seeking morron.

popesco123:
You mean with rigging? Or insane brainwashed zoodiots like you will vote APC? Wake up

another brain dead ipob morr0n shey na Atiku wan beat Osinbajo /Tinubu? If Pdp fields Atiku, any Northerner or middle Easterner we are all definitely voting APC in my family

Osiris12:
Of them like, make dem zone am to heaven. APC still remains an evil party and they’ll definitely Loose this coming election.. ... more pain to zombies

if APC lose make my ynash bend. Pdp no get head. My mum is a women leader in Pdp and I have been a Pdp supporter all my life. APC is going nowhere. Nobody dey Pdp who fit beat Tinubu or Osinbajo

DrFunmisticGlow:
Esan men are lazy na!!

Always expecting handouts from their wives and are polygamous on top

I'm not surprised with your useless statement.

who cares about the opinion of a short black Yoruba girl with small pot belly and mouthstache?
Sure we're polygamous and our women also work hard for our attention

Which one be foodstuff and groceries

Christane:
everybody wanna associate themself with greatness ..for instance Dangote is a poor man will she call him her godfather??.... no ...so just be rich and powerful in life ..Nd u will be the godfather and even father's to people u know not ...cus everyone wanna associate with you.

Cuppy na poor person? Why she go get poor man as godfather?

Michelle70:
Those comments make me laugh
Rihanna richer than Dangote? lolz

These people think Dangote is their mate.

black Americans always brag that they are richest Black people on earth. Even if you combine three of the richest black Americans together Dangote is still richer. Even Adenuga and that BUA guy no be their mate

jeff1993:
They should just sentence this man to death already

Daddy Buhari is nice

Kanu will not be sentenced until December of this year. He's the grand plan for 2023 election