₦airaland Forum

Mamatukwas:
If you see the way i shouted tufiakwa at the end part of your response eh Picture ke? Never!! Thank you so much jare, il screenshot this your reply and send to them.

Samoludayo:
My good people please I need an urgent answers to the question below. Note: I have asked this question on the students
Thread b4 but some1 replies was pointing to the fact I haven't gotten Visa yet. I have to keep quiet as I kuku no get travel experience. Now the my ViSA is approved I still dont have answers to the questions.

QUESTIONS:
1. If 2 adults are traveling together does it mean that the maximum amount they can both hold as cash is £10,000 or each person can hold up to maximum of £10,000?

2. If I have fund in my naija account how do I have access to it in the UK since maximum foreign withdraw is $100 per months, and that wont be enough for monthly up keep.

Please quick response will be appreciated

Mamatukwas:
Does anyone here have experience with shipping or receiving frozen food from the EU please? I need advice. I have plenty Suya stuck in the Netherlands that I need to deport to my house.

Not sure the best way. If you have any good ideas please share. Thank you.

famzynet:
I disagree with you. Spare the rod and spoil the child said the wisest man that ever lived. As a child,I received correct flogging. It shaped me into whom I am today. I see better behaved children in Nigeria than in the UK.

phyl123:
You are right to some extent. My dad never beat me and maybe once or twice in my life I got a whoop with my mum’s wooden spoon. Generally my parents talked to me when I got out of line and I felt so bad when I disappointed them. That disappointed look was enough for me and I understand that it doesn’t work for all kids.
Violently beating up a kid until you bruise them is not discipline, like you said some of those kid’s end up fighting their parents when to grow up and resentment sets in in some cases. There are so many ways by taking away what they cherish e.g tv, games, playing with friends, gifts , naughty steps. Parents that beat their kids have no patience and have a problem themselves.

famzynet:
If the statistics of Nigeria having more crime than the UK were true,it would have to do with lesser chances of catching criminals in Nigeria than in the UK. If UK were to be a country where people commit crime and easily get away with it,I think its crime rate will be much higher than Nigeria.
Also,most people who commit crimes in Nigeria come from broken homes or from homes with so many children that can't be taken care off so most of them end up being drop outs from schools and subsequently go into crime.

In addition,the general poor living standard and high unemployment rate in Nigeria despite individual efforts force some percentage of people in Nigeria into crime. Just picture having the UK people under the harsh economy condition of Nigeria and tell me if they won't have burned down the country. If there were jobs in Nigeria that can fetch everyone daily meals with some savings in pockets, and people get caught when crime is commited, the crime rate will be drastically reduced.

Compare the average teenager from Nigeria and that from the UK ,which of them have better manners ,respect and a sense of responsiblities?

iboboyswag:
Where do you people get all these statistics from sef?

First it was crime rate being ore in Nigeria than the UK now it's white kids being better acclimatized than blacks...

Abeg my brother jeje!

Aprokodaughter:
Drink ya got water and lime with hot milk

Chreze:
Abeg this siren wey de blow almost every hour, shey na COVID patient them be, because the thing de sometimes make me fear for doctors and what they are going thru. I wonder why people don’t want to take this COVID seriously.

LagosismyHome:
That excessive beating in nigeria damages a child and truly has no place in today's society. For me if you must beat definitely with moderation

However domestic violence and beating with moderation are two separate things ooo. Why must they go hand in hand. I was beaten as a child however I never saw my parents argue one day not to talk of fight or hitting each other . I am sure they argued like any couple but I never saw it done in front of me . Not one day

But if any child misbehaved in my house, the brain was tuned to reset... so in my experience there was no correlation between that and domestic violence against spouse . Although the beating in my house wasnt excessive and was in moderation looking back

Chreze:
Yeah, I have his card. We have not registered with any health center. Looking at getting a permanent accommodation then we can register close to the house or what do you think. We should just register and transfer when we get a permanent place. The lockdown is just making little things big.

LagosismyHome:
I think the black in london with the stabbing are typically children from single parents . Dad is not home and mum works long hours to put food on table. I dont know if their issues is caused by beating .

More of lack of role models and lack of productive things to do as it been noticed that all these cuts in free coucil lead children activities has made a lot of boys been bored, idle and roam the streets due to lack of parental supervision

LagosismyHome:
The vaccine system in Nigeria and UK are totally different and not aligned. What my family member did was when they were registering for GP when they came (although this was in jan session before covid) . They were asked to submit the naija immunization card and the nurse aligned it to what expected in the UK and arrange a followup vacine that was missing for 1 year old and I think the next is at 3 years

Call your gp and ask what the next step is for a toddler immunization. They would be able to guide you

Lexusgs430:
Discipline vs children..........

At certain times and age, a bit of smacking draws a line.....

Facing the wall all the time, taking toys away or a sit on the stairs, does not always cut it.......

Have í had running with SS? Yes, many times...... Have i ever had a child or children removed? NEVER....

Remember Tony Blair? He pushed the no smacking rule...... He was caught, smacking his child....... BE WISE... DO WISE......

Bourne007:
That's all she needs. If she divorces someone who doesn't exist, tender such document and UKVI finds out nko

Bourne007:
What's the point of divorcing someone who doesn't exist. I think she should come clean and also hire a lawyer. Surprised there's no ban on that letter and if none, there's a chance.

Aykomo02:
This is my story
I married my spouse 2014,he based in uk,but because of d anxiety that I want to go nd meet my husband we made a wrong decision,I applied for visitor visa 2015 through an agent who told us he will provide all necessary documents because then my husband was not having a good job nd he just moved frm London to Manchester,not knowing dis guy used fake documents nd all,he even changed my spouse to another name nd provide another marriage certificate nd I was refused due to fake bank statements nd fake references,though I dnt knw why I was refused because he ran away with refusal letter,Nov last year I applied for spouse visa when my husband is financially ok nd we have all d evidence,and I was refused because I provided my marriage certificate of 2014 with my husband when I told them am still living with my previous husband in my previous application with marriage certificate,so they are convinced that my marriage with my real husband is not genuine,am confused on what to do because we want to appeal
N.B———I can’t find d agent and I dnt knw what date he filled for my previous marriage certificate even if I want to apply for divorce paper
Pls help me because am going through trauma already
What can I do to correct my mistakes....thanks in advance.Below I included my reason of refusal

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Chreze:
Sis trust me no b so e b for airline oo, na so them say e go be, but no be so, them try but e no b like that. People still stand and wait for each other to come out from toilet and another person enter. What I know I can give them hand for na say they made sure no one removed their mask except when eating. That said

Make we enter airport, people plenty for airport ooo, both transit and arrival. In fact transit plenty and you know it’s different flight from different places. I didn’t see anyone wiping rails after it was used. Neither did I see anyone cleaning anywhere. Sometimes i go just say na God protect person, but when I see the people wey die, I no fit say God no won protect them na. The thing just de one kind. When I read doctors dying and all that, e go just be like say make No one come out at all cos it’s disheartening doctors losing their life trying to protect you, but when them say sit at home, everybody go de speak English and preach freedom for tv.

tushqueen:
I need an advice please, where can I get educational tablets for kids 3/5 years old, I bought one from China the last time my friend traveled but it did not last long before it got spoilt. Now I need 2 quality ones, is it advisable to buy from Nigeria or here. If it's better to buy here, what's the quality and the price range like.

Thanks in advance for your constant guidance

Rheminix:
warehouse job, production operative and care jobs too.

Rheminix:
its become so hard to get a job here in the UK, I am talking about a menial job, despite the many applications I have sent through indeed and total jobs platform, its so frustrating. I am well aware of the pandemic and the impact it has had on many families in the UK ,which has forced them to look for all kinds of jobs, This situation has made the search for job a tough and competitive one. I need advice on what to do. thanks.

iboboyswag:
Gurus in the house should please help... What to do?

With the pandemic in place, School says BRP can't be picked up at the appointment date and they say the wait is indefinite.

So, a quick question... How can one process a dependent visa for the spouse without the brp?

Mind you, 28 days is already counting and should become valid by early February.

Every input is valid and appreciated.

DjPhellarz:
I have no Dj friend in UK ... thanks ma’am

Lexusgs430:
I am willing to donate both........ One is used for thinking critically, the other is used for THINKING.........

Remember, I am a MAN.........

Lexusgs430:
Maybe I still donate my brain for research, when I eventually kick that bucket........ (not before).......

Aderin0la:
Hello all,

Please I have a friend that really needs the help of our seniors that have been in the UK. He’s set to resume at USW in February; his offer letter came in this week, and the school has set a deadline of early next week for tuition deposit payment (50% of tuition which is about £5900). Because of this, Form A is entirely out of the options, and even fly wire is crazily expensive. Please right now we’re trying to find anybody that wants to send money home this weekend, so he can send naira and then you’ll help him pay his tuition deposit.

This seems like his only/last option and we’re just trying to find somebody with a good heart who’ll give us at a not too expensive rate. Please nairalanders, we really need your help ������...

RalphJean:
See the damage ‘Dr’ Stella Immanuel et al have caused?
It’s all nonsense. The vaccines can NOT alter the DNA.
The most basic biology of the animal cell should provide enough evidence that the idea of DNA alteration is pure nonsense.

It’s possible your other half have their genuine concerns about safety, and long term effect. But all the talk about DNA alteration is pure rubbish.

Mamatukwas:
Happy New Year Eveyone!

Dear Frequent Travellers, when is the best time to buy Summer Tickets to Naija? Now or in February as some people suggest.

The prices I’m seeing now are already quite high. Please advise. Thank you.

dustydee:
Talking about neighbours and Sh*t, does anyone have an idea how to stop cats from coming to your garden?
I bought an ultrasound thing to scare them but it doesn't. I have recently bought citronella and cat silhouette but it does not seem to be too effective. I do not have a cat yet I have to clean cat poop, is that fair?