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For your sake ke?

If this is a true story then na wa to you..
That gal is traumatized from her last experience and it look like you don't know how to handle her matter properly..
All I am gonna tell you is that she loves you and if you leave that gal she might never forgive you even if she tells you she did..
If only you know what it means for a lady to be abused..guy man take care of that gal and don't allow anything hurt her.. she's not cheating on you..
Show her love abeg for my sake..pls also find a means to take her out of that place she need to be loved..that kinda gal doesn't really need your money she needs affection from you..

Your brother should talk to his wife and likewise talk seriously to the Friend too. We are talking about marriage here and not friendship. For your information, most women are very weak emotionally and often see danger very close but would rather trivialise it as nothing. In Yoruba Proverb, it says, What an adult see sitting down, a child can't see even after climbing a tree.

Tell your brother to be man about this and talk seriously to the wife and later to the friend also that he's not comfortable with such and should be stopped immediately. Let the wife delete or rather block all form of communication with the ex and your brother should confirm she actually block him. Women have a flexibility mind and if she's not giving a serious warning on time, she will definitely end up sleeping with the ex again and again and later cry to you for forgiveness...that's how most ladies are, they have fluke minds. She might not want to do it but when she remembers the past especially if the guy is far better than you in the other room, she would do it without thinking....

So many living being that has been buried or rather embalmed hurriedly without a real death confirmation. For the fact that breath couldn't be detected doesn't signify death. We have stages of death and until all these stages are confirmed before a doctor can certify a death as death. Even after certifying a corpse as dead, there is still a part of the human that ain't dead yet.

Death is a complex body fragmentation and decomposition that systematically evolves when all the components that makes a life ceases to function any longer.

Components of a living being.

The Sensory cells and the Cardiovascular cells but summarised below in a layman's understanding.

*** The heart, The lungs, The Kidney, The brain.

All these cells must be certified not functioning again after a vigorous external self rescucitation by using an approved restorative machines or cardiopulmonary resuscitation before finally admitting that a body is dead. Even after all said and done, there's still a window for a miracle to happen which rarely happen but it does one in a thousands like this present lady.

We have instances whereby during embalmment, a body wakes up or rather sign of lives was detected after initially certified dead. This occurrence is common among BID corpses......Brought in Dead corpses hardly go through the rigous of test to confirm if actually dead or not by the medical personnel so most hurriedly embalmed or prepared for burial if it's a Muslim....in summary, check your dead very well or make sure the medical personnel confirm the death very well through all the stages listed above.....Some people are just sleeping a long sleep without active vital body signs but died after been lowered in the ground and buried.

zukky79:
Many undead people have been embalmed in a hurry without proper death certification by a qualified medical personel.

That someone stops breathing visibly doesn't mean they are dead.

Naija hospitals are in a hurry to fill up their mortuaries. Sad.

That's not even the problem but the 40 Children.....Damn over 2 much......I used to think it's Fulanis Hausas that are the tribe with uncontrollable dicks shooting and targeting the goal post always...




.. Up.

nzeobi:
What do people gain from polygamy and having multiple wives

Only Buhari can answer that question, however, Nigeria Army and many states in the North and South West patronises Innoson. You will be amazed that just few Eastern governors patronise him despite being in the same region. Case of a prophet doesn't have honour in his own country...

Baawaa:
I don't know why FG is not patronizing Innoson,maybe because of their cover-up

Diesel is 330 at Mobil filling station Ogba, Ikeja Lagos while fuel is 162.50....so I wonder where this survey came from cos I just bought this product right now and even had a shout out with the station manager over the price....

Flier:
Fake statistics,diesel is 330-350

Cows from Sahel Of Northern region on rampage supporting their terrorists leader Muhammad Buhari........

Hello Lerish, Make sure my package is complete and fully loaded. I will be expecting you this afternoon as agreed.

Lerish:
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Everybody just want free money to flex for Xmas and New year. Even me sef they pray for free money.....You know the way you will spend free money can't be the same way you will spend your real hard work money if really you are serious and business minded person. Those free money Na those Yorubas dey called Awoof.....abeg I need Awoof of about N650Million naira too.....just DM me if you want to show me love and as you do.....God bless You Richy ( My pastor's voice) God love cheerful giver.....

This supreme court governor is definitely going to import Fulani Hausas to IMO State to be part and parcel of the new security outfit....what can he do without Buhari's fulani Hausa Terrorists? Please my lovely IMO people, let's watch out and be extra vigilant. God will help us.

If Buhari can be doing Bambi Allah all over the world, If Davido Omo Baba Olowo can also beg, then who am I not to beg.

This is an inspiration to all beggars on Nairaland, Twitter and other social media.

Beg beg beg and beg and see if your luck can scale through like Davido....

Nigeria is a damn awkward country....

Pick Marketing Engineering. It's a new course in most University in Nigeria. It's very lucrative also....LOL

Buhari will be so angry at this news. Who gave them the authority to come and kill inside Nigeria? The only authorised killer of Nigerian, licensed by Muhammad Buhari are the Boko Harams, Iswaps and the Bandits....so who is Amazonian? This is an insult to Nigeria federal government and we must retaliate....

Buhari feelings right now:

it's our personal directives and desire to kill Nigerians but by only Fulanis from every parts of the world and not any tribe or secessionist called Amazonians from Cameroon. if it's even Cameroon Fulanis that killed Nigeria, I can forgive but this infidel....Nonsense....

Just shut up and keep that statement to yourself until it eventually happens abeg...

What is India to Nigeria if not that Nigeria
has always been besieged with Satanic leaders like Buhari, Babangida, Jonathan, Obasanjo etc ..since her inception. Who is Indian where Nigerian stands....

Every country just want to chance Nigeria at all cost....2 days ago, it was Ivory Coast that killed Tinuola....a Nigerian girl. Some months ago, it was Chinese policemen beating one Nigeria diplomat and men the guy cried like a baby....

Other Asian countries and Ghana, Zambia and South Africa maltreatment ain't left out too.

Every country just want to ridicule Nigerians at all cost because of the maggots of leaders we have and not just because of the bad behaviours of some Nigerians. God keep this country to the time the people will wake up and help themselves to discover that the real power to change things from the norms is right with them. I believe that if the present situation of things in Nigeria continue to lingers, soon very soon...the pandemonium that would erupt will be 20 times greater than what happened during Endsars....

So many Nigerian Youths are infected with HIV, STI and Hepatitis for a long years without knowing or ever sensing it. They keep on sleeping carelessly with uninfected girls and the girls too keep on sleeping with new uninfected guys thereby spreading the malaise of infectious sexual diseases all over. It's common in Nigeria especially the Youths and the Teenagers. Some guys are ever ready to sleep with any random girls without condom like some girls too. Some MDs and other top workers in an Office always sleep with any female applying for a place in their company before finally approving the employment without protection. This is even common in all the ministries in Abuja and that Alausa in Lagos. 80% of the PM, MDs, DGs, Ministers sleeps recklessly with girls before approving or granting a small contract of just stationery supplies etc.....it's a rainbow of sexual perversion in circle inside that Nigeria....

More like Nigeria Automobile Association Chairman driving a Toyota Landcruiser instead of made in Nigeria brand new Innoson G5 or G6 .....

More like Buhari son graduating from UK University with just pass whereas he should have gone to Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University with F parallel and would have graduated with First class like Malami the Attorney General of Terrorists...

Wick3:
I'm surprised he has a daughter this young.

The Baba Iku Yeye the HRH does not like to joke with the other room at all. He plays the game so well like a teenager, reason he's still marrying young and beautiful ladies despite that old age.

No need of DNA, the babe Na split image of the king....too much resemblance....

TundeWX:
No difference btw the police and the average agbero u see on the road..both red-eyed,alcohol addicts,teeth stained from excessive smoking....only difference is one wears uniform

You just made me to remember that Hoodlum at Ojota that put on the DPO's uniform during the Endsars protest and also the small Edo State boy that wore a policeman's uniform during the Endsars..... They both look very funny...

Please be warned. Why are you accusing IYAEGBE unjustly. She would rather enter such an organ severally than allowing the organ to enter her. Please be careful of Yersef there.....Lol

Iniobong34:
And u dey allow the same organ to dey enter u countless times. There's god

The most stupid statement that ever came out of this stupid senile son of a dog called President Muhammad Buhari was that the Endsars protest was aimed to Overthrown him from Power. Can you imagine an slowpoke of a government saying such an insensitive statement. His family and households are just venin and despicable bunch of callous human being.....I puke at the sight of Buhari and his family inclusive his Terrorists associates....

Maxymilliano:
Let it be on record that on 20/10/2020. The APC led Nigerian government Under the leadership of General Mohammodu Buhari rtd. ordered the Army to massacre it's own citizens.

The citizens were peaceful and armless Protesters, who were demanding for a better vountry for them and their generation...

They were massacred while reciting the Nigerian anthem waving Nigerian flags in their hands. The Truth has eventually come out.

Shameless Lie Mohammed will come out and react stupidly

#Massacre
#WeWontForget
#EndSARS

Don't mind the Nairalander terrorists.

The repercussions of this unjust killing and harming of innocent protesters shall be inflicted on them and their families. The Fulanis Hausas idiots that have always supported and shouting Endsars is fraud and scam....Your lives will be on continuos disaster and pain , sadness shall always be you guys portion even as Boko Harams and Bandits finish you guys and your households in the Northern region axis of devil.....Insha Allah....What a shame to be in the same country with you all.....

DICKstractor:



People are still denying it here on nairaland


I don't blame judas Iscariot for selling out Jesus for 30 pieces of silver because BMC sold their conscience in the naira equivalence


No amount is too small for a zombie

Another very good advise to the OP....please read this wonderful input and follow up positively. You will be okay at the long run....

xangerar:
I understand personally what the struggle with being an introvert in this case is. Most families are bonded than others. Do not listen to those "are you getting married to the man or his family?". If you intend getting married to someone from a close tied family, you will have to take up the burden of strangling your weakness to a point you are able to show beyond your thoughts you can work within that environment. You heart intent won't do it, your weaknesses won't be a good excuse. Just try, otherwise you may never get along with that family.


Assuming the family is like the kind I come from where no one looks out for the other, it is easy for an introvert to strive but I know families were members are all into the other. E dey surprise me, but it is part of life.

You can't chose honey without the sweet taste. Try taking deliberate measures against your weakpoints otherwise stick only to certain environments were it is not an issue.

I reserve my comment at this junction because Favfables has just written the most sensible thing I could have written. Most people on Nairaland are kids or immature. You can't fight a family or relegate them and stay alone with your hubby or fiance alone. Family to a man is everything especially if they are very close..... remember some family aren't close......it's your job, a challenge to you the woman to try all your scheme and get them attracted to you....you can start and open up to a younger person in the family that would take you and maneuvre you through the other siblings....must be somebody in that family that you flow with atleast....penetrate that advantage and get it round the others.....take it as a labour and sacrifice of your love for your man....I tell you.....it's to your benefit at the long run.....I am talking from personal experience,

Favfables1:
It's obvious your boyfriend has a very close relationship with his family and i can say that his opinion is largely influenced by what his family thinks ((thus that's why he's acting withdrawn because his family has reservations about you))...

The solution is quite simple...
Work things out with his family, try and get close to them....
There's nothing like "that's how I am", that mentality is BULLSHIT!!!!!! If it's important to you, you'll look for a way to make it work...
If you can't compromise, then walk away and date someone who's family you flow well with...chikina!!

On the other hand, your boyfriend should cut you some slack as regards you and his family...you can't become besties with people you barely spend time with...so tell the alaye make him rest small...

And please forget those childish people asking you "whether you're getting married to your boyfriend and his family?" With the closeness of your boyfriend to his family, if then no like you ...forget am... Them go table your matter for family meeting and you go see the results of the matter, whether e favour you or not...

Lastly...
Never expect that guy to choose you over his family ...you're just his girlfriend or fiancee and thus you're easily replaceable, but his family are not so... Like them elders go talk, "blood thick pass water"

My brother, not only that helinues that was saying nonsense o.....how about that idiot that grail barbeque vultures, how about that filthy guy with monik of ilovetinubu. How about those smelling rag tags Fulani and Hausas from the backward shits region of the north and some southern bastard licking Buhari swollen ass like Liar Muhammed, Femi Adeshina, that Stupid Army boy General Taiwo Ibrahim, the Aboki Fulani army Lt col Bello etc.......Almighhty God would judge all of you including that Burutai Burutanshi, Buhari and his family, Malami, etc.........

NoFucksToGive:
My joy is people like that shameless helinues are alive to see that not everyone sells their soul for money like he did .

His type will betray his mother for money and then harden his heart at the murder of his siblings . He represents the evil of what a society without a moral compass can degenerate to. I pity all humans who have anything to do with helinues in real life. Such a person will easily sink into ritual killings for money.

Pray against such people. That thing abused insulted and said all sorts defending and claiming there was no killing at lekki toll gate all because of money

The sad man thought everyone will sell their soul for money like he did and keep silent

Everyone please call him and give him a hug before he commits suicide from shame.

You don't have to enter the fire before you know it's burning people if actually you are sincere without ulterior motives.

The moment Nigeria separates into Northern and Southern region. It wouldn't take Boko Harams and Bandits 2 hours to take over the whole of Northern region and install an Emirate Of Boko Harams Republic....I wish the Northern region well for their aspired determination. Insha Allah...it will be a success in due time...

Please where are those terrorists sympathisers on Nairaland. Where are those stupid harlots especially one olosho girl nickname ilovenorth....where are the vultures barbeque hunters....where are the stupid Fulanis Hausas idiots on Nairaland to show face now and disclaim this lies....bunch of hypocrite......Your region is just maggots ridden with Foolish people....all they know is dragging their smelling babaringa agbada up and down the senate building and talking nonsense....it's a shame on all of you from that pit of hell called Northern Nigeria....a region drawing the other progressive regions backward. A parasitic region of Vampires and Terrorists....The Children of Uthman Dan Fodio the paedophile warrior are hiding their faces now.....

Please where are those terrorists sympathisers on Nairaland. Where are those stupid harlots especially one olosho girl nickname ilovenorth....where are the vultures barbeque hunters....where are the stupid Fulanis Hausas idiots on Nairaland to show face now and disclaim this lies....bunch of hypocrite......Your region is just maggots ridden with Foolish people....all they know is dragging their smelling babaringa agbada up and down the senate building and talking nonsense....it's a shame on all of you from that pit of hell called Northern Nigeria....a region drawing the other progressive regions backward. A parasitic region of Vampires and Terrorists....The Children of Uthman Dan Fodio the paedophile warrior are hiding their faces now.....

Please where are those terrorists sympathisers on Nairaland. Where are those stupid harlots especially one olosho girl nickname ilovenorth....where are the vultures barbeque hunters....where are the stupid Fulanis Hausas idiots on Nairaland to show face now and disclaim this lies....bunch of hypocrite......Your region is just maggots ridden with Foolish people....all they know is dragging their smelling babaringa agbada up and down the senate building and talking nonsense....it's a shame on all of you from that pit of hell called Northern Nigeria....a region drawing the other progressive regions backward. A parasitic region of Vampires and Terrorists....The Children of Uthman Dan Fodio the paedophile warrior are hiding their faces now.....

It's on everybody's mouth in Ogun State that this Young man called Abiodun the governor is so incompetent and super corrupt.....more reason he engaged Yahoo boys as Special Advisers and some commissioners in Ogun State. No good roads in most inner town and cities in Ogun State. Useless Yahoo Yahoo governor....

You have been a bad boy, lie down and take some lashes on your Bumbum....Lol

ugabamuzu:
If you want to grow in your field then take the chemical engineering job

If you want to make more money especially by crooking and not grow professionally then take the gas station job

If you are marriageable and willing to have a career lady for a wife go for the chemical engineering job

But if you want to have girls to bang everyday without even spending money then be the gas station manager

The two jobs are ok depends what you want to achieve..
The later is even very lucrative especially now that fuel will soon sell for 345/ltr