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Latonna's mum and guardians did a terrible job raising her, they weren't firm and disciplined with her upbringing.
Hence the loose Latonna or sugabelly we have today. It is not late for her to work on herself. She can reorientate and renew herself. Renewal starts with the mind.
Ti a ba bi omo, omo na NI anfani lati tun araebi.

Best wishes Latonna

IamMissMarvel:
You are the one who needs more exposure.

What is rape?
Google what is rape and then talk to me about exposure.

Biko! When you get married and some day that your husband feels like banging you while you are not in the mood. Turn him down repeatedly.
You leave him with two options: he can either get a ho, mistress or fling outside or he can put pressure on you and or rape you (as you would like to assume).
If the later option is effected by him, take him to court and prove that he raped you.

Babe! you can't prove it because he is legally and traditionally married to you. The court will ask the both of you to settle amicably, out of court.

I can only feel sorry for your husband if you go into with this mentality. Grow up!

IamMissMarvel:
Sugabelly might have her flaws too. The fact that she was already sleeping with the guy at a 17 is a red flag. But there is no justification for what they did to her.

Do you know that if ur hubby forces u to have sex against ur will, it is also rape?

To gang rape a girl especially with guys she is acquainted with is a horror.

She might have been overly sexually active then bit is that a ground for what they did to her?

I'm not a saint and I don't party or club, I was raised in a Christian home and have Christian values. I met the dude who tried to rape me in Church. That was where we grew up even to teens church level before we parted ways and met at the university.

There's no way I could have known he had that intention.

There are two sides to a story, her side, his side and the truth.

There is no justification for raping a woman. She might have even sent nudes and flirty messages to him, when she was willing to sleep with him, not when he was gang raping her

Seriously! You need more exposure.

ghostmist:
you never even bothered to read what the lady wrote before spewing this crap.she is not from a poor family...she attended Loyola jesuits.

The last time I checked, prostitutes, runs babes and golddiggers in Nigeria are from rich, average and poor backgrounds. It cuts across the various homes, just take a critical look at your society, maybe even in your environment.

My take on this issue:
There was a relationship between Audu Mustapha and Lotonna Igwe-Odunze.

There are lots of ladies in Abuja, Lagos and all over Nigeria that are into prostitution, call it runs babes, street or corporate prostitution. They are available in the streets, offices, schools, outlets and online - Badoo, Facebook, nairaland, BBM, WhatsApp etc.

They pose with suggestive names on social media and 'sugarbelly' is one of such names. I can bet she was/is a runs babe.

She fell in love with him to the point of obsession but he wasn't in love, he saw her as one of those ladies out to enjoy and have fun. He saw her as his LovePeddler, play thing but never as his fiancee or wife material.

He must have noticed the addiction or obsession and probably that is the reason he treated her like thrash, smacked her and gang banged her so she could get it into her thick skull. She must have become boring to him.

I think the guy ill treated, despiced and dehumanized her but I don't agree with the rape thing especially because she remained availlable to him.

She must have made a lot of money while with him, I think he is the kind of guy that throws cash around. Gang bangs, pool bags, all day bangs, car bangs, office bangs, oh! she made money and she had fun riding with him.

She saw she was losing him and he didn't care to make her his fiancee so she started this emotional and psychological blackmail. She wants more money since she can't have him any longer.

Lesson for us: You can't eat your cake and have it.
Never will a dog go into the lions den without bloodbath even if it escapes with dear life. There is a price to pay for every trespass.

My dear Lotanna, I think you have learnt the hard way, just move on.

Every man is polygamous in nature.
Most men cheat on their women.
Every man loves women.

Why do you castigate Yoruba men for acts that are common to all men?

You are so much at fault on the his case. You should have stood your grounds on no sex with his friend but your man.
Meanwhile, that LovePeddler was Boye's bed mate. You were supposed to be Tee's fiancee.
I must confess, you were so stupid.

HopeAtHand:
Where do they have oil on land in Aks...imagine a state with about 100% offshore oil talking about siting a refinery..are we looking for a refinery that will triple cost of production at this time??

Akwa Ibom governor should go and sit down..

You must be from the stone age. Blockhead!

Mr Afenifere, your advice is noted. However, don't bother yourself with who the president accommodates because that is his business, not yours.

Chubhie:
I guess SLS and Diezani are sworn enemies which may likely go generational if both don't make their peace alive.

SLS fired the first shots now Diezain is a woman scorned. My money is on Diezani to win the war.

You really think Diezani is winning the war? I think she is loosing it and loosing her life as well. She is paying with her dear life, I just hope she will not go to the grave with all the ill-gotten wealth of the nation.

@ Onila; guess what I feel: I still love her anyway

Stop emotional blackmail of PMB govt to ensure he drops charges and investigation into Deziani's case. She must face the consequencies of her actions or inactions while she rendered fiduciary roles to the Nigerian nation.
If she is guilty, sanction her appropriately.

Well, the damage is done already.

You are a slut already but I think you should be tactful in your effort to tell him. You may avoid telling him it was his friend. Just explain briefly that you made a mistake of falling prey to a pervert who drugged you and had sex with you - we all know that is a lie: you were just Hot.

Let's see his reaction and hope he can forgive you. After all, it was just a fling.

However, never let it happen again, especially with his friends or someone connected to the both of you.

This is a result of the kind of environment you reside and socialize. I completely disagree with you.

You are so wrong!

Remember: The 40 Laws of Power.

Never outshine your boss!

@Op; please grow up. I will not say much because all the ladies have given you good responses.
My advice: E kilo fun Dorcas, you go wound ohhhhhhh

jusRadical:
You are talking rubbish.

So those things you listed above are more important to Niger-delta than presidency, vp, sfg, and senate presidency?

Have you not seen that as far the north and southwest nigeria are concerned, the south-south is never fit to rule?

How does that bother our life? Blockheads!

Amaechi and Fashola have a lot of work to do based on the ministry or portfolio allocated to them. May God grant them the grace to see it through.
To whom great portfolio is given, much is expected.

Big Ups to you ministers.

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@ Op, the lady wants to fu..ck you and you know it. You need to decide what you wanna do. My suggestions: Stop being nice to her
Lock your balcony gate all the time so she would have to get your permission to come in and of course, you should never allow her into your house
Ensure your preferred lady or fiancee keeps a steady visit to your house.
In a short while, she will get the message, start hating or disliking you and kill the affection and amourous feeling towards you.
However, don't be carried away, don't drop your guards, because she will come back at you really fast and desperately.

OK. It is official - every Nigerian woman can marry a foreigner, it is allowed.
However, you will appreciate Nigerian men when you try all other men but you will be unable to marry a Nigerian man when you are back because he will be married already. You can be his concubine anyway, since you reckon he is a polygamist.
Men are generally the same everywhere. There are only a few exceptions.
LOL

Op. You need to quit the relationship now before you invest so much time and resources in it. She is not suitable for you. Every lady acts up when on their period but they don't have to get physical with their men. She will do it again and do worse if you keep the relationship with her.

What was the argument or misunderstanding?

Youngpo413:
There is something unique about you...and I admire it very much,keep it up.

What is unique about PunkyVeer. She knows little or nothing about marriage. Maybe a little about rlshps. She needs a lot of lessons on heartbreaks. She can keep changing every man after each heartbreak or stay without a man. LOL

Hello op, please edit your post. There is nothing like 12:00am. What we have is either 12:00 noon or 12:00 midnight. I assume you were referring to 12:00 midnight.

I wonder what economics and reasons Fayose presented to confirm or express his position.